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By *igbikerc OP Man
over a year ago
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Hi. Just want to see other people's opinions about this.
I feel pretty bad but I don't think I did anything wrong!
I had a meet last week, as arranged I took a bottle of vodka and the girl had told me she can handle lots of drink. She was missing vodka and wkd. I had vocddy and (sensible it turns out). We already had been chatting a while and we got along really well. As the evening goes on it gets more and more passionate and intense. Rough and exciting. She definitely enjoyed it as much as me as she squirted lots of times and told me at the end of the night as she snuggled up to me.
Next day cold ish shoulder but we were ok. Chatted in the phone for a few days and arranged the next meet was to be at mine. She is msging me in the night to say how she's playing thinking of me and wesex talk.
The day before she cancels and says she will be too tired from work. She stops taking for a couple of days (we had talked lots)
Then msgs me.to say we will never sleep together again as she remembers nothing of that night and how scared it has made her having this bad experience and that she's cancelled her account because of it
She says we can still be friends but never will we sleep together again.
Today she's set up a new account. She's denying it is but it definitely is.
I feel like really bad, I don't think I've done anything wrong.
Is it just a case of once again I've met someone fucked up?
My first time post in the forums. Please be nice (or I'll get you drink apparently!)
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"Hi. Just want to see other people's opinions about this.
I feel pretty bad but I don't think I did anything wrong!
I had a meet last week, as arranged I took a bottle of vodka and the girl had told me she can handle lots of drink. She was missing vodka and wkd. I had vocddy and (sensible it turns out). We already had been chatting a while and we got along really well. As the evening goes on it gets more and more passionate and intense. Rough and exciting. She definitely enjoyed it as much as me as she squirted lots of times and told me at the end of the night as she snuggled up to me.
Next day cold ish shoulder but we were ok. Chatted in the phone for a few days and arranged the next meet was to be at mine. She is msging me in the night to say how she's playing thinking of me and wesex talk.
The day before she cancels and says she will be too tired from work. She stops taking for a couple of days (we had talked lots)
Then msgs me.to say we will never sleep together again as she remembers nothing of that night and how scared it has made her having this bad experience and that she's cancelled her account because of it
She says we can still be friends but never will we sleep together again.
Today she's set up a new account. She's denying it is but it definitely is.
I feel like really bad, I don't think I've done anything wrong.
Is it just a case of once again I've met someone fucked up?
My first time post in the forums. Please be nice (or I'll get you drink apparently!)
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My only advice is screen grab every conversation you've had with her and then move on. |
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By *igbikerc OP Man
over a year ago
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"Hmm not sure where to start here as we've only got one side of the story. Just let it be a lesson, don't do d*unk meets  "
Like I said she seems to be fine being friends. Even on Facebook. I actually said it felt like she was accusing me of something. She said not but was annoyed with herself. But csnt see why that would lead to us not sleeping g together again 
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over a year ago
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If I was scared by an experience there is absolutely no way I'd be saying I'd remain "friends" with that person. I think you've probably been a bit naive in drinking heavily on a meet together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Let this be a lesson learnt.
Don't delete any messages you have and take screen shots of any messages she's sent you.
In the future don't do anything with a girl who has consumed too much alcohol. It's not worth it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Definitely screen shot the conversation to protect yourself .
Based on the info you have provided I don't think she is telling the truth about that night . Why would she be sexting you and arrange another meet if she felt that way . And then deleting the account and setting up a new one ? Sounds like a weirdo |
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"Hmm not sure where to start here as we've only got one side of the story. Just let it be a lesson, don't do d*unk meets
Like I said she seems to be fine being friends. Even on Facebook. I actually said it felt like she was accusing me of something. She said not but was annoyed with herself. But csnt see why that would lead to us not sleeping g together again
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Maybe she feels embarrassed and/or awkward |
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By *igbikerc OP Man
over a year ago
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"If I was scared by an experience there is absolutely no way I'd be saying I'd remain "friends" with that person. I think you've probably been a bit naive in drinking heavily on a meet together. "
That's what makes me think, I was a little d*unk but I can remember all.of it but I didn't mix spirits with more booze :/ |
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By *igbikerc OP Man
over a year ago
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"Definitely screen shot the conversation to protect yourself .
Based on the info you have provided I don't think she is telling the truth about that night . Why would she be sexting you and arrange another meet if she felt that way . And then deleting the account and setting up a new one ? Sounds like a weirdo "
Our onversation is all on what's app and stored. What was strange was no reference for days she felt odd in any way. Told me the night before she was looking forward to meeting me and coming to mine and then talkkng sex stuff. Then a complete turn around ? Odd |
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I wouldn't be her friend on any social media and move on and away. Hope you aren't displaying her veris ..... perhaps not, as she's gone as you say. Obviously you are feeling bad, but if I were you I wouldn't contact her again. |
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By *igbikerc OP Man
over a year ago
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Thanks guys, think it's a case of just learn move on.
I'm just shocked because I think of myself as a good judge of character and thought I read things well. We seemed to really click but when I mentioned this she said she didn't feel close. So obviously I've just read the whole thing wrong |
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