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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Has anyone been in such thing? We had before we rejoined on here. She had a fb but came to a point they were seeing each other. 8 months it lasted. Meals, drinks,cinema,hotels and staying over etc. I knew where she was all time.. No arguing, no cheating, no jealousy it just worked between 3 of us  |
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"Has anyone been in such thing? We had before we rejoined on here. She had a fb but came to a point they were seeing each other. 8 months it lasted. Meals, drinks,cinema,hotels and staying over etc. I knew where she was all time.. No arguing, no cheating, no jealousy it just worked between 3 of us "
No, but think this exact scenario would work for us.
Glad it went well for you.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Has anyone been in such thing? We had before we rejoined on here. She had a fb but came to a point they were seeing each other. 8 months it lasted. Meals, drinks,cinema,hotels and staying over etc. I knew where she was all time.. No arguing, no cheating, no jealousy it just worked between 3 of us
No, but think this exact scenario would work for us.
Glad it went well for you.
D"
Thanks. Was an experience that's for sure.
And the guy she started seeing was an ex collegue lol he knew about it and was happy about it all. Only downside they had to go outa town for the nights out for obvious reasons  |
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over a year ago
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I'd absolutely love that but only thing hubby is uncomfortable with is a guy spending any money on me which is a shame! I'm happy to pay my way but it's still nice to get treated now and again. Although hubby spoils me l! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh wow a FB I could go to the cinema and meals with that would be so cool :D unfortunately my other half is blissfully unaware of this part of my life I would love it if he was ok with it all |
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"Has anyone been in such thing? We had before we rejoined on here. She had a fb but came to a point they were seeing each other. 8 months it lasted. Meals, drinks,cinema,hotels and staying over etc. I knew where she was all time.. No arguing, no cheating, no jealousy it just worked between 3 of us "
Sounds a great idea, For me finding the right couple and where they lived would be the main issue |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We was once in a similar situation but turned out the other guy wasn't happy with a bit of the pie he wanted the whole thing!
it's so easy for a woman to get emotionally involved with the other guy as its all to easy for them to become a better option as they don't have to live with all the day to day shit that you have as a couple as in work bills household chores and kids etc.
Which leads to the other guy looking like a better option as if he decides he no longer wants to share then he we make an extra effort make all their time together all about her and making her feel good about herself and if you add that to the feeling of meeting someone new than you may find yourself in a situation that you won't like..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had a few of these 3 way relationships... but when my girlfriend found out ... she wasn't too keen on the idea  "
Can always rely on you for an amazing comment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Since we started exploring hotwifing 3 and a half years ago we have had 5 threeway relationships, sometimes at the same time. 3 of them have now left the swing scene. One of them we see every couple of months and have been for nearly 2 years. Another we saw intensely for 5 months, and may rekindle it. We love it, but the psychology has to work.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We was once in a similar situation but turned out the other guy wasn't happy with a bit of the pie he wanted the whole thing!
it's so easy for a woman to get emotionally involved with the other guy as its all to easy for them to become a better option as they don't have to live with all the day to day shit that you have as a couple as in work bills household chores and kids etc.
Which leads to the other guy looking like a better option as if he decides he no longer wants to share then he we make an extra effort make all their time together all about her and making her feel good about herself and if you add that to the feeling of meeting someone new than you may find yourself in a situation that you won't like..
Kevin "
Yeah that's it we knew what was going on. The other guy had a child and home too so knew it was just fun nothing more. BUT it came to a point where he was getting bored of hiding it and going out of town just for meals and for a drink etc so he ended it and decided to look for a girl for himself..
As I say was good fun, it worked and would be good to do it again |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Would like to put the shoe in the other foot and try it with another woman shame they aren't as easy to find
"We was once in a similar situation but turned out the other guy wasn't happy with a bit of the pie he wanted the whole thing!
it's so easy for a woman to get emotionally involved with the other guy as its all to easy for them to become a better option as they don't have to live with all the day to day shit that you have as a couple as in work bills household chores and kids etc.
Which leads to the other guy looking like a better option as if he decides he no longer wants to share then he we make an extra effort make all their time together all about her and making her feel good about herself and if you add that to the feeling of meeting someone new than you may find yourself in a situation that you won't like..
Kevin
Yeah that's it we knew what was going on. The other guy had a child and home too so knew it was just fun nothing more. BUT it came to a point where he was getting bored of hiding it and going out of town just for meals and for a drink etc so he ended it and decided to look for a girl for himself..
As I say was good fun, it worked and would be good to do it again "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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my mate split up with his wife and moved in with us for a while. he had already fucked my wife a few times, great sex
for a while but then the novelty and thrill seemed to wear off and it didn't work out |
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We are hoping to go down the polyamorous route but everyone has to be honest with each other for it to work
We want a 2nd bf for pink that we would only play with and explore but would expect him to be the same with us
Big ask as the temptations of fab is too great for them we feel |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are hoping to go down the polyamorous route but everyone has to be honest with each other for it to work
We want a 2nd bf for pink that we would only play with and explore but would expect him to be the same with us
Big ask as the temptations of fab is too great for them we feel "
Now this guy you're looking for ...... would you be looking for a skinny nerdy guy ?.... just for contrast since you already have a beefcake...  |
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"We are hoping to go down the polyamorous route but everyone has to be honest with each other for it to work
We want a 2nd bf for pink that we would only play with and explore but would expect him to be the same with us
Big ask as the temptations of fab is too great for them we feel "
We were after something similar. We felt it was too much to ask of a single guy to be exclusive to us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are hoping to go down the polyamorous route but everyone has to be honest with each other for it to work
We want a 2nd bf for pink that we would only play with and explore but would expect him to be the same with us
Big ask as the temptations of fab is too great for them we feel "
I don't think this is possible if exclusivity is expected. Not so much because of the temptations of Fab, but more to do with the psychology associated with why a single man would choose to sign up to this arrangement. If a man is naturally monogamous, he would probably want his own partner, not share someone else's. As I said earlier in the thread, we've had a number of threeway relationships. All these men had one thing in common. They were free spirits who didn't want to commit to anyone. They enjoyed their relationship with me because I didn't expect anything from them. A man willing to be faithful and exclusive, would probably not be interested in this type of relationship. And with all my relationships I'm constantly aware that it only lasts for as long as they don't have a girlfriend.
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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago
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"We was once in a similar situation but turned out the other guy wasn't happy with a bit of the pie he wanted the whole thing!
it's so easy for a woman to get emotionally involved with the other guy as its all to easy for them to become a better option as they don't have to live with all the day to day shit that you have as a couple as in work bills household chores and kids etc.
Which leads to the other guy looking like a better option as if he decides he no longer wants to share then he we make an extra effort make all their time together all about her and making her feel good about herself and if you add that to the feeling of meeting someone new than you may find yourself in a situation that you won't like..
Kevin "
U got to make sure the " other" fella nos the coo..
She your women ..u just loaning her to him...
For me it easy as I don't want a fulltime women. .I like my place as it is thanks..lmao  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are hoping to go down the polyamorous route but everyone has to be honest with each other for it to work
We want a 2nd bf for pink that we would only play with and explore but would expect him to be the same with us
Big ask as the temptations of fab is too great for them we feel
I don't think this is possible if exclusivity is expected. Not so much because of the temptations of Fab, but more to do with the psychology associated with why a single man would choose to sign up to this arrangement. If a man is naturally monogamous, he would probably want his own partner, not share someone else's. As I said earlier in the thread, we've had a number of threeway relationships. All these men had one thing in common. They were free spirits who didn't want to commit to anyone. They enjoyed their relationship with me because I didn't expect anything from them. A man willing to be faithful and exclusive, would probably not be interested in this type of relationship. And with all my relationships I'm constantly aware that it only lasts for as long as they don't have a girlfriend.
Mrs"
My other boyfriend hasn't seen anybody since he broke up with his other girlfriend some four years ago, despite me having been active (both casual meets and taking up a new lover). We met on a different swinging site. He is exceptional yes, yet still I have been with other men who only saw me (their preference or situation, not my request). Not everyone who is non-mono is a player  |
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
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"Has anyone been in such thing? We had before we rejoined on here. She had a fb but came to a point they were seeing each other. 8 months it lasted. Meals, drinks,cinema,hotels and staying over etc. I knew where she was all time.. No arguing, no cheating, no jealousy it just worked between 3 of us "
I admire people that can do this. They clearly have great trust and communication. I imagine it's great when it works. I don't think I could ever put myself in that position though. |
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We have a girlfriend who we both sleep with together or separately and love her. We have all been together for nearly 30 years and lived together for many of them on and off. She has had the occasional relationship and moved in with a boyfriend and we have stayed separate but in the end the relationship fails and she ends up back with us.
There is an incredibly strong emotional tie between the three of us that survives everything. Our families know about this including our daughter who is named after her. We would say though that what we have is very rare and not something we looked for but just happened. We certainly don't think you can go out and try to engineer such a situation. |
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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago
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"We are hoping to go down the polyamorous route but everyone has to be honest with each other for it to work
We want a 2nd bf for pink that we would only play with and explore but would expect him to be the same with us
Big ask as the temptations of fab is too great for them we feel "
I don't think fab would make a difference. .if someone enjoyed similar interests and was happy with how things were with u both....
Then u could all go to clubs...  |
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By *eppoMan
over a year ago
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"We was once in a similar situation but turned out the other guy wasn't happy with a bit of the pie he wanted the whole thing!
it's so easy for a woman to get emotionally involved with the other guy as its all to easy for them to become a better option as they don't have to live with all the day to day shit that you have as a couple as in work bills household chores and kids etc.
Which leads to the other guy looking like a better option as if he decides he no longer wants to share then he we make an extra effort make all their time together all about her and making her feel good about herself and if you add that to the feeling of meeting someone new than you may find yourself in a situation that you won't like..
Yeah very valid points
Got to be careful the b/f isn't only sharing the good parts
Very lopsided scenario otherwise
Kevin "
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By (user no longer on site)
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This would be so much fun but then I'd feel guilty that hubby didn't have a gf too so then it would turn into a four-way, then we wouldn't expect them to be totally faithful to us so then it could turn into an all out free for all and that just sounds too complicated |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are hoping to go down the polyamorous route but everyone has to be honest with each other for it to work
We want a 2nd bf for pink that we would only play with and explore but would expect him to be the same with us
Big ask as the temptations of fab is too great for them we feel
Well actually now you mention it, one of my guys I think wanted to have just me, although he started off with a few. Ironically I just went totally off him when it was just me. I guess the only exclusivity just doesn't work for me.
I don't think this is possible if exclusivity is expected. Not so much because of the temptations of Fab, but more to do with the psychology associated with why a single man would choose to sign up to this arrangement. If a man is naturally monogamous, he would probably want his own partner, not share someone else's. As I said earlier in the thread, we've had a number of threeway relationships. All these men had one thing in common. They were free spirits who didn't want to commit to anyone. They enjoyed their relationship with me because I didn't expect anything from them. A man willing to be faithful and exclusive, would probably not be interested in this type of relationship. And with all my relationships I'm constantly aware that it only lasts for as long as they don't have a girlfriend.
Mrs
My other boyfriend hasn't seen anybody since he broke up with his other girlfriend some four years ago, despite me having been active (both casual meets and taking up a new lover). We met on a different swinging site. He is exceptional yes, yet still I have been with other men who only saw me (their preference or situation, not my request). Not everyone who is non-mono is a player "
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"Has anyone been in such thing? We had before we rejoined on here. She had a fb but came to a point they were seeing each other. 8 months it lasted. Meals, drinks,cinema,hotels and staying over etc. I knew where she was all time.. No arguing, no cheating, no jealousy it just worked between 3 of us "
That's pretty hot |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are hoping to go down the polyamorous route but everyone has to be honest with each other for it to work
We want a 2nd bf for pink that we would only play with and explore but would expect him to be the same with us
Big ask as the temptations of fab is too great for them we feel
I don't think this is possible if exclusivity is expected. Not so much because of the temptations of Fab, but more to do with the psychology associated with why a single man would choose to sign up to this arrangement. If a man is naturally monogamous, he would probably want his own partner, not share someone else's. As I said earlier in the thread, we've had a number of threeway relationships. All these men had one thing in common. They were free spirits who didn't want to commit to anyone. They enjoyed their relationship with me because I didn't expect anything from them. A man willing to be faithful and exclusive, would probably not be interested in this type of relationship. And with all my relationships I'm constantly aware that it only lasts for as long as they don't have a girlfriend.
Mrs
My other boyfriend hasn't seen anybody since he broke up with his other girlfriend some four years ago, despite me having been active (both casual meets and taking up a new lover). We met on a different swinging site. He is exceptional yes, yet still I have been with other men who only saw me (their preference or situation, not my request). Not everyone who is non-mono is a player "
Yes that's true, not all do. We did see a guy for about a year. He started off with a number of partners, but towards the end it was just me, and I think he was as happy with that situation. I didn't like it though when he started being exclusive to me. It seemed wrong, it turned me off. So I ended it. |
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"We have a girlfriend who we both sleep with together or separately and love her. We have all been together for nearly 30 years and lived together for many of them on and off. She has had the occasional relationship and moved in with a boyfriend and we have stayed separate but in the end the relationship fails and she ends up back with us.
There is an incredibly strong emotional tie between the three of us that survives everything. Our families know about this including our daughter who is named after her. We would say though that what we have is very rare and not something we looked for but just happened. We certainly don't think you can go out and try to engineer such a situation. "
How wonderful |
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To me its sounds like an early curiosity over polyamory. My advice is you look at the book 'more than two' possibly focussing on the sections on couples privilege. It can work, it does work, and by all accounts it more common than we know but communication is important after that, and I cant stress this enough, organisation is important so that you can ensure equanimity and feelings are met by all. |
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"We have a girlfriend who we both sleep with together or separately and love her. We have all been together for nearly 30 years and lived together for many of them on and off. She has had the occasional relationship and moved in with a boyfriend and we have stayed separate but in the end the relationship fails and she ends up back with us.
There is an incredibly strong emotional tie between the three of us that survives everything. Our families know about this including our daughter who is named after her. We would say though that what we have is very rare and not something we looked for but just happened. We certainly don't think you can go out and try to engineer such a situation. "
Sweet post. 30 years! If that is not a life partner I don't know what is. |
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We went down this route with a young lady friend of our for about 6 months a long time ago.
We were living together, doing everything together, even took her on an expensive holiday to Disneyworld.
It was more for the ladies, but it did seem to work as long as honesty was maintained, but it soon broke down after that bond was broken. We felt like we had been taken for a ride. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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The guy in the thread wasn't on here. He was amy ex work colleague of hers. They both liked each other and flirted when it was works nights out. So we agreed to see what happened and after that 1 night it carried on
But as others have said Yes I did try and look for a female for myself but no such luck cos most females think guys are cheating.
Hey ho. |
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"personally having two woman on ago would be to much. 1 enough. any guy who can live with 2 woman deserves a Gold medal lol "
A gold medal ? Depends on his athletic prowess lol he might not even scrape a bronze haha  |
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"We have a girlfriend who we both sleep with together or separately and love her. We have all been together for nearly 30 years and lived together for many of them on and off. She has had the occasional relationship and moved in with a boyfriend and we have stayed separate but in the end the relationship fails and she ends up back with us.
There is an incredibly strong emotional tie between the three of us that survives everything. Our families know about this including our daughter who is named after her. We would say though that what we have is very rare and not something we looked for but just happened. We certainly don't think you can go out and try to engineer such a situation. "
This is just   |
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"personally having two woman on ago would be to much. 1 enough. any guy who can live with 2 woman deserves a Gold medal lol
Lol "
was so you could have a break chill out time to yourself when your misses saw this other guy |
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i met a couple of another swinging site i knew them for 8 years he would let me meet up with his wife flirt and have a play in car with her on my own it was good fun we became good friends no jealousy no cheating all trust worthy fun i think its a good idea a 3way relationship where there is trus |
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i met a couple of another swinging site i knew them for 8 years he would let me meet up with his wife flirt and have a play in car with her on my own it was good fun we became good friends no jealousy no cheating all trust worthy fun i think its a good idea a 3way relationship where there is trust |
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"i met a couple of another swinging site i knew them for 8 years he would let me meet up with his wife flirt and have a play in car with her on my own it was good fun we became good friends no jealousy no cheating all trust worthy fun i think its a good idea a 3way relationship where there is trust"
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I think good communication, mutual respect for each other as an individual and as part of the dynamic and no hidden agendas are key. Once any of that is lost it can be a receipe for disaster.
If anyone manages to make it work please pass on some tips as it's something I'm very keen on. Just can't find the right couple. |
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I was in a relationship with a very hot lady for two yeas.Her husband was a cuck and knew all about things.She took great delight in flaunting the fact that she was in control of his sex life. |
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"I think good communication, mutual respect for each other as an individual and as part of the dynamic and no hidden agendas are key. Once any of that is lost it can be a receipe for disaster.
If anyone manages to make it work please pass on some tips as it's something I'm very keen on. Just can't find the right couple."
You can with us but having a hidden profile we havnt a clue where your from or what you look like lol |
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"I think good communication, mutual respect for each other as an individual and as part of the dynamic and no hidden agendas are key. Once any of that is lost it can be a receipe for disaster.
If anyone manages to make it work please pass on some tips as it's something I'm very keen on. Just can't find the right couple.
You can with us but having a hidden profile we havnt a clue where your from or what you look like lol "
It's hidden cos I'm having a break. |
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"Has anyone been in such thing? We had before we rejoined on here. She had a fb but came to a point they were seeing each other. 8 months it lasted. Meals, drinks,cinema,hotels and staying over etc. I knew where she was all time.. No arguing, no cheating, no jealousy it just worked between 3 of us "
We had one that lasted almost three years. |
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We've had a three way for 7 years now. Its great. He and her do hotels, or he stays over, or holidays with us. It's all very relaxed. They get on very well sexually and we all get on well as friends. |
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"We find the whole concept thrilling. Enhancing an already fulfilling marriage with a long-term addition, perhaps weekends and holidays together."
This does sound ideal, certainly interested |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We've considered taking in a lodger who can fuck slut whenever he wants even when I'm out at work"
We thought of this a long time ago but have a youngen now so wouldn't be right. |
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"We've had a three way for 7 years now. Its great. He and her do hotels, or he stays over, or holidays with us. It's all very relaxed. They get on very well sexually and we all get on well as friends. "
I'd love this  |
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"We've had a three way for 7 years now. Its great. He and her do hotels, or he stays over, or holidays with us. It's all very relaxed. They get on very well sexually and we all get on well as friends. "
Nice when you can find it
It's one of the reason's we mainly only seek local folk to see if we can find someone for this but never seems to happen |
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We have this and it's brilliant. Ruth enjoys staying over with and going out with her boyfriend 1:1 and we also enjoy meeting as a Mmf. We are slowly introducing a previously vanilla lady into this lifestyle to hopefully make into a four way relationship. |
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"We have this and it's brilliant. Ruth enjoys staying over with and going out with her boyfriend 1:1 and we also enjoy meeting as a Mmf. We are slowly introducing a previously vanilla lady into this lifestyle to hopefully make into a four way relationship. "
That's a lovely relationship - would love to find a couple that I could do the same with |
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"We've had a three way for 7 years now. Its great. He and her do hotels, or he stays over, or holidays with us. It's all very relaxed. They get on very well sexually and we all get on well as friends. "
Wow - that's perfect! I am very jealous! |
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I'd love this, buts it's hard enough finding a couple where everyone is mutually attracted to each other. finding one wanting a regular exclusive relationship seems impossible!  |
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To be invited into a couples life and to share some of their special moments is a joy and a pleasure ....once the trust is there it really can be an amazing time for all 3 involved.....very rare but worth searching for because if it works it's special ... |
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"We have a girlfriend who we both sleep with together or separately and love her. We have all been together for nearly 30 years and lived together for many of them on and off. She has had the occasional relationship and moved in with a boyfriend and we have stayed separate but in the end the relationship fails and she ends up back with us.
There is an incredibly strong emotional tie between the three of us that survives everything. Our families know about this including our daughter who is named after her. We would say though that what we have is very rare and not something we looked for but just happened. We certainly don't think you can go out and try to engineer such a situation. "
Lovely to read your post and agree with the point about engineering such a situation.. |
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"To be invited into a couples life and to share some of their special moments is a joy and a pleasure ....once the trust is there it really can be an amazing time for all 3 involved.....very rare but worth searching for because if it works it's special ..."
I've had something like that with a couple for a few years. Even went on holiday with them. |
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My wife has a FB and she's been seeing him for over a year now, he's even been up to stay with us a couple of times, I always know when she's with him as we're very honest and open about things, it works for us |
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"Since we started exploring hotwifing 3 and a half years ago we have had 5 threeway relationships, sometimes at the same time. 3 of them have now left the swing scene. One of them we see every couple of months and have been for nearly 2 years. Another we saw intensely for 5 months, and may rekindle it. We love it, but the psychology has to work.
Mrs "
im available x x |
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"We find the whole concept thrilling. Enhancing an already fulfilling marriage with a long-term addition, perhaps weekends and holidays together.
Exactly this !! "
choose me x x |
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I think it works well if the guy is married that is the boyfriend for in all of this.
It's additional fun for the wife in the husband know the bf wing get serious and clingy as he has his own wife.
The bf can meet his wife when free and as arranged and have fun. The bf very unlikely to look elsewhere or want to meet other women as he won't have time and finds s great set up.
It worked for me and was great set up and love same again. |
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We have a good friend/more than friend who plays with us both together and separately.
She has her own partner, but he's a dick.
And this is why you appreciate the women in your life, becuase then you deserve their time |
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I fancy the idea with another couple. It's getting the dynamics and boundaries right. It could only work without jealousy.
But I imagine the teasing between all 3 could be insatiable. In all my couple meets, I've only met one couple who would be suitable. |
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I've heard too many stories of this ending badly and wifey knicking the familiar hubby into touch in favour of the exciting new fella.
Having somebody to fuck occasionally is OK, but the romancing malarky is just asking for trouble.
It sounds idyllic, but I fear it all-too-often ends in tears. |
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