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How did you get here
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mr waited until we had been dating a few months then during a discussion on sex toys raised that he would like to 'share' me (he had done it in a past relationship ) . I think I surprised him by how quickly I agreed . First conversation on a Sunday, in a club the following Friday having an mmf  |
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I have tried a few times with the Mrs and a few years back we used to talk about whilst having sex but it never went any further, missed the chance when she had an affair and when it came out made me horny but I was to vulnerable at that time think I missed the noat  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got into swinging via Altavista chat rooms and Internet Relay Chat at the end of the nineties, tried a few different sites later but settled here from 2010.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The way I got to know about this site is world of mouth from a swinging couple who said I like this site and make friends but it does not seem so far. Beside that I got to know people living about who are swinger due to where I worked abroad. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok. I'm assuming that you are talking about swinging and not the site.
I bought it up to my wife one day as a way to push some of her boundaries. she was reluctant at first but we took baby steps. We found the site shortly after. |
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"Was looking for reviews of swingers clubs and it took us here. "
Oops, wrong end of the stick. I printed off a couple of yes/no/maybe lists for us and we both ticked yes to swinging clubs, voyeurism, exhibitionism... and it went from there. |
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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago
staffordshire |
"I found out my partner (now ex) was on here
 blessing in disguise?
I knew this site from a friend.
Glad this site accept the existence of various kind of sexoholics."
In a way yes, honesty is the best policy, if hed of said he wanted to try then we could of done it together. But there was no trust after that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A friend from another site sent me his profile link as he knew I'd be shocked, which I was but I was curious too. He said I was way to naive to be on this site & I wouldn't last a day.
Few weeks later I thought fuck it & joined, he subsequently left never knowing I was on here.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I found out my partner (now ex) was on here
blessing in disguise?
I knew this site from a friend.
Glad this site accept the existence of various kind of sexoholics.
In a way yes, honesty is the best policy, if hed of said he wanted to try then we could of done it together. But there was no trust after that"
Honesty does not always pay which i found out |
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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago
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"I found out my partner (now ex) was on here
blessing in disguise?
I knew this site from a friend.
Glad this site accept the existence of various kind of sexoholics.
In a way yes, honesty is the best policy, if hed of said he wanted to try then we could of done it together. But there was no trust after that
Honesty does not always pay which i found out"
Neither does lying in opinion. Truth i can handle, deceit i refuse to tolerate. a fundemental basis of a relationships is trust. At least for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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(Male) split from my ex after 11 years and didn't want another relationship, I didn't want to be celibate, going to the pub every weekend trying to pull d*unk women doesn't appeal to me, I work in an all male job, came across fabswingers and never looked back, I've had loads of meets as a single man, met some brilliant people, had some great experiences, had a couple of not so great experiences too, but I'm happy in my new relationship now and still can enjoy the lifestyle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My ex bf told me about going to a club and he wanted to try it out with someone as a couple. So we used to go quite regularly. We joined Fab swingers as a couple and then we split up I came back on as me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We chatted about threesomes and decided to give it a go, and it worked.
We decided that a website like this would be the best way to meet like minded people.
We've been on other websites like this one and, just like this one had varying degrees of success. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Believe it or not - neither me or hubby was aware of swinging till we got married and one day when we watching a porn site, we ended up watching about swingers and their life style - which got my hubby excited and never stopped talking about it until I gave in ...well won't say I didn't regret it, but there were good moments too... it's a mix bag, just like life itself ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I found out my partner (now ex) was on here
blessing in disguise?
I knew this site from a friend.
Glad this site accept the existence of various kind of sexoholics.
In a way yes, honesty is the best policy, if hed of said he wanted to try then we could of done it together. But there was no trust after that
Honesty does not always pay which i found out
Neither does lying in opinion. Truth i can handle, deceit i refuse to tolerate. a fundemental basis of a relationships is trust. At least for me"
Honesty isn't always the best policy. Living in ignorance can work just as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A friend told me about this site, so I joined up and never regretted it. It fulfills a part of my life that was much needed, I've met some great people and had great times. Here's to many more. |
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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago
staffordshire |
"I found out my partner (now ex) was on here
blessing in disguise?
I knew this site from a friend.
Glad this site accept the existence of various kind of sexoholics.
In a way yes, honesty is the best policy, if hed of said he wanted to try then we could of done it together. But there was no trust after that
Honesty does not always pay which i found out
Neither does lying in opinion. Truth i can handle, deceit i refuse to tolerate. a fundemental basis of a relationships is trust. At least for me
Honesty isn't always the best policy. Living in ignorance can work just as well."
I appreciate that everyone is in different situations regarding relationships they may be in. I was speaking from my point of view of how i relate to personal relationships. Its by no means a reflection of what others choose to do, that is their choice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ex girlfriend asked me if I fancied a night out in Manchester when I asked what I should wear she said I don't need to worry about it, on the drive down she asked me if I knew what to expect. As she hadn't even told me anything (I thought it was a drink or meal we were heading for) no I didn't! She been once with a guy who left her on her own...nice!
As the internet was in its absolute infancy and the clubs were mixed saunas not swingers clubs...I'd never heard of them anyway. How niave I was in those days.
I certainly learned a lot that night and I became a very regular visitor with n without the ex. Twenty odd years later I still go sadly alone nowadays. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I joined up with an ex FWB to start off with. His idea initially but I was all for it. We are still friends without the benefits; he left, I stayed."
Similar story to me,however five years later I'm now here with my dear other half  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was in hospital for a week in 2008,, we had chatted a little every now and again before and suddenly she came in one day and said yep let's definitely try swinging,, sadly we split in 2013 but still living the dream |
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Wife of a cpl I knew was chatting to me on FB. Commented about something sexual. I then jokingly said they should swing to which she then sent me a screen shot if their profile lol. Then I found out she is screamingly bi. Also they know I swing lol gave t played yet!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My first wife and I used to be on AFF site where I was chat group / room moderator and loads talked about Fab's so we came here many years ago - since then divorced but had fem FB/Partner in crime for couple years before I re married
Over all FAB's offer the best all round platform for likeminded adults to chat and meet though |
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