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By *ovemalcontent OP Couple over a year ago

Leeds

So we've been speaking to a few people and they all have different meanings for soft swap. What does it mean to you?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everything but full sex to us

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

foreplay really, using hands and mouths on each other.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Everything but full sex to us "

This to us also

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ditto

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By *lik and PaulCouple over a year ago

cahoots

Double ditto

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By *amissCouple over a year ago

chelmsford

"Double ditto

Treble ditto

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By *icplshropsCouple over a year ago

Rock

Anything except full penetration

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By *imited 3EditionCouple over a year ago

Live in Scotland Play in England

"So we've been speaking to a few people and they all have different meanings for soft swap. What does it mean to you? "

Agree with what others are saying... What else can it mean?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Double ditto

Treble ditto

Quadruple ditto

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Double ditto

Treble ditto

Quadruple ditto

quintuple Ditto if I may, but a discussion between the couples to confirm all are happy with any boundaries, it could be non oral too.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple over a year ago

In your bed

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By *uckandbunnyCouple over a year ago

In your bed

"Double ditto

Treble ditto

Quadruple ditto

quintuple Ditto if I may, but a discussion between the couples to confirm all are happy with any boundaries, it could be non oral too. "

Sexidito!

Although we don't count strap-ons or dildos.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple over a year ago

In your bed

"So we've been speaking to a few people and they all have different meanings for soft swap. What does it mean to you? "

Plenty of examples of soft swapping to observe from at quest on couples Saturdays.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everything for us except penetration and also in the same room. Very erotic to watch and also join in together.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everything but penetration.

Social drinks even as a swap, or hot wife scene ( hubby at home work etc wife going for drinks with the guy)

Oral play etc.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it's a good thing for starters people getting into swinging and or those who don't want to go the full thing but have a bit of spice.

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By *jandmcCouple over a year ago

Lancs

"Anything except full penetration "
yep.

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple over a year ago

Bristol

What ever makes the other couple happy, without punching their limits.

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By *ovemalcontent OP Couple over a year ago

Leeds

This is what we thought, but sometimes when we say we're looking for soft swap a few people reply with 'what do you class as soft swap?'

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By *roovytwoCouple over a year ago

burnley

"Anything except full penetration yep."

That's what we understand by soft swap. Some couples also exclude kissing,some also exclude oral,so best to be clear

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So we've been speaking to a few people and they all have different meanings for soft swap. What does it mean to you? "

...that I run away in the opposite direction. Nothing in it for me. Full play for all involved or nothing at all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've never actually done soft swap, it's always been full, so I'm finding this thread interesting.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple over a year ago

In your bed

"This is what we thought, but sometimes when we say we're looking for soft swap a few people reply with 'what do you class as soft swap?'

I'd say the no kissing is a separate thing.

Some people full swap but don't kiss.

Some people do anal but don't kiss.

Some people just want to watch others and not touch.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Soft swap to us means everything but penetrative sex, that's it....

We enjoy full swap but happy to engage in soft swap too, variety eh! One of our regular couples we engage in soft swap never full and those meets have always been fab!

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By *ilts softiesCouple over a year ago

marlbourgh

for us its the girls playing and the men joining in with there own partners

think it means something different to everyone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Soft swap to us means everything but penetrative sex, that's it....

We enjoy full swap but happy to engage in soft swap too, variety eh! One of our regular couples we engage in soft swap never full and those meets have always been fab! "

Same for us, we enjoy both, but have had some amazing soft swap meets that can be just as hot as full with the right people

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By *uckandbunnyCouple over a year ago

In your bed

We've done both in the past. Both equally fun if you have the right people. But even our full swap meets used to be 90% softswap.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We've done both in the past. Both equally fun if you have the right people. But even our full swap meets used to be 90% softswap. "

This for us too!

Soft swap (everything except penetration by cock) is very erotic and sensual - super to watch too! m x

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By *laymate guyMan over a year ago

Leeds and London

Soft-swap/swing/play - exquisite...

I/we find it far immeasurably more erotic than 'meeting for sex', which can be very automated, cold and clinical.

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