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I see a lot of couples profiles that have a statement saying 'don't ask to play solo with just female half'. Surely the reason a man looks at a couple profile is because he wants to play with a 'couple' and not just the female? Do single men actually ask this question? |
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"I see a lot of couples profiles that have a statement saying 'don't ask to play solo with just female half'. Surely the reason a man looks at a couple profile is because he wants to play with a 'couple' and not just the female? Do single men actually ask this question?"
At least once a day, sometimes more.
It's really bloody annoying..... |
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"I see a lot of couples profiles that have a statement saying 'don't ask to play solo with just female half'. Surely the reason a man looks at a couple profile is because he wants to play with a 'couple' and not just the female? Do single men actually ask this question?"
Dunno about single men, but I do sometimes.
Sometimes I even ask if the bloke is interested in playing alone... |
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"I see a lot of couples profiles that have a statement saying 'don't ask to play solo with just female half'. Surely the reason a man looks at a couple profile is because he wants to play with a 'couple' and not just the female? Do single men actually ask this question?
Dunno about single men, but I do sometimes.
Sometimes I even ask if the bloke is interested in playing alone..."
I wouldn't ask but if that's the way they played I would |
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Dunno about single men, but I do sometimes.
Sometimes I even ask if the bloke is interested in playing alone..."
That's a whole new perspective. As usual being only mindful of my singularly 'man brain' and didn't think that woman asked to play solo as well. |
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Dunno about single men, but I do sometimes.
Sometimes I even ask if the bloke is interested in playing alone...
That's a whole new perspective. As usual being only mindful of my singularly 'man brain' and didn't think that woman asked to play solo as well."
Sometimes I only find one person in the couple to be interesting. So if they don't say that they only meet together on their profile, I just ask. |
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Sometimes I only find one person in the couple to be interesting. So if they don't say that they only meet together on their profile, I just ask."
I've seen that before on the forums and I guess it must be hard for a couple as you are trying to please 2 people rather than just yourself. Could there be advantages to being single!!??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As I said on the other tread
Yes we get asked if I'd play on my own normally by couples
Seems to be a thread about male halfs of couples. Are they worse than single guys?"
Or are they actually single guys? |
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Sometimes I only find one person in the couple to be interesting. So if they don't say that they only meet together on their profile, I just ask.
I've seen that before on the forums and I guess it must be hard for a couple as you are trying to please 2 people rather than just yourself. Could there be advantages to being single!!???"
in the sense that attraction only needs to go two or three ways rather than four, yes |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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Dunno about single men, but I do sometimes.
Sometimes I even ask if the bloke is interested in playing alone...
That's a whole new perspective. As usual being only mindful of my singularly 'man brain' and didn't think that woman asked to play solo as well.
Sometimes I only find one person in the couple to be interesting. So if they don't say that they only meet together on their profile, I just ask."
Tbh, We'd rather it was done the other way? ie. unless it actually says on the profile "We will meet seperatly" then don't ask..
Avoncouple we would never approach because your profile does not state you play alone..simple as really..
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S |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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"As I said on the other tread
Yes we get asked if I'd play on my own normally by couples
Seems to be a thread about male halfs of couples. Are they worse than single guys?"
Out of all the people that have asked only 1 was a single male...
Just proves not all people that message whether male. Female or couples read the profile.
No group of person is ' worse ' individuals fuck it up for everyone from time to time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Dunno about single men, but I do sometimes.
Sometimes I even ask if the bloke is interested in playing alone...
That's a whole new perspective. As usual being only mindful of my singularly 'man brain' and didn't think that woman asked to play solo as well.
Sometimes I only find one person in the couple to be interesting. So if they don't say that they only meet together on their profile, I just ask.
Tbh, We'd rather it was done the other way? ie. unless it actually says on the profile "We will meet seperatly" then don't ask..
Avoncouple we would never approach because your profile does not state you play alone..simple as really..
xx
S"
Well guys message us all the time . I then explain how we like to meet (sometimes together sometimes just me ) and then we arrange either . Works for us |
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I've seen that before on the forums and I guess it must be hard for a couple as you are trying to please 2 people rather than just yourself. Could there be advantages to being single!!???
in the sense that attraction only needs to go two or three ways rather than four, yes"
If that's the only benefit then I think the couples probably win that contest. |
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I've seen that before on the forums and I guess it must be hard for a couple as you are trying to please 2 people rather than just yourself. Could there be advantages to being single!!???
in the sense that attraction only needs to go two or three ways rather than four, yes
If that's the only benefit then I think the couples probably win that contest. "
I think there are more factors at play, age being significant among them. On the whole I'd say that you're right though, couples are second on the success list overall.
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
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Dunno about single men, but I do sometimes.
Sometimes I even ask if the bloke is interested in playing alone...
That's a whole new perspective. As usual being only mindful of my singularly 'man brain' and didn't think that woman asked to play solo as well.
Sometimes I only find one person in the couple to be interesting. So if they don't say that they only meet together on their profile, I just ask.
Tbh, We'd rather it was done the other way? ie. unless it actually says on the profile "We will meet seperatly" then don't ask..
Avoncouple we would never approach because your profile does not state you play alone..simple as really..
xx
S
Well guys message us all the time . I then explain how we like to meet (sometimes together sometimes just me ) and then we arrange either . Works for us "
That's fair and as you play with guys you are probably inundated anyway, but do you not think that by stating the fact on your profile you might get attention from guys who maybe less inclined to contact now as they are for want of a better phrase "More respectful" of preferences..
But as said, you probably have enough attention anyway not to worry about it
x
S
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By (user no longer on site)
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Dunno about single men, but I do sometimes.
Sometimes I even ask if the bloke is interested in playing alone...
That's a whole new perspective. As usual being only mindful of my singularly 'man brain' and didn't think that woman asked to play solo as well.
Sometimes I only find one person in the couple to be interesting. So if they don't say that they only meet together on their profile, I just ask.
Tbh, We'd rather it was done the other way? ie. unless it actually says on the profile "We will meet seperatly" then don't ask..
Avoncouple we would never approach because your profile does not state you play alone..simple as really..
xx
S
Well guys message us all the time . I then explain how we like to meet (sometimes together sometimes just me ) and then we arrange either . Works for us
That's fair and as you play with guys you are probably inundated anyway, but do you not think that by stating the fact on your profile you might get attention from guys who maybe less inclined to contact now as they are for want of a better phrase "More respectful" of preferences..
But as said, you probably have enough attention anyway not to worry about it
x
S
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Quite possibly ! mr wrote the profile when we first joined and this was all completely new to me |
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I like threads like these that dispel some of the myths , that single men are the cunt bane of fab.
there will always be a perceived high percentage of cunts from the largest group. |
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"I like threads like these that dispel some of the myths , that single men are the c*** bane of fab.
there will always be a perceived high percentage of c***s from the largest group."
You may have just reinforced the myth? |
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"I like threads like these that dispel some of the myths , that single men are the c*** bane of fab.
there will always be a perceived high percentage of c***s from the largest group.
You may have just reinforced the myth?"
OMG...because I said cunt? get a grip ffs. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I like threads like these that dispel some of the myths , that single men are the c*** bane of fab.
there will always be a perceived high percentage of c***s from the largest group.
You may have just reinforced the myth?
OMG...because I said cunt? get a grip ffs."
Wash your mouth out shorty   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like threads like these that dispel some of the myths , that single men are the c*** bane of fab.
there will always be a perceived high percentage of c***s from the largest group.
You may have just reinforced the myth?
OMG...because I said cunt? get a grip ffs.
Wash your mouth out shorty "
I best not say what I wanna wash it out with Tallyin xx |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I like threads like these that dispel some of the myths , that single men are the c*** bane of fab.
there will always be a perceived high percentage of c***s from the largest group.
You may have just reinforced the myth?
OMG...because I said cunt? get a grip ffs.
Wash your mouth out shorty
I best not say what I wanna wash it out with Tallyin xx"
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
"I like threads like these that dispel some of the myths , that single men are the cunt bane of fab.
there will always be a perceived high percentage of cunts from the largest group."
In our experience a large number of couple profiles are run solely by the male, all contact, arrangements, "Your hot woman" "Fucking gorgeous, message me" etc. Come from the male of couples, even some well verified ones, so all you have confirmed is that some cunts manage to find women to marry and some don't 
You can add me in the married list if you like, I don't give a rats
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