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"Hi.
We both love the naughty chat leading up to the meet.
Gets our minds so aroused before hand.
Some seem to want to get straight to it....
Thoughts"
Either is ok with me, but the more connection and build-up generally the better... |
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I like chatting before hand but not keen on the whole "we're gonna do this, do that". Or promises of stuff that's gonna happen.
Personal experience has shown its very rarely the case. |
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"I like chatting before hand but not keen on the whole "we're gonna do this, do that". Or promises of stuff that's gonna happen.
Personal experience has shown its very rarely the case. "
Just this...and its nice to just go with the flow, not into yes we will do this or that...where is the excitement of not knowing whst comes next  |
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"Hi.
We both love the naughty chat leading up to the meet.
Gets our minds so aroused before hand.
Some seem to want to get straight to it....
Thoughts"
We are an odd couple as Lee enjoys the chat where as I hate it. I just want to check we are on the same page and then sort the time out. And have even cancelled meets because the chat leading up to it makes me feel awkward |
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The social side is huge for us so we really like hanging out and chatting. We don't really tend to talk about sex when we're getting to know a couple - we just like to chat as friends. Having that connection is more exciting to us than sex talk  |
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I like normal chat in the lead up, flirting etc. "Naughty" chat is an enormous turn off for me and I've cancelled meets if they've started down that route. |
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I love the build up, the flirting and the teasing. Don't like planning out how it will happen but i find it is good to drop a few hints on what I enjoy, as it's no good a man turning up to meet me and just doing missionary.
I really enjoy a drink beforehand too, a chance to tease the living daylights out of each other with the polite chat and knowingly looks.
Damn I need a meet now
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If we're meeting off here at ours, then chatting is definitely a good thing. Gives us all an idea of what we want to do on the night, and we can think sexy thoughts leading up to it.
If we're meeting at a club, then either is fine by us. Clubs bring the sexy anyway, so we're usually in the mood before we arrive. |
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me and our regular male "friend" watch the missus do a fashion show with costume changes in the hotel bathroom and after the 2nd or 3rd costume change he usually assists her
the first half hour before that is the best for me
flirty chat and watching her get into a situation far removed from "normal" life
my wife butter wouldn't melt in real life but put her into those situations and she comes alive
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"The chatting flirting is a winner for me. Builds up connection & makes the meet much more exciting.  "
That is true make it more worth while and you get to make sure there not weirdos win win |
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I enjoy the chat and the anticipation. It gets me going and I like to know what are turn ins and turn offs
Sometimes the chat can go on too long tho and it fizzles out quick |
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We are an odd couple as Lee enjoys the chat where as I hate it. I just want to check we are on the same page and then sort the time out. And have even cancelled meets because the chat leading up to it makes me feel awkward "
Me too, if the chat is going on too long I assume a meet won't happen as it smacks of getting your jollies and leading a merry dance.
I am very much, this is the plan, are you in? Right see you there |
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