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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Okay being that I am qualified in it.. I have decided I need to find a therapist because some issues from my past have triggered self confidence and some other issues...but my confidence is mostly lacking in play situations...
Now I still enjoy it.. but have recently found that what used to work for me... doesnt anymore and I've been questioning myself a lot.
I have spoken to Mr about it and has been amazingly patient and understanding but I think I need to get to the underlying reasons for the issues... and for that I need to speak to someone but never really had a positive experience on the other side of the therapy session's...
So does anyone know anywhere that would be open minded enough to not just say go monogamous as that would neither solve or help things.
We havent full swapped in a while because my confidence is just affecting me.
Any advice would be grateful but Ive already stopped trying to self analyse as I am my own worse enemy on this. |
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By *aisyDDWoman
over a year ago
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Would be handy if there was another therapist on here to talk to. At least you know they'd be open minded.
I'm into certain stuff that I'm pretty sure would horrify me if I found out the whys.
I asked on here the other day about woman that enjoy fun with more than one guy at a time. I'd never judge anyour else for it but know I'd beat myself up. Took one lady to ask me what I wanted from the experience to make me realise that actually it's fine.
You already know that you just need to change the thought process in your head xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Have you come across the Tavistock centres? I know they are in London but they may be able to point you at one of their trained practioners local to you. They also offer their services online.
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thats the thing I know loads of therapists but I also know that what I like would send them for theapy. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Would be handy if there was another therapist on here to talk to. At least you know they'd be open minded.
I'm into certain stuff that I'm pretty sure would horrify me if I found out the whys.
I asked on here the other day about woman that enjoy fun with more than one guy at a time. I'd never judge anyour else for it but know I'd beat myself up. Took one lady to ask me what I wanted from the experience to make me realise that actually it's fine.
You already know that you just need to change the thought process in your head xx"
I know but its the reasons for the change in thoughts... im giving myself the worlds hardest time x |
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