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"My fck buddy called it off today for no reason claiming I'm messing with her head all because I said we have a sexual connection  like WTF. Women are hard to understand  "
Men are too, mine called it a day earlier in the week, after he tried to give me away in a couple of Craigslist adds! XXX |
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"My fck buddy called it off today for no reason claiming I'm messing with her head all because I said we have a sexual connection like WTF. Women are hard to understand "
It does fuck with your head when you are having passionate sex with a man and it's only sexual on their side. My heads so fucked up I,m thinking of getting professional help. XXX |
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"My fck buddy called it off today for no reason claiming I'm messing with her head all because I said we have a sexual connection like WTF. Women are hard to understand "
The best way to get over a woman is to get on top of another woman... it was her loss and I'm sure you will find better.
I'm sending you hugs |
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"My fck buddy called it off today for no reason claiming I'm messing with her head all because I said we have a sexual connection like WTF. Women are hard to understand
Men are too, mine called it a day earlier in the week, after he tried to give me away in a couple of Craigslist adds! XXX"
That was very thoughtful of him .... kinda like a parting gift  |
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"My fck buddy called it off today for no reason claiming I'm messing with her head all because I said we have a sexual connection like WTF. Women are hard to understand
It does fuck with your head when you are having passionate sex with a man and it's only sexual on their side. My heads so fucked up I,m thinking of getting professional help. XXX"
I'm sorry to hear that... please take a break and get your mental health sorted |
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By (user no longer on site)
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For the best. She could be having trouble keeping it as just sex, and has ended it before she gets in too deep.
Some people can't have the passion and emotional connection without the relationship of commitment. |
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It is hard, and tricky when it comes to both parties keeping emotions out of it
I ended up falling in love with mine and fortunately he fell for me at the same time so it worked out ok for us
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"My fck buddy called it off today for no reason claiming I'm messing with her head all because I said we have a sexual connection like WTF. Women are hard to understand
It does fuck with your head when you are having passionate sex with a man and it's only sexual on their side. My heads so fucked up I,m thinking of getting professional help. XXX"
Yeah but we both knew wat we are getting into tho so y get feelings involve? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"My fck buddy called it off today for no reason claiming I'm messing with her head all because I said we have a sexual connection like WTF. Women are hard to understand
It does fuck with your head when you are having passionate sex with a man and it's only sexual on their side. My heads so fucked up I,m thinking of getting professional help. XXX
Yeah but we both knew wat we are getting into tho so y get feelings involve? "
It's not always something you can control. |
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"My fck buddy called it off today for no reason claiming I'm messing with her head all because I said we have a sexual connection like WTF. Women are hard to understand
The best way to get over a woman is to get on top of another woman... it was her loss and I'm sure you will find better.
I'm sending you hugs"
Thanks. Sex with her was great tho best bj I've ever got. She won't even have a goodbye sex  |
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"For the best. She could be having trouble keeping it as just sex, and has ended it before she gets in too deep.
Some people can't have the passion and emotional connection without the relationship of commitment. "
Yeah I know but she's claiming I need to sort my head out too lol. N I'm like nah im okay I dnt mix feeling with sex as long as I knw is just sex. Then she flipped |
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"My fck buddy called it off today for no reason claiming I'm messing with her head all because I said we have a sexual connection like WTF. Women are hard to understand
It does fuck with your head when you are having passionate sex with a man and it's only sexual on their side. My heads so fucked up I,m thinking of getting professional help. XXX
Yeah but we both knew wat we are getting into tho so y get feelings involve?
It's not always something you can control."
I control mine tho. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"My fck buddy called it off today for no reason claiming I'm messing with her head all because I said we have a sexual connection like WTF. Women are hard to understand
It does fuck with your head when you are having passionate sex with a man and it's only sexual on their side. My heads so fucked up I,m thinking of getting professional help. XXX
Yeah but we both knew wat we are getting into tho so y get feelings involve?
It's not always something you can control.
I control mine tho."
She's not you. |
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"It is hard, and tricky when it comes to both parties keeping emotions out of it
I ended up falling in love with mine and fortunately he fell for me at the same time so it worked out ok for us
That's good. But the way I work is once we agree on something I make sure it's stayed like that.
Ruby"
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"My fck buddy called it off today for no reason claiming I'm messing with her head all because I said we have a sexual connection like WTF. Women are hard to understand
It does fuck with your head when you are having passionate sex with a man and it's only sexual on their side. My heads so fucked up I,m thinking of getting professional help. XXX
Yeah but we both knew wat we are getting into tho so y get feelings involve?
It's not always something you can control.
I control mine tho.
She's not you."
Yeah you're right. But I would have loved a goodbye sex tho knowing it's my last one |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My fck buddy called it off today for no reason claiming I'm messing with her head all because I said we have a sexual connection like WTF. Women are hard to understand "
Actually sounds like a sensible thing for her to do, easier than let things get all messy. |
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It's very difficult. When it all starts, it's just great sex but after a while you can't help but have feelings.
I've been seeing my friend for nearly two years and although we both know it's not forever I strongly believe we will both be hurt if and when it comes to an end.
I don't love him and he doesn't love me. I know we wouldn't make a good couple, we're not compatible in that way. But I would miss his friendship and definitely miss the amazing sex!!! |
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"My fck buddy called it off today for no reason claiming I'm messing with her head all because I said we have a sexual connection like WTF. Women are hard to understand
Actually sounds like a sensible thing for her to do, easier than let things get all messy. "
Yeah that's true. But I rather it end in a more civilised way. Rather than an argument |
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"It's very difficult. When it all starts, it's just great sex but after a while you can't help but have feelings.
I've been seeing my friend for nearly two years and although we both know it's not forever I strongly believe we will both be hurt if and when it comes to an end.
I don't love him and he doesn't love me. I know we wouldn't make a good couple, we're not compatible in that way. But I would miss his friendship and definitely miss the amazing sex!!! "
2 years wow that's a relationship not fck buddy. Did you guys go out or is it just meet fuck n go? Mine use to be meet fck n go. Then she asked to be fcked raw then we both went n got tested. After going raw then sex was even better n more constant that's when I started noticing her talking more during sex. Now it's all gone. |
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"My fck buddy called it off today for no reason claiming I'm messing with her head all because I said we have a sexual connection like WTF. Women are hard to understand "
Why are you trying understand women?! They don't want to be understood. If they did they'd have printed a manual. Us blokes are simple creatures. Sex, food, alcohol. That's us sorted. Women are the most amazingly complex creatures on the planet. Love and admire them for that. Just don't feed them after midnight...... |
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"My fck buddy called it off today for no reason claiming I'm messing with her head all because I said we have a sexual connection like WTF. Women are hard to understand
It does fuck with your head when you are having passionate sex with a man and it's only sexual on their side. My heads so fucked up I,m thinking of getting professional help. XXX
Yeah but we both knew wat we are getting into tho so y get feelings involve?
It's not always something you can control.
I control mine tho."
You don't control your feelings, you have none. No challenge for you there. Your fb is so upset& confused she's braking it off with you and you're disappointed she won't give you a farewell fuck  that's the extend of your compassion.
Just a wild guess, she told you to reflect on yourself because she feels you were giving her mixed messages. That's because she has too many emotions and can't realise that you don't. The irony of your situation is that the sex was so amazing cos she was into you. Oh well |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My fck buddy called it off today for no reason claiming I'm messing with her head all because I said we have a sexual connection like WTF. Women are hard to understand
Actually sounds like a sensible thing for her to do, easier than let things get all messy.
Yeah that's true. But I rather it end in a more civilised way. Rather than an argument "
Unfortunately you can't control the way things end. It's ending for a reason playing nice and one last time is not really realistic in my eyes the decision was made.
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"My fck buddy called it off today for no reason claiming I'm messing with her head all because I said we have a sexual connection like WTF. Women are hard to understand
Why are you trying understand women?! They don't want to be understood. If they did they'd have printed a manual. Us blokes are simple creatures. Sex, food, alcohol. That's us sorted. Women are the most amazingly complex creatures on the planet. Love and admire them for that. Just don't feed them after midnight......"
You're right bro |
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"My fck buddy called it off today for no reason claiming I'm messing with her head all because I said we have a sexual connection like WTF. Women are hard to understand
It does fuck with your head when you are having passionate sex with a man and it's only sexual on their side. My heads so fucked up I,m thinking of getting professional help. XXX
Yeah but we both knew wat we are getting into tho so y get feelings involve?
It's not always something you can control.
I control mine tho.
You don't control your feelings, you have none. No challenge for you there. Your fb is so upset& confused she's braking it off with you and you're disappointed she won't give you a farewell fuck that's the extend of your compassion.
Just a wild guess, she told you to reflect on yourself because she feels you were giving her mixed messages. That's because she has too many emotions and can't realise that you don't. The irony of your situation is that the sex was so amazing cos she was into you. Oh well "
I think it will be selfish of me to start complicating wat we agreed on by having feelings it's only couple of months. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yeah that's true. But I rather it end in a more civilised way. Rather than an argument
"Goodbye sex" isn't civilised
Yes it is. Everyone leaves happy"
Except she clearly won't, she knows it's just punishing herself for your benefit. She clearly feels happier without it.. |
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"Men always ask for a goodbye fuck, like its going to be amazing fucking someone who doesn't want to be with you any more.
Goodbye sex is amazing  "
For you maybe |
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Yeah that's true. But I rather it end in a more civilised way. Rather than an argument
"Goodbye sex" isn't civilised
Yes it is. Everyone leaves happy
Except she clearly won't, she knows it's just punishing herself for your benefit. She clearly feels happier without it.."
I'm still surprise this time last week we were fucking n things was great |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm still surprise this time last week we were fucking n things was great "
That's the nature of the beast. If you were just fuck buddies either of you can end it in the blink of an eye with no recourse. |
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"Men always ask for a goodbye fuck, like its going to be amazing fucking someone who doesn't want to be with you any more.
Goodbye sex is amazing
For you maybe
For anyone "
It's never the same as the previous sex seems robotic for the sake of it.
As I said originally having seen more answers, I think she done the sensible thing for her. |
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I'm still surprise this time last week we were fucking n things was great
That's the nature of the beast. If you were just fuck buddies either of you can end it in the blink of an eye with no recourse. "
I wasn't even expecting it |
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"Men always ask for a goodbye fuck, like its going to be amazing fucking someone who doesn't want to be with you any more.
Goodbye sex is amazing
For you maybe
For anyone
It's never the same as the previous sex seems robotic for the sake of it.
As I said originally having seen more answers, I think she done the sensible thing for her."
All I'm saying is. It started with sex n should finish with sex  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For the best. She could be having trouble keeping it as just sex, and has ended it before she gets in too deep.
Some people can't have the passion and emotional connection without the relationship of commitment.
Yeah I know but she's claiming I need to sort my head out too lol. N I'm like nah im okay I dnt mix feeling with sex as long as I knw is just sex. Then she flipped "
Because even though she agreed it was just sex she secretly thinks it's more than that or is hoping it was |
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"As I said originally having seen more answers, I think she done the sensible thing for her.
I have a feeling the reason she gave might not have been the real reason."
Wat do you think the real reason is? |
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"For the best. She could be having trouble keeping it as just sex, and has ended it before she gets in too deep.
Some people can't have the passion and emotional connection without the relationship of commitment.
Yeah I know but she's claiming I need to sort my head out too lol. N I'm like nah im okay I dnt mix feeling with sex as long as I knw is just sex. Then she flipped
Because even though she agreed it was just sex she secretly thinks it's more than that or is hoping it was "
That's y honesty is the best policy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As I said originally having seen more answers, I think she done the sensible thing for her.
I have a feeling the reason she gave might not have been the real reason."
Agreed always more to these things and we only have on side |
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"Men always ask for a goodbye fuck, like its going to be amazing fucking someone who doesn't want to be with you any more.
Goodbye sex is amazing
For you maybe
For anyone
It's never the same as the previous sex seems robotic for the sake of it.
As I said originally having seen more answers, I think she done the sensible thing for her.
All I'm saying is. It started with sex n should finish with sex "
I think many women would disagree. If she has developed feelings for you and, you have none its best no more sex happens. Leave her alone and move on |
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"As I said originally having seen more answers, I think she done the sensible thing for her.
I have a feeling the reason she gave might not have been the real reason."
I have the same feeling |
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"Men always ask for a goodbye fuck, like its going to be amazing fucking someone who doesn't want to be with you any more.
Goodbye sex is amazing
For you maybe
For anyone
It's never the same as the previous sex seems robotic for the sake of it.
As I said originally having seen more answers, I think she done the sensible thing for her.
All I'm saying is. It started with sex n should finish with sex
I think many women would disagree. If she has developed feelings for you and, you have none its best no more sex happens. Leave her alone and move on"
I have. It's weird I'm been cut off I even suggest friendship cause she's a nice girl too but said nahhh  |
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"As I said originally having seen more answers, I think she done the sensible thing for her.
I have a feeling the reason she gave might not have been the real reason.
I have the same feeling "
Then someone talk. Why are you women sooooooooooooooooooooooo complicated  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Then someone talk. Why are you women sooooooooooooooooooooooo complicated "
There is nothing less complicated than "I don't want to have sex with you anymore under any circumstances". |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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Then someone talk. Why are you women sooooooooooooooooooooooo complicated
There is nothing less complicated than "I don't want to have sex with you anymore under any circumstances". "
He seems to be under the impression that a woman who doesn't want to meet him any more should meet him. I'd just move on but then, I'm not him.
I'm beginning to wonder if he's got more feelings for this woman than he's letting on. He seems bereft. |
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"It's very difficult. When it all starts, it's just great sex but after a while you can't help but have feelings.
I've been seeing my friend for nearly two years and although we both know it's not forever I strongly believe we will both be hurt if and when it comes to an end.
I don't love him and he doesn't love me. I know we wouldn't make a good couple, we're not compatible in that way. But I would miss his friendship and definitely miss the amazing sex!!!
2 years wow that's a relationship not fck buddy. Did you guys go out or is it just meet fuck n go? Mine use to be meet fck n go. Then she asked to be fcked raw then we both went n got tested. After going raw then sex was even better n more constant that's when I started noticing her talking more during sex. Now it's all gone. "
No we don't go out and it's not just sex and go either.
We make a day of it either at his or mine. Lots of amazing sex and cuddling and talking in between.
By the sounds of things your fb may have had more feelings for you than you for her!
As saddening as it is for you she has done the right thing for her.
Women are sensitive, fickle creatures and need handling with care. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It does fuck with your head when you are having passionate sex with a man and it's only sexual on their side.
Er, isn't that what having a fuck buddy is all about?"
Precisely. I don't understand why people get so upset when people decide they no longer want to meet. An FB is just that. |
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Yeah I know but she's claiming I need to sort my head out too lol. N I'm like nah im okay I dnt mix feeling with sex as long as I knw is just sex. Then she flipped "
Sounds like you've answered your own question right here.
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By *vadownMan
over a year ago
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Yeah that's true. But I rather it end in a more civilised way. Rather than an argument
"Goodbye sex" isn't civilised
Yes it is. Everyone leaves happy
Except she clearly won't, she knows it's just punishing herself for your benefit. She clearly feels happier without it..
I'm still surprise this time last week we were fucking n things was great "
I'm thinking she's found someone else. Let it go Move on.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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OP...
Maybe all you was to her was a fuck ? But you became too intense and wanted more than she was willing to give.
You wanted her to be your property and only yours to fuck and she felt smothered by that ? |
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Maybe all you was to her was a fuck ? But you became too intense and wanted more than she was willing to give.
You wanted her to be your property and only yours to fuck and she felt smothered by that ?"
Wat are you on about? My property? |
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This could be one of smy scenarios:
1. She as feelings for you and as ended it because she knows you just see her as a fuck and she doesn't want to get hurt any more than she likely is
2. She thinks you've got feelings for her and you're just a fuck to her so she doesn't want to feel like she's hurting you and ended it
3. Your were just a fuck to each other and she's found something more meaningful with someone else
4. She feels the sex as got stale in some so rather than stick with a boring fuck she's decided to trade you in for a new fuck buddy
All of the above are also good reasons not to give you a goodbye fuck
I don't know her so can't say if it's any of the above or something else but the 4 above seem the most likely to me |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I think you sound like you have some feelings going on 
Nah if I did I'll ask her out then.
Why don't you ? Great sex and, you still wanted to be friends "
I don't think she does though. If I'd ended things with a FB I would not appreciate being pestered. |
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"I think you sound like you have some feelings going on
Nah if I did I'll ask her out then.
Why don't you ? Great sex and, you still wanted to be friends
I don't think she does though. If I'd ended things with a FB I would not appreciate being pestered."
True...like I said I am a bit if a romantic |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For the best. She could be having trouble keeping it as just sex, and has ended it before she gets in too deep.
Some people can't have the passion and emotional connection without the relationship of commitment. "
Yea I'm with this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If she is ignoring you..... send her a text that you have an sti ...... she will call you back and may even see you again..... you probably won't have sex again but you can finally get closure and move on. Good luck |
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"If she is ignoring you..... send her a text that you have an sti ...... she will call you back and may even see you again..... you probably won't have sex again but you can finally get closure and move on. Good luck "
Why does he need closure ? |
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"If she is ignoring you..... send her a text that you have an sti ...... she will call you back and may even see you again..... you probably won't have sex again but you can finally get closure and move on. Good luck
Why does he need closure ? "
He really seems hurt...what if she is pregnant? |
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"Men are hard species to understand as well so don't just put it on us ladies. 
Mrs SnT "
Not at all... you just need to know the 3 F's
Feed us
Fuck us
Forget about us when we are watching tv |
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"My fck buddy called it off today for no reason claiming I'm messing with her head all because I said we have a sexual connection like WTF. Women are hard to understand "
Men are just as difficult to understand. Who knows what people think or why they dump you in the end.Suppose they just have connection issues. Happens to us all 
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"If she is ignoring you..... send her a text that you have an sti ...... she will call you back and may even see you again..... you probably won't have sex again but you can finally get closure and move on. Good luck "
Hahahahhahahahhahahahhahha I'm not that desperate bro |
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"My fck buddy called it off today for no reason claiming I'm messing with her head all because I said we have a sexual connection like WTF. Women are hard to understand
Men are just as difficult to understand. Who knows what people think or why they dump you in the end.Suppose they just have connection issues. Happens to us all
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Men are sooooooooooooooooooooooo easy all we want is an easy life no stress |
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