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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Soooo I've been on and off Fab for some years now, it seems to have changed and has become bombarded with all sorts haha - no offence to anyone! (I usually come on inbetween relationships when im single lol ) . I recently broke up so here I am again. I'm not sure if it's just me but I only find about 1 out of 30 profiles are worth actually messaging (It used to be more like 1 in 5!) so I spend ages actually finding someone who I think is worth messaging and maybe out of 5 messages I will get 1 reply... Am i just too picky or am I just looking in the wrong place?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't know, I send anywhere between 0-70 messages a day. My reply rate is usually 2/56.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think the scene has expanded a lot in the last few years. So you're getting a wider range of people.

Certainly were not pinups in our own eyes, so we accept that we may not be everyone's cup of tea.

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By *osieWoman  over a year ago

Wembley


"Soooo I've been on and off Fab for some years now, it seems to have changed and has become bombarded with all sorts haha - no offence to anyone! (I usually come on inbetween relationships when im single lol ) . I recently broke up so here I am again. I'm not sure if it's just me but I only find about 1 out of 30 profiles are worth actually messaging (It used to be more like 1 in 5!) so I spend ages actually finding someone who I think is worth messaging and maybe out of 5 messages I will get 1 reply... Am i just too picky or am I just looking in the wrong place? "

No, you are not being too picky, just sensible. There is no point in sending messages to women where you don't meet all of their requirements

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Thanks for your input, just feels like im wasting my time sometimes lol

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman  over a year ago

Lyndhurst

No youre just being sensible, dont meet someone just because you cant find anyone better, it may be ok to do that sometimes but its not really worth wasting youre time.

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge

Why don't you come on here when you're in a relationship? You would have much more luck as a couple.

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By *D835Man  over a year ago

London


"Why don't you come on here when you're in a relationship? You would have much more luck as a couple."

That might depend on whether his partner is up for swinging. He/she might just want an exclusive relationship with him.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't know, I send anywhere between 0-70 messages a day. My reply rate is usually 2/56."

How the fvck do you have the time for that many messages ???

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville

1 in 50? There's not that many new people joining the site?

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville

^locally

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't know, I send anywhere between 0-70 messages a day. My reply rate is usually 2/56.

How the fvck do you have the time for that many messages ??? "

Cut and paste, probably?!.. just assuming..

Harry

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