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A right big turn on  knowing what shes out doing but you can't see. Then when she comes home stinking of sex and with a wet pussy (Wether it's the same night or next morning) you just wana get in there yourself  |
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"A right big turn on knowing what shes out doing but you can't see. Then when she comes home stinking of sex and with a wet pussy (Wether it's the same night or next morning) you just wana get in there yourself "
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Totally into this. I openly encourage her, even telling her what to wear.
So horny watching her at bars from afar. Seeing guys chat to her buying her drinks.
She loves the attention as well, turns her on. |
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Hotwifing for me is something I just am unable to articulate..to many things involved...depends on if it's random and hubby doesn't find out until after..hubby sets it up with no contact from the wife..they both out and spot you...getting horny just thinking about hotwife scenarios |
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"A right big turn on knowing what shes out doing but you can't see. Then when she comes home stinking of sex and with a wet pussy (Wether it's the same night or next morning) you just wana get in there yourself
This The exhilaration and anticipation of her getting ready to go out, the emotional roller coaster of whilst she's out and then the intense excitement of the Reconnection "
Exactly Watching her get all hotted up but your not going anywhere, then she's gone..for a good night with someone else lol
Then on return knowing she's had cock is hot
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We started swinging as a couple and lately l have really enjoyed my time being a hot wife. Personally l prefer regular meets that let the situation develop, hubby enjoys it too and it really adds to our sex life. xx |
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I love being a Hotwife but unfortunately there's not been anybody to tickle my fancy in months now! Ideally need somebody local that I can see regularly. Hubby loves hearing about what I get up to. Especially if I come straight home and sit on his face! |
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I enjoy meeting hotwife couples. An interesting and different meet to the cuckold couples.
For me the thrill is meeting another mans wife, knowing she is with me for the thrill and for the additional pleasure that brings her and her hubby. Love playing my part in the tri-party pleasure!
Also fun to see wives dress up or do things with me they wouldn't do with hubby.
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"A right big turn on knowing what shes out doing but you can't see. Then when she comes home stinking of sex and with a wet pussy (Wether it's the same night or next morning) you just wana get in there yourself "
I've been encouraging my gf to do the same. Although sadly not many nights out to try it. I have basically given her a pass on whatever she wants to do, even secret lovers and affairs as long as I get to know about some of the men she meets. Not started yet but hoping soon. |
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"A right big turn on knowing what shes out doing but you can't see. Then when she comes home stinking of sex and with a wet pussy (Wether it's the same night or next morning) you just wana get in there yourself
I've been encouraging my gf to do the same. Although sadly not many nights out to try it. I have basically given her a pass on whatever she wants to do, even secret lovers and affairs as long as I get to know about some of the men she meets. Not started yet but hoping soon."
Great idea! I did this with a previous GF who I encouraged to have this freedom. PM me if you want to know more, happy to let you know what worked in that situation. |
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I think it is very niche not many men want to to be taking out somebody's wife for dinner etc. Just fucking them is different this seems a whole other level of intimacy which some think is for the husband or bf only. This seems mire likely to create emotions. What else is in it for the guy who would be taking the wife or gf out except for sex? |
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"A right big turn on knowing what shes out doing but you can't see. Then when she comes home stinking of sex and with a wet pussy (Wether it's the same night or next morning) you just wana get in there yourself
I've been encouraging my gf to do the same. Although sadly not many nights out to try it. I have basically given her a pass on whatever she wants to do, even secret lovers and affairs as long as I get to know about some of the men she meets. Not started yet but hoping soon."
I don't encourage her I let her. She's also on a dating site see if she can find a regular (as you can see from my other post we had a 3 way for about a year). It's all good fun. ASLONG AS theres no lies or secrecy and I know where she is. |
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"I think it is very niche not many men want to to be taking out somebody's wife for dinner etc. Just fucking them is different this seems a whole other level of intimacy which some think is for the husband or bf only. This seems mire likely to create emotions. What else is in it for the guy who would be taking the wife or gf out except for sex?"
Well he could always try to steal her away |
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"I love being a Hotwife but unfortunately there's not been anybody to tickle my fancy in months now! Ideally need somebody local that I can see regularly. Hubby loves hearing about what I get up to. Especially if I come straight home and sit on his face!"
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"I love being a Hotwife but unfortunately there's not been anybody to tickle my fancy in months now! Ideally need somebody local that I can see regularly. Hubby loves hearing about what I get up to. Especially if I come straight home and sit on his face!
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"I think it is very niche not many men want to to be taking out somebody's wife for dinner etc. Just fucking them is different this seems a whole other level of intimacy which some think is for the husband or bf only. This seems mire likely to create emotions. What else is in it for the guy who would be taking the wife or gf out except for sex?"
I'd class myself as being among the guys who enjoy wining and dining another guys wife. A movie or a play etc. Doing EVERYTHING he should do just better, with finesse and the advantages of being a novel experience for her in that it doesn't happen everday as well as the bonus that comes with being a BBC  |
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"I think it is very niche not many men want to to be taking out somebody's wife for dinner etc. Just fucking them is different this seems a whole other level of intimacy which some think is for the husband or bf only. This seems mire likely to create emotions. What else is in it for the guy who would be taking the wife or gf out except for sex?
I'd class myself as being among the guys who enjoy wining and dining another guys wife. A movie or a play etc. Doing EVERYTHING he should do just better, with finesse and the advantages of being a novel experience for her in that it doesn't happen everday as well as the bonus that comes with being a BBC "
 wining and dining someone's wife
That's like putting new brakes and changing the oil on a rental car.. |
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Indeed but since I actually enjoy cuckolding I'm in it for the long term anyway so its more like a lease than a rental.
The psychological dynamics of the entire process work for me e.g. the anguish the hubby feels wondering what the wife's feeling in his absence or in his presence, the inadequacy he feels when sees the smile on her face upon receiving a bunch of flowers I sent. A bunch of flowers among other things that leads her to totally submit her body and mind to me later that evening in ways she wouldn't for him.
Its chess really... Mentally rewarding  |
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"Indeed but since I actually enjoy cuckolding I'm in it for the long term anyway so its more like a lease than a rental.
The psychological dynamics of the entire process work for me e.g. the anguish the hubby feels wondering what the wife's feeling in his absence or in his presence, the inadequacy he feels when sees the smile on her face upon receiving a bunch of flowers I sent. A bunch of flowers among other things that leads her to totally submit her body and mind to me later that evening in ways she wouldn't for him.
Its chess really... Mentally rewarding "
Wow I never looked at it that ........ My biggest problem with this scenario was finding time to date and cultivate my own relationships...
How do you find time to date single women and hot wives? |
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"I think it is very niche not many men want to to be taking out somebody's wife for dinner etc. Just fucking them is different this seems a whole other level of intimacy which some think is for the husband or bf only. This seems mire likely to create emotions. What else is in it for the guy who would be taking the wife or gf out except for sex?
I'd class myself as being among the guys who enjoy wining and dining another guys wife. A movie or a play etc. Doing EVERYTHING he should do just better, with finesse and the advantages of being a novel experience for her in that it doesn't happen everday as well as the bonus that comes with being a BBC
wining and dining someone's wife
That's like putting new brakes and changing the oil on a rental car.. "
that made me laugh. I love the analogies you come up with. But to think of myself as a rental car lol. I think if a man has dates someone else's wife, the advantage to that man is that he can enjoy all the benefits of a date, but without the expectations for more. If a man dates a single lady he will have to make time to see her and to phone her and he won't be allowed to see anybody else. Those wont take place with a married lady. Everybody is a winner. And that's without going into the psychological of the experience. |
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"Indeed but since I actually enjoy cuckolding I'm in it for the long term anyway so its more like a lease than a rental.
The psychological dynamics of the entire process work for me e.g. the anguish the hubby feels wondering what the wife's feeling in his absence or in his presence, the inadequacy he feels when sees the smile on her face upon receiving a bunch of flowers I sent. A bunch of flowers among other things that leads her to totally submit her body and mind to me later that evening in ways she wouldn't for him.
Its chess really... Mentally rewarding
Wow I never looked at it that ........ My biggest problem with this scenario was finding time to date and cultivate my own relationships...
How do you find time to date single women and hot wives?"
There is ample time to date other women because a married couple won't put any demands on the man's time. Our long term playmate of nearly 2 years we see on average every 2 months. There was a gap once for about 6 months during which time he had a vanilla relationship and we were seeing another man. It's casual, it's drama free, there are no demands. If it happens it's great, but if life gets busy it gets put on hold.
Mrs |
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"We love it. I often go out on the pull with my cuck watching from afar. He is always in chastity while I do it which adds to my excitement. "
the whole hotwife/cuckold scenario is by far the most satisfying play around, and can be played to so many levels. Nothing better in my eyes than a hotwife dressed for her date, with cuck looking on helpless as the night begins.... |
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"I think it is very niche not many men want to to be taking out somebody's wife for dinner etc. Just fucking them is different this seems a whole other level of intimacy which some think is for the husband or bf only. This seems mire likely to create emotions. What else is in it for the guy who would be taking the wife or gf out except for sex?
I'd class myself as being among the guys who enjoy wining and dining another guys wife. A movie or a play etc. Doing EVERYTHING he should do just better, with finesse and the advantages of being a novel experience for her in that it doesn't happen everday as well as the bonus that comes with being a BBC "
I'd say I was a fucker not a dater. No way i pay for somebody's wife im too cheap! Like renting a really nice house that you wont ever own. That is arrogant to say you do better do the husbands know you think like that? |
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This is a huge turn on for me!
There is a fine boundary between hotwife grandson and cuckolding and I am yet to decide whether it is the naughtyness of a hotwife or the cuckold element that really makes me hot! |
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This only ever happened once to me and I so wish that we could repeat the experience.
We once had a local buddy for years, now moved up North to far away.
I had to go to London for a few days with work. The second night I rang the Wife as usual, chatted and she said in half an hour or so logon to (another Swinging website) using our old profile name and check the web-cams.
I did this and found our current profile active displaying a web-cam. After a few minutes my Wife came in to view, dressed only in stockings and suspenders. Shortly afterwards our buddy appeared and he proceeded to go down on the wife bringing her to a beautiful orgasm.
My wife then proceeded to give him Oral Sex. When he was big and hard she asked him to get behind her. At this point I was bursting because she was teasing the two of them by sliding the tip of his Cock around her entrance which she often did before he put on a condom.
On this occasion however, I was stunned when after several minutes of teasing, she just stared straight in to the camera and pushed her self back on to his naked cock.
She then rode him to orgasm and did this another five times throughout the evening whilst I watched on Web Cam.
I am rarely a repeater and if I do it is usually after a long time. I actually wanked myself four times in quick succession that evening.
It was start of several years of bareback fun with our buddy. Sadly he eventually moved up north and we have never had the pleasure of experiencing it since 
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"I think it is very niche not many men want to to be taking out somebody's wife for dinner etc. Just fucking them is different this seems a whole other level of intimacy which some think is for the husband or bf only. This seems mire likely to create emotions. What else is in it for the guy who would be taking the wife or gf out except for sex?
I'd class myself as being among the guys who enjoy wining and dining another guys wife. A movie or a play etc. Doing EVERYTHING he should do just better, with finesse and the advantages of being a novel experience for her in that it doesn't happen everday as well as the bonus that comes with being a BBC
wining and dining someone's wife
That's like putting new brakes and changing the oil on a rental car..
that made me laugh. I love the analogies you come up with. But to think of myself as a rental car lol. I think if a man has dates someone else's wife, the advantage to that man is that he can enjoy all the benefits of a date, but without the expectations for more. If a man dates a single lady he will have to make time to see her and to phone her and he won't be allowed to see anybody else. Those wont take place with a married lady. Everybody is a winner. And that's without going into the psychological of the experience. "
I agree - I have dated a lovely hotwife for a year or so in the past - never thought of her as a "rental car"! - we went for dinner/cinema and of course lovely sexy nights in. It was great knowing she was someone elses wife and that after she left, hubby was going to reclaim her. the whole scenario was very horny. She had a couple of lovers as well hubby! |
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"Indeed but since I actually enjoy cuckolding I'm in it for the long term anyway so its more like a lease than a rental.
The psychological dynamics of the entire process work for me e.g. the anguish the hubby feels wondering what the wife's feeling in his absence or in his presence, the inadequacy he feels when sees the smile on her face upon receiving a bunch of flowers I sent. A bunch of flowers among other things that leads her to totally submit her body and mind to me later that evening in ways she wouldn't for him.
Its chess really... Mentally rewarding
Wow I never looked at it that ........ My biggest problem with this scenario was finding time to date and cultivate my own relationships...
How do you find time to date single women and hot wives?
There is ample time to date other women because a married couple won't put any demands on the man's time. Our long term playmate of nearly 2 years we see on average every 2 months. There was a gap once for about 6 months during which time he had a vanilla relationship and we were seeing another man. It's casual, it's drama free, there are no demands. If it happens it's great, but if life gets busy it gets put on hold.
Mrs"
Well said - I have been seeing a couple for 2/3 years on/off. Meet up every 2/3 months. As you said, its drama free for all of us. I get to meet a very sexy hotwife and she gets the pleasure of putting on a show for hubby! |
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"I think it is very niche not many men want to to be taking out somebody's wife for dinner etc. Just fucking them is different this seems a whole other level of intimacy which some think is for the husband or bf only. This seems mire likely to create emotions. What else is in it for the guy who would be taking the wife or gf out except for sex?
I'd class myself as being among the guys who enjoy wining and dining another guys wife. A movie or a play etc. Doing EVERYTHING he should do just better, with finesse and the advantages of being a novel experience for her in that it doesn't happen everday as well as the bonus that comes with being a BBC
I'd say I was a fucker not a dater. No way i pay for somebody's wife im too cheap! Like renting a really nice house that you wont ever own. That is arrogant to say you do better do the husbands know you think like that? "
It's a different way of thinking. Some people will prefer to rent a nice house instead of own it and take on all the obligations that come with ownership. Same way there are some men who would rather borrow someone else's wife or girlfriend than have their own. Some men enjoy going out with a sexy woman without having to contend to having to see her every weekend and not see other women, not to mention all the dramas that a 'real' relationship gives. Yes if a man dates a married woman, he has to accept that she will never be his - but he doesn't want his own wife or girlfriend. This way he gets sex, friendship, affection, fantasy. But he maintains his freedom. He would never get that from a girlfriend or a wife. So to some men, it's worth going the extra mile to get the best of both worlds.
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"I think it is very niche not many men want to to be taking out somebody's wife for dinner etc. Just fucking them is different this seems a whole other level of intimacy which some think is for the husband or bf only. This seems mire likely to create emotions. What else is in it for the guy who would be taking the wife or gf out except for sex?
I'd class myself as being among the guys who enjoy wining and dining another guys wife. A movie or a play etc. Doing EVERYTHING he should do just better, with finesse and the advantages of being a novel experience for her in that it doesn't happen everday as well as the bonus that comes with being a BBC
I'd say I was a fucker not a dater. No way i pay for somebody's wife im too cheap! Like renting a really nice house that you wont ever own. That is arrogant to say you do better do the husbands know you think like that?
It's a different way of thinking. Some people will prefer to rent a nice house instead of own it and take on all the obligations that come with ownership. Same way there are some men who would rather borrow someone else's wife or girlfriend than have their own. Some men enjoy going out with a sexy woman without having to contend to having to see her every weekend and not see other women, not to mention all the dramas that a 'real' relationship gives. Yes if a man dates a married woman, he has to accept that she will never be his - but he doesn't want his own wife or girlfriend. This way he gets sex, friendship, affection, fantasy. But he maintains his freedom. He would never get that from a girlfriend or a wife. So to some men, it's worth going the extra mile to get the best of both worlds.
Mrs"
Have you ever had guys get clingy? I'm sure some guys have developed strong feelings for you...
I like having a drink in a hotel bar with a couple , maybe some dancing , public flirting before we go up to the room ...... but going to dinner, movies, or theater just seems like dating to me ..... Regardless of who is paying  |
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"I think it is very niche not many men want to to be taking out somebody's wife for dinner etc. Just fucking them is different this seems a whole other level of intimacy which some think is for the husband or bf only. This seems mire likely to create emotions. What else is in it for the guy who would be taking the wife or gf out except for sex?
I'd class myself as being among the guys who enjoy wining and dining another guys wife. A movie or a play etc. Doing EVERYTHING he should do just better, with finesse and the advantages of being a novel experience for her in that it doesn't happen everday as well as the bonus that comes with being a BBC
I'd say I was a fucker not a dater. No way i pay for somebody's wife im too cheap! Like renting a really nice house that you wont ever own. That is arrogant to say you do better do the husbands know you think like that?
It's a different way of thinking. Some people will prefer to rent a nice house instead of own it and take on all the obligations that come with ownership. Same way there are some men who would rather borrow someone else's wife or girlfriend than have their own. Some men enjoy going out with a sexy woman without having to contend to having to see her every weekend and not see other women, not to mention all the dramas that a 'real' relationship gives. Yes if a man dates a married woman, he has to accept that she will never be his - but he doesn't want his own wife or girlfriend. This way he gets sex, friendship, affection, fantasy. But he maintains his freedom. He would never get that from a girlfriend or a wife. So to some men, it's worth going the extra mile to get the best of both worlds.
Mrs"
The idea of nsa for me is so I don't have to pay for dinner etc or date. NSA is best with couples because of no attachment but why would I bother paying etc for a hot wife when I can just fuck another wife from a couple who aren't into it. No thrill of an affair because he knows already. I just can't see the benefit for the guy, just seens win win for husband and wife. |
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"I think it is very niche not many men want to to be taking out somebody's wife for dinner etc. Just fucking them is different this seems a whole other level of intimacy which some think is for the husband or bf only. This seems mire likely to create emotions. What else is in it for the guy who would be taking the wife or gf out except for sex?
I'd class myself as being among the guys who enjoy wining and dining another guys wife. A movie or a play etc. Doing EVERYTHING he should do just better, with finesse and the advantages of being a novel experience for her in that it doesn't happen everday as well as the bonus that comes with being a BBC
I'd say I was a fucker not a dater. No way i pay for somebody's wife im too cheap! Like renting a really nice house that you wont ever own. That is arrogant to say you do better do the husbands know you think like that?
It's a different way of thinking. Some people will prefer to rent a nice house instead of own it and take on all the obligations that come with ownership. Same way there are some men who would rather borrow someone else's wife or girlfriend than have their own. Some men enjoy going out with a sexy woman without having to contend to having to see her every weekend and not see other women, not to mention all the dramas that a 'real' relationship gives. Yes if a man dates a married woman, he has to accept that she will never be his - but he doesn't want his own wife or girlfriend. This way he gets sex, friendship, affection, fantasy. But he maintains his freedom. He would never get that from a girlfriend or a wife. So to some men, it's worth going the extra mile to get the best of both worlds.
Mrs
The idea of nsa for me is so I don't have to pay for dinner etc or date. NSA is best with couples because of no attachment but why would I bother paying etc for a hot wife when I can just fuck another wife from a couple who aren't into it. No thrill of an affair because he knows already. I just can't see the benefit for the guy, just seens win win for husband and wife. "
It's not for everyone. Most men probably join this site to get a free 'fuck and go' experience. But there are a few, who don't want a relationship, so seek out something meaningful with a Hotwife. Who pays for what is actually irrelevant. For example we often have our playmates round to our house for dinner - then it just costs them petrol. The added extras though don't remove the NSA element, because when they go home we can all do what we like. There's no obligation. As I said it's not for everyone, and some guys would prefer to stay at home and wank that have to put in the added extras. |
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"I think it is very niche not many men want to to be taking out somebody's wife for dinner etc. Just fucking them is different this seems a whole other level of intimacy which some think is for the husband or bf only. This seems mire likely to create emotions. What else is in it for the guy who would be taking the wife or gf out except for sex?
I'd class myself as being among the guys who enjoy wining and dining another guys wife. A movie or a play etc. Doing EVERYTHING he should do just better, with finesse and the advantages of being a novel experience for her in that it doesn't happen everday as well as the bonus that comes with being a BBC
I'd say I was a fucker not a dater. No way i pay for somebody's wife im too cheap! Like renting a really nice house that you wont ever own. That is arrogant to say you do better do the husbands know you think like that?
It's a different way of thinking. Some people will prefer to rent a nice house instead of own it and take on all the obligations that come with ownership. Same way there are some men who would rather borrow someone else's wife or girlfriend than have their own. Some men enjoy going out with a sexy woman without having to contend to having to see her every weekend and not see other women, not to mention all the dramas that a 'real' relationship gives. Yes if a man dates a married woman, he has to accept that she will never be his - but he doesn't want his own wife or girlfriend. This way he gets sex, friendship, affection, fantasy. But he maintains his freedom. He would never get that from a girlfriend or a wife. So to some men, it's worth going the extra mile to get the best of both worlds.
Mrs The idea of nsa for me is so I don't have to pay for dinner etc or date. NSA is best with couples because of no attachment but why would I bother paying etc for a hot wife when I can just fuck another wife from a couple who aren't into it. No thrill of an affair because he knows already. I just can't see the benefit for the guy, just seens win win for husband and wife. "
Each to his or her own.
Additionally in some hotwife/cuckold arrangements financial abuse can feature where hubby pays for absolutely everything adding to his humiliation which fuels his excitement. |
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"I think it is very niche not many men want to to be taking out somebody's wife for dinner etc. Just fucking them is different this seems a whole other level of intimacy which some think is for the husband or bf only. This seems mire likely to create emotions. What else is in it for the guy who would be taking the wife or gf out except for sex?
I'd class myself as being among the guys who enjoy wining and dining another guys wife. A movie or a play etc. Doing EVERYTHING he should do just better, with finesse and the advantages of being a novel experience for her in that it doesn't happen everday as well as the bonus that comes with being a BBC
I'd say I was a fucker not a dater. No way i pay for somebody's wife im too cheap! Like renting a really nice house that you wont ever own. That is arrogant to say you do better do the husbands know you think like that?
It's a different way of thinking. Some people will prefer to rent a nice house instead of own it and take on all the obligations that come with ownership. Same way there are some men who would rather borrow someone else's wife or girlfriend than have their own. Some men enjoy going out with a sexy woman without having to contend to having to see her every weekend and not see other women, not to mention all the dramas that a 'real' relationship gives. Yes if a man dates a married woman, he has to accept that she will never be his - but he doesn't want his own wife or girlfriend. This way he gets sex, friendship, affection, fantasy. But he maintains his freedom. He would never get that from a girlfriend or a wife. So to some men, it's worth going the extra mile to get the best of both worlds.
Mrs The idea of nsa for me is so I don't have to pay for dinner etc or date. NSA is best with couples because of no attachment but why would I bother paying etc for a hot wife when I can just fuck another wife from a couple who aren't into it. No thrill of an affair because he knows already. I just can't see the benefit for the guy, just seens win win for husband and wife.
Each to his or her own.
Additionally in some hotwife/cuckold arrangements financial abuse can feature where hubby pays for absolutely everything adding to his humiliation which fuels his excitement."
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"I think it is very niche not many men want to to be taking out somebody's wife for dinner etc. Just fucking them is different this seems a whole other level of intimacy which some think is for the husband or bf only. This seems mire likely to create emotions. What else is in it for the guy who would be taking the wife or gf out except for sex?
I'd class myself as being among the guys who enjoy wining and dining another guys wife. A movie or a play etc. Doing EVERYTHING he should do just better, with finesse and the advantages of being a novel experience for her in that it doesn't happen everday as well as the bonus that comes with being a BBC
I'd say I was a fucker not a dater. No way i pay for somebody's wife im too cheap! Like renting a really nice house that you wont ever own. That is arrogant to say you do better do the husbands know you think like that?
It's a different way of thinking. Some people will prefer to rent a nice house instead of own it and take on all the obligations that come with ownership. Same way there are some men who would rather borrow someone else's wife or girlfriend than have their own. Some men enjoy going out with a sexy woman without having to contend to having to see her every weekend and not see other women, not to mention all the dramas that a 'real' relationship gives. Yes if a man dates a married woman, he has to accept that she will never be his - but he doesn't want his own wife or girlfriend. This way he gets sex, friendship, affection, fantasy. But he maintains his freedom. He would never get that from a girlfriend or a wife. So to some men, it's worth going the extra mile to get the best of both worlds.
Mrs"
Well put - I am shocked that men dont find this while situation extremely horny. I have dated couple of married women. In that we have gone out for dinner, cinema, before the sex. Its fantastic. Get the benefits of hanging out with a sexy lady as well as the sex. The thrill is knowing that she is married and being " slutty". Its. Ahuge turn on for her and her hubby and for me. Of course, I pay when we go out - just as i would if i were going out on a vaniila date. |
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"I think it is very niche not many men want to to be taking out somebody's wife for dinner etc. Just fucking them is different this seems a whole other level of intimacy which some think is for the husband or bf only. This seems mire likely to create emotions. What else is in it for the guy who would be taking the wife or gf out except for sex?
I'd class myself as being among the guys who enjoy wining and dining another guys wife. A movie or a play etc. Doing EVERYTHING he should do just better, with finesse and the advantages of being a novel experience for her in that it doesn't happen everday as well as the bonus that comes with being a BBC
I'd say I was a fucker not a dater. No way i pay for somebody's wife im too cheap! Like renting a really nice house that you wont ever own. That is arrogant to say you do better do the husbands know you think like that?
It's a different way of thinking. Some people will prefer to rent a nice house instead of own it and take on all the obligations that come with ownership. Same way there are some men who would rather borrow someone else's wife or girlfriend than have their own. Some men enjoy going out with a sexy woman without having to contend to having to see her every weekend and not see other women, not to mention all the dramas that a 'real' relationship gives. Yes if a man dates a married woman, he has to accept that she will never be his - but he doesn't want his own wife or girlfriend. This way he gets sex, friendship, affection, fantasy. But he maintains his freedom. He would never get that from a girlfriend or a wife. So to some men, it's worth going the extra mile to get the best of both worlds.
Mrs The idea of nsa for me is so I don't have to pay for dinner etc or date. NSA is best with couples because of no attachment but why would I bother paying etc for a hot wife when I can just fuck another wife from a couple who aren't into it. No thrill of an affair because he knows already. I just can't see the benefit for the guy, just seens win win for husband and wife.
Each to his or her own.
Additionally in some hotwife/cuckold arrangements financial abuse can feature where hubby pays for absolutely everything adding to his humiliation which fuels his excitement.
I've heard of this.... it's very popular in NYC....."
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"I think it is very niche not many men want to to be taking out somebody's wife for dinner etc. Just fucking them is different this seems a whole other level of intimacy which some think is for the husband or bf only. This seems mire likely to create emotions. What else is in it for the guy who would be taking the wife or gf out except for sex?
I'd class myself as being among the guys who enjoy wining and dining another guys wife. A movie or a play etc. Doing EVERYTHING he should do just better, with finesse and the advantages of being a novel experience for her in that it doesn't happen everday as well as the bonus that comes with being a BBC
I'd say I was a fucker not a dater. No way i pay for somebody's wife im too cheap! Like renting a really nice house that you wont ever own. That is arrogant to say you do better do the husbands know you think like that?
It's a different way of thinking. Some people will prefer to rent a nice house instead of own it and take on all the obligations that come with ownership. Same way there are some men who would rather borrow someone else's wife or girlfriend than have their own. Some men enjoy going out with a sexy woman without having to contend to having to see her every weekend and not see other women, not to mention all the dramas that a 'real' relationship gives. Yes if a man dates a married woman, he has to accept that she will never be his - but he doesn't want his own wife or girlfriend. This way he gets sex, friendship, affection, fantasy. But he maintains his freedom. He would never get that from a girlfriend or a wife. So to some men, it's worth going the extra mile to get the best of both worlds.
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Have you ever had guys get clingy? I'm sure some guys have developed strong feelings for you...
I like having a drink in a hotel bar with a couple , maybe some dancing , public flirting before we go up to the room ...... but going to dinner, movies, or theater just seems like dating to me ..... Regardless of who is paying "
Interesting question. I have had one guy who I believe fell for me. He didn't put any restrictions on my sexual freedom, but I had reason to believe he didn't like it when I saw others, and I suspected towards the end he wanted to me to become his permanent mistress, although it started off as a threesome arrangement. So I have ended it with him. I wouldn't say this but he is no longer on Fab, so his confidentiality is maintained. The have been 4 other regulars in the past 3 years, none of which I had any issues with regarding clinginess. 2 have now left the scene, and 2 we still play with. I agree, dates such as trips to the theatre is a bit over the top, but each to his own. We have been for drinks or dinner with men and typically take it in turns that's pay, because we have manners. But I do find most men want to pay for dinner or drinks the first time. I have only been on a lone date once with a lover. That was to a naturalist club for which he paid entry and then I paid for a round of drinks in the pub afterwards. My husband also has a lover who he sees about three times a year. He doesn't have to, but it suits him to take her to dinner when they meet. It makes it a more fun evening for him, and he has to eat. |
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"I think it is very niche not many men want to to be taking out somebody's wife for dinner etc. Just fucking them is different this seems a whole other level of intimacy which some think is for the husband or bf only. This seems mire likely to create emotions. What else is in it for the guy who would be taking the wife or gf out except for sex?
I'd class myself as being among the guys who enjoy wining and dining another guys wife. A movie or a play etc. Doing EVERYTHING he should do just better, with finesse and the advantages of being a novel experience for her in that it doesn't happen everday as well as the bonus that comes with being a BBC
I'd say I was a fucker not a dater. No way i pay for somebody's wife im too cheap! Like renting a really nice house that you wont ever own. That is arrogant to say you do better do the husbands know you think like that?
It's a different way of thinking. Some people will prefer to rent a nice house instead of own it and take on all the obligations that come with ownership. Same way there are some men who would rather borrow someone else's wife or girlfriend than have their own. Some men enjoy going out with a sexy woman without having to contend to having to see her every weekend and not see other women, not to mention all the dramas that a 'real' relationship gives. Yes if a man dates a married woman, he has to accept that she will never be his - but he doesn't want his own wife or girlfriend. This way he gets sex, friendship, affection, fantasy. But he maintains his freedom. He would never get that from a girlfriend or a wife. So to some men, it's worth going the extra mile to get the best of both worlds.
Mrs
Well put - I am shocked that men dont find this while situation extremely horny. I have dated couple of married women. In that we have gone out for dinner, cinema, before the sex. Its fantastic. Get the benefits of hanging out with a sexy lady as well as the sex. The thrill is knowing that she is married and being " slutty". Its. Ahuge turn on for her and her hubby and for me. Of course, I pay when we go out - just as i would if i were going out on a vaniila date. "
I'm not shocked that most men don't get it. It's a niche market. Most men are naturally possessive and to put any time or effort into a lady, then exclusivity will certainly be expected, even if this is at the expense of their own personal freedom. I do believe it takes an unusual man to take on a Hotwife, who will never offer a real relationship. But there are some men out there who realise the benefits, and appreciate the regular sex and friendship without the commitment. |
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"I think it is very niche not many men want to to be taking out somebody's wife for dinner etc. Just fucking them is different this seems a whole other level of intimacy which some think is for the husband or bf only. This seems mire likely to create emotions. What else is in it for the guy who would be taking the wife or gf out except for sex?
I'd class myself as being among the guys who enjoy wining and dining another guys wife. A movie or a play etc. Doing EVERYTHING he should do just better, with finesse and the advantages of being a novel experience for her in that it doesn't happen everday as well as the bonus that comes with being a BBC
I'd say I was a fucker not a dater. No way i pay for somebody's wife im too cheap! Like renting a really nice house that you wont ever own. That is arrogant to say you do better do the husbands know you think like that?
It's a different way of thinking. Some people will prefer to rent a nice house instead of own it and take on all the obligations that come with ownership. Same way there are some men who would rather borrow someone else's wife or girlfriend than have their own. Some men enjoy going out with a sexy woman without having to contend to having to see her every weekend and not see other women, not to mention all the dramas that a 'real' relationship gives. Yes if a man dates a married woman, he has to accept that she will never be his - but he doesn't want his own wife or girlfriend. This way he gets sex, friendship, affection, fantasy. But he maintains his freedom. He would never get that from a girlfriend or a wife. So to some men, it's worth going the extra mile to get the best of both worlds.
Mrs
Well put - I am shocked that men dont find this while situation extremely horny. I have dated couple of married women. In that we have gone out for dinner, cinema, before the sex. Its fantastic. Get the benefits of hanging out with a sexy lady as well as the sex. The thrill is knowing that she is married and being " slutty". Its. Ahuge turn on for her and her hubby and for me. Of course, I pay when we go out - just as i would if i were going out on a vaniila date.
I'm not shocked that most men don't get it. It's a niche market. Most men are naturally possessive and to put any time or effort into a lady, then exclusivity will certainly be expected, even if this is at the expense of their own personal freedom. I do believe it takes an unusual man to take on a Hotwife, who will never offer a real relationship. But there are some men out there who realise the benefits, and appreciate the regular sex and friendship without the commitment. "
You guys seem to have worked out what works best for you and it's obvious to all that your both equally comfortable with the way you run your relationship and that in itself is hot! If there were more couples like you the swinging world would be a much better place. X |
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"I think it is very niche not many men want to to be taking out somebody's wife for dinner etc. Just fucking them is different this seems a whole other level of intimacy which some think is for the husband or bf only. This seems mire likely to create emotions. What else is in it for the guy who would be taking the wife or gf out except for sex?
I'd class myself as being among the guys who enjoy wining and dining another guys wife. A movie or a play etc. Doing EVERYTHING he should do just better, with finesse and the advantages of being a novel experience for her in that it doesn't happen everday as well as the bonus that comes with being a BBC
I'd say I was a fucker not a dater. No way i pay for somebody's wife im too cheap! Like renting a really nice house that you wont ever own. That is arrogant to say you do better do the husbands know you think like that?
It's a different way of thinking. Some people will prefer to rent a nice house instead of own it and take on all the obligations that come with ownership. Same way there are some men who would rather borrow someone else's wife or girlfriend than have their own. Some men enjoy going out with a sexy woman without having to contend to having to see her every weekend and not see other women, not to mention all the dramas that a 'real' relationship gives. Yes if a man dates a married woman, he has to accept that she will never be his - but he doesn't want his own wife or girlfriend. This way he gets sex, friendship, affection, fantasy. But he maintains his freedom. He would never get that from a girlfriend or a wife. So to some men, it's worth going the extra mile to get the best of both worlds.
Mrs
Well put - I am shocked that men dont find this while situation extremely horny. I have dated couple of married women. In that we have gone out for dinner, cinema, before the sex. Its fantastic. Get the benefits of hanging out with a sexy lady as well as the sex. The thrill is knowing that she is married and being " slutty". Its. Ahuge turn on for her and her hubby and for me. Of course, I pay when we go out - just as i would if i were going out on a vaniila date.
I'm not shocked that most men don't get it. It's a niche market. Most men are naturally possessive and to put any time or effort into a lady, then exclusivity will certainly be expected, even if this is at the expense of their own personal freedom. I do believe it takes an unusual man to take on a Hotwife, who will never offer a real relationship. But there are some men out there who realise the benefits, and appreciate the regular sex and friendship without the commitment.
You guys seem to have worked out what works best for you and it's obvious to all that your both equally comfortable with the way you run your relationship and that in itself is hot! If there were more couples like you the swinging world would be a much better place. X "
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By *eepsouthCouple
over a year ago
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My gorgeous hot wife is out right now with a lover ... I'm so excited as she has promised to send a video of her creampie ... he comes like a horse ( the mrs showed me a clip of him coming and he blow 8 huge spurts ) so the video should be good ?? |
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"My gorgeous hot wife is out right now with a lover ... I'm so excited as she has promised to send a video of her creampie ... he comes like a horse ( the mrs showed me a clip of him coming and he blow 8 huge spurts ) so the video should be good ?? "
Mine is too. She is in a flat with 3 vwe black guys while in sat outside in chastity waiting to hopefully be called in. |
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over a year ago
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"My gorgeous hot wife is out right now with a lover ... I'm so excited as she has promised to send a video of her creampie ... he comes like a horse ( the mrs showed me a clip of him coming and he blow 8 huge spurts ) so the video should be good ??
Mine is too. She is in a flat with 3 vwe black guys while in sat outside in chastity waiting to hopefully be called in. "
I notice you've been sumond .. let us know what you find please |
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"Do men with hot wife's like them playing with fems or cpls ??? Just wondering if it had the same excitement "
I love playing with couples as long as my cuck is there watching and being humiliated. |
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"Do men with hot wife's like them playing with fems or cpls ??? Just wondering if it had the same excitement "
Mrs Dw only plays with girls or couples alone....always with me if a single guy.
They are all hot scenarios |
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I agree with the assertion that a few men (small few) overstand what a hotwife actually is...I personally love it..only had the one hotwife experience so far...i believe it be the horniest knowing a husband is going to see/smell/hear the results of what he missed out on...particularly want to try meeting at a normal bar slash club...for the partner to watch myself and a hotwife interact...us to leave; for him to come and walk in on what's going on... |
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Most of my meets have come from meeting a hotwife and it's something I enjoy doing.
It's thrilling knowing that a couple have invited you into their sexual relationship for the pleasure of seeing the wife have fun. |
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By *oxyukCouple
over a year ago
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I like the freedom of being a hotwife if I see a guy on here I like or if I'm out and a guy takes my eye or is flirting with me it's nice knowing as long as I'm letting mr f know that I have the freedom to persue things further if I choose to.
And also the fact that it will turn my hubby on is a turn on itself. It's great knowing as a married women your still desired by others. |
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By *smfuncplCouple
over a year ago
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"I like the freedom of being a hotwife if I see a guy on here I like or if I'm out and a guy takes my eye or is flirting with me it's nice knowing as long as I'm letting mr f know that I have the freedom to persue things further if I choose to.
And also the fact that it will turn my hubby on is a turn on
itself. It's great knowing as a married women your still desired by others. "
I could not have said it better |
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By *oxyukCouple
over a year ago
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"I like the freedom of being a hotwife if I see a guy on here I like or if I'm out and a guy takes my eye or is flirting with me it's nice knowing as long as I'm letting mr f know that I have the freedom to persue things further if I choose to.
And also the fact that it will turn my hubby on is a turn on
itself. It's great knowing as a married women your still desired by others.
I could not have said it better"
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"Do men with hot wife's like them playing with fems or cpls ??? Just wondering if it had the same excitement "
One of the 'scenarios ' Mr has on his must do list is to see me share a cock with another woman |
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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago
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Hell yes , there's a couple I meet and she is one very sexy hot wife and I can't get enough of her , always waiting to be invited around ,, and her hubby is a great guy and enjoys watching us ans joins in to at times |
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By *exatooCouple
over a year ago
Bournemouth/ Fuerteventura |
"Any Hotwives out there? Why do you love it?"
Here 
I love B watching whilst I get fucked, I love it even more when he reclaims my pussy after another man/men have been there.
Soooo horny |
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By *exatooCouple
over a year ago
Bournemouth/ Fuerteventura |
"Nothing hotter than watching my wife play with another man. (Or woman) - but I have to be there to share the experience?
She is sexy!!!!!!!!"
Ahh yes I forgot women too  he loves to watch me with a woman the best of all. Then he becomes a hot husband when he fucks her after me  |
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"One of my utmost fav things to do....nothing better than pleasuring someone elses wife whilst hes present xx"
Yes there is... ...
Hubby fucklicking! Mmmmmmmmmmm |
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By *az1Man
over a year ago
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"A right big turn on knowing what shes out doing but you can't see. Then when she comes home stinking of sex and with a wet pussy (Wether it's the same night or next morning) you just wana get in there yourself
This The exhilaration and anticipation of her getting ready to go out, the emotional roller coaster of whilst she's out and then the intense excitement of the Reconnection "
From a guys point of view it's amazing and extremely erotic too. Knowing that the husband knows or help the wife get ready to meet you and he just watches or stays home no seeing what his wife is dowsing with another man or men.
In some meets I've had the husband didn't ask how it was and nor did the wife tell about her eventful time. Xx
I'm looking for a couple for regular meets. I've been in this scene and the swinging lifestyle for a while now so am quite experienced and got plenty of ideas, some of which I've put on my profile if anyone would like to read x |
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"I think it is very niche not many men want to to be taking out somebody's wife for dinner etc. Just fucking them is different this seems a whole other level of intimacy which some think is for the husband or bf only. This seems mire likely to create emotions. What else is in it for the guy who would be taking the wife or gf out except for sex?
I'd class myself as being among the guys who enjoy wining and dining another guys wife. A movie or a play etc. Doing EVERYTHING he should do just better, with finesse and the advantages of being a novel experience for her in that it doesn't happen everday as well as the bonus that comes with being a BBC "
Why would you assume you are doing everything better than the husband? Who are you kidding exactly? |
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"My wife is a 'Hotwife' and I have no complaints and love watching her being looked after. She has met alone but prefers me to be present to watch her!"
Agreed i certainly prefer the husband present ( but have had meets separate too ) it's just a good feel of the husband sharing his wife for a short time gives a very sey scenario to the meet. |
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"My wife is a 'Hotwife' and I have no complaints and love watching her being looked after. She has met alone but prefers me to be present to watch her!
Agreed i certainly prefer the husband present ( but have had meets separate too ) it's just a good feel of the husband sharing his wife for a short time gives a very sey scenario to the meet. "
. I have always been present in the past but we are starting to widen our horizons and she is now encouraged to alone date. Mr Classy |
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"Hot wife meets are great for us. Enjoying ourselves with a lovely lady and with her hubby watching on and usually taking pics is a great thrill ...."
 . Agreed. We love doing this !!! |
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"My wife is a 'Hotwife' and I have no complaints and love watching her being looked after. She has met alone but prefers me to be present to watch her!
Agreed i certainly prefer the husband present ( but have had meets separate too ) it's just a good feel of the husband sharing his wife for a short time gives a very sey scenario to the meet. . I have always been present in the past but we are starting to widen our horizons and she is now encouraged to alone date. Mr Classy "
Maybe I should also broaden mine lol.
I do like meeting the hubby too though ...
Is that after you have already met the guy on previous meet or would your hotwife meet alone first date?
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"My wife is a 'Hotwife' and I have no complaints and love watching her being looked after. She has met alone but prefers me to be present to watch her!
Agreed i certainly prefer the husband present ( but have had meets separate too ) it's just a good feel of the husband sharing his wife for a short time gives a very sey scenario to the meet. . I have always been present in the past but we are starting to widen our horizons and she is now encouraged to alone date. Mr Classy "
I'm hoping to date Mrs classy and let the horizon become much brighter. J. X |
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"My wife is a 'Hotwife' and I have no complaints and love watching her being looked after. She has met alone but prefers me to be present to watch her!
Agreed i certainly prefer the husband present ( but have had meets separate too ) it's just a good feel of the husband sharing his wife for a short time gives a very sey scenario to the meet. . I have always been present in the past but we are starting to widen our horizons and she is now encouraged to alone date. Mr Classy "
We meet guys as a couple initially and if she likes them she then meets them one to one. She now has four regulars who she sees about once a month each. I babysit and get seconds when she gets home. It works for us |
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Yes we are always together as I like to watch take pics or film , she has met two guys on several occasions without me being there no together but she could if she wanted , but we know them and I trust them |
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"My wife is a 'Hotwife' and I have no complaints and love watching her being looked after. She has met alone but prefers me to be present to watch her!
Agreed i certainly prefer the husband present ( but have had meets separate too ) it's just a good feel of the husband sharing his wife for a short time gives a very sey scenario to the meet. . I have always been present in the past but we are starting to widen our horizons and she is now encouraged to alone date. Mr Classy
We meet guys as a couple initially and if she likes them she then meets them one to one. She now has four regulars who she sees about once a month each. I babysit and get seconds when she gets home. It works for us "
Likewise, but from the guys side. My first meet is with the couple, then once established and all are comfortable I will meet the lady solo. Hubby loves the anticipation and the moment when his wife returns is electric.
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We meet guys as a couple initially and if she likes them she then meets them one to one. She now has four regulars who she sees about once a month each. I babysit and get seconds when she gets home. It works for us "
Works for me too. When can we meet? |
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By *wcwCouple
over a year ago
cheshire |
I love it. From when she is getting ready to a meet or club. To the very end. Love watching her all night from the chatting to the sex. Its in my wank bank. Lol. And it does mean alot to me. Think about it nearly all the time. Gets me very horny n turned on ?? |
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By *wcwCouple
over a year ago
cheshire |
I know. I carnt get enough of it. The more she enjoys the other guy the better. When we talking to him befare anything happens. When she gets wet knowing whats going to happen is amazing. |
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This is something we are lookimg to get into later in the year. We have had many mff, MMF and couples, but we want to move more into hotwifing as well.
Initially we meet for a threesome, then if she's comfortable she starts seeing him alone, then giving me all the details after along with photos and video.
Can't think of anything hotter. |
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Hotwifing or cuckolding is by far the biggest fun to be had in my book.....to be invited into a couples relationship in this way, be it for a night or an ongoing thing, really can be so much fun...but it MUST be fun for all involved....that includes the hotwifes husband.....no cheating ...just mutual fun and good safe times |
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More importantly, 21 years ago (before fabswinger was even around) Shooter McGavin blew a 4 shot lead on the back 9 to Happy Gilmore to lose the coveted green jacket. #NeverForget |
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Very new to the hot wife thing, and perhaps our version isn't true hot wifing, but we had an mmf the other day and watched her fuck the other guy. Wow is all I can say! |
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"I love being a Hotwife but unfortunately there's not been anybody to tickle my fancy in months now! Ideally need somebody local that I can see regularly. Hubby loves hearing about what I get up to. Especially if I come straight home and sit on his face!"
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Such a complex and hugely exciting element to add to a relationship. It works for us. Allows for variety in a way that causes no jealousy issues and allows her to explore her sexuality. We've found it difficult to get a guy who understands the hotwife dynamic but once we do really looking forward to progressing it. She's really grown into the role of being a hotwife. Just need the right man or men now. |
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Just to add, if I go out alone I get the guy to video us,, you wouldn't believe how many can't manage that,, even if it's just the facial at the end, last one started shaking just before he was cumming and switched phone off,, that's the part hubby builds up to when watching the vid too x |
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From my own experiences, when meet a hotwife whilst hubby is in the office, I've found it quite fun to play along and to pose with Ms Wife.
Hubby's up and down the land must be sitting attentatively at their desks with a huge swelling looking at all the naughty images the wife is sending.
Its the fun of the chase! |
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We love it N met up with a guy last Friday while I was at work, it's such a mind fuck not knowing what they are up to I found it so hard to concentrate. The only contact I had with her the entire afternoon was one text I sent to ask if she was ok then nothing until later that evening when she got home with a big smile on her face |
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"We love this, but always together. He loves watching almost as much as I enjoy extra cock.
Always wear my HW anklet for weekend shopping trips. Lots of looks but not been chatted up so far. "
Love the anklet. Where did you yet it? Think we'll get one for holiday. |
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"Very new to the hot wife thing, and perhaps our version isn't true hot wifing, but we had an mmf the other day and watched her fuck the other guy. Wow is all I can say!"
This is how we see it, always together but it can be 3 or more of us or M watching..., a huge turn on for both of us and we have the most incredible sex when we get home! |
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