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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like both, but my preference is for a hot single fem..
in most cases this is about actually sleeping together(I like all nighters),kissing,passion,going out etc etc
somethings you just cant do with a couple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Which is your preference for a meet?
A hot couple?
Or
A hot single fem
Genuinely interested in which you would choose if both options were available"
It's a rhetorical question really, if ur not bi, you are gonna go for the hot single fem everytime. More opportunity like being a fb an club partner etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Which is your preference for a meet?
A hot couple?
Or
A hot single fem
Genuinely interested in which you would choose if both options were available It's a rhetorical question really, if ur not bi, you are gonna go for the hot single fem everytime. More opportunity like being a fb an club partner etc."
nothing to do with being bi or not...I love spitroasting a woman, even if part of a couple.
To me its about what I want from a meet,if a couple can give me what I normally get from a single female then I'm all for it, alas its mostly just a cum n go thing with many...it can suit me at times...but not always. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Which is your preference for a meet?
A hot couple?
Or
A hot single fem
Genuinely interested in which you would choose if both options were available It's a rhetorical question really, if ur not bi, you are gonna go for the hot single fem everytime. More opportunity like being a fb an club partner etc.
nothing to do with being bi or not...I love spitroasting a woman, even if part of a couple.
To me its about what I want from a meet,if a couple can give me what I normally get from a single female then I'm all for it, alas its mostly just a cum n go thing with many...it can suit me at times...but not always."
Pros and cons with both but I just see more opportunity with a single fem. |
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"Which is your preference for a meet?
A hot couple?
Or
A hot single fem
Genuinely interested in which you would choose if both options were available"
I've always enjoyed couples, think it's so hot watching her watch him for his reaction to me licking kissing & fucking her. Wether he joins in or not,
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seems to explain why when we post meets for single guys we get no joy lol as most are after single ladies at least we know now lol"
Yeah it's not like Sophies's choice  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seems to explain why when we post meets for single guys we get no joy lol as most are after single ladies at least we know now lol"
I think every demographic here has their own set of problems, but in spite of this thread there are plenty of single guys looking for couples (and just as many who don't have a preference).
I tend to think the forum attracts a certain crowd too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am surprised at the number of guys wanting the intimacy of a single female meet ... 
On a swingers site designed for couples from the off....  "
Oh well, we'll all just fuck off then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am surprised at the number of guys wanting the intimacy of a single female meet ...
On a swingers site designed for couples from the off....
Oh well, we'll all just fuck off then. "
Don't be obstreperous Ruby.
You know what we mean. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am surprised at the number of guys wanting the intimacy of a single female meet ...
On a swingers site designed for couples from the off.... "
Where over half the couples are looking for single females and have a bi female, if my local search is indicative of the whole site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am surprised at the number of guys wanting the intimacy of a single female meet ...
On a swingers site designed for couples from the off....
Oh well, we'll all just fuck off then.
Don't be obstreperous Ruby.
You know what we mean."
Me, obstreperous? Never  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am surprised at the number of guys wanting the intimacy of a single female meet ...
On a swingers site designed for couples from the off.... "
Wouldn't say that to women I bet. I don't understand people who post on threads where it is no relevance to them anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am surprised at the number of guys wanting the intimacy of a single female meet ...
Me to.... Really shocked X "
I'm not...I've met a few men who told me they only met couples because it was easier than meeting women alone. And of course there have been others who preferred couples, but I don't see why either approach would be surprising. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am surprised at the number of guys wanting the intimacy of a single female meet ...
On a swingers site designed for couples from the off....
Where over half the couples are looking for single females and have a bi female, if my local search is indicative of the whole site. "
Referring to the ridiculous number of supposedly straight females only looking for single males.
More AFF than Fabswingers now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am surprised at the number of guys wanting the intimacy of a single female meet ...
On a swingers site designed for couples from the off....
Where over half the couples are looking for single females and have a bi female, if my local search is indicative of the whole site.
Referring to the ridiculous number of supposedly straight females only looking for single males.
More AFF than Fabswingers now"
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I am surprised at the number of guys wanting the intimacy of a single female meet ...
On a swingers site designed for couples from the off....
Where over half the couples are looking for single females and have a bi female, if my local search is indicative of the whole site.
Referring to the ridiculous number of supposedly straight females only looking for single males.
More AFF than Fabswingers now "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am surprised at the number of guys wanting the intimacy of a single female meet ...
On a swingers site designed for couples from the off....
Where over half the couples are looking for single females and have a bi female, if my local search is indicative of the whole site.
Referring to the ridiculous number of supposedly straight females only looking for single males.
More AFF than Fabswingers now
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There's room for everyone. I don't think it really dilutes to pool too much as the same people will still be attracted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am surprised at the number of guys wanting the intimacy of a single female meet ...
On a swingers site designed for couples from the off....
Where over half the couples are looking for single females and have a bi female, if my local search is indicative of the whole site.
Referring to the ridiculous number of supposedly straight females only looking for single males.
More AFF than Fabswingers now
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you are warming to me I can sense it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OMG! This is the BEST thread ever! This proves our long standing theory, that the majority of men who join a swingers site actually don't give a toss about swinging! I even started to think I was wrong in my theory went I posted a thread a few weeks asking why men like to play with couples, to which I was pleasantly surprised by the positive response single men had towards couple play. The reason we have rejected so many hot guys, is because we get a feeling that they don't actually want to play with a couple. They only say they do because want to fuck me (or probably any female for that matter) and will just tolerate hubby being there! Well that's all well and good, but what is the point? Why waste time messaging couples? If you don't want the husband there then just stick to single females. Probably gonna get crusefied now  |
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"I am surprised at the number of guys wanting the intimacy of a single female meet ...
On a swingers site designed for couples from the off.... "
Single people can be swingers, its not just for couples |
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"OMG! This is the BEST thread ever! This proves our long standing theory, that the majority of men who join a swingers site actually don't give a toss about swinging!"
This will be the 52nd post and quite a few are from women and couples.
How that constitutes the majority of men is beyond maths  |
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By *eliWoman
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"OMG! This is the BEST thread ever! This proves our long standing theory, that the majority of men who join a swingers site actually don't give a toss about swinging! I even started to think I was wrong in my theory went I posted a thread a few weeks asking why men like to play with couples, to which I was pleasantly surprised by the positive response single men had towards couple play. The reason we have rejected so many hot guys, is because we get a feeling that they don't actually want to play with a couple. They only say they do because want to fuck me (or probably any female for that matter) and will just tolerate hubby being there! Well that's all well and good, but what is the point? Why waste time messaging couples? If you don't want the husband there then just stick to single females. Probably gonna get crusefied now "
Traditional swinging would involve couples swapping partners. Seeing as your approach isn't that, why are you bemoaning men who don't do what you think 'swinging' is? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Single females, couples don;t interest me as a single man, I love groupsex but only in a relationship and seing my partner enjoy herself is a massive part of the turn on. Remove that specific dynamic and group sex loses it's appeal pretty much entirely |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OMG! This is the BEST thread ever! This proves our long standing theory, that the majority of men who join a swingers site actually don't give a toss about swinging!
This will be the 52nd post and quite a few are from women and couples.
How that constitutes the majority of men is beyond maths "
Sorry, but it's the first thread of this subject that I've seen, but even if I had seen the other 51, it doesn't matter cos threads always get repeated over and and are all slightly different! No I can't prove it that most single men prefer single women, but our experience from Fab as a couple suggests that most do. I knew someone would take my statement literally |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OMG! This is the BEST thread ever! This proves our long standing theory, that the majority of men who join a swingers site actually don't give a toss about swinging! I even started to think I was wrong in my theory went I posted a thread a few weeks asking why men like to play with couples, to which I was pleasantly surprised by the positive response single men had towards couple play. The reason we have rejected so many hot guys, is because we get a feeling that they don't actually want to play with a couple. They only say they do because want to fuck me (or probably any female for that matter) and will just tolerate hubby being there! Well that's all well and good, but what is the point? Why waste time messaging couples? If you don't want the husband there then just stick to single females. Probably gonna get crusefied now
Traditional swinging would involve couples swapping partners. Seeing as your approach isn't that, why are you bemoaning men who don't do what you think 'swinging' is? "
We're not really into traditional swinging. We're more into the threesome and group sex aspect of swinging. I'm bemoaning men who use us as a couple when they only want to fuck a female. Men who pretend to want a couple but will put up with a man being there to get sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am surprised at the number of guys wanting the intimacy of a single female meet ...
On a swingers site designed for couples from the off....
Single people can be swingers, its not just for couples "
They can indeed. We know loads of single swingers, both male and female. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"We're not really into traditional swinging. We're more into the threesome and group sex aspect of swinging. I'm bemoaning men who use us as a couple when they only want to fuck a female. Men who pretend to want a couple but will put up with a man being there to get sex. "
Why does it matter if men would rather meet a single female unless you're looking for bisexual men? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OMG! This is the BEST thread ever! This proves our long standing theory, that the majority of men who join a swingers site actually don't give a toss about swinging! I even started to think I was wrong in my theory went I posted a thread a few weeks asking why men like to play with couples, to which I was pleasantly surprised by the positive response single men had towards couple play. The reason we have rejected so many hot guys, is because we get a feeling that they don't actually want to play with a couple. They only say they do because want to fuck me (or probably any female for that matter) and will just tolerate hubby being there! Well that's all well and good, but what is the point? Why waste time messaging couples? If you don't want the husband there then just stick to single females. Probably gonna get crusefied now
Traditional swinging would involve couples swapping partners. Seeing as your approach isn't that, why are you bemoaning men who don't do what you think 'swinging' is?
We're not really into traditional swinging. We're more into the threesome and group sex aspect of swinging. I'm bemoaning men who use us as a couple when they only want to fuck a female. Men who pretend to want a couple but will put up with a man being there to get sex. "
It is more the question that is being asked. If i was asked either a average looking single fem or a gorgeous wife of a couple id pick the lady in the couple because i'm shallow. |
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"We're not really into traditional swinging. We're more into the threesome and group sex aspect of swinging. I'm bemoaning men who use us as a couple when they only want to fuck a female. Men who pretend to want a couple but will put up with a man being there to get sex.
Why does it matter if men would rather meet a single female unless you're looking for bisexual men? "
I didn't say it mattered. I just wish they would pretend to want a couple. Actually it doesn't really matter to us, as we're pretty good and identifying the few that genuinely like couple play. But it's so naf, that crap we see on Fab from men who are prepared to tolerate a man being there like a spare part just to get some sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OMG! This is the BEST thread ever! This proves our long standing theory, that the majority of men who join a swingers site actually don't give a toss about swinging! I even started to think I was wrong in my theory went I posted a thread a few weeks asking why men like to play with couples, to which I was pleasantly surprised by the positive response single men had towards couple play. The reason we have rejected so many hot guys, is because we get a feeling that they don't actually want to play with a couple. They only say they do because want to fuck me (or probably any female for that matter) and will just tolerate hubby being there! Well that's all well and good, but what is the point? Why waste time messaging couples? If you don't want the husband there then just stick to single females. Probably gonna get crusefied now
Traditional swinging would involve couples swapping partners. Seeing as your approach isn't that, why are you bemoaning men who don't do what you think 'swinging' is?
We're not really into traditional swinging. We're more into the threesome and group sex aspect of swinging. I'm bemoaning men who use us as a couple when they only want to fuck a female. Men who pretend to want a couple but will put up with a man being there to get sex. It is more the question that is being asked. If i was asked either a average looking single fem or a gorgeous wife of a couple id pick the lady in the couple because i'm shallow. "
So you want to have sex with the best looking female, and if that means another man being there then so be it? This is what husbands don't like. Whether they are active players or voyeurs, they don't want to feel surplus. Finding a single man who enjoys the dynamics of the trio, whether straight or bi, is very hard. I do believe most men are not too bothered about the lady's partner being there. In which case what is the point of a threeesome? May as well be a twosome. |
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"OMG! This is the BEST thread ever! This proves our long standing theory, that the majority of men who join a swingers site actually don't give a toss about swinging! I even started to think I was wrong in my theory went I posted a thread a few weeks asking why men like to play with couples, to which I was pleasantly surprised by the positive response single men had towards couple play. The reason we have rejected so many hot guys, is because we get a feeling that they don't actually want to play with a couple. They only say they do because want to fuck me (or probably any female for that matter) and will just tolerate hubby being there! Well that's all well and good, but what is the point? Why waste time messaging couples? If you don't want the husband there then just stick to single females. Probably gonna get crusefied now
Traditional swinging would involve couples swapping partners. Seeing as your approach isn't that, why are you bemoaning men who don't do what you think 'swinging' is?
We're not really into traditional swinging. We're more into the threesome and group sex aspect of swinging. I'm bemoaning men who use us as a couple when they only want to fuck a female. Men who pretend to want a couple but will put up with a man being there to get sex. It is more the question that is being asked. If i was asked either a average looking single fem or a gorgeous wife of a couple id pick the lady in the couple because i'm shallow.
So you want to have sex with the best looking female, and if that means another man being there then so be it? This is what husbands don't like. Whether they are active players or voyeurs, they don't want to feel surplus. Finding a single man who enjoys the dynamics of the trio, whether straight or bi, is very hard. I do believe most men are not too bothered about the lady's partner being there. In which case what is the point of a threeesome? May as well be a twosome. "
I applaud you for thinking of your man and putting the relationship ship first. So many women these days would consult their man last. |
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"OMG! This is the BEST thread ever! This proves our long standing theory, that the majority of men who join a swingers site actually don't give a toss about swinging! I even started to think I was wrong in my theory went I posted a thread a few weeks asking why men like to play with couples, to which I was pleasantly surprised by the positive response single men had towards couple play. The reason we have rejected so many hot guys, is because we get a feeling that they don't actually want to play with a couple. They only say they do because want to fuck me (or probably any female for that matter) and will just tolerate hubby being there! Well that's all well and good, but what is the point? Why waste time messaging couples? If you don't want the husband there then just stick to single females. Probably gonna get crusefied now
Traditional swinging would involve couples swapping partners. Seeing as your approach isn't that, why are you bemoaning men who don't do what you think 'swinging' is?
We're not really into traditional swinging. We're more into the threesome and group sex aspect of swinging. I'm bemoaning men who use us as a couple when they only want to fuck a female. Men who pretend to want a couple but will put up with a man being there to get sex. "
as I said earlier, most couples wont want what a single nsa female can give me.I can be a jollyjaper with the male half, enjoy spitroasting his partner with him etc...when it comes down to it, I dont get that much from the entirety of the meet in most cases, because my purpose has effectively been there just to shag, possibly with bits of small talk in between.
Sometimes there is also a level of immediacy on the male halves part...he doesnt want to see his partner being kissed on the neck ,being licked out etc etc...all he wants to see is his partner with a cock in her with cum in her or over.
The above I can get much more easily even with an NSA solo 1on1 meet with a female(I prefer all niters)....and I dont have to sleep on the couch. |
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"OMG! This is the BEST thread ever! This proves our long standing theory, that the majority of men who join a swingers site actually don't give a toss about swinging! I even started to think I was wrong in my theory went I posted a thread a few weeks asking why men like to play with couples, to which I was pleasantly surprised by the positive response single men had towards couple play. The reason we have rejected so many hot guys, is because we get a feeling that they don't actually want to play with a couple. They only say they do because want to fuck me (or probably any female for that matter) and will just tolerate hubby being there! Well that's all well and good, but what is the point? Why waste time messaging couples? If you don't want the husband there then just stick to single females. Probably gonna get crusefied now
Traditional swinging would involve couples swapping partners. Seeing as your approach isn't that, why are you bemoaning men who don't do what you think 'swinging' is?
We're not really into traditional swinging. We're more into the threesome and group sex aspect of swinging. I'm bemoaning men who use us as a couple when they only want to fuck a female. Men who pretend to want a couple but will put up with a man being there to get sex. It is more the question that is being asked. If i was asked either a average looking single fem or a gorgeous wife of a couple id pick the lady in the couple because i'm shallow.
So you want to have sex with the best looking female, and if that means another man being there then so be it? This is what husbands don't like. Whether they are active players or voyeurs, they don't want to feel surplus. Finding a single man who enjoys the dynamics of the trio, whether straight or bi, is very hard. I do believe most men are not too bothered about the lady's partner being there. In which case what is the point of a threeesome? May as well be a twosome. "
No it's just the question that was asked really. More potential with a single fem that's all. Had quite a lot of threesomes etc enjoy seeing the lady pleasured and having mutual respect with their partner. |
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"OMG! This is the BEST thread ever! This proves our long standing theory, that the majority of men who join a swingers site actually don't give a toss about swinging! I even started to think I was wrong in my theory went I posted a thread a few weeks asking why men like to play with couples, to which I was pleasantly surprised by the positive response single men had towards couple play. The reason we have rejected so many hot guys, is because we get a feeling that they don't actually want to play with a couple. They only say they do because want to fuck me (or probably any female for that matter) and will just tolerate hubby being there! Well that's all well and good, but what is the point? Why waste time messaging couples? If you don't want the husband there then just stick to single females. Probably gonna get crusefied now
Traditional swinging would involve couples swapping partners. Seeing as your approach isn't that, why are you bemoaning men who don't do what you think 'swinging' is?
We're not really into traditional swinging. We're more into the threesome and group sex aspect of swinging. I'm bemoaning men who use us as a couple when they only want to fuck a female. Men who pretend to want a couple but will put up with a man being there to get sex. It is more the question that is being asked. If i was asked either a average looking single fem or a gorgeous wife of a couple id pick the lady in the couple because i'm shallow.
So you want to have sex with the best looking female, and if that means another man being there then so be it? This is what husbands don't like. Whether they are active players or voyeurs, they don't want to feel surplus. Finding a single man who enjoys the dynamics of the trio, whether straight or bi, is very hard. I do believe most men are not too bothered about the lady's partner being there. In which case what is the point of a threeesome? May as well be a twosome.
I applaud you for thinking of your man and putting the relationship ship first. So many women these days would consult their man last. "
Well although it's me that usually does the forums, it's him that is in charge of finding me men (although we don't look any more). And this was one of the first things he noticed three and a half years ago. If he is a spare part in the equation it doesn't happen. |
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By *eliWoman
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"OMG! This is the BEST thread ever! This proves our long standing theory, that the majority of men who join a swingers site actually don't give a toss about swinging! I even started to think I was wrong in my theory went I posted a thread a few weeks asking why men like to play with couples, to which I was pleasantly surprised by the positive response single men had towards couple play. The reason we have rejected so many hot guys, is because we get a feeling that they don't actually want to play with a couple. They only say they do because want to fuck me (or probably any female for that matter) and will just tolerate hubby being there! Well that's all well and good, but what is the point? Why waste time messaging couples? If you don't want the husband there then just stick to single females. Probably gonna get crusefied now
We do stick to single females. But apparently we don't give a toss about swinging if we do that can't win sometimes "
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"OMG! This is the BEST thread ever! This proves our long standing theory, that the majority of men who join a swingers site actually don't give a toss about swinging! I even started to think I was wrong in my theory went I posted a thread a few weeks asking why men like to play with couples, to which I was pleasantly surprised by the positive response single men had towards couple play. The reason we have rejected so many hot guys, is because we get a feeling that they don't actually want to play with a couple. They only say they do because want to fuck me (or probably any female for that matter) and will just tolerate hubby being there! Well that's all well and good, but what is the point? Why waste time messaging couples? If you don't want the husband there then just stick to single females. Probably gonna get crusefied now
Traditional swinging would involve couples swapping partners. Seeing as your approach isn't that, why are you bemoaning men who don't do what you think 'swinging' is?
We're not really into traditional swinging. We're more into the threesome and group sex aspect of swinging. I'm bemoaning men who use us as a couple when they only want to fuck a female. Men who pretend to want a couple but will put up with a man being there to get sex. It is more the question that is being asked. If i was asked either a average looking single fem or a gorgeous wife of a couple id pick the lady in the couple because i'm shallow.
So you want to have sex with the best looking female, and if that means another man being there then so be it? This is what husbands don't like. Whether they are active players or voyeurs, they don't want to feel surplus. Finding a single man who enjoys the dynamics of the trio, whether straight or bi, is very hard. I do believe most men are not too bothered about the lady's partner being there. In which case what is the point of a threeesome? May as well be a twosome. No it's just the question that was asked really. More potential with a single fem that's all. Had quite a lot of threesomes etc enjoy seeing the lady pleasured and having mutual respect with their partner. "
It's all part of the rich diversity of sexual liberation. Personally I can't see what there is more potential for from me, if I were on my own or part of a couple. I do both, and both experiences are different but equally rewarding for all concerned. |
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"OMG! This is the BEST thread ever! This proves our long standing theory, that the majority of men who join a swingers site actually don't give a toss about swinging! I even started to think I was wrong in my theory went I posted a thread a few weeks asking why men like to play with couples, to which I was pleasantly surprised by the positive response single men had towards couple play. The reason we have rejected so many hot guys, is because we get a feeling that they don't actually want to play with a couple. They only say they do because want to fuck me (or probably any female for that matter) and will just tolerate hubby being there! Well that's all well and good, but what is the point? Why waste time messaging couples? If you don't want the husband there then just stick to single females. Probably gonna get crusefied now
Traditional swinging would involve couples swapping partners. Seeing as your approach isn't that, why are you bemoaning men who don't do what you think 'swinging' is?
We're not really into traditional swinging. We're more into the threesome and group sex aspect of swinging. I'm bemoaning men who use us as a couple when they only want to fuck a female. Men who pretend to want a couple but will put up with a man being there to get sex. It is more the question that is being asked. If i was asked either a average looking single fem or a gorgeous wife of a couple id pick the lady in the couple because i'm shallow.
So you want to have sex with the best looking female, and if that means another man being there then so be it? This is what husbands don't like. Whether they are active players or voyeurs, they don't want to feel surplus. Finding a single man who enjoys the dynamics of the trio, whether straight or bi, is very hard. I do believe most men are not too bothered about the lady's partner being there. In which case what is the point of a threeesome? May as well be a twosome. No it's just the question that was asked really. More potential with a single fem that's all. Had quite a lot of threesomes etc enjoy seeing the lady pleasured and having mutual respect with their partner.
It's all part of the rich diversity of sexual liberation. Personally I can't see what there is more potential for from me, if I were on my own or part of a couple. I do both, and both experiences are different but equally rewarding for all concerned. "
Potential with single fems to be possible fb's and club partners etc even become a couple. That is not gonna happen with a couple your just limited in potential. So you give me a choice hot single fem or hot lady in a couple, single fem wins everytime. |
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"OMG! This is the BEST thread ever! This proves our long standing theory, that the majority of men who join a swingers site actually don't give a toss about swinging! I even started to think I was wrong in my theory went I posted a thread a few weeks asking why men like to play with couples, to which I was pleasantly surprised by the positive response single men had towards couple play. The reason we have rejected so many hot guys, is because we get a feeling that they don't actually want to play with a couple. They only say they do because want to fuck me (or probably any female for that matter) and will just tolerate hubby being there! Well that's all well and good, but what is the point? Why waste time messaging couples? If you don't want the husband there then just stick to single females. Probably gonna get crusefied now
Traditional swinging would involve couples swapping partners. Seeing as your approach isn't that, why are you bemoaning men who don't do what you think 'swinging' is?
We're not really into traditional swinging. We're more into the threesome and group sex aspect of swinging. I'm bemoaning men who use us as a couple when they only want to fuck a female. Men who pretend to want a couple but will put up with a man being there to get sex. It is more the question that is being asked. If i was asked either a average looking single fem or a gorgeous wife of a couple id pick the lady in the couple because i'm shallow.
So you want to have sex with the best looking female, and if that means another man being there then so be it? This is what husbands don't like. Whether they are active players or voyeurs, they don't want to feel surplus. Finding a single man who enjoys the dynamics of the trio, whether straight or bi, is very hard. I do believe most men are not too bothered about the lady's partner being there. In which case what is the point of a threeesome? May as well be a twosome. No it's just the question that was asked really. More potential with a single fem that's all. Had quite a lot of threesomes etc enjoy seeing the lady pleasured and having mutual respect with their partner.
It's all part of the rich diversity of sexual liberation. Personally I can't see what there is more potential for from me, if I were on my own or part of a couple. I do both, and both experiences are different but equally rewarding for all concerned. Potential with single fems to be possible fb's and club partners etc even become a couple. That is not gonna happen with a couple your just limited in potential. So you give me a choice hot single fem or hot lady in a couple, single fem wins everytime."
Sure if you are looking for a regular playmate, that makes perfect sense |
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"OMG! This is the BEST thread ever! This proves our long standing theory, that the majority of men who join a swingers site actually don't give a toss about swinging! I even started to think I was wrong in my theory went I posted a thread a few weeks asking why men like to play with couples, to which I was pleasantly surprised by the positive response single men had towards couple play. The reason we have rejected so many hot guys, is because we get a feeling that they don't actually want to play with a couple. They only say they do because want to fuck me (or probably any female for that matter) and will just tolerate hubby being there! Well that's all well and good, but what is the point? Why waste time messaging couples? If you don't want the husband there then just stick to single females. Probably gonna get crusefied now
Traditional swinging would involve couples swapping partners. Seeing as your approach isn't that, why are you bemoaning men who don't do what you think 'swinging' is?
We're not really into traditional swinging. We're more into the threesome and group sex aspect of swinging. I'm bemoaning men who use us as a couple when they only want to fuck a female. Men who pretend to want a couple but will put up with a man being there to get sex. It is more the question that is being asked. If i was asked either a average looking single fem or a gorgeous wife of a couple id pick the lady in the couple because i'm shallow.
So you want to have sex with the best looking female, and if that means another man being there then so be it? This is what husbands don't like. Whether they are active players or voyeurs, they don't want to feel surplus. Finding a single man who enjoys the dynamics of the trio, whether straight or bi, is very hard. I do believe most men are not too bothered about the lady's partner being there. In which case what is the point of a threeesome? May as well be a twosome. No it's just the question that was asked really. More potential with a single fem that's all. Had quite a lot of threesomes etc enjoy seeing the lady pleasured and having mutual respect with their partner.
It's all part of the rich diversity of sexual liberation. Personally I can't see what there is more potential for from me, if I were on my own or part of a couple. I do both, and both experiences are different but equally rewarding for all concerned. Potential with single fems to be possible fb's and club partners etc even become a couple. That is not gonna happen with a couple your just limited in potential. So you give me a choice hot single fem or hot lady in a couple, single fem wins everytime.
Sure if you are looking for a regular playmate, that makes perfect sense "
Not necessarily regular maybe just a few times to attend a club etc. The best form of NSA is with couples though. |
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By *eliWoman
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"OMG! This is the BEST thread ever! This proves our long standing theory, that the majority of men who join a swingers site actually don't give a toss about swinging! I even started to think I was wrong in my theory went I posted a thread a few weeks asking why men like to play with couples, to which I was pleasantly surprised by the positive response single men had towards couple play. The reason we have rejected so many hot guys, is because we get a feeling that they don't actually want to play with a couple. They only say they do because want to fuck me (or probably any female for that matter) and will just tolerate hubby being there! Well that's all well and good, but what is the point? Why waste time messaging couples? If you don't want the husband there then just stick to single females. Probably gonna get crusefied now
Traditional swinging would involve couples swapping partners. Seeing as your approach isn't that, why are you bemoaning men who don't do what you think 'swinging' is?
We're not really into traditional swinging. We're more into the threesome and group sex aspect of swinging. I'm bemoaning men who use us as a couple when they only want to fuck a female. Men who pretend to want a couple but will put up with a man being there to get sex. It is more the question that is being asked. If i was asked either a average looking single fem or a gorgeous wife of a couple id pick the lady in the couple because i'm shallow.
So you want to have sex with the best looking female, and if that means another man being there then so be it? This is what husbands don't like. Whether they are active players or voyeurs, they don't want to feel surplus. Finding a single man who enjoys the dynamics of the trio, whether straight or bi, is very hard. I do believe most men are not too bothered about the lady's partner being there. In which case what is the point of a threeesome? May as well be a twosome. No it's just the question that was asked really. More potential with a single fem that's all. Had quite a lot of threesomes etc enjoy seeing the lady pleasured and having mutual respect with their partner.
It's all part of the rich diversity of sexual liberation. Personally I can't see what there is more potential for from me, if I were on my own or part of a couple. I do both, and both experiences are different but equally rewarding for all concerned. Potential with single fems to be possible fb's and club partners etc even become a couple. That is not gonna happen with a couple your just limited in potential. So you give me a choice hot single fem or hot lady in a couple, single fem wins everytime.
Sure if you are looking for a regular playmate, that makes perfect sense Not necessarily regular maybe just a few times to attend a club etc. The best form of NSA is with couples though. "
Which is what she'd wanted to hear. Lukewarm. |
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"OMG! This is the BEST thread ever! This proves our long standing theory, that the majority of men who join a swingers site actually don't give a toss about swinging! I even started to think I was wrong in my theory went I posted a thread a few weeks asking why men like to play with couples, to which I was pleasantly surprised by the positive response single men had towards couple play. The reason we have rejected so many hot guys, is because we get a feeling that they don't actually want to play with a couple. They only say they do because want to fuck me (or probably any female for that matter) and will just tolerate hubby being there! Well that's all well and good, but what is the point? Why waste time messaging couples? If you don't want the husband there then just stick to single females. Probably gonna get crusefied now
We do stick to single females. But apparently we don't give a toss about swinging if we do that can't win sometimes "
I've no idea if you personally are interested in swinging. Your profile states that you are looking for only single women, so im guessing you are just looking for one-to-one hookups. And I have no issue with that, because you are not misleading anyone. It's the guys that are dishonest and pretend to be interested in a couple when they really have no interest that I have an issue with. And that sadly is rather a lot. |
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"OMG! This is the BEST thread ever! This proves our long standing theory, that the majority of men who join a swingers site actually don't give a toss about swinging! I even started to think I was wrong in my theory went I posted a thread a few weeks asking why men like to play with couples, to which I was pleasantly surprised by the positive response single men had towards couple play. The reason we have rejected so many hot guys, is because we get a feeling that they don't actually want to play with a couple. They only say they do because want to fuck me (or probably any female for that matter) and will just tolerate hubby being there! Well that's all well and good, but what is the point? Why waste time messaging couples? If you don't want the husband there then just stick to single females. Probably gonna get crusefied now
Traditional swinging would involve couples swapping partners. Seeing as your approach isn't that, why are you bemoaning men who don't do what you think 'swinging' is?
We're not really into traditional swinging. We're more into the threesome and group sex aspect of swinging. I'm bemoaning men who use us as a couple when they only want to fuck a female. Men who pretend to want a couple but will put up with a man being there to get sex. It is more the question that is being asked. If i was asked either a average looking single fem or a gorgeous wife of a couple id pick the lady in the couple because i'm shallow.
So you want to have sex with the best looking female, and if that means another man being there then so be it? This is what husbands don't like. Whether they are active players or voyeurs, they don't want to feel surplus. Finding a single man who enjoys the dynamics of the trio, whether straight or bi, is very hard. I do believe most men are not too bothered about the lady's partner being there. In which case what is the point of a threeesome? May as well be a twosome. No it's just the question that was asked really. More potential with a single fem that's all. Had quite a lot of threesomes etc enjoy seeing the lady pleasured and having mutual respect with their partner.
It's all part of the rich diversity of sexual liberation. Personally I can't see what there is more potential for from me, if I were on my own or part of a couple. I do both, and both experiences are different but equally rewarding for all concerned. Potential with single fems to be possible fb's and club partners etc even become a couple. That is not gonna happen with a couple your just limited in potential. So you give me a choice hot single fem or hot lady in a couple, single fem wins everytime.
Sure if you are looking for a regular playmate, that makes perfect sense Not necessarily regular maybe just a few times to attend a club etc. The best form of NSA is with couples though.
Which is what she'd wanted to hear. Lukewarm. "
Don't particular want to hear anything. Its lovely when there are guys who LOVE the threesome to experience. I'm certainly always pleased to hear that. |
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By *eliWoman
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"OMG! This is the BEST thread ever! This proves our long standing theory, that the majority of men who join a swingers site actually don't give a toss about swinging!
Don't particular want to hear anything. Its lovely when there are guys who LOVE the threesome to experience. I'm certainly always pleased to hear that. "
Apologies read, not hear. We get it, single men who prefer single fems don't give a toss about swinging as you yourself typed. Personally, I'm glad of the single men who meet single fems even though it's not swinging; there are times when I don't want to play with a couple and would much rather have a single man.
Apologies to the OP also. This thread has started to derail slightly. |
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"People seem to get too caught up in the ethics and morals of this swinging at times. If you have fun what difference does it really make."
It doesn't make any difference, as we get what we want on the swing scene. Though I'm sure people would wonder why I had an outburst tonight, if it doesn't really matter. It has historically been one of our challenges (more for my husband than me) finding the guys who genuinely like threesomes. And I'm always curious about sexual psychology, which is why what think about these things. |
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"People seem to get too caught up in the ethics and morals of this swinging at times. If you have fun what difference does it really make.
It doesn't make any difference, as we get what we want on the swing scene. Though I'm sure people would wonder why I had an outburst tonight, if it doesn't really matter. It has historically been one of our challenges (more for my husband than me) finding the guys who genuinely like threesomes. And I'm always curious about sexual psychology, which is why what think about these things. "
You will never truly know what the guys are thinking though, people lie and bullshit to get what they want all the time. |
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"OMG! This is the BEST thread ever! This proves our long standing theory, that the majority of men who join a swingers site actually don't give a toss about swinging!
Don't particular want to hear anything. Its lovely when there are guys who LOVE the threesome to experience. I'm certainly always pleased to hear that.
Apologies read, not hear. We get it, single men who prefer single fems don't give a toss about swinging as you yourself typed. Personally, I'm glad of the single men who meet single fems even though it's not swinging; there are times when I don't want to play with a couple and would much rather have a single man.
Apologies to the OP also. This thread has started to derail slightly. "
I apologise for the sweeping statement, which I am usually very careful not to make. I certainly was not referring to all single men, and I certainly wasn't complaining about those men who prefer single women, and neither do I have any objection to those who like variety. But I did explain quite succinctly later that my objection is those men who say there are looking for threesomes, when they couldn't give a toss whether the man is there or not. I apologise for using the word 'majority', though from our experience I do believe it's a high number. |
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I think a couple is very nice, because you feel privileged to be invited to share in their intimate moments, the things that you fantasise that they might be doing behind their net curtains |
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"I'm going to watch this thread ... see what hotties are on it haha 
By that you mean; tall, tatts, muscles, handsome and under the age of 45 hotties? Well, I scored on the 'male' aspect anyway "
lol can be hot at any age my friend ... |
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"I'm going to watch this thread ... see what hotties are on it haha
By that you mean; tall, tatts, muscles, handsome and under the age of 45 hotties? Well, I scored on the 'male' aspect anyway
lol can be hot at any age my friend ... "
Nice one! So; lifts for my shoes, marker pen for some body art, and bag for my head. Pick you up around 6pm? |
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Seriously I do prefer a Single Female enjoy the intimacy that you dont really get with couples tho i dont rule out a naughty threesome with a married couple x 
