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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why do people look at your profile and send a wink or a message but when you reply back and you don't get a reply just think its rude would be happy with thanks but no thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Read the site FAQ's OP.
It is not considered rude to not reply to a message on fab and a non-reply should be taken as a 'No Thank You'
Consider also, that some people on here are absolutely inundated with messages and simply don't have the time to read and respond to every single message they are sent.
It could well be that the person you have messaged hasn't been logged on for a while and has simply not gotten around to your message yet.
Would you really feel a whole lot better with an inbox full of 'no thank you's'? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes thats true but but even a simple no thanks is better then no reply but even if they don't like what they see why do they send a wink or a message first to you that's my point. |
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"Yes thats true but but even a simple no thanks is better then no reply but even if they don't like what they see why do they send a wink or a message first to you that's my point. "
Could it be that you've said something that has inadvertently put them off, considering they contacted you?!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes thats true but but even a simple no thanks is better then no reply but even if they don't like what they see why do they send a wink or a message first to you that's my point. "
is it? I'd rather have no message than a negative inbox. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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don't expect anything to make sense on here.
people lose messages amongst all their other messages.
people get bored or put off.
people are always looking for the next sure thing.
people are fake.
people are people.
erm that's all i can think of.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What do you say to them you reply back all nice and polite asking how they are and thank you for the wink or message as most people say they don't like you saying that they are fucking hot and want to fuck there brains out were is the happy medium. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you say to them you reply back all nice and polite asking how they are and thank you for the wink or message as most people say they don't like you saying that they are fucking hot and want to fuck there brains out were is the happy medium. "
Those that want to communicate with you will. You can't force it and there is no secret formula or perfect message. I've replied to an animal noise before because i liked the profile.
C'est la vie. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Read the site FAQ's OP.
It is not considered rude to not reply to a message on fab and a non-reply should be taken as a 'No Thank You'
Consider also, that some people on here are absolutely inundated with messages and simply don't have the time to read and respond to every single message they are sent.
It could well be that the person you have messaged hasn't been logged on for a while and has simply not gotten around to your message yet.
Would you really feel a whole lot better with an inbox full of 'no thank you's'?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I suspect the profiles that have winks at you are not genuine profiles. There are a lot of people that just mess about on here.
With regards to replying to messages, a lot of single men can be very unreasonable in their expectations for replies. We only get one or two messages per days, but after over 2 years of using Fab it starts to feel like a tedious administrative process having to reply to messages on a daily basis when we hadn't asked for these messages in the first place. And some people get a lot more messages than us. Also the problem with replying is that it nearly always seems to instigate another message from the sender - more some bizarre reason a lot of men feel the need to say 'thank you for your reply' this extending an email exchange that we never wanted. At the end of the day everybody is on Fab for their own selfish reasons, and those reasons are unlikely to include the admin task of sending 'rejection letters'.
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Why do people look at your profile and send a wink or a message but when you reply back and you don't get a reply just think its rude would be happy with thanks but no thanks. "
OP..Just a thought..Do you reply to the people who send flyers and junk mail though the post? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do people look at your profile and send a wink or a message but when you reply back and you don't get a reply just think its rude would be happy with thanks but no thanks.
OP..Just a thought..Do you reply to the people who send flyers and junk mail though the post?"
You and a few others on this thread make me seriously worry about the level of reading comprehension.
He's been messaged first.
So in your example it would be;
He receives the flyer,
He phones the resturant/business that sent the flyer,
The business never answers its phone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do people look at your profile and send a wink or a message but when you reply back and you don't get a reply just think its rude would be happy with thanks but no thanks.
OP..Just a thought..Do you reply to the people who send flyers and junk mail though the post?
You and a few others on this thread make me seriously worry about the level of reading comprehension.
He's been messaged first.
So in your example it would be;
He receives the flyer,
He phones the resturant/business that sent the flyer,
The business never answers its phone."
Yes that is very true. A business that sends a flyer then makes it impossible to do business is probably not serious. Timewaster! All too familiar expression on Fab  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"don't expect anything to make sense on here.
people lose messages amongst all their other messages.
people get bored or put off.
people are always looking for the next sure thing.
people are fake.
people are people.
erm that's all i can think of.
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You forgot 'people are strange'
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do people look at your profile and send a wink or a message but when you reply back and you don't get a reply just think its rude would be happy with thanks but no thanks.
OP..Just a thought..Do you reply to the people who send flyers and junk mail though the post?
You and a few others on this thread make me seriously worry about the level of reading comprehension.
He's been messaged first.
So in your example it would be;
He receives the flyer,
He phones the resturant/business that sent the flyer,
The business never answers its phone."
I'm glad I wasn't the only one to notice this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"don't expect anything to make sense on here.
people lose messages amongst all their other messages.
people get bored or put off.
people are always looking for the next sure thing.
people are fake.
people are people.
erm that's all i can think of.
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That about sums it up... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"don't expect anything to make sense on here.
people lose messages amongst all their other messages.
people get bored or put off.
people are always looking for the next sure thing.
people are fake.
people are people.
erm that's all i can think of.
That about sums it up... "
i missed out people are strange.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do people look at your profile and send a wink or a message but when you reply back and you don't get a reply just think its rude would be happy with thanks but no thanks.
OP..Just a thought..Do you reply to the people who send flyers and junk mail though the post?
You and a few others on this thread make me seriously worry about the level of reading comprehension.
He's been messaged first.
So in your example it would be;
He receives the flyer,
He phones the resturant/business that sent the flyer,
The business never answers its phone.
I'm glad I wasn't the only one to notice this. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Be thankful you got a wink I've never had one or a message. Having said that my profile a. says nothing about me and b. all my pics are private. So only myself to blame. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have sent winks accidentally,stubby fingers on touch screen,that could explain some winks.no idea how to explain someone sending a message then not replying to your response  |
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"that's boring.
you gotta be fake as fuck as a male to get anywhere on here.
pretend you're what the ladies are looking for, blag it."
Complete load of shit!!!
When mr was a single male! He never had an issues!
Be yourself, be honest and polite! Don't hassle females or cpls and put yourself out there! i.e. Socials and clubs! That is how single men get meets and makes friends
It's not brain science |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Yes thats true but but even a simple no thanks is better then no reply but even if they don't like what they see why do they send a wink or a message first to you that's my point. "
It is a good point, as they have messaged you first and I think a reply would be appropriate, in this case. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Why do people look at your profile and send a wink or a message but when you reply back and you don't get a reply just think its rude would be happy with thanks but no thanks.
OP..Just a thought..Do you reply to the people who send flyers and junk mail though the post?"
But they messaged him first. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Why do people look at your profile and send a wink or a message but when you reply back and you don't get a reply just think its rude would be happy with thanks but no thanks.
OP..Just a thought..Do you reply to the people who send flyers and junk mail though the post?
You and a few others on this thread make me seriously worry about the level of reading comprehension.
He's been messaged first.
So in your example it would be;
He receives the flyer,
He phones the resturant/business that sent the flyer,
The business never answers its phone."
This |
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"Why do people look at your profile and send a wink or a message but when you reply back and you don't get a reply just think its rude would be happy with thanks but no thanks.
OP..Just a thought..Do you reply to the people who send flyers and junk mail though the post?
You and a few others on this thread make me seriously worry about the level of reading comprehension.
He's been messaged first.
So in your example it would be;
He receives the flyer,
He phones the resturant/business that sent the flyer,
The business never answers its phone."
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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Sorry seem to be repeating other's posts.The OP has received a wink and some sort of message, he messages back and gets no response. Unless he was very rude, which is unlikely, I would have thought a simple 'Ive' changed my mind' would have been appropriate, in this case. |
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A wink doesn't mean they want to fuck you though sometimes it's nothing more than a passing compliment.
I don't care for winks. I don't send any and I don't pay no attention to mine if people are interested they can message me |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"A wink doesn't mean they want to fuck you though sometimes it's nothing more than a passing compliment.
I don't care for winks. I don't send any and I don't pay no attention to mine if people are interested they can message me "
They did send him a message as well as a wink. |
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"A wink doesn't mean they want to fuck you though sometimes it's nothing more than a passing compliment.
I don't care for winks. I don't send any and I don't pay no attention to mine if people are interested they can message me
They did send him a message as well as a wink."
No he said a wink OR a message in his OP I was addressing the issue of the wink |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"A wink doesn't mean they want to fuck you though sometimes it's nothing more than a passing compliment.
I don't care for winks. I don't send any and I don't pay no attention to mine if people are interested they can message me
They did send him a message as well as a wink.
No he said a wink OR a message in his OP I was addressing the issue of the wink "
Apologies,you're quite right about the wink, that doesn't warrant a reply |
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