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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I for one am sick of seeing judgemental trolls jumping into threads and disrupting them. It's one thing to have an opinion something very different to try to upset people.
Be it barebackers or married/cheaters, cuckolding, watersporters live and let live. Your comments only prove how vacuous your life is that you feel you can online bully someone else. Pathetic  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I for one am sick of seeing judgemental trolls jumping into threads and disrupting them. It's one thing to have an opinion something very different to try to upset people.
Be it barebackers or married/cheaters, cuckolding, watersporters live and let live. Your comments only prove how vacuous your life is that you feel you can online bully someone else. Pathetic "
No I love judgemental trolls and don't agree with what you have said at all because you're a smelly poo poo head |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I for one am sick of seeing judgemental trolls jumping into threads and disrupting them. It's one thing to have an opinion something very different to try to upset people.
Be it barebackers or married/cheaters, cuckolding, watersporters live and let live. Your comments only prove how vacuous your life is that you feel you can online bully someone else. Pathetic "
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Isn't online bullying also attacking a poster personally and bringing up things not relevant to the thread?
I find the level of judgement from both sides quite sad to be honest; those who disagree and start making personal attacks and snide remarks and those who agree who insist that if you don't, you're a hypocrite and not with enough knowledge to accept the truth.
I think if people had the capacity to understand that different people had alternative _iews, threads would actually be more of an interesting debate instead of falling back on emotional rhetoric. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I for one am sick of seeing judgemental trolls jumping into threads and disrupting them. It's one thing to have an opinion something very different to try to upset people.
Be it barebackers or married/cheaters, cuckolding, watersporters live and let live. Your comments only prove how vacuous your life is that you feel you can online bully someone else. Pathetic "
I don't understand people who are upset by crap they read on the internet.
They don't know the people "bullying" them, they need only turn off the computer to not be "bullied," and they (should) know that it's always been the nature of some percentage of the internet to be annoying just for the hell of it...and yet they still get upset.
I don't understand it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I for one am sick of seeing judgemental trolls jumping into threads and disrupting them. It's one thing to have an opinion something very different to try to upset people.
Be it barebackers or married/cheaters, cuckolding, watersporters live and let live. Your comments only prove how vacuous your life is that you feel you can online bully someone else. Pathetic "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I for one am sick of seeing judgemental trolls jumping into threads and disrupting them. It's one thing to have an opinion something very different to try to upset people.
Be it barebackers or married/cheaters, cuckolding, watersporters live and let live. Your comments only prove how vacuous your life is that you feel you can online bully someone else. Pathetic "
The irony of this. 
Were you not making judgmental remarks about someone in another thread? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I often think some people shouldn't use the internet alone....people with thin skin, or those people who fall for the Nigerian Prince scams.  "
Mines not a scam, I'm definitely getting £12m from my new best friend in Burkina Faso. I've sent him my £1578.57 to facilitate the release of my funds. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I often think some people shouldn't use the internet alone....people with thin skin, or those people who fall for the Nigerian Prince scams.
Mines not a scam, I'm definitely getting £12m from my new best friend in Burkina Faso. I've sent him my £1578.57 to facilitate the release of my funds. "
Oh yes, you'll definitely get that money  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I for one am sick of seeing judgemental trolls jumping into threads and disrupting them. It's one thing to have an opinion something very different to try to upset people.
Be it barebackers or married/cheaters, cuckolding, watersporters live and let live. Your comments only prove how vacuous your life is that you feel you can online bully someone else. Pathetic
The irony of this.
Were you not making judgmental remarks about someone in another thread? "
I just had a strong feeling that OP is probably guilty of the very thing they're complaining about. Thats what always ends up happening in this thread.
I believe they call it crybullying lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Isn't online bullying also attacking a poster personally and bringing up things not relevant to the thread?
I find the level of judgement from both sides quite sad to be honest; those who disagree and start making personal attacks and snide remarks and those who agree who insist that if you don't, you're a hypocrite and not with enough knowledge to accept the truth.
I think if people had the capacity to understand that different people had alternative _iews, threads would actually be more of an interesting debate instead of falling back on emotional rhetoric."
this |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I for one am sick of seeing judgemental trolls jumping into threads and disrupting them. It's one thing to have an opinion something very different to try to upset people.
Be it barebackers or married/cheaters, cuckolding, watersporters live and let live. Your comments only prove how vacuous your life is that you feel you can online bully someone else. Pathetic
The irony of this.
Were you not making judgmental remarks about someone in another thread?
I just had a strong feeling that OP is probably guilty of the very thing they're complaining about. Thats what always ends up happening in this thread.
I believe they call it crybullying lol "
Crybullying is a brilliant term. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you see bullying report it and it'll get dealt with. If it's not actually bullying and you feel strongly about what's being said then get stuck in and argue your case back. |
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"I for one am sick of seeing judgemental trolls jumping into threads and disrupting them. It's one thing to have an opinion something very different to try to upset people.
Be it barebackers or married/cheaters, cuckolding, watersporters live and let live. Your comments only prove how vacuous your life is that you feel you can online bully someone else. Pathetic "
I'm guessing that because I disagreed/disapproved with the op on a thread about married 'cheats' on fab - that I'm one of the people you'd consider to be a bully?
Couldn't be further from the truth!
I will stand by anybody's right to do whatever they choose - but I feel that starting a thread to say how thrilling it is both cheating and meeting a cheat was in very poor taste - and I have just as much right to my opinion as you do to yours!
What I don't do, though, is accuse anyone who disagrees with my opinion of being small minded or a bully!
There is an enormous difference between bullying and disagreeing/discussing!
Many on here seem to shout out 'bully' and 'troll' when a thread isn't going the way they'd like!
Sad really, as it trivialises real bullying and trolling - which is vile! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People can't handle brutal honesty at times, this is fab fantasy land reality is not wanted here."
it maybe brutal, but its hardly ever anything to do with honesty  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Overly sensitive posters are as much a problem as the bullies and trolls OP"
I don't find bullies or the oversensitive a problem. Amusing, yes. Problematic, no. It's easy enough to ignore the comments made by idiots. |
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By *.1079Man
over a year ago
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"I often think some people shouldn't use the internet alone....people with thin skin, or those people who fall for the Nigerian Prince scams.
I am a nigerian prince and just need your bank account details to share twenty million of your uk poundss with you
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OK where do I send them |
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"I for one am sick of seeing judgemental trolls jumping into threads and disrupting them. It's one thing to have an opinion something very different to try to upset people.
Be it barebackers or married/cheaters, cuckolding, watersporters live and let live. Your comments only prove how vacuous your life is that you feel you can online bully someone else. Pathetic
No I love judgemental trolls and don't agree with what you have said at all because you're a smelly poo poo head "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People can't handle brutal honesty at times, this is fab fantasy land reality is not wanted here.
it maybe brutal, but its hardly ever anything to do with honesty "
No I beg to differ some people are so deluded and caught up in their fragile world they see a conflicting opinion and they take it as offensive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Isn't online bullying also attacking a poster personally and bringing up things not relevant to the thread?
I find the level of judgement from both sides quite sad to be honest; those who disagree and start making personal attacks and snide remarks and those who agree who insist that if you don't, you're a hypocrite and not with enough knowledge to accept the truth.
I think if people had the capacity to understand that different people had alternative _iews, threads would actually be more of an interesting debate instead of falling back on emotional rhetoric."
Well said. I've found that maturity takes various forms other than the obvious physical and mental ones we're so familiar with.
Emotional maturity and by extension emotional intelligence are difficult areas to gain mastery over and for some are non concepts but are useful in helping a person understand anothers perspective.
Without such tools I don't think people can be expected to conduct themselves in here with any sexual maturity or intelligence and therefore yes their behaviour here often equates to bullying. |
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"I for one am sick of seeing judgemental trolls jumping into threads and disrupting them. It's one thing to have an opinion something very different to try to upset people.
Be it barebackers or married/cheaters, cuckolding, watersporters live and let live. Your comments only prove how vacuous your life is that you feel you can online bully someone else. Pathetic
I'm guessing that because I disagreed/disapproved with the op on a thread about married 'cheats' on fab - that I'm one of the people you'd consider to be a bully?
Couldn't be further from the truth!
I will stand by anybody's right to do whatever they choose - but I feel that starting a thread to say how thrilling it is both cheating and meeting a cheat was in very poor taste - and I have just as much right to my opinion as you do to yours!
What I don't do, though, is accuse anyone who disagrees with my opinion of being small minded or a bully!
There is an enormous difference between bullying and disagreeing/discussing!
Many on here seem to shout out 'bully' and 'troll' when a thread isn't going the way they'd like!
Sad really, as it trivialises real bullying and trolling - which is vile! "
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This is a forum ??? ....
Open to debate of a thread...
So why do folk take things so very personally and throw their toys out of the the pram , when the thread is not going their way ..
I like a bit of banter ... I have a dry sence of humour.... sarcastic at times ( yes its the lowest form of wit )..
The thing about text messaging is ... it has no tone of voice , no facial expressions. .. so its quite easy to take a comment completely the wrong way ... or even get "evicted" of the forums for being nasty, picky etc etc ...
lighten up people .....its supposed to be a bit of fun ...
Chillax ...... .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a forum ??? ....
Open to debate of a thread...
So why do folk take things so very personally and throw their toys out of the the pram , when the thread is not going their way ..
I like a bit of banter ... I have a dry sence of humour.... sarcastic at times ( yes its the lowest form of wit )..
The thing about text messaging is ... it has no tone of voice , no facial expressions. .. so its quite easy to take a comment completely the wrong way ... or even get "evicted" of the forums for being nasty, picky etc etc ...
lighten up people .....its supposed to be a bit of fun ...
Chillax ...... .... "
Fab folk no when I'm being cutting as I miss off the xxx at the end of my post.  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I was accused of bullying because I posted Calvin Harris was hot on an X Factor thread as he was a guest judge. The OP wanted to discuss Honey G
A grown man whimpering for pity and cuddles.
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"This is a forum ??? ....
Open to debate of a thread...
So why do folk take things so very personally and throw their toys out of the the pram , when the thread is not going their way ..
I like a bit of banter ... I have a dry sence of humour.... sarcastic at times ( yes its the lowest form of wit )..
The thing about text messaging is ... it has no tone of voice , no facial expressions. .. so its quite easy to take a comment completely the wrong way ... or even get "evicted" of the forums for being nasty, picky etc etc ...
lighten up people .....its supposed to be a bit of fun ...
Chillax ...... .... "
Oh the irony |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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The OP oh that's me isn't crying a bout anything I've never reported anyone on here for being criticizing to me but then sitting back and taking it on the chin - not my style either. Ironic that on one hand telling me to not be so thin skinned but having a go at what I said to another member who was sarcastically attacking members who liked a certain sexual practice.
Total hypocrisy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a forum ??? ....
Open to debate of a thread...
So why do folk take things so very personally and throw their toys out of the the pram , when the thread is not going their way ..
I like a bit of banter ... I have a dry sence of humour.... sarcastic at times ( yes its the lowest form of wit )..
The thing about text messaging is ... it has no tone of voice , no facial expressions. .. so its quite easy to take a comment completely the wrong way ... or even get "evicted" of the forums for being nasty, picky etc etc ...
lighten up people .....its supposed to be a bit of fun ...
Chillax ...... ....
Fab folk no when I'm being cutting as I miss off the xxx at the end of my post. "
I'm going to start ending my arsy posts with "regards" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is a forum ??? ....
Open to debate of a thread...
So why do folk take things so very personally and throw their toys out of the the pram , when the thread is not going their way ..
I like a bit of banter ... I have a dry sence of humour.... sarcastic at times ( yes its the lowest form of wit )..
The thing about text messaging is ... it has no tone of voice , no facial expressions. .. so its quite easy to take a comment completely the wrong way ... or even get "evicted" of the forums for being nasty, picky etc etc ...
lighten up people .....its supposed to be a bit of fun ...
Chillax ...... ....
Fab folk no when I'm being cutting as I miss off the xxx at the end of my post.
I'm going to start ending my arsy posts with "regards" "
That'll just confuse em. xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's a big difference between a troll and someone having a different opinion. Just like there's a difference between bullying and debating a topic.
I'm all for people having opinions, but I do think there are ways to word that opinion without sounding like an utter cunt. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sitting back with a bowl of popcorn and a coffee"
Coffee and popcorn???? Ewww that's disgusting. How could you combine the two ...... Oh wait that's right its none of my business lol just the same as its none of our business if a group of people like barebacking or cheating, or anything else surely as swingers we get enough scorn from the vanillas lol but my don't we all like to voice our unwanted _iews 
P.S I was joking I hope you enjoy the coffee and popcorn x |
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"Sitting back with a bowl of popcorn and a coffee
Coffee and popcorn???? Ewww that's disgusting. How could you combine the two ...... Oh wait that's right its none of my business lol just the same as its none of our business if a group of people like barebacking or cheating, or anything else surely as swingers we get enough scorn from the vanillas lol but my don't we all like to voice our unwanted _iews
P.S I was joking I hope you enjoy the coffee and popcorn x"
So people aren't entitled to voice their _iews unless they agree with you?
Or was that a part of the joke? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sitting back with a bowl of popcorn and a coffee"
These posts are far more irritating than any disagreement or argument I see posted. I've got more respect for the people with the balls to defend their opinion than those who just sit and stir the pot from a distance. |
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"Sitting back with a bowl of popcorn and a coffee
Coffee and popcorn???? Ewww that's disgusting. How could you combine the two ...... Oh wait that's right its none of my business lol just the same as its none of our business if a group of people like barebacking or cheating, or anything else surely as swingers we get enough scorn from the vanillas lol but my don't we all like to voice our unwanted _iews
P.S I was joking I hope you enjoy the coffee and popcorn x"
Bit confused by your comment about 'unwanted _iews'! Even the OP of a post doesn't get to choose which posts are wanted and which aren't!
When a contentious topic is introduced - such as bareback sex or the 'excitement' of playing with cheats - these threads are bound to cause strong differences of opinion - which is in the 'married' case was, I'm pretty sure, the whole point!
Debates on topics that some feel strongly about get heated, hence we have forum mods who try to ensure that they don't turn into a slanging match!
If I started a thread about a contentious topic I'd expect people to argue vociferously on both sides. I certainly wouldn't expect those who disagree with me to say nothing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hang on a second, OP.
I've just seen your post on the Bareback Thread. Now THAT is bullying.
Your surprised?
When the OP itself was layered with hypocrisy. "
I was surprised that someone starting a thread on bullying would personally attack another user on a different thread, yes. |
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"Hang on a second, OP.
I've just seen your post on the Bareback Thread. Now THAT is bullying.
Your surprised?
When the OP itself was layered with hypocrisy.
I was surprised that someone starting a thread on bullying would personally attack another user on a different thread, yes. "
That wasn't bullying it was just speaking her mind and refusing to take stuff on the chin, apparently |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There really are situations considerably more troubling than a few daily diva strops on a website between people who rarely, if ever, clap eyes on one another surely? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hang on a second, OP.
I've just seen your post on the Bareback Thread. Now THAT is bullying.
Your surprised?
When the OP itself was layered with hypocrisy.
I was surprised that someone starting a thread on bullying would personally attack another user on a different thread, yes.
That wasn't bullying it was just speaking her mind and refusing to take stuff on the chin, apparently "
Ahh the old, 'I'm just being honest' line... |
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"There really are situations considerably more troubling than a few daily diva strops on a website between people who rarely, if ever, clap eyes on one another surely? "
Absolutely, and bitching about it certainly won't change anything |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bullying? That's a strong word to use. People have different ideas and _iews on subjects. That's normal in life. I'm always polite when I post and never attack anyone personally. Unfortunately not everyone is capable of this.
And at the end of the day, why would anyone really let anything a stranger says on a website bother them? Anyone who does genuinely feel upset should consider whether they ought to post in the forums if they can't handle it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bullying? That's a strong word to use. People have different ideas and _iews on subjects. That's normal in life. I'm always polite when I post and never attack anyone personally. Unfortunately not everyone is capable of this.
And at the end of the day, why would anyone really let anything a stranger says on a website bother them? Anyone who does genuinely feel upset should consider whether they ought to post in the forums if they can't handle it."
Like your not still wounded from last night. Suuuure |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"I for one am sick of seeing judgemental trolls jumping into threads and disrupting them. It's one thing to have an opinion something very different to try to upset people.
Be it barebackers or married/cheaters, cuckolding, watersporters live and let live. Your comments only prove how vacuous your life is that you feel you can online bully someone else. Pathetic "
Way yo troll the trolls OP classic |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I for one am sick of seeing judgemental trolls jumping into threads and disrupting them. It's one thing to have an opinion something very different to try to upset people.
Be it barebackers or married/cheaters, cuckolding, watersporters live and let live. Your comments only prove how vacuous your life is that you feel you can online bully someone else. Pathetic
The irony of this.
Were you not making judgmental remarks about someone in another thread?
I just had a strong feeling that OP is probably guilty of the very thing they're complaining about. Thats what always ends up happening in this thread.
I believe they call it crybullying lol "
In op s defence I looked at her threads and in non I can't see is she bullying. I do see her point. I've seen it many times on here and yes I do have my say also so probably a bit guilty of it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I often think some people shouldn't use the internet alone....people with thin skin, or those people who fall for the Nigerian Prince scams.
I am a nigerian prince and just need your bank account details to share twenty million of your uk poundss with you
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Confused as to what a Nigerian prince as to do with anything. there are scammers in every nationality |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I often think some people shouldn't use the internet alone....people with thin skin, or those people who fall for the Nigerian Prince scams.
I am a nigerian prince and just need your bank account details to share twenty million of your uk poundss with you
Confused as to what a Nigerian prince as to do with anything. there are scammers in every nationality "
Really?
Nigerian Prince scams are a notorious and well-known variant of the advance fee scams that pervade the internet. I used it as an example of the naiveté with which some people approach the internet.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I often think some people shouldn't use the internet alone....people with thin skin, or those people who fall for the Nigerian Prince scams.
I am a nigerian prince and just need your bank account details to share twenty million of your uk poundss with you
Confused as to what a Nigerian prince as to do with anything. there are scammers in every nationality
Really?
Nigerian Prince scams are a notorious and well-known variant of the advance fee scams that pervade the internet. I used it as an example of the naiveté with which some people approach the internet...."
Yes I've had it happen to me when selling an item offering to put money in to pay for item and sending false statement. Luckily I knew about scams. But what I'm saying is not fair to pick on them as scammers as there are Russian. Polish. English. Yes I have very lovely Nigerian men friends. So mayb a little bias |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bullying? That's a strong word to use. People have different ideas and _iews on subjects. That's normal in life. I'm always polite when I post and never attack anyone personally. Unfortunately not everyone is capable of this.
And at the end of the day, why would anyone really let anything a stranger says on a website bother them? Anyone who does genuinely feel upset should consider whether they ought to post in the forums if they can't handle it.
Like your not still wounded from last night. Suuuure"
I'm never wounded. Why would anyone be? That's just ridiculous. |
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"I for one am sick of seeing judgemental trolls jumping into threads and disrupting them. It's one thing to have an opinion something very different to try to upset people.
Be it barebackers or married/cheaters, cuckolding, watersporters live and let live. Your comments only prove how vacuous your life is that you feel you can online bully someone else. Pathetic
I'm guessing that because I disagreed/disapproved with the op on a thread about married 'cheats' on fab - that I'm one of the people you'd consider to be a bully?
Couldn't be further from the truth!
I will stand by anybody's right to do whatever they choose - but I feel that starting a thread to say how thrilling it is both cheating and meeting a cheat was in very poor taste - and I have just as much right to my opinion as you do to yours!
What I don't do, though, is accuse anyone who disagrees with my opinion of being small minded or a bully!
There is an enormous difference between bullying and disagreeing/discussing!
Many on here seem to shout out 'bully' and 'troll' when a thread isn't going the way they'd like!
Sad really, as it trivialises real bullying and trolling - which is vile! "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I for one am sick of seeing judgemental trolls jumping into threads and disrupting them. It's one thing to have an opinion something very different to try to upset people.
Be it barebackers or married/cheaters, cuckolding, watersporters live and let live. Your comments only prove how vacuous your life is that you feel you can online bully someone else. Pathetic "
The premise of "live amd let live" when using controversial topics as examples is seriously flawed. You are basically saying people shouldn't post opposing _iews.  Disagreeing with someone doesn't make someone a troll or a bully |
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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago
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There's plenty of them on here !!! Xx
Sad really , supposed to be a happy and fun place , but guess those type of people are happy in their own little word been nasty and belittling other because their so insecure about themselves !!! Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sitting back with a bowl of popcorn and a coffee
These posts are far more irritating than any disagreement or argument I see posted. I've got more respect for the people with the balls to defend their opinion than those who just sit and stir the pot from a distance."
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over a year ago
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"I for one am sick of seeing judgemental trolls jumping into threads and disrupting them. It's one thing to have an opinion something very different to try to upset people.
Be it barebackers or married/cheaters, cuckolding, watersporters live and let live. Your comments only prove how vacuous your life is that you feel you can online bully someone else. Pathetic
The premise of "live amd let live" when using controversial topics as examples is seriously flawed. You are basically saying people shouldn't post opposing _iews. Disagreeing with someone doesn't make someone a troll or a bully"
It depends on the context and the way an alternative _iewpoint is expressed .
Whether it be the way people swing , their relationship status , bare or not , there will always be opposing _iews . However , to chastise others or to try to force ones own ways on them is unnecessary , and often leads to one party or the other feeling bullied .
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I for one am sick of seeing judgemental trolls jumping into threads and disrupting them. It's one thing to have an opinion something very different to try to upset people.
Be it barebackers or married/cheaters, cuckolding, watersporters live and let live. Your comments only prove how vacuous your life is that you feel you can online bully someone else. Pathetic
The premise of "live amd let live" when using controversial topics as examples is seriously flawed. You are basically saying people shouldn't post opposing _iews. Disagreeing with someone doesn't make someone a troll or a bully"
It does to a couple of posters as evident in this post; I would say it's become the go to term when people can't actually debate a point without becoming too involved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think we're all old enough and ugly enough to know that whatever happens on fab shouldn't be taken to heart too much. Half of us don't even meet many of those we speak to and I just don't understand how people get affected by crap that happens online.
Fab ain't the real world. You just have to pull your socks up, stand your ground if you want to respond to any posts and maybe even grow a thick skin so you can deal with it.
Too much unnecessary drama on here at times. Everyone's entitled to their opinions. Let them air it. If you don't like it, then you can't do much about it but challenge it.
The mods can deal with all the 'bullies' and 'trolls'. We just use it to have our bit of fun. Anything that stops you from having that fun. Just block it, and move on.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think we're all old enough and ugly enough to know that whatever happens on fab shouldn't be taken to heart too much. Half of us don't even meet many of those we speak to and I just don't understand how people get affected by crap that happens online.
Fab ain't the real world. You just have to pull your socks up, stand your ground if you want to respond to any posts and maybe even grow a thick skin so you can deal with it.
Too much unnecessary drama on here at times. Everyone's entitled to their opinions. Let them air it. If you don't like it, then you can't do much about it but challenge it.
The mods can deal with all the 'bullies' and 'trolls'. We just use it to have our bit of fun. Anything that stops you from having that fun. Just block it, and move on.
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"I for one am sick of seeing judgemental trolls jumping into threads and disrupting them. It's one thing to have an opinion something very different to try to upset people.
Be it barebackers or married/cheaters, cuckolding, watersporters live and let live. Your comments only prove how vacuous your life is that you feel you can online bully someone else. Pathetic "
Here's the thing OP I'm opinionated by nature stubborn and very strong willed but i feel no need to debate on here.
Try to remember those who love pushing there own opinions continuously on here in such away as to get a response are doing so because they feel there opinion matters and counts .
Which of coarse I doesn't it only matters to them and that I true of me you and everyone on here . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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And the nearest thing to trolling and bullying on here are the inane, utterly pointless and not in the slightest bit original or entertaining 'popcorn' posts and their equally tedious variations.
Without exception these posts are by people with nothing to say bit desperate to be heard and are designed to steer a thread in a certain way |
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"I think we're all old enough and ugly enough to know that whatever happens on fab shouldn't be taken to heart too much. Half of us don't even meet many of those we speak to and I just don't understand how people get affected by crap that happens online.
Fab ain't the real world. You just have to pull your socks up, stand your ground if you want to respond to any posts and maybe even grow a thick skin so you can deal with it.
Too much unnecessary drama on here at times. Everyone's entitled to their opinions. Let them air it. If you don't like it, then you can't do much about it but challenge it.
The mods can deal with all the 'bullies' and 'trolls'. We just use it to have our bit of fun. Anything that stops you from having that fun. Just block it, and move on.
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"And the nearest thing to trolling and bullying on here are the inane, utterly pointless and not in the slightest bit original or entertaining 'popcorn' posts and their equally tedious variations.
Without exception these posts are by people with nothing to say bit desperate to be heard and are designed to steer a thread in a certain way"
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"And the nearest thing to trolling and bullying on here are the inane, utterly pointless and not in the slightest bit original or entertaining 'popcorn' posts and their equally tedious variations.
Without exception these posts are by people with nothing to say bit desperate to be heard and are designed to steer a thread in a certain way
Hobnob?"
Can I have chocolate? Goes better with baileys! |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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This is such a hypocritical but funny thread. Half the people attacking the OP couldn't handle an opinion which goes against their practices. Folk, the Green arrow works for every poster |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And the nearest thing to trolling and bullying on here are the inane, utterly pointless and not in the slightest bit original or entertaining 'popcorn' posts and their equally tedious variations.
Without exception these posts are by people with nothing to say bit desperate to be heard and are designed to steer a thread in a certain way
Hobnob?
Can I have chocolate? Goes better with baileys! "
Only got dark choc digestives |
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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago
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"I for one am sick of seeing judgemental trolls jumping into threads and disrupting them. It's one thing to have an opinion something very different to try to upset people.
Be it barebackers or married/cheaters, cuckolding, watersporters live and let live. Your comments only prove how vacuous your life is that you feel you can online bully someone else. Pathetic "
No such thing as bullying on the forums
Either don't open the threads to read them
Or just log off
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"And the nearest thing to trolling and bullying on here are the inane, utterly pointless and not in the slightest bit original or entertaining 'popcorn' posts and their equally tedious variations.
Without exception these posts are by people with nothing to say bit desperate to be heard and are designed to steer a thread in a certain way
Hobnob?
Can I have chocolate? Goes better with baileys!
Only got dark choc digestives "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I for one am sick of seeing judgemental trolls jumping into threads and disrupting them. It's one thing to have an opinion something very different to try to upset people.
Be it barebackers or married/cheaters, cuckolding, watersporters live and let live. Your comments only prove how vacuous your life is that you feel you can online bully someone else. Pathetic "
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By (user no longer on site)
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There are bullying posts. There are "I'm so offended" posts. And then there are "I'm so offended by the bullying" posts. And then there are "I'm so offended that your trying to bully me into not bullying by being offended by me" posts. They are the glue that binds the web together  |
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"There are bullying posts. There are "I'm so offended" posts. And then there are "I'm so offended by the bullying" posts. And then there are "I'm so offended that your trying to bully me into not bullying by being offended by me" posts. They are the glue that binds the web together "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a forum ??? ....
Open to debate of a thread...
So why do folk take things so very personally and throw their toys out of the the pram , when the thread is not going their way ..
I like a bit of banter ... I have a dry sence of humour.... sarcastic at times ( yes its the lowest form of wit )..
The thing about text messaging is ... it has no tone of voice , no facial expressions. .. so its quite easy to take a comment completely the wrong way ... or even get "evicted" of the forums for being nasty, picky etc etc ...
lighten up people .....its supposed to be a bit of fun ...
Chillax ...... ....
Oh the irony "
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"I for one am sick of seeing judgemental trolls jumping into threads and disrupting them. It's one thing to have an opinion something very different to try to upset people.
Be it barebackers or married/cheaters, cuckolding, watersporters live and let live. Your comments only prove how vacuous your life is that you feel you can online bully someone else. Pathetic "
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"And the nearest thing to trolling and bullying on here are the inane, utterly pointless and not in the slightest bit original or entertaining 'popcorn' posts and their equally tedious variations.
Without exception these posts are by people with nothing to say bit desperate to be heard and are designed to steer a thread in a certain way"
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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I love them, love reading them, if relevant to us love commenting on them. In my opinion where people of both sides fall down is on there use of the English language & their lack of thought or empathy for "The other side".
The posts on Anal being a very good example. You don't like it say "I don't like it" there really is no need for anymore is there? Saying it's "Disgusting, Unnatural & gross" is saying those that do it are "Disgusting, Unnatural & Gross" which is patently bollox. The irony of said poster strapping a totally natural dildo on to fuck other women wasen't lost on me either..
We don't bareback so would put "We don't do it" Not "We don't do it, its disgusting & all you doing it are dirty disgusting people!".
I find that the biggest rows come from the poor use of thought for others _iewpoint & of the English language. Most heated disagreements start there.
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"I love them, love reading them, if relevant to us love commenting on them. In my opinion where people of both sides fall down is on there use of the English language & their lack of thought or empathy for "The other side".
The posts on Anal being a very good example. You don't like it say "I don't like it" there really is no need for anymore is there? Saying it's "Disgusting, Unnatural & gross" is saying those that do it are "Disgusting, Unnatural & Gross" which is patently bollox. The irony of said poster strapping a totally natural dildo on to fuck other women wasen't lost on me either..
We don't bareback so would put "We don't do it" Not "We don't do it, its disgusting & all you doing it are dirty disgusting people!".
I find that the biggest rows come from the poor use of thought for others _iewpoint & of the English language. Most heated disagreements start there.
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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The irony of said poster strapping a totally natural dildo on to fuck other women wasen't lost on me either.
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Most women just like straight sex and a strap-on isn't just for 'pegging' men That is mostly a male fantasy and I should know; half of the 'straight' men on this site write begging messages to me asking for it despite the fact that I make it very clear on my profile: “Strap-on fun is only with other women I already know; unless you are female, you are not invited to join, so don't ask”. I guess men generally jump at the 'piccies' and miss the big words on the profile in between; nothing new, there, eh?
The thread you have brought up here again wasn't just a 'ya' or 'na' poll; It was: “Anal. Yay or nay ladies? Gents your opinions; Never met someone who's into it unfortunately. What's everyone's thoughts!”; it asked for thoughts, otherwise known as experiences or opinions
Opinions ranged from (paraphrasing) 'better than vaginal sex' to "Filthy, dirty and unnatural; not for me". Those who think likewise did not jump on the throats of those women who find it 'better than vaginal sex'; I guess, they did not think that “better than vaginal sex” means that those who exclusively desire vaginal sex are somehow less sexual or do not know what they are doing. However, the ‘anal brigade’ took great offence that some find anal sex “filthy, dirty and unnatural” and that it is not for them
See how bullying starts |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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The irony of said poster strapping a totally natural dildo on to fuck other women wasen't lost on me either.
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Most women just like straight sex and a strap-on isn't just for 'pegging' men That is mostly a male fantasy and I should know; half of the 'straight' men on this site write begging messages to me asking for it despite the fact that I make it very clear on my profile: “Strap-on fun is only with other women I already know; unless you are female, you are not invited to join, so don't ask”. I guess men generally jump at the 'piccies' and miss the big words on the profile in between; nothing new, there, eh?
The thread you have brought up here again wasn't just a 'ya' or 'na' poll; It was: “Anal. Yay or nay ladies? Gents your opinions; Never met someone who's into it unfortunately. What's everyone's thoughts!”; it asked for thoughts, otherwise known as experiences or opinions
Opinions ranged from (paraphrasing) 'better than vaginal sex' to "Filthy, dirty and unnatural; not for me". Those who think likewise did not jump on the throats of those women who find it 'better than vaginal sex'; I guess, they did not think that “better than vaginal sex” means that those who exclusively desire vaginal sex are somehow less sexual or do not know what they are doing. However, the ‘anal brigade’ took great offence that some find anal sex “filthy, dirty and unnatural” and that it is not for them
See how bullying starts"
As I said in my post though "Most rows start because of the language used in putting an opinion across, not in the opinion itself" "Better than vaginal" is an opinion "Disgusting, unnatural & vile" (or whatever it was) smacks of confrontational & possibly belittling of those that have the opposite opinion.
I also did not miss the point on the strapon, you did..I was just trying to point out the hypocrisy of calling anal "unnatural" and I guess therefore bad when obviously feeling quite happy to don't said appendage to fuck a woman, obviously such a "natural" thing to do.
But this just proves the point made in the opening paragraph.
Oh & H has her own strapon & I can a sure you its going nowhere near my arse
Love to all (Even those with differing opinions)
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"Better than vaginal" is an opinion "Disgusting, unnatural & vile" (or whatever it was) smacks of confrontational & possibly belittling of those that have the opposite opinion.
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That is just your opinion and I am not about to start arguing with you on what you think an opinion is and why you think a differing opinion is belittling people
I did not think that "better than vaginal sex" was targeted at belittling those women who only desire sex the 'other way' and therefore do not know how to have better sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I for one am sick of seeing judgemental trolls jumping into threads and disrupting them. It's one thing to have an opinion something very different to try to upset people.
Be it barebackers or married/cheaters, cuckolding, watersporters live and let live. Your comments only prove how vacuous your life is that you feel you can online bully someone else. Pathetic "
Or the majority of posts started by a single male with no veris |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't feel that someone giving reasons why they dislike something i.e. It's disgusting or unnatural etc, is bullying. Saying someone is disgusting and continuing to target a person could be classed as bullying, with others joining in sometimes; although it's writing on a screen that can easily be ignored. |
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"I often think some people shouldn't use the internet alone....people with thin skin, or those people who fall for the Nigerian Prince scams.
I am a nigerian prince and just need your bank account details to share twenty million of your uk poundss with you
Confused as to what a Nigerian prince as to do with anything. there are scammers in every nationality
Really?
Nigerian Prince scams are a notorious and well-known variant of the advance fee scams that pervade the internet. I used it as an example of the naiveté with which some people approach the internet....
Yes I've had it happen to me when selling an item offering to put money in to pay for item and sending false statement. Luckily I knew about scams. But what I'm saying is not fair to pick on them as scammers as there are Russian. Polish. English. Yes I have very lovely Nigerian men friends. So mayb a little bias "
Apologies to all Nigerian princes everywhere, and a cheque is in the post I promise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't really think there are bullies on here, but for the OP to make a personal attack on another user from a different thread, then to make this thread, is a bit hypercritical.
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"I think we're all old enough and ugly enough to know that whatever happens on fab shouldn't be taken to heart too much. Half of us don't even meet many of those we speak to and I just don't understand how people get affected by crap that happens online.
Fab ain't the real world. You just have to pull your socks up, stand your ground if you want to respond to any posts and maybe even grow a thick skin so you can deal with it.
Too much unnecessary drama on here at times. Everyone's entitled to their opinions. Let them air it. If you don't like it, then you can't do much about it but challenge it.
The mods can deal with all the 'bullies' and 'trolls'. We just use it to have our bit of fun. Anything that stops you from having that fun. Just block it, and move on.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I for one am sick of seeing judgemental trolls jumping into threads and disrupting them. It's one thing to have an opinion something very different to try to upset people.
Be it barebackers or married/cheaters, cuckolding, watersporters live and let live. Your comments only prove how vacuous your life is that you feel you can online bully someone else. Pathetic "
Oh come, now, we will happily be judgemental to the face of a cheater. Barebackers, on the other hand, it's their life, just keep it away from us. |
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How about a safe space section of the forum,to be kept free of different opinions and other such hate speech
There the thin skinned can freely gush about fluffy bunnies n puppy's n the latest adorable cat memes.....n what a racist,homophobic cunt trump is n how he needs to be sent to a concentration camp for 're-education'.....if we don't just riot n storm the Whitehouse to murder the intolerant scumbag!  |
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"I for one am sick of seeing judgemental trolls jumping into threads and disrupting them. It's one thing to have an opinion something very different to try to upset people.
Be it barebackers or married/cheaters, cuckolding, watersporters live and let live. Your comments only prove how vacuous your life is that you feel you can online bully someone else. Pathetic "
It worries me more that some of these bullies have lots of veris when I'm decent, honest and can't get a meet
On the other hand it does show people in there true light and I'm sure some couples and ladies have decided not to meet someone they might have done before seeing them be a knob in the forums |
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"I for one am sick of seeing judgemental trolls jumping into threads and disrupting them. It's one thing to have an opinion something very different to try to upset people.
Be it barebackers or married/cheaters, cuckolding, watersporters live and let live. Your comments only prove how vacuous your life is that you feel you can online bully someone else. Pathetic
It worries me more that some of these bullies have lots of veris when I'm decent, honest and can't get a meet
On the other hand it does show people in there true light and I'm sure some couples and ladies have decided not to meet someone they might have done before seeing them be a knob in the forums"
I have no idea if some on here perceive me to be a bully and don't overly care, I know some think I'm an arsehole and I've never been one for courting popular opinion or shying away from what I think. It's never stopped me getting mets, I've met plenty of forumites both at socials and privacy. And if my opinions have cost me meets it's likely that it's with people I'd have not been interested in anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Youre telling me that married/cheaters and weirdos using them "swinging terms" , or sex pest old arts should be immune from "bullying".
Nah, scum ... and deserve everything they get.
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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And remember people come back under new profiles or multiple ones to continue spats they are having or had.
They thrive on being a victim or the drama attention they need. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I for one am sick of seeing judgemental trolls jumping into threads and disrupting them. It's one thing to have an opinion something very different to try to upset people.
Be it barebackers or married/cheaters, cuckolding, watersporters live and let live. Your comments only prove how vacuous your life is that you feel you can online bully someone else. Pathetic
It worries me more that some of these bullies have lots of veris when I'm decent, honest and can't get a meet
On the other hand it does show people in there true light and I'm sure some couples and ladies have decided not to meet someone they might have done before seeing them be a knob in the forums"
But your idea of bullying and being a knob differs greatly to mine, that's for sure. |
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"I for one am sick of seeing judgemental trolls jumping into threads and disrupting them. It's one thing to have an opinion something very different to try to upset people.
Be it barebackers or married/cheaters, cuckolding, watersporters live and let live. Your comments only prove how vacuous your life is that you feel you can online bully someone else. Pathetic
It worries me more that some of these bullies have lots of veris when I'm decent, honest and can't get a meet
On the other hand it does show people in there true light and I'm sure some couples and ladies have decided not to meet someone they might have done before seeing them be a knob in the forums"
I'm fairly sure that doesn't just apply to couples and ladies and men can equally be put off meeting someone if they're a knob in the forums. My old profile was nicer to people in the forums than I am now and she got way more action. |
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"I for one am sick of seeing judgemental trolls jumping into threads and disrupting them. It's one thing to have an opinion something very different to try to upset people.
Be it barebackers or married/cheaters, cuckolding, watersporters live and let live. Your comments only prove how vacuous your life is that you feel you can online bully someone else. Pathetic
It worries me more that some of these bullies have lots of veris when I'm decent, honest and can't get a meet
On the other hand it does show people in there true light and I'm sure some couples and ladies have decided not to meet someone they might have done before seeing them be a knob in the forums
But your idea of bullying and being a knob differs greatly to mine, that's for sure."
How do you know that ?
A well thought out argument is all good with me and I would say being a knob is for example being outwardly racist(and that doesn't mean someone not wanting to meet Asian people for example)
Where do you differ ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some people are very good at reporting others. Whilst commuting the same crimes themselves "
Is that like taking the crimes to work then bringing them home after work?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see the OP got owned and has now fuked off ??
I think he only started this thread to cause trouble .."
How did he 'get owned'? Some agreed, some didn't no one had a go at him... |
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"I for one am sick of seeing judgemental trolls jumping into threads and disrupting them. It's one thing to have an opinion something very different to try to upset people.
Be it barebackers or married/cheaters, cuckolding, watersporters live and let live. Your comments only prove how vacuous your life is that you feel you can online bully someone else. Pathetic
It worries me more that some of these bullies have lots of veris when I'm decent, honest and can't get a meet
On the other hand it does show people in there true light and I'm sure some couples and ladies have decided not to meet someone they might have done before seeing them be a knob in the forums
I have no idea if some on here perceive me to be a bully and don't overly care, I know some think I'm an arsehole and I've never been one for courting popular opinion or shying away from what I think. It's never stopped me getting mets, I've met plenty of forumites both at socials and privacy. And if my opinions have cost me meets it's likely that it's with people I'd have not been interested in anyway"
You say what you think. Never seen you be an arsehole.. just real.. You should be proud of that. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I see the OP got owned and has now fuked off ??
I think he only started this thread to cause trouble ..
I think it was a woman."
It was, no idea what the other poster means by 'got owned' means though |
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"I see the OP got owned and has now fuked off ??
I think he only started this thread to cause trouble ..
I think it was a woman.
It was, no idea what the other poster means by 'got owned' means though "
U don't know what getting owned means ??
It's a modern phrase for being found out or made a fool of ...
Get with the times lol |
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"I see the OP got owned and has now fuked off ??
I think he only started this thread to cause trouble ..
I think it was a woman.
It was, no idea what the other poster means by 'got owned' means though
U don't know what getting owned means ??
It's a modern phrase for being found out or made a fool of ...
Get with the times lol"
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"I see the OP got owned and has now fuked off ??
I think he only started this thread to cause trouble ..
How did he 'get owned'? Some agreed, some didn't no one had a go at him..."
Follow the thread man !!
He had been slating others and doing exactly what he was moaning about to others !
That's why he left .. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I see the OP got owned and has now fuked off ??
I think he only started this thread to cause trouble ..
How did he 'get owned'? Some agreed, some didn't no one had a go at him...
Follow the thread man !!
He had been slating others and doing exactly what he was moaning about to others !
That's why he left .."
Yeah, follow the thread man! The OP was a she, and no I wont follow the times, I was taught English in school, so I will say what I mean, not what is currently 'getting down with the kids' |
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"I see the OP got owned and has now fuked off ??
I think he only started this thread to cause trouble ..
How did he 'get owned'? Some agreed, some didn't no one had a go at him...
Follow the thread man !!
He had been slating others and doing exactly what he was moaning about to others !
That's why he left ..
Yeah, follow the thread man! The OP was a she, and no I wont follow the times, I was taught English in school, so I will say what I mean, not what is currently 'getting down with the kids' "
The quate " follow the thread Man " was aimed at the guy who left the comment above and not the OP .
Im a single dad with 2 grown up sons so that is how i know these quates .
I too was taught English in school .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I see the OP got owned and has now fuked off ??
I think he only started this thread to cause trouble ..
How did he 'get owned'? Some agreed, some didn't no one had a go at him...
Follow the thread man !!
He had been slating others and doing exactly what he was moaning about to others !
That's why he left .."
Did you read a different thread to everyone else?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP you should be aware that others can follow your post history on here via the green arrow.. thank you very much I didn't know that. ?  "
every day is a school day |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"I see the OP got owned and has now fuked off ??
I think he only started this thread to cause trouble .."
it was a woman fella .
she was a nice girl I had a couple of private chats with her .
the truth is most normal sane people are not thick skinned enough for this world and because of that they fall foul of passive aggressive comments and leave sadly
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"I for one am sick of seeing judgemental trolls jumping into threads and disrupting them. It's one thing to have an opinion something very different to try to upset people.
Be it barebackers or married/cheaters, cuckolding, watersporters live and let live. Your comments only prove how vacuous your life is that you feel you can online bully someone else. Pathetic "
Welcome to the Internet! Seriously, have you never been online before?
Oh, wait..lol UNLOS.... |
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"Isn't online bullying also attacking a poster personally and bringing up things not relevant to the thread?
I find the level of judgement from both sides quite sad to be honest; those who disagree and start making personal attacks and snide remarks and those who agree who insist that if you don't, you're a hypocrite and not with enough knowledge to accept the truth.
I think if people had the capacity to understand that different people had alternative _iews, threads would actually be more of an interesting debate instead of falling back on emotional rhetoric."
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"I often think some people shouldn't use the internet alone....people with thin skin, or those people who fall for the Nigerian Prince scams.
Mines not a scam, I'm definitely getting £12m from my new best friend in Burkina Faso. I've sent him my £1578.57 to facilitate the release of my funds. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I see the OP got owned and has now fuked off ??
I think he only started this thread to cause trouble ..
it was a woman fella .
she was a nice girl I had a couple of private chats with her .
the truth is most normal sane people are not thick skinned enough for this world and because of that they fall foul of passive aggressive comments and leave sadly
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did you not follow the green arrow either?
she was dishing out the self same crap on another thread she was bemoaning about on here...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We just dilligaf here for us for most every one got there likes m dislikes and boundaries live n let live .......but if you rude n aggressive you always welcome to come meet the beast not the beauty x |
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If im honest sensitive people shouldn't be on here !!
This is just a bit of fun it's not life !!
Political correctness gets under my skin and I solemnly believe u should be able to say what u want aslong as it's not sexist or Racist ..as sexism and racism get under my skin too .. |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"I see the OP got owned and has now fuked off ??
I think he only started this thread to cause trouble ..
it was a woman fella .
she was a nice girl I had a couple of private chats with her .
the truth is most normal sane people are not thick skinned enough for this world and because of that they fall foul of passive aggressive comments and leave sadly
did you not follow the green arrow either?
she was dishing out the self same crap on another thread she was bemoaning about on here...
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yes I saw and the way I saw it was she was baited in something newbies fall for very easily
did you speak to her privately about that like I did or did you just assume to know her mindset on her own actions . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If im honest sensitive people shouldn't be on here !!
This is just a bit of fun it's not life !!
Political correctness gets under my skin and I solemnly believe u should be able to say what u want aslong as it's not sexist or Racist ..as sexism and racism get under my skin too .."
So people can say what they like as long as you agree? |
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"If im honest sensitive people shouldn't be on here !!
This is just a bit of fun it's not life !!
Political correctness gets under my skin and I solemnly believe u should be able to say what u want aslong as it's not sexist or Racist ..as sexism and racism get under my skin too ..
So people can say what they like as long as you agree?"
That's not what it says !!
People should be able to say what they like yes .
Say anything u like about me I won't ever get offended.
My point was if u get easily offended don't come on here . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I see the OP got owned and has now fuked off ??
I think he only started this thread to cause trouble ..
it was a woman fella .
she was a nice girl I had a couple of private chats with her .
the truth is most normal sane people are not thick skinned enough for this world and because of that they fall foul of passive aggressive comments and leave sadly
did you not follow the green arrow either?
she was dishing out the self same crap on another thread she was bemoaning about on here...
yes I saw and the way I saw it was she was baited in something newbies fall for very easily
did you speak to her privately about that like I did or did you just assume to know her mindset on her own actions ."
we must be talking about different posts as that's definitely not how it looked to me, but then again I wasn't trying to get into her knickers either |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I see the OP got owned and has now fuked off ??
I think he only started this thread to cause trouble ..
it was a woman fella .
she was a nice girl I had a couple of private chats with her .
the truth is most normal sane people are not thick skinned enough for this world and because of that they fall foul of passive aggressive comments and leave sadly
did you not follow the green arrow either?
she was dishing out the self same crap on another thread she was bemoaning about on here...
yes I saw and the way I saw it was she was baited in something newbies fall for very easily
did you speak to her privately about that like I did or did you just assume to know her mindset on her own actions .
we must be talking about different posts as that's definitely not how it looked to me, but then again I wasn't trying to get into her knickers either"
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I see the OP got owned and has now fuked off ??
I think he only started this thread to cause trouble ..
it was a woman fella .
she was a nice girl I had a couple of private chats with her .
the truth is most normal sane people are not thick skinned enough for this world and because of that they fall foul of passive aggressive comments and leave sadly
did you not follow the green arrow either?
she was dishing out the self same crap on another thread she was bemoaning about on here...
yes I saw and the way I saw it was she was baited in something newbies fall for very easily
did you speak to her privately about that like I did or did you just assume to know her mindset on her own actions .
we must be talking about different posts as that's definitely not how it looked to me, but then again I wasn't trying to get into her knickers either"
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"I see the OP got owned and has now fuked off ??
I think he only started this thread to cause trouble ..
it was a woman fella .
she was a nice girl I had a couple of private chats with her .
the truth is most normal sane people are not thick skinned enough for this world and because of that they fall foul of passive aggressive comments and leave sadly
did you not follow the green arrow either?
she was dishing out the self same crap on another thread she was bemoaning about on here...
yes I saw and the way I saw it was she was baited in something newbies fall for very easily
did you speak to her privately about that like I did or did you just assume to know her mindset on her own actions .
we must be talking about different posts as that's definitely not how it looked to me, but then again I wasn't trying to get into her knickers either"
Nor was I but hay that's a common mistake made by those who in my opinion have been on here swimming in this cesspit for so long they assume everything has sex behind it .
I have very unique needs and tastes in woman if you had read the ops profile you would have not aimed such a accusation at me .
Rather disappointed in you but hay your entitled to think what you like even if it is totally and utterly wrong and a total false accusation |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I see the OP got owned and has now fuked off ??
I think he only started this thread to cause trouble ..
it was a woman fella .
she was a nice girl I had a couple of private chats with her .
the truth is most normal sane people are not thick skinned enough for this world and because of that they fall foul of passive aggressive comments and leave sadly
did you not follow the green arrow either?
she was dishing out the self same crap on another thread she was bemoaning about on here...
yes I saw and the way I saw it was she was baited in something newbies fall for very easily
did you speak to her privately about that like I did or did you just assume to know her mindset on her own actions ."
As someone who uses the green arrow to form a personal opinion on someone, as you have readily said you do, do you message everyone individually to find out why they've posted their _iews or do you do this only with women who's knickers you want to get into? |
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"If im honest sensitive people shouldn't be on here !!
This is just a bit of fun it's not life !!
Political correctness gets under my skin and I solemnly believe u should be able to say what u want aslong as it's not sexist or Racist ..as sexism and racism get under my skin too ..
So people can say what they like as long as you agree?
That's not what it says !!
People should be able to say what they like yes .
Say anything u like about me I won't ever get offended.
My point was if u get easily offended don't come on here ."
You've just contradicted yourself |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"I see the OP got owned and has now fuked off ??
I think he only started this thread to cause trouble ..
it was a woman fella .
she was a nice girl I had a couple of private chats with her .
the truth is most normal sane people are not thick skinned enough for this world and because of that they fall foul of passive aggressive comments and leave sadly
did you not follow the green arrow either?
she was dishing out the self same crap on another thread she was bemoaning about on here...
yes I saw and the way I saw it was she was baited in something newbies fall for very easily
did you speak to her privately about that like I did or did you just assume to know her mindset on her own actions .
As someone who uses the green arrow to form a personal opinion on someone, as you have readily said you do, do you message everyone individually to find out why they've posted their _iews or do you do this only with women who's knickers you want to get into?"
She messaged me as I've already said I rarely message anyone first .
We talked about her other posts of here that others were bringing up to belittle her in this post. she was looking for a friendly voice as she felt she was being picked upon and targeted.
And as I've said if someone messages me I respond and yes if they seem like a nice person I then use the green arrow to get a more fuller rounded picture of them before I even think about asking them for a social .
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