How long would you say it took from the moment you decided to dive into 'the lifestyle' to actually going full swing? Did you know you would go full swing straight away or was it a gradual process where you gently edged past set boundaries before resetting them?
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"How long would you say it took from the moment you decided to dive into 'the lifestyle' to actually going full swing? Did you know you would go full swing straight away or was it a gradual process where you gently edged past set boundaries before resetting them?
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we were a soft swing cpl when myself and husband started as I know once we went full there was no going back...so took our time so we were comfortable with what we were doing |
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Ours just happened!
It waseems maybe a month after we joined the lifestyle and was our second meet.
We went from girl on girl with our first meet to full swap with our second.
We had originally gone to a club to socialise and met a couple that we really got on with! It just flowed.
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over a year ago
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Our first experience was 4 years ago in Gran Canaria, we dove straight in head first, with no arm bands lol. Our boundaries are still changing, we chat regulary to make sure we are both still on the same page, so to speak. That's how we continue to keep it fun and successful xxxxx  Suzi |
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We were jumped on at our very first visit to a club and had a soft swap. Afterwards, when we chatted, we both felt it was quite tame and that we were totally happy to full swap.
After several full swaps we've now decided we prefer to start with a soft swap first and build up to it. This isn't anything to do with boundaries, quite the opposite. We find full swap on a first meet just lacks something... a sense of connection... a sense of desire... a sense of anticipation... something like that. It's all about finding what works for you  |
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Immediately. We cannot see the point of being intimate with someone and not having sex. If we like you enough for us to get naked with you we want to have sex. |
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"We were jumped on at our very first visit to a club and had a soft swap. Afterwards, when we chatted, we both felt it was quite tame and that we were totally happy to full swap.
After several full swaps we've now decided we prefer to start with a soft swap first and build up to it. This isn't anything to do with boundaries, quite the opposite. We find full swap on a first meet just lacks something... a sense of connection... a sense of desire... a sense of anticipation... something like that. It's all about finding what works for you "
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