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By *ittleAcorn OP Man
over a year ago
visiting the beach |
I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?
I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.
But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?
I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think personally depending on your situation I.e if your single then I think it's nice to have that NSA sex and play, but also show that side that your not just after free sex and have a bit of that. Not for everyone, but again depends on your situations. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cuddling for a bit after sex yes but an evening of it? No thanks  "
How about if one of your regular FB said hey come around to mine, I'll cook you a nice dinner watch a film of your choice, cuddle up few glasses of wine and maybe get naughty later, totally NSA.
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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago
secret town |
"I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?
I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.
But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?
I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time."
I've had lots of cuddle only meets |
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"Cuddling for a bit after sex yes but an evening of it? No thanks
How about if one of your regular FB said hey come around to mine, I'll cook you a nice dinner watch a film of your choice, cuddle up few glasses of wine and maybe get naughty later, totally NSA.
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Yes why not |
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By *D835Man
over a year ago
London |
"I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?
I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.
But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?
I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time."
Nice idea. I have done that sometimes with my regular FWBs, but unlikely to do that with a one-off meet on Fabs. |
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"I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?
I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.
But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?
I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time."
I think this an excellent idea tbh.
I would |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd be quite happy to stay in with a regular friend but all the cuddling with someone I fancied would lead to more & if it didn't I'd be feeling a tad frustrated. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
"Cuddling for a bit after sex yes but an evening of it? No thanks
How about if one of your regular FB said hey come around to mine, I'll cook you a nice dinner watch a film of your choice, cuddle up few glasses of wine and maybe get naughty later, totally NSA.
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Well yes but that's not what the thread is about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd be quite happy to stay in with a regular friend but all the cuddling with someone I fancied would lead to more & if it didn't I'd be feeling a tad frustrated."
Well this is kinda what's getting me scratching my head as I only meet those whose clothes I want to rip off and do filthy things with. ...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't but that's because I'm married and get all my cuddles from him.
If I were single I don't think I could just cuddle with a guy off here though. I only meet guys I fancy and if I fancy you I'm wanting a lot more than a cuddle  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cuddling is NEVER just cuddling.
If you kiss then can guarantee a tiny spark happens and next thing you know his hand is on your boob and his dick is in your chuff.
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Cuddling is NEVER just cuddling.
If you kiss then can guarantee a tiny spark happens and next thing you know his hand is on your boob and his dick is in your chuff.
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 Oh! Your posts are just! |
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I can definitely see where you are coming from OP.
I have been single for most of the last 7 years. Whilst I find no shortage of naughty fun I do sometimes miss the quiet evenings snuggled up on the sofa together.
I'm not sure I would want that from a fab meet though. Unless its someone I have had repeated meets with before I don't think it would feel right. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?
I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.
But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?
I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time."
always have cuddle time with my meets, yeah i've watched films and listened to music...usually end up playing too, but plenty of affection goes on..just dont choose fuck and go meets..nsa can mean different things to different people x |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"Throw in a good movie and plenty snacks and I'm all in  "
Exactly this, we've always said if we had a regular fwb & we or they were down we'd meet just to try & raise spirits etc.
But not for a one off meet..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I use to have a cuddle buddy
We would sit and watch movies chat shit etc
We would call on each other if we was going through bad times
Sadly he has moved away. But I do miss it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd go for it.I miss close (non sexual) physical affection more than I do sex!
But it has to be with someone you have an attraction to, as well as knowing well , so couldn't really imagine doing it with someone from Fab on an initial meet lol |
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"I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?
I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.
But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?
I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time."
Yes. Done it and would do again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?
I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.
But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?
I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time."
Why would someone who only wants a cuddle and company join a swingers site ??
Theres plenty of dating sites around if thats what your predominantly looking for.
This is a swingers site which is mainly sex focused thats why people join.. To meet people to have sex with.
If its cuddling and company your looking for I suggest a dating site not a sexually focused site like FAB.
My personal opinion on your topic thats all. |
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By *ittleAcorn OP Man
over a year ago
visiting the beach |
Thanks for all the input, glad I wasn't laughed out of town!
Yes, I didn't really think it would fit a first meet. That would be a bit odd probably.
But, with someone you have met previously and had a nice time with.
Obviously cuddles can always turn into something else. But it's not a given.
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By *ittleAcorn OP Man
over a year ago
visiting the beach |
"I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?
I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.
But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?
I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time.
Why would someone who only wants a cuddle and company join a swingers site ??
Theres plenty of dating sites around if thats what your predominantly looking for.
This is a swingers site which is mainly sex focused thats why people join.. To meet people to have sex with.
If its cuddling and company your looking for I suggest a dating site not a sexually focused site like FAB.
My personal opinion on your topic thats all."
I agree with you on the whole, and I think most people would put the sex as a number one requirement.
However, for an evening of cuddles, you need a bit of skin in the game (usually), and if one is not looking for a relationship that can be difficult.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?
I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.
But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?
I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time.
Why would someone who only wants a cuddle and company join a swingers site ??
Theres plenty of dating sites around if thats what your predominantly looking for.
This is a swingers site which is mainly sex focused thats why people join.. To meet people to have sex with.
If its cuddling and company your looking for I suggest a dating site not a sexually focused site like FAB.
My personal opinion on your topic thats all.
I agree with you on the whole, and I think most people would put the sex as a number one requirement.
However, for an evening of cuddles, you need a bit of skin in the game (usually), and if one is not looking for a relationship that can be difficult.
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POF gives you the option of....
Wants to date but nothing serious
That should cover all your bases.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for all the input, glad I wasn't laughed out of town!
Yes, I didn't really think it would fit a first meet. That would be a bit odd probably.
But, with someone you have met previously and had a nice time with.
Obviously cuddles can always turn into something else. But it's not a given.
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ah....but that doesn't fit with your title of cuddle only meets. You've changed the goalposts.  |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?
I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.
But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?
I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time.
Why would someone who only wants a cuddle and company join a swingers site ??
Theres plenty of dating sites around if thats what your predominantly looking for.
This is a swingers site which is mainly sex focused thats why people join.. To meet people to have sex with.
If its cuddling and company your looking for I suggest a dating site not a sexually focused site like FAB.
My personal opinion on your topic thats all."
actually swinging..is predominantly social, with the intention of finding compatible people with the possibility of sexual activity...i dont think a lot of people get the difference, between sex sites and the swinging lifestyle/ sites...imo |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?
I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.
But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?
I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time.
Why would someone who only wants a cuddle and company join a swingers site ??
Theres plenty of dating sites around if thats what your predominantly looking for.
This is a swingers site which is mainly sex focused thats why people join.. To meet people to have sex with.
If its cuddling and company your looking for I suggest a dating site not a sexually focused site like FAB.
My personal opinion on your topic thats all.actually swinging..is predominantly social, with the intention of finding compatible people with the possibility of sexual activity...i dont think a lot of people get the difference, between sex sites and the swinging lifestyle/ sites...imo"
neither is swinging singles meeting up to watch a film and have a cuddle. |
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By *ittleAcorn OP Man
over a year ago
visiting the beach |
"Thanks for all the input, glad I wasn't laughed out of town!
Yes, I didn't really think it would fit a first meet. That would be a bit odd probably.
But, with someone you have met previously and had a nice time with.
Obviously cuddles can always turn into something else. But it's not a given.
ah....but that doesn't fit with your title of cuddle only meets. You've changed the goalposts. "
True, but unless you agreed it was only a "cuddle meet" and nothing else. The mood could take you, not saying it would, just that it could. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm inclined to take this theory/question a little further and propose this.
What about a cuddle event. one where you go down with the intention of spreading cuddles to unknowns. You can trade and all payments are in timed cuddles of varying degrees. the social is followed by a screening of a movie where you have to have a cuddle partner or more. no loan watchers and cuddles have to include at least one person you've met for the first time that night.
I think that would be an interesting social experiment. and a laugh of a night.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This may seem weird, but cuddles are reserved for those I'm close with. Fucking is first, then the cuddles come when we're fully comfortable with each other. How quickly we reach the cuddle stage depends on our connection. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?
I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.
But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?
I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time.
Why would someone who only wants a cuddle and company join a swingers site ??
Theres plenty of dating sites around if thats what your predominantly looking for.
This is a swingers site which is mainly sex focused thats why people join.. To meet people to have sex with.
If its cuddling and company your looking for I suggest a dating site not a sexually focused site like FAB.
My personal opinion on your topic thats all.actually swinging..is predominantly social, with the intention of finding compatible people with the possibility of sexual activity...i dont think a lot of people get the difference, between sex sites and the swinging lifestyle/ sites...imo
neither is swinging singles meeting up to watch a film and have a cuddle. "
thats not the same as a social?? social activities can include many things..surely up to people what they do socially and or sexually..what about soft swapping?..is that swinging then? surely cuddling would come under soft play? |
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over a year ago
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"I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?
I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.
But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?
I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time.
Why would someone who only wants a cuddle and company join a swingers site ??
Theres plenty of dating sites around if thats what your predominantly looking for.
This is a swingers site which is mainly sex focused thats why people join.. To meet people to have sex with.
If its cuddling and company your looking for I suggest a dating site not a sexually focused site like FAB.
My personal opinion on your topic thats all.actually swinging..is predominantly social, with the intention of finding compatible people with the possibility of sexual activity...i dont think a lot of people get the difference, between sex sites and the swinging lifestyle/ sites...imo
neither is swinging singles meeting up to watch a film and have a cuddle. thats not the same as a social?? social activities can include many things..surely up to people what they do socially and or sexually..what about soft swapping?..is that swinging then? surely cuddling would come under soft play?"
This is a swingers site where people join look for sex with other like minded people.
If you are looking for someone to cuddle with then a swingers site isnt the place for that .
If company and cuddles is all your looking for then you need to be on a dating site. |
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"This may seem weird, but cuddles are reserved for those I'm close with. Fucking is first, then the cuddles come when we're fully comfortable with each other. How quickly we reach the cuddle stage depends on our connection. "
Haha, yes, there has to be 'cuddle chemistry'. Some people I am happy to cuddle from the get go - others it just doesn't feel right, but I far prefer it when there is a LOT of cuddling!  |
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"I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?
I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.
But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?
I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time.
Why would someone who only wants a cuddle and company join a swingers site ??
Theres plenty of dating sites around if thats what your predominantly looking for.
This is a swingers site which is mainly sex focused thats why people join.. To meet people to have sex with.
If its cuddling and company your looking for I suggest a dating site not a sexually focused site like FAB.
My personal opinion on your topic thats all.actually swinging..is predominantly social, with the intention of finding compatible people with the possibility of sexual activity...i dont think a lot of people get the difference, between sex sites and the swinging lifestyle/ sites...imo
neither is swinging singles meeting up to watch a film and have a cuddle. thats not the same as a social?? social activities can include many things..surely up to people what they do socially and or sexually..what about soft swapping?..is that swinging then? surely cuddling would come under soft play?
This is a swingers site where people join look for sex with other like minded people.
If you are looking for someone to cuddle with then a swingers site isnt the place for that .
If company and cuddles is all your looking for then you need to be on a dating site."
Nah, they only want sex on those.... |
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over a year ago
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"I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?
I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.
But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?
I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time.
Why would someone who only wants a cuddle and company join a swingers site ??
Theres plenty of dating sites around if thats what your predominantly looking for.
This is a swingers site which is mainly sex focused thats why people join.. To meet people to have sex with.
If its cuddling and company your looking for I suggest a dating site not a sexually focused site like FAB.
My personal opinion on your topic thats all.actually swinging..is predominantly social, with the intention of finding compatible people with the possibility of sexual activity...i dont think a lot of people get the difference, between sex sites and the swinging lifestyle/ sites...imo
neither is swinging singles meeting up to watch a film and have a cuddle. thats not the same as a social?? social activities can include many things..surely up to people what they do socially and or sexually..what about soft swapping?..is that swinging then? surely cuddling would come under soft play?
This is a swingers site where people join look for sex with other like minded people.
If you are looking for someone to cuddle with then a swingers site isnt the place for that .
If company and cuddles is all your looking for then you need to be on a dating site.
Nah, they only want sex on those.... "
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?
I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.
But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?
I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time.
Why would someone who only wants a cuddle and company join a swingers site ??
Theres plenty of dating sites around if thats what your predominantly looking for.
This is a swingers site which is mainly sex focused thats why people join.. To meet people to have sex with.
If its cuddling and company your looking for I suggest a dating site not a sexually focused site like FAB.
My personal opinion on your topic thats all.actually swinging..is predominantly social, with the intention of finding compatible people with the possibility of sexual activity...i dont think a lot of people get the difference, between sex sites and the swinging lifestyle/ sites...imo
neither is swinging singles meeting up to watch a film and have a cuddle. thats not the same as a social?? social activities can include many things..surely up to people what they do socially and or sexually..what about soft swapping?..is that swinging then? surely cuddling would come under soft play?
This is a swingers site where people join look for sex with other like minded people.
If you are looking for someone to cuddle with then a swingers site isnt the place for that .
If company and cuddles is all your looking for then you need to be on a dating site."
well youre not meeting by having your profile hidden so i guess you shouldnt be here either as you arent looking for sex this instant.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?
I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.
But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?
I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time.
Why would someone who only wants a cuddle and company join a swingers site ??
Theres plenty of dating sites around if thats what your predominantly looking for.
This is a swingers site which is mainly sex focused thats why people join.. To meet people to have sex with.
If its cuddling and company your looking for I suggest a dating site not a sexually focused site like FAB.
My personal opinion on your topic thats all.actually swinging..is predominantly social, with the intention of finding compatible people with the possibility of sexual activity...i dont think a lot of people get the difference, between sex sites and the swinging lifestyle/ sites...imo
neither is swinging singles meeting up to watch a film and have a cuddle. thats not the same as a social?? social activities can include many things..surely up to people what they do socially and or sexually..what about soft swapping?..is that swinging then? surely cuddling would come under soft play?"
I can guarantee if you were to survey 100 totally random people and ask them what swinging is, none of them will say "meeting people for cuddles" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?
I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.
But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?
I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time.
Why would someone who only wants a cuddle and company join a swingers site ??
Theres plenty of dating sites around if thats what your predominantly looking for.
This is a swingers site which is mainly sex focused thats why people join.. To meet people to have sex with.
If its cuddling and company your looking for I suggest a dating site not a sexually focused site like FAB.
My personal opinion on your topic thats all.actually swinging..is predominantly social, with the intention of finding compatible people with the possibility of sexual activity...i dont think a lot of people get the difference, between sex sites and the swinging lifestyle/ sites...imo
neither is swinging singles meeting up to watch a film and have a cuddle. thats not the same as a social?? social activities can include many things..surely up to people what they do socially and or sexually..what about soft swapping?..is that swinging then? surely cuddling would come under soft play?
I can guarantee if you were to survey 100 totally random people and ask them what swinging is, none of them will say "meeting people for cuddles""
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?
I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.
But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?
I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time.
Why would someone who only wants a cuddle and company join a swingers site ??
Theres plenty of dating sites around if thats what your predominantly looking for.
This is a swingers site which is mainly sex focused thats why people join.. To meet people to have sex with.
If its cuddling and company your looking for I suggest a dating site not a sexually focused site like FAB.
My personal opinion on your topic thats all.actually swinging..is predominantly social, with the intention of finding compatible people with the possibility of sexual activity...i dont think a lot of people get the difference, between sex sites and the swinging lifestyle/ sites...imo
neither is swinging singles meeting up to watch a film and have a cuddle. thats not the same as a social?? social activities can include many things..surely up to people what they do socially and or sexually..what about soft swapping?..is that swinging then? surely cuddling would come under soft play?
I can guarantee if you were to survey 100 totally random people and ask them what swinging is, none of them will say "meeting people for cuddles""
yeah but what they get and what they want, may not actually be the same thing.. |
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If I'm being absolutely honest op - yes and no!
Sounds great and would love an evening of snuggling up in front of a film/takeaway etc!
In reality though, if I find him sexually attractive, at some stage I'm going to be after his cock!
How about 80%snuggles 20% sex?
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"I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?
I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.
But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?
I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time.
Why would someone who only wants a cuddle and company join a swingers site ??
Theres plenty of dating sites around if thats what your predominantly looking for.
This is a swingers site which is mainly sex focused thats why people join.. To meet people to have sex with.
If its cuddling and company your looking for I suggest a dating site not a sexually focused site like FAB.
My personal opinion on your topic thats all.actually swinging..is predominantly social, with the intention of finding compatible people with the possibility of sexual activity...i dont think a lot of people get the difference, between sex sites and the swinging lifestyle/ sites...imo
neither is swinging singles meeting up to watch a film and have a cuddle. thats not the same as a social?? social activities can include many things..surely up to people what they do socially and or sexually..what about soft swapping?..is that swinging then? surely cuddling would come under soft play?
I can guarantee if you were to survey 100 totally random people and ask them what swinging is, none of them will say "meeting people for cuddles""
Yeah, but who gives a damn lol, let people ask for what they want - there seem to be plenty of 'swingers' who feel the same! |
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"This may seem weird, but cuddles are reserved for those I'm close with. Fucking is first, then the cuddles come when we're fully comfortable with each other. How quickly we reach the cuddle stage depends on our connection.
Haha, yes, there has to be 'cuddle chemistry'. Some people I am happy to cuddle from the get go - others it just doesn't feel right, but I far prefer it when there is a LOT of cuddling! "
I totally agree, it's so good when the chemistry is there and you want to be cuddling during and after sex... |
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"Da fuq?!!
Come on sweetheart, cuddle into me whilst we look at all the pretty boys
I am not a huggy person
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ri5S4Hcq0nY"
You would look divine in that outfit though. Ok let's just look at the pretties then |
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I always like to have cuddles on a meet, but I wouldn't have a meet just for cuddles only.
I have a husband at home for that. I'm on here to get the fun that I can't elsewhere. |
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"This may seem weird, but cuddles are reserved for those I'm close with. Fucking is first, then the cuddles come when we're fully comfortable with each other. How quickly we reach the cuddle stage depends on our connection.
Haha, yes, there has to be 'cuddle chemistry'. Some people I am happy to cuddle from the get go - others it just doesn't feel right, but I far prefer it when there is a LOT of cuddling!
I totally agree, it's so good when the chemistry is there and you want to be cuddling during and after sex... "
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"I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?
I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.
But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?
I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time.
Why would someone who only wants a cuddle and company join a swingers site ??
Theres plenty of dating sites around if thats what your predominantly looking for.
This is a swingers site which is mainly sex focused thats why people join.. To meet people to have sex with.
If its cuddling and company your looking for I suggest a dating site not a sexually focused site like FAB.
My personal opinion on your topic thats all.actually swinging..is predominantly social, with the intention of finding compatible people with the possibility of sexual activity...i dont think a lot of people get the difference, between sex sites and the swinging lifestyle/ sites...imo
neither is swinging singles meeting up to watch a film and have a cuddle. thats not the same as a social?? social activities can include many things..surely up to people what they do socially and or sexually..what about soft swapping?..is that swinging then? surely cuddling would come under soft play?
I can guarantee if you were to survey 100 totally random people and ask them what swinging is, none of them will say "meeting people for cuddles"
Yeah, but who gives a damn lol, let people ask for what they want - there seem to be plenty of 'swingers' who feel the same!"
I wonder if this is unique to those that use the forum? I've never had a message asking if we can meet for a cuddle. Ever....thank god! |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?
I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.
But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?
I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time.
Why would someone who only wants a cuddle and company join a swingers site ??
Theres plenty of dating sites around if thats what your predominantly looking for.
This is a swingers site which is mainly sex focused thats why people join.. To meet people to have sex with.
If its cuddling and company your looking for I suggest a dating site not a sexually focused site like FAB.
My personal opinion on your topic thats all.actually swinging..is predominantly social, with the intention of finding compatible people with the possibility of sexual activity...i dont think a lot of people get the difference, between sex sites and the swinging lifestyle/ sites...imo
neither is swinging singles meeting up to watch a film and have a cuddle. thats not the same as a social?? social activities can include many things..surely up to people what they do socially and or sexually..what about soft swapping?..is that swinging then? surely cuddling would come under soft play?
I can guarantee if you were to survey 100 totally random people and ask them what swinging is, none of them will say "meeting people for cuddles"
Yeah, but who gives a damn lol, let people ask for what they want - there seem to be plenty of 'swingers' who feel the same!
I wonder if this is unique to those that use the forum? I've never had a message asking if we can meet for a cuddle. Ever....thank god! "
better than a faf message imo... |
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Alot of guys in here will say any old shit to try and gain favour from the women in hope of getting a meet.
Its like when when a women says to a guy just before hes sticks his cock in her..
Her.. your not just using me for sex are you ? And I am going to see you again ?
Him...No of course I'm not using you for Sex. I really like you and I'll take you out next week somewhere nice.
After hes shot his muck hes up dressed and off! Never to be seen again. Unless he needs his sack emptying again and no one else is available.
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"I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?
I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.
But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?
I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time.
Why would someone who only wants a cuddle and company join a swingers site ??
Theres plenty of dating sites around if thats what your predominantly looking for.
This is a swingers site which is mainly sex focused thats why people join.. To meet people to have sex with.
If its cuddling and company your looking for I suggest a dating site not a sexually focused site like FAB.
My personal opinion on your topic thats all.actually swinging..is predominantly social, with the intention of finding compatible people with the possibility of sexual activity...i dont think a lot of people get the difference, between sex sites and the swinging lifestyle/ sites...imo
neither is swinging singles meeting up to watch a film and have a cuddle. thats not the same as a social?? social activities can include many things..surely up to people what they do socially and or sexually..what about soft swapping?..is that swinging then? surely cuddling would come under soft play?
I can guarantee if you were to survey 100 totally random people and ask them what swinging is, none of them will say "meeting people for cuddles"
Yeah, but who gives a damn lol, let people ask for what they want - there seem to be plenty of 'swingers' who feel the same!
I wonder if this is unique to those that use the forum? I've never had a message asking if we can meet for a cuddle. Ever....thank god! "
Me neither but don't worry, I'm sure it wont hurt! |
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" I've never had a message asking if we can meet for a cuddle. Ever....thank god! better than a faf message imo..."
both would get equally ignored by me |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Alot of guys in here will say any old shit to try and gain favour from the women in hope of getting a meet.
Its like when when a women says to a guy just before hes sticks his cock in her..
Her.. your not just using me for sex are you ? And I am going to see you again ?
Him...No of course I'm not using you for Sex. I really like you and I'll take you out next week somewhere nice.
After hes shot his muck hes up dressed and off! Never to be seen again. Unless he needs his sack emptying again and no one else is available.
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you have a poor opinion of your species...muck..how derogatory to your own bodily fluids..glad i dont have your outlook on men..,, |
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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago
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"Alot of guys in here will say any old shit to try and gain favour from the women in hope of getting a meet.
Its like when when a women says to a guy just before hes sticks his cock in her..
Her.. your not just using me for sex are you ? And I am going to see you again ?
Him...No of course I'm not using you for Sex. I really like you and I'll take you out next week somewhere nice.
After hes shot his muck hes up dressed and off! Never to be seen again. Unless he needs his sack emptying again and no one else is available.
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Never happened to me |
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By *uzy444Woman
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" I've never had a message asking if we can meet for a cuddle. Ever....thank god! better than a faf message imo...
both would get equally ignored by me "
yeah i can see that..x |
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"Cuddling is NEVER just cuddling.
If you kiss then can guarantee a tiny spark happens and next thing you know his hand is on your boob and his dick is in your chuff."
I disagree - we guys aren't all the same.
I was pleasantly surprised by an invitation to cuddle, from a very nice lady - and it made a lovely change, drifting happily off to sleep, with a warm snuggle buddy.
Not even a hint of dick-in-chuff.
I love the concept of a cuddle party... sounds like great fun. (I prefer a friendly cwtch, to a cold, random fuck). |
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Cuddles did someone mention cuddles. I love them. I meet a guy off here at his place, walk into his bedroom get undressed and hop straight into his bed with him, put a movie on and we just cuddle up and watch it. It's not always about the sex each time we meet. |
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"Cuddles did someone mention cuddles. I love them. I meet a guy off here at his place, walk into his bedroom get undressed and hop straight into his bed with him, put a movie on and we just cuddle up and watch it. It's not always about the sex each time we meet."
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If I were happy that we both knew where we stood, then these would be blissful! I just wouldn't want to be getting things confused, my fuck buddies are special people who I have a very specific dynamic with and I wouldn't want to damage that. |
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