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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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I know there's a lot of dry October and dry January in terms of laying off the booze but how the hell do you end up spending the first month of the year sex less?  I know there's 9 days left of this month so I'm clinging on in right now but this seems to be an annual problem. I've only had 1 epic January in about a decade!
Any tips or hints to make it a fun filled fuck fest? |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"There's so many lovely sexy people on here. Choose someone, arrange a meet and go for it  "
Yeah I've been swinging for 10 years. The amount of fakes now on here is unreal. I've put up meets. I've messaged guys/couples after searching and nothing |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Arrange more meets? Go to clubs?
Meets cancel and I go to clubs. ...
Arrange better meets? Play more when you go to clubs? "
If I was attracted to anyone at clubs I would but I won't play for the sake of playing. How on earth do you arrange better meets? You chat, see if there's an attraction, arrange time /place and they either don't appear, cancel last minute or there's always something. |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Meet the people you've already met for round 2,3,4"
I would if they were local! My fb is in France....and the others I've met none of us are ever free at same time and that's not for want of trying |
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Haha for some reason I refused to let January go dry. But I am sure come February it will go downhill.
The only thing I can suggest is u choose one of the lovely guys from here. Yes sometimes it's a needle in a haystack but it's simple enough  |
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"Arrange more meets? Go to clubs?
Meets cancel and I go to clubs. ...
Arrange better meets? Play more when you go to clubs?
If I was attracted to anyone at clubs I would but I won't play for the sake of playing. How on earth do you arrange better meets? You chat, see if there's an attraction, arrange time /place and they either don't appear, cancel last minute or there's always something. "
When I was actively playing o rarely had a no show. Must must have been lucky.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Arrange more meets? Go to clubs?
Meets cancel and I go to clubs. ...
Arrange better meets? Play more when you go to clubs?
If I was attracted to anyone at clubs I would but I won't play for the sake of playing. How on earth do you arrange better meets? You chat, see if there's an attraction, arrange time /place and they either don't appear, cancel last minute or there's always something. "
I've only had 1 no show in 4 years. Maybe you should change your criteria when choosing men. |
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By *D835Man
over a year ago
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"There's so many lovely sexy people on here. Choose someone, arrange a meet and go for it
Yeah I've been swinging for 10 years. The amount of fakes now on here is unreal. I've put up meets. I've messaged guys/couples after searching and nothing "
Thought it was only men who faced these issues. |
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By *D835Man
over a year ago
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"Arrange more meets? Go to clubs?
Meets cancel and I go to clubs. ...
Arrange better meets? Play more when you go to clubs?
If I was attracted to anyone at clubs I would but I won't play for the sake of playing. How on earth do you arrange better meets? You chat, see if there's an attraction, arrange time /place and they either don't appear, cancel last minute or there's always something.
I've only had 1 no show in 4 years. Maybe you should change your criteria when choosing men."
Totally Agree  |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Haha for some reason I refused to let January go dry. But I am sure come February it will go downhill.
The only thing I can suggest is u choose one of the lovely guys from here. Yes sometimes it's a needle in a haystack but it's simple enough "
I'm trying...If one more person (Male usually) tells me to drop my standards I might have implode. You can't fuck what you don't find attractive  |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Arrange more meets? Go to clubs?
Meets cancel and I go to clubs. ...
Arrange better meets? Play more when you go to clubs?
If I was attracted to anyone at clubs I would but I won't play for the sake of playing. How on earth do you arrange better meets? You chat, see if there's an attraction, arrange time /place and they either don't appear, cancel last minute or there's always something.
I've only had 1 no show in 4 years. Maybe you should change your criteria when choosing men."
Change it how exactly? |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I feel your pain sweetness, December 11th was a long long LONG time ago. However, thank goodness for my little buzzy friend. "
Oh you aren't joking I'm ever so grateful for the power of the wand |
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If it's any consolation, I'm going without until April 
