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Being honest isnt getting me anywhere
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In nowadays culture being honest is sometimes confused with not giving a shit about others.
And art of seduction and stuff are considering dishonest.
"I am honest, I am horny. Do you want me to lie"?
Well yeah. If your being honest makes you that boring, I'd like to try some lies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being honest on here isnt getting me anywhere should i change ladies what do you think "
You mean to change by starting to lie?
Your being pretty truthful already, I don't think you manage it somehow.
Don't lie. And if you do, don't tell anyone it doesn't work like that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Seems a lot of blokes lie about being single or that they live local
I would say stay honest, liars usually get found out and then any trust you may build is gone ." i know your right but its frustrating when it seems others get more interest from falseness |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What are you being honest about? not being single and the fact that i move around with my job x your pics are very nice by the way"
You don't say you're not single in your profile.
And thanks |
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"Seems a lot of blokes lie about being single or that they live local
I would say stay honest, liars usually get found out and then any trust you may build is gone . i know your right but its frustrating when it seems others get more interest from falseness"
I get what u mean,but if you are honest about being attached people get the choice as to if they want to get involved.Its horrible when you are deceived op,happened to me when I had my single profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seems a lot of blokes lie about being single or that they live local
I would say stay honest, liars usually get found out and then any trust you may build is gone . i know your right but its frustrating when it seems others get more interest from falseness"
I don't think there's much correlation between honesty and meets on here.
Be honest and be yourself. Especially as you've just put a thread up in the forums stating you may start lieing |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you think that telling tales will get you more meets? " well ive heard off some women how they have been with guys then found out they been lieing i would want to do that it is hard to find ladies who are ok with my situation tho
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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Imo you need to touch on the fact that you're not single in your profile. I would also wonder how you can accommodate given your circumstances. Do you mean hotels? I'd been chatting away to a 'single' guy before, had a social and that's when his marital status and the fact he could only acom in hotels. It wasted both our time.
At least if you're up front from the onset people can make their choice before it gets to that stage! |
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"Imo you need to touch on the fact that you're not single in your profile. I would also wonder how you can accommodate given your circumstances. Do you mean hotels? I'd been chatting away to a 'single' guy before, had a social and that's when his marital status and the fact he could only acom in hotels. It wasted both our time.
At least if you're up front from the onset people can make their choice before it gets to that stage!" Yes at least he,s at the halfway stage by makeing this post and asking for advice what will never change thou is the act of adultry heavy petting etc..?? if its not a open relationship and the law courts Involved if it all go,s pear shaped.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What are you being honest about? not being single and the fact that i move around with my job x your pics are very nice by the way"
Maybe people just aren't into the betrayal you're causing your partner? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Honesty, patience, politeness and classy photographs are the best way to get a meet.
Being patient is very important, and don't be too persistent. " thanx for your input its appreciated |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being honest on here isnt getting me anywhere should i change ladies what do you think " Well there is not many honest people on here, if you can't beat them join them. |
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