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What type of thing have put you off meeting someone again, without being specific?
For me, it is about someone trying to muscle in on my life and dictate it, like when we should meet, etc., so assuming too much ... |
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when he walked me back to my hotel then wouldn't leave and ran around the hotel looking for me after I escaped upstairs when he wasn't looking. Proper stalkerish and freaked me right out.
Damn shame though as he was an amazing kisser! |
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Interesting that both men and women dislike the same thing .... and that thing is not what swingers by definition do. We met on here and our meets developed into a relationship because we aren't clingy or demanding with each. other. Except when I demand coffee in the morning .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She had a British accent and offered me tea
Sorry to hear that.
I'll ask her to offer you coffee the next time,and to speak with an American accent.  "
Thank you brother, you feel my pain  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"very muscly guys also, think they're hot as fuck, no idea why they think i am though."
note to self:
fuck it, i have met a few of these guys ages ago. gonna do it again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If we didn't have amazing sex. I'm not here for sub-standard experiences
What would you consider sub-standard sex?"
anything where I'm not left with a massive grin on my face. ..and if I'm still capable of walking  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Men that think just cos I met them I'm going to have sex with them.
Gym fit men that think I owe it to them cos they did me a favour giving me their time. (Actually men in general there but more typical of the gym fit ones)
Anyone that thinks cos I have had sex with them I am theirs and theirs only.
Along with the usual bad hygiene, bad manners and just not having anything in common to have a half decent conversation about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men that think just cos I met them I'm going to have sex with them.
Gym fit men that think I owe it to them cos they did me a favour giving me their time. (Actually men in general there but more typical of the gym fit ones)
Anyone that thinks cos I have had sex with them I am theirs and theirs only.
Along with the usual bad hygiene, bad manners and just not having anything in common to have a half decent conversation about. "
Distance? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On a first meet and my first time on a hotel meet I was asked to put on his ex girlfriend's pink latex catsuit. I'm very tall and she must have been tiny as it didn't fit and was a passion killer trying to get it on. Then he pulled out rope, cuffs and a blindfold from a bag. Alarm bells started ringing. Final straw when I declined all that, he started taking drugs. We had never discussed any of that and he didn't look like his pics. I left sharpish and cried all the way home. Never ever again. It was when I first joined.. was too naive! |
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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago
secret town |
"What type of thing have put you off meeting someone again, without being specific?
For me, it is about someone trying to muscle in on my life and dictate it, like when we should meet, etc., so assuming too much ..."
Them who don't know the difference between a social And a sex meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If we didn't have amazing sex. I'm not here for sub-standard experiences
What would you consider sub-standard sex?
anything where I'm not left with a massive grin on my face. ..and if I'm still capable of walking "
That's quite a lot live up.... I'm just a shit shag |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If we didn't have amazing sex. I'm not here for sub-standard experiences
What would you consider sub-standard sex?
anything where I'm not left with a massive grin on my face. ..and if I'm still capable of walking
That's quite a lot live up.... I'm just a shit shag"
But you're honest...which is a plus. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
Hmm. It's a tricky one. Most people I have met I would gladly meet again but I will admit to having been slightly put off by a very small amount of people badgering me to meet again and contacting me off site with horny messages without so much as gauging my current state of sexual readiness. I understand that as a single guy on here the weight of numbers means that because they've met me once I am more of a likely prospect than messaging new girls but just because we've fucked once doesn't mean I am at their beck and call from that point on. |
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By *exatooCouple
over a year ago
Bournemouth/ Fuerteventura |
"What type of thing have put you off meeting someone again, without being specific?
For me, it is about someone trying to muscle in on my life and dictate it, like when we should meet, etc., so assuming too much ...
Them who don't know the difference between a social And a sex meet "
We had this recently, she started having sex with my Mr and he just carried on talking like we are still on the social  never even got his boxers off! F...ked with my head for a while. They then gave us the most amazing verification, talk about weird. We want dirty pure sex not a social |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What type of thing have put you off meeting someone again, without being specific?
For me, it is about someone trying to muscle in on my life and dictate it, like when we should meet, etc., so assuming too much ...
Them who don't know the difference between a social And a sex meet
We had this recently, she started having sex with my Mr and he just carried on talking like we are still on the social never even got his boxers off! F...ked with my head for a while. They then gave us the most amazing verification, talk about weird. We want dirty pure sex not a social "
Ok so the male half of the couple didn't have sex , he just watched and talked the whole time.... I'm a little confused |
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By *eppoMan
over a year ago
London Colney |
"He smoked and never took his slippers off and there was Jeremy Kyle blasting out of the TV. Also his cock was the size of a walnut.
Sally"
We're u not aware he had a small dick before u hooked up ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If we didn't have amazing sex. I'm not here for sub-standard experiences
What would you consider sub-standard sex?
anything where I'm not left with a massive grin on my face. ..and if I'm still capable of walking
That's quite a lot live up.... I'm just a shit shag"
that's OK. ...I'm not expecting anything from you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What type of thing have put you off meeting someone again, without being specific?
For me, it is about someone trying to muscle in on my life and dictate it, like when we should meet, etc., so assuming too much ..."
This most definetley! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What type of thing have put you off meeting someone again, without being specific?
For me, it is about someone trying to muscle in on my life and dictate it, like when we should meet, etc., so assuming too much ..."
Talking about themselves too much
Bad breath
Smelly flange
BO
D*unk
Turned into a weirdo
Just a few reasons to start with
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Met a guy for a social, he was lovely looking but could tell right away that his shirt hadn't been ironed. That's not all though, once face to face I noticed he had a snotty nose, so I told him he had something hanging from his nose. He picked it and flicked it across the bar
I sat and had a drink with him, desperately holding in my gags, then told him I needed to go. Such a shame as he was hot! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Met a guy for a social, he was lovely looking but could tell right away that his shirt hadn't been ironed. That's not all though, once face to face I noticed he had a snotty nose, so I told him he had something hanging from his nose. He picked it and flicked it across the bar
I sat and had a drink with him, desperately holding in my gags, then told him I needed to go. Such a shame as he was hot! "
You really couldn't over look the wrinkles in his shirt for a shag.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Met a guy for a social, he was lovely looking but could tell right away that his shirt hadn't been ironed. That's not all though, once face to face I noticed he had a snotty nose, so I told him he had something hanging from his nose. He picked it and flicked it across the bar
I sat and had a drink with him, desperately holding in my gags, then told him I needed to go. Such a shame as he was hot!
You really couldn't over look the wrinkles in his shirt for a shag..... "
Possibly. But the snotty nose was a deal breaker  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Met a guy for a social, he was lovely looking but could tell right away that his shirt hadn't been ironed. That's not all though, once face to face I noticed he had a snotty nose, so I told him he had something hanging from his nose. He picked it and flicked it across the bar
I sat and had a drink with him, desperately holding in my gags, then told him I needed to go. Such a shame as he was hot!
You really couldn't over look the wrinkles in his shirt for a shag.....
Possibly. But the snotty nose was a deal breaker "
This is why men and women ar so different...... wrinkled shirt and snotty nose will never stop a man from shaging |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hmm. It's a tricky one. Most people I have met I would gladly meet again but I will admit to having been slightly put off by a very small amount of people badgering me to meet again and contacting me off site with horny messages without so much as gauging my current state of sexual readiness. I understand that as a single guy on here the weight of numbers means that because they've met me once I am more of a likely prospect than messaging new girls but just because we've fucked once doesn't mean I am at their beck and call from that point on. "
Guys mainly/but also couples who keep asking allllll the time - big turn off! Whether we/I've met before or not - can't be doing 24/7 however much we'd like, and also different deeds for different needs! Hate feeling pressured and tend to not want to meet if people keep asking! It does depend on how people ask also - but don't just assume we are free for you 'today'! Not always as simple as that! X |
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"He smoked and never took his slippers off and there was Jeremy Kyle blasting out of the TV. Also his cock was the size of a walnut.
Sally
We're u not aware he had a small dick before u hooked up ??"
His dick pics were definitely not of his. Even so I did my best but I could not get his "walnut" erect. Afterwards he messaged, asking for a second meet. I said no politely, saying it was the smoking I didn't enjoy. ( Didn't mention his limp walnut). He called me a sad cow and blocked me.
Sally |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If they're crap shags.
If they won't go down on me, but expect a BJ.
If they struggle with the concept of 'no'.
If they do a runner while I'm in the loo."
Have you actually had a guy do a runner when you popped to the loo?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She had a British accent and offered me tea
Sorry to hear that.
I'll ask her to offer you coffee the next time,and to speak with an American accent.
Thank you brother, you feel my pain "
Was she gonna put milk in the tea? I noticed that kina horrified some yanks  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tiny penis
Mediocre sex
Bad hygiene
Too clingy
All resulted in a no second meet "
Tiny penis?
I thought size didnt matter as its what you do with it etc ?
Thats what you women keep saying on here ? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"If they're crap shags.
If they won't go down on me, but expect a BJ.
If they struggle with the concept of 'no'.
If they do a runner while I'm in the loo.
Have you actually had a guy do a runner when you popped to the loo? "
Yes. Little shit. He was chatting about arranging a club visit together. I popped to the loo, came back and he'd gone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If they're crap shags.
If they won't go down on me, but expect a BJ.
If they struggle with the concept of 'no'.
If they do a runner while I'm in the loo.
Have you actually had a guy do a runner when you popped to the loo?
Yes. Little shit. He was chatting about arranging a club visit together. I popped to the loo, came back and he'd gone."
Awww. I must admit i have been guilty of doing exactly the same thing many years ago.  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"If they're crap shags.
If they won't go down on me, but expect a BJ.
If they struggle with the concept of 'no'.
If they do a runner while I'm in the loo.
Have you actually had a guy do a runner when you popped to the loo?
Yes. Little shit. He was chatting about arranging a club visit together. I popped to the loo, came back and he'd gone.
Awww. I must admit i have been guilty of doing exactly the same thing many years ago. "
Just to let you know, that woman was probably crushed, as I was. I hope you're less horrible now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She had a British accent and offered me tea
Sorry to hear that.
I'll ask her to offer you coffee the next time,and to speak with an American accent.
Thank you brother, you feel my pain
Was she gonna put milk in the tea? I noticed that kina horrified some yanks "
Yes the sweet kinda milk...but what really turned me off .... was when she offered me the big blue can of sugar cookies..
I swore of British women ever since  |
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Ok, my experience is lacking from a swingers pov looking at some of the varis you guys and girls have..but the guy ignoring me..this happened when I met as a single too..
Thinking I'm being done a favor for their time and the biggest one so far, not sending me a face pic or even a message before friend invite |
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"Tiny penis
Mediocre sex
Bad hygiene
Too clingy
All resulted in a no second meet
Tiny penis?
I thought size didnt matter as its what you do with it etc ?
Thats what you women keep saying on here ? "
When I say tiny it must have been no more than 2 inches hard |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"If they're crap shags.
If they won't go down on me, but expect a BJ.
If they struggle with the concept of 'no'.
If they do a runner while I'm in the loo.
Have you actually had a guy do a runner when you popped to the loo?
Yes. Little shit. He was chatting about arranging a club visit together. I popped to the loo, came back and he'd gone.
Awww. I must admit i have been guilty of doing exactly the same thing many years ago.
Just to let you know, that woman was probably crushed, as I was. I hope you're less horrible now."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If they're crap shags.
If they won't go down on me, but expect a BJ.
If they struggle with the concept of 'no'.
If they do a runner while I'm in the loo.
Have you actually had a guy do a runner when you popped to the loo?
Yes. Little shit. He was chatting about arranging a club visit together. I popped to the loo, came back and he'd gone.
Awww. I must admit i have been guilty of doing exactly the same thing many years ago.
Just to let you know, that woman was probably crushed, as I was. I hope you're less horrible now."
I try my best not to be  |
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Met in a pub ... hed arrived by bus ... didnt have any front teeth ...he laughed after every thing he said ... he told me all about his ex ... his mum ...his dad .....zzzzzz
I could wait to get out of there |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What type of thing have put you off meeting someone again, without being specific?
For me, it is about someone trying to muscle in on my life and dictate it, like when we should meet, etc., so assuming too much ..."
I've been put off a couple of times by people who, in casual chat afterwards, revealed themselves to be racist or bigoted. I don't mind a chat about politics and discovering that we're on opposite sides of the political fence, but if we've had a fun meet and then they turn out to be dickheads; puts me right off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I got treated like a single bi female by a couple who kept stopping me playing with Mr and demanding I do what they told me. They seemed normal when we had a social! |
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