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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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when you meet a couple and 1 party is more willing than the other how do you react ?
there must be some couples out there where 1 party is going along with it for fear of losing the other or wants to be there so they have some 'control' over their partners sexual antics
has anyone been in that situation with a couple and if so, how do you react to it ?
i must imagine it is extremely awkward
i think i'd pick up on 1 parties sadness and call it quits but that's just a gut instinct
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd apologise and run!!
If its a case of not everyone being relaxed and entirely happy its a no go.
The very last thing I want is someone giving me daggers during a meet! It's supposed to be fun...
And if I sensed an atmostphere then again I would make my excuses and leave.. |
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"when you meet a couple and 1 party is more willing than the other how do you react ?
there must be some couples out there where 1 party is going along with it for fear of losing the other or wants to be there so they have some 'control' over their partners sexual antics
I always sit and chat before any fun, and I explain that that all parties must feel comfortable or else no play. Only once, it's happened where I didn't feel comfortable, so nothing happened and we parted with no hard feelings
has anyone been in that situation with a couple and if so, how do you react to it ?
i must imagine it is extremely awkward
i think i'd pick up on 1 parties sadness and call it quits but that's just a gut instinct
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i used to have a man i was friends with emailing me some very nice pics of is wife ( open leg pics on bed topless on hols etc )and talking all time about 3 some there wanted us to have one day i phoned him about something and got his wife i made a joke about when this 3 some was goin to happen, she new nothing of it and nothing of pics he had sent me ,i bet he got nothing for a long time |
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By *rs Sugar Mr SpiceCouple
over a year ago
We are about 15 mins outa Pontypridd and we do go to Crawley in west sussex 2-3 times a year so get in touch !! |
All parties have to be ready willing and able and deffo not pushed into any situation ,this is suppose to be fun for all not just for 1 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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the reason i opened the forum was i have a male friend who's wife is forcing him arm to try swinging.
he's isn't keen on the idea of his wife with another man (or his wife seeing him with another woman for that matter)
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By (user no longer on site)
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We had this happen at a daytime party where the lady appeared a little upset. Dave being the caring type went over to see if she was ok and on asking he found it was because she hadn't been aware they were coming to a party as hubby had done it as a surprise. The reason she was so shy was that being unaware of coming she didn't have matching underwear. After going to a more private area to undress she turned into a complete vamp. Just goes to show that it just takes a bit of talking to see what any issues may be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I had a similar problem where a couple approached me regarding BDSM as she had come out of a 15 year marriage to the missionary man and this was her new partner...
We arranged to meet at a local pub for a drink and chat first...
After 5 mins I completely went cold on the guy and concentrated my conversation with the lady....turns out she was unaware of a lot of what hubby had told me and wasn't comfortable with a lot of his plans....
She did however like the sound of cuckolding....and we arranged a 40th birthday present for her......but thats another story |
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By (user no longer on site)
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this has happened to us on a social meet with a cpl...... she obviously didnt want to be ther so after about 30 mins i apolgised to her and got up and walked out fo the pub...... followed quickly by my hubby. the guy came running after us and said we will be in touch for a meet.... i turned around and said dont bother, and best you now go inside and apologise to your wife  |
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