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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Instead of a hostile profile complete with a tick list of NOT ALLOWED! DON'T DO THIS! DON'T BOTHER IF! SINGLE MEN FUCK OFF AND DIE! Blah blah
Why do most profiles not give some clue as to the personality who wrote it, or what they actually desire?
I mean whoever is managing the infinite inbox is going to have to have some patience and be fucked around a lot. Even with strong digital and mental filters.
Why not sell yourself for who you are, who you're looking for, why you want them and what for. Maybe then the right people could find you easier.
Granted, mine is rubbish, I'm a hypocrite, but that's because I'm crap, not because I didn't put the effort in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dunno i think those ranty profiles give a big clue about thier personality
agree
I avoid profiles with lists of demands and caps"
5 consecutive paragraphs starting with NO?
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
Telling people what you don't want at least prevents people wasting their time messaging you...
I had to smile wryly while writing that. As if a profile has ever stopped anyone from messaging someone. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"I dunno i think those ranty profiles give a big clue about thier personality"
 I can understand a minor rant. Both from my own sex and from others. I just think temporary frustration and potential anger doesn't belong on a profile permanently. We all go through fab phases; if it's winding you up THAT MUCH!!! then just hide it for a bit or block all messages. Those that don't read profiles still won't read it anyway and continue to annoy you and those who do may be put off the ranty dramaness. Meaning the inbox gets worse not better and it becomes a downward ranty spiral. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"Instead of a hostile profile complete with a tick list of NOT ALLOWED! DON'T DO THIS! DON'T BOTHER IF! SINGLE MEN FUCK OFF AND DIE! Blah blah
Why do most profiles not give some clue as to the personality who wrote it, or what they actually desire?
I mean whoever is managing the infinite inbox is going to have to have some patience and be fucked around a lot. Even with strong digital and mental filters.
Why not sell yourself for who you are, who you're looking for, why you want them and what for. Maybe then the right people could find you easier.
Granted, mine is rubbish, I'm a hypocrite, but that's because I'm crap, not because I didn't put the effort in. "
maybe that is their personality  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Instead of a hostile profile complete with a tick list of NOT ALLOWED! DON'T DO THIS! DON'T BOTHER IF! SINGLE MEN FUCK OFF AND DIE! Blah blah
Why do most profiles not give some clue as to the personality who wrote it, or what they actually desire?
I mean whoever is managing the infinite inbox is going to have to have some patience and be fucked around a lot. Even with strong digital and mental filters.
Why not sell yourself for who you are, who you're looking for, why you want them and what for. Maybe then the right people could find you easier.
Granted, mine is rubbish, I'm a hypocrite, but that's because I'm crap, not because I didn't put the effort in. "
Hmm. Unfortunately a lot of men seem to think they're what I'm looking for...
It's pretty difficult to not get ranty when you have to wade through a lot of crap. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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whats the point if people don't read your profile in the first place ? my profile is about what I want and don't want yet 95% of messages I get clearly have not read what I have wrote.
so I fully understand why some folk rant from time to time and then lets not forget those who moan about a profile being too long ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i think people do start off with all these wants and desires, they put them on their profile and it mostly gets ignored and others start sending their own wants and desires to them ignoring the fact that there is another person with wants and desires of their own that they are talking to.
so up goes the i don't want this, i don't want you, leave me alone, omg why does nobody care what i want, arg!!!!
this is why we can't post PM in the forums coz if we did most women would leave the site in disgust. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Instead of a hostile profile complete with a tick list of NOT ALLOWED! DON'T DO THIS! DON'T BOTHER IF! SINGLE MEN FUCK OFF AND DIE! Blah blah
Why do most profiles not give some clue as to the personality who wrote it, or what they actually desire?
I mean whoever is managing the infinite inbox is going to have to have some patience and be fucked around a lot. Even with strong digital and mental filters.
Why not sell yourself for who you are, who you're looking for, why you want them and what for. Maybe then the right people could find you easier.
Granted, mine is rubbish, I'm a hypocrite, but that's because I'm crap, not because I didn't put the effort in. "
They are hardened swingers |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Instead of a hostile profile complete with a tick list of NOT ALLOWED! DON'T DO THIS! DON'T BOTHER IF! SINGLE MEN FUCK OFF AND DIE! Blah blah
Why do most profiles not give some clue as to the personality who wrote it, or what they actually desire?
I mean whoever is managing the infinite inbox is going to have to have some patience and be fucked around a lot. Even with strong digital and mental filters.
Why not sell yourself for who you are, who you're looking for, why you want them and what for. Maybe then the right people could find you easier.
Granted, mine is rubbish, I'm a hypocrite, but that's because I'm crap, not because I didn't put the effort in. maybe that is their personality "
touche |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Instead of a hostile profile complete with a tick list of NOT ALLOWED! DON'T DO THIS! DON'T BOTHER IF! SINGLE MEN FUCK OFF AND DIE! Blah blah
Why do most profiles not give some clue as to the personality who wrote it, or what they actually desire?
I mean whoever is managing the infinite inbox is going to have to have some patience and be fucked around a lot. Even with strong digital and mental filters.
Why not sell yourself for who you are, who you're looking for, why you want them and what for. Maybe then the right people could find you easier.
Granted, mine is rubbish, I'm a hypocrite, but that's because I'm crap, not because I didn't put the effort in. They are hardened swingers "
is hardened like ptsd level shit? And does seasoned come before, or after hardened? I imagine seasoned as ww2 survivor granny in a thong in Xtasia with an entourage of bisexual nymphs of both sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I scrapped my profile and put a couple of important messages on it, meaning to go back and write more. Then I got talking to someone and forgot. I did find that when I had a lot about myself on there and what I enjoy, I got messages asking for that specifically. As I'm not here to provide a service, I deleted it.
I had a quite jocular profile a few years ago, but it attracted people who wanted a lot of bantery chats. I don't do that now, so it won't come back.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Instead of a hostile profile complete with a tick list of NOT ALLOWED! DON'T DO THIS! DON'T BOTHER IF! SINGLE MEN FUCK OFF AND DIE! Blah blah
Why do most profiles not give some clue as to the personality who wrote it, or what they actually desire?
I mean whoever is managing the infinite inbox is going to have to have some patience and be fucked around a lot. Even with strong digital and mental filters.
Why not sell yourself for who you are, who you're looking for, why you want them and what for. Maybe then the right people could find you easier.
Granted, mine is rubbish, I'm a hypocrite, but that's because I'm crap, not because I didn't put the effort in. They are hardened swingers is hardened like ptsd level shit? And does seasoned come before, or after hardened? I imagine seasoned as ww2 survivor granny in a thong in Xtasia with an entourage of bisexual nymphs of both sex"
More like vietnam veterans because of bad experience yeah seasoned before hardened, don't know about grannys with entourages I bet they would still get some action. |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"Instead of a hostile profile complete with a tick list of NOT ALLOWED! DON'T DO THIS! DON'T BOTHER IF! SINGLE MEN FUCK OFF AND DIE! Blah blah
Why do most profiles not give some clue as to the personality who wrote it, or what they actually desire?
I mean whoever is managing the infinite inbox is going to have to have some patience and be fucked around a lot. Even with strong digital and mental filters.
Why not sell yourself for who you are, who you're looking for, why you want them and what for. Maybe then the right people could find you easier.
Granted, mine is rubbish, I'm a hypocrite, but that's because I'm crap, not because I didn't put the effort in. maybe that is their personality "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Although people have said our profile is too long we feel we've put everything we're interested in and more so that it's there for people to see what we are about
Kinky  |
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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago
secret town |
"Instead of a hostile profile complete with a tick list of NOT ALLOWED! DON'T DO THIS! DON'T BOTHER IF! SINGLE MEN FUCK OFF AND DIE! Blah blah
Why do most profiles not give some clue as to the personality who wrote it, or what they actually desire?
I mean whoever is managing the infinite inbox is going to have to have some patience and be fucked around a lot. Even with strong digital and mental filters.
Why not sell yourself for who you are, who you're looking for, why you want them and what for. Maybe then the right people could find you easier.
Granted, mine is rubbish, I'm a hypocrite, but that's because I'm crap, not because I didn't put the effort in. "
If it wasn't for the single men on here I would of deleted my account months ago |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
I've quite often thought about doing a listy type profile of what I do and don't want, maybe with nice bullet points. I get fed up with people not reading my profile and thought it might be be quicker/easier but I didn't want to come across as a ranty pants so didn't  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I could write any old shite on my profile, as a lot of others do, and just rely on my pics to attract people but then they would probably attract the wrong type of people..
so I take the time to write about me and what I want and my inbox is a lot healthier for it |
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"I could write any old shite on my profile, as a lot of others do, and just rely on my pics to attract people but then they would probably attract the wrong type of people..
so I take the time to write about me and what I want and my inbox is a lot healthier for it "
This!
Whilst we don't rant,as it were,we want to make it abundantly clear as to what we're looking for and how we'd like it to go.
You then have a clear choice to make contact or not, before anyone's time gets wasted,or worse still,a meet goes south because you're not well informed up front |
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