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Why is it so difficult to get a meet ?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

How can it be so difficult to get NSA sex for an average looking , normal , genuine, decent guy just looking for fun ......I don't get it !

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

You're one of thousands of single guys on the site.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Profile is a it negative and try some picks without your cock in, but also get yourself to so organised socials thay are the best way to meet couples

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Appreciate the advice. I have plenty of face pics and when I'm messaging people I do send them happily . Just dont want them accessible on site due to work etc so like to know who I'm talking to before sending. Yeah , I never know what to write on my page. I realise that's a bit boring lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You don't have to put your face in just not all pics of your cock lol

and just take things slowly

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yeah I guess not. My body just isn't anything special lol (not that I'm suggesting my penis is haha ) thanks

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By *ougar_n_TILFCouple over a year ago

Burton on Trent

There's CJ's club in Glasgow, and also one called The Shoe Box. There's After 8 in Edinburgh. There are also socials in Glasgow and Edinburgh.

If all you're doing is messaging and counting on the strength of your profile to get people to come to you, then you'll have a long wait.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It may due to the way your hold your cock mate, put more conviction into it, and you'll get the meet you deserve Obi1

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It may due to the way your hold your cock mate, put more conviction into it, and you'll get the meet you deserve Obi1"

BTW nice shirt

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By *iverpool 2Couple over a year ago

Liverpool

In my opinion my Mrs is stunning and we struggle getting meets, we've found clubs and organised parties are your best bet of getting down and dirty x

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By *ifeCouple66Couple over a year ago

Fife

Totally know what you mean! Been to clubs too and just not happening!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fab can be cruel for the male ego I hear

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By *UNKIEMan over a year ago

south east

To get meets depends on many factors ..how you conduct yourself ,how much effort you put in ..what are your expectations etc...theres no easy answer

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hey sorry guys just came back on after work. Thanks for all your advice , looks like my best bet is maybe a club environment or something along those lines and maybe meet people that way. I'm pretty honest with folk in messages and put alot of effort into my messages etc but I guess that's probably not enough , plus I realise my page is pretty boring

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How can it be so difficult to get NSA sex for an average looking , normal , genuine, decent guy just looking for fun ......I don't get it ! "

Because in life there will always be more men than women looking for NSA sex. That includes FAB. If there were equal numbers of men and women looking for NSA then there would be no problem for an average normal decent guy.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I live in a very small village and women are few and far between. Been impossible to find someone to play with lol

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By *weedishpstarMan over a year ago

Hull

You block all messages no wonder it's hard to meet x

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By *inkySlinkyCouple over a year ago

Leeds

OP you say you put a lot of effort into your messages. I think you need to put more effort into your profile and pics xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cos you're an ugly cun....! Hahaha just messing mate.

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By *andi_shopWoman over a year ago

rotherham

Your profile doesn't stand out so your initial message needs to be really well thought out and reflect who your messaging

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"plus I realise my page is pretty boring

x "

Yes it is and for an educated man you can't write something decent?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How can it be so difficult to get NSA sex for an average looking , normal , genuine, decent guy just looking for fun ......I don't get it ! "

It isn't. Next?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally I have found having more clothes in my profile pic helps. I think having a tailored suit or anything smart/casual shows you take a bit of pride in your appearance, I may have just got lucky. I also find not mentioning sex and such in mails is better too as for the most part people want to see a social and chatty you before the intimate you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It is hard.

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By *jayupforitMan over a year ago

Mitcham

"To get meets depends on many factors ..how you conduct yourself ,how much effort you put in ..what are your expectations etc...theres no easy answer

Well said indeed

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By *jayupforitMan over a year ago

Mitcham

As long as the last picture you get before a meeting don't show the state of lump's and bump's you was going to get yourself into wtf

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You're profile is negative and boring. And add more pictures without your cock on show. Surely if you're well educated you can do better than you've done. You need to put in effort to reap rewards.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Appreciate the advice. I have plenty of face pics and when I'm messaging people I do send them happily . Just dont want them accessible on site due to work etc "

Why, is your employer on fab too?

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"How can it be so difficult to get NSA sex for an average looking , normal , genuine, decent guy just looking for fun ......I don't get it ! "

You're an educated man. Work it out. It's because other men are not negative and have more to offer either physically or mentally (or both), and maybe you have too but you're not allowing people to see that side of you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I know people on this forum dont like being honest, but getting meets on here is simply about doing either of three things:

1. Being especially physically attractive

2. Possessing an extra large cock/VWE (7" minimum)

3. Being especially outgoing and attending as many socials and real life events as you can.

Thats it. There is an abundance of men here and thus it becomes lopsided in the favor of single women and couples. Just the way it is. I dont get guys who sit and complain about it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How can it be so difficult to get NSA sex for an average looking , normal , genuine, decent guy just looking for fun ......I don't get it ! "

I thought I'd replied to this.....and many others.

It just is.

Just like the sky is blue.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just the way she goes..

I'd rather still the chance of finding some kinky piece of awesome on here doe :D

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago