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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Rejection is a hard thing especially when you look in the mirror and see perfection!! It really is a hard thing to understand when someone says no sorry you're not my type, The male ego has an amazing ability to disguise the truth from us guys sometimes!! But what I can't understand is how does a simple NO turn some of us in to an aggressive self obsessed arsehole?? I have chatted to quite a few women on here, Who have received extremely disturbing messages from guys they have politely declined. I'm curious to see what everyone elses view point is on this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It isn't gender specific, just seems it's more men down to ratios I suppose.
Though I do chuckle when I'm amazing and wonderful in one message and a hideous fat pig worthy of all levels of violent sexual degradation after a polite nope. Bless 'em. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I usually get a thanks for replying message back when I've said I'm not interested.
I very, very rarely get an abusive message back.
Maybe they're just relieved I said no |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It isn't gender specific, just seems it's more men down to ratios I suppose.
Though I do chuckle when I'm amazing and wonderful in one message and a hideous fat pig worthy of all levels of violent sexual degradation after a polite nope. Bless 'em. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Though I do chuckle when I'm amazing and wonderful in one message and a hideous fat pig worthy of all levels of violent sexual degradation after a polite nope. Bless 'em. "
That sudden change from generic 'genuine horny male looking for genuine meets' to 'God of humiliation'  |
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"Though I do chuckle when I'm amazing and wonderful in one message and a hideous fat pig worthy of all levels of violent sexual degradation after a polite nope. Bless 'em.
That sudden change from generic 'genuine horny male looking for genuine meets' to 'God of humiliation' "
we've all had them! I had one bloke say that he felt sorry for my husband after I politely turned him down!  |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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I always see it as a childish attempt to break something because you're not allowed to play with it and that way no-one else can either. I don't get such abuse very often but when I do I tend to find it pitiable rather than upsetting and also a teeny bit funny (but then I have a dark streak of humour). Oh, and it's not just men who do it.
"Fuck you, I didn't like you anyway! I'm taking my balls and going home!"
...is what I translate such messages to in my head anyway. The response to which would be "Aw, diddums" if I could be bothered. |
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"Rejection is a hard thing especially when you look in the mirror and see perfection!! It really is a hard thing to understand when someone says no sorry you're not my type, The male ego has an amazing ability to disguise the truth from us guys sometimes!! But what I can't understand is how does a simple NO turn some of us in to an aggressive self obsessed arsehole?? I have chatted to quite a few women on here, Who have received extremely disturbing messages from guys they have politely declined. I'm curious to see what everyone elses view point is on this."
For a good many, plain and simple genuine mental health issues centering around rejection and self-esteem to varying degrees, all rather sad really as such difficulties are conditioned into such people at an early age.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's not just guys, I have had the same rude messages from ladies/couples I have politely turned down!  "
Same here, the worse message i have had for a simple no thanks was from a couple |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Though I do chuckle when I'm amazing and wonderful in one message and a hideous fat pig worthy of all levels of violent sexual degradation after a polite nope. Bless 'em.
That sudden change from generic 'genuine horny male looking for genuine meets' to 'God of humiliation'
we've all had them! I had one bloke say that he felt sorry for my husband after I politely turned him down! "
I love messages like this, it's like a red rag to a bull. If I am polite enough to say "no thank you" and anyone comes back with abuse then it's open house for me and I toy with them (rather like a cat playing with its prey) until I get bored...then they're blocked and I inform my closest female fab friends of the presence of a twit!!  |
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