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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

all these questions pertain to what chance do you think you have with a lady for sex, fwb, or full on relationships.

do you compare yourself to the ladys' previous meets? (that you can see and she has been verified by or know of some other way). if you do then:

do you do this only for sex, the compare to previous sexual encounters thing?

what about for a relationship? would you compare yourself to previous relationships she's had or might be in now?

what do you compare? is it looks, personality, the way she's been treated or the way you know she's like to be treated, or something else? or a combination of these things?

just asking based on lots of things i've read or heard about over the years.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"all these questions pertain to what chance do you think you have with a lady for sex, fwb, or full on relationships.

do you compare yourself to the ladys' previous meets? (that you can see and she has been verified by or know of some other way). if you do then:

do you do this only for sex, the compare to previous sexual encounters thing?

what about for a relationship? would you compare yourself to previous relationships she's had or might be in now?

what do you compare? is it looks, personality, the way she's been treated or the way you know she's like to be treated, or something else? or a combination of these things?

just asking based on lots of things i've read or heard about over the years.

"

I would never look on here for a relationship

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By *TMA that man againMan  over a year ago

worester

Why would you "compare"? Surely everyone is different and that's the fun of fab.....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why would you "compare"? Surely everyone is different and that's the fun of fab....."

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"all these questions pertain to what chance do you think you have with a lady for sex, fwb, or full on relationships.

do you compare yourself to the ladys' previous meets? (that you can see and she has been verified by or know of some other way). if you do then:

do you do this only for sex, the compare to previous sexual encounters thing?

what about for a relationship? would you compare yourself to previous relationships she's had or might be in now?

what do you compare? is it looks, personality, the way she's been treated or the way you know she's like to be treated, or something else? or a combination of these things?

just asking based on lots of things i've read or heard about over the years.

I would never look on here for a relationship "

that's not what i asked. just coz i asked on fab doesn't mean the question revolves 'round fab either.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"all these questions pertain to what chance do you think you have with a lady for sex, fwb, or full on relationships.

do you compare yourself to the ladys' previous meets? (that you can see and she has been verified by or know of some other way). if you do then:

do you do this only for sex, the compare to previous sexual encounters thing?

what about for a relationship? would you compare yourself to previous relationships she's had or might be in now?

what do you compare? is it looks, personality, the way she's been treated or the way you know she's like to be treated, or something else? or a combination of these things?

just asking based on lots of things i've read or heard about over the years.

I would never look on here for a relationship "

me too completely the wrong place in my opinion when people seem to look for the opposite. There are exceptions obviously.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If there is a reason they are "previous" then surely comparing is not a good thing?

As others have said...being different/variety is the spice!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Why would you "compare"? Surely everyone is different and that's the fun of fab....."

seeing as we seem to think this is about fab, which it isn't, i have seen women say if they like a guy then his previous veris can put them off meeting him if the women are considered 'better' than they are.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

topic derailed. please close this.

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By *oxesMan  over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"all these questions pertain to what chance do you think you have with a lady for sex, fwb, or full on relationships.

do you compare yourself to the ladys' previous meets? (that you can see and she has been verified by or know of some other way). if you do then:

do you do this only for sex, the compare to previous sexual encounters thing?

what about for a relationship? would you compare yourself to previous relationships she's had or might be in now?

what do you compare? is it looks, personality, the way she's been treated or the way you know she's like to be treated, or something else? or a combination of these things?

just asking based on lots of things i've read or heard about over the years.

"

yes but never for a meet, and only for relationships. If I know they had been engaged previously or they are a nice person and back in there life again, love of her life and all that.

on the other hand reading meets varies or hearing a gf talk about their previous sexial encounters a turn on.

I never see this site as a given when it comes to sex. however

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Would be interesting to hear if guys compare themselves the same way (some) women do. For example if I met a guy I'd like to think I was better looking than his last girlfriend and would feel a bit threatened or have some sort of issue if his previous bird was more attractive (cos I'm funny like that) Do guys have the same thoughts/feelings or are they not arsed? Like if you knew her ex had a massive dick, would it play on your mind?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"all these questions pertain to what chance do you think you have with a lady for sex, fwb, or full on relationships.

do you compare yourself to the ladys' previous meets? (that you can see and she has been verified by or know of some other way). if you do then:

do you do this only for sex, the compare to previous sexual encounters thing?

what about for a relationship? would you compare yourself to previous relationships she's had or might be in now?

what do you compare? is it looks, personality, the way she's been treated or the way you know she's like to be treated, or something else? or a combination of these things?

just asking based on lots of things i've read or heard about over the years.

yes but never for a meet, and only for relationships. If I know they had been engaged previously or they are a nice person and back in there life again, love of her life and all that.

on the other hand reading meets varies or hearing a gf talk about their previous sexial encounters a turn on.

I never see this site as a given when it comes to sex. however

"

this is the sort of reply i wanted. even got a little bit of extra info i hadn't anticipated from you, which is interesting. thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Would be interesting to hear if guys compare themselves the same way (some) women do. For example if I met a guy I'd like to think I was better looking than his last girlfriend and would feel a bit threatened or have some sort of issue if his previous bird was more attractive (cos I'm funny like that) Do guys have the same thoughts/feelings or are they not arsed? Like if you knew her ex had a massive dick, would it play on your mind?"

Ha ha probably, also it would take a lot for you not to be better looking than previous girlfriends, you look stunning on your pic!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Would be interesting to hear if guys compare themselves the same way (some) women do. For example if I met a guy I'd like to think I was better looking than his last girlfriend and would feel a bit threatened or have some sort of issue if his previous bird was more attractive (cos I'm funny like that) Do guys have the same thoughts/feelings or are they not arsed? Like if you knew her ex had a massive dick, would it play on your mind?"
depends if you are insecure or not.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Really irritates me when men say they'd never look for a relationship on here. Says to me they're not into swinging only a quick shag. I think this is a good place to look if you are into swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not looking for a relationship only no strings fun since moving back to the UK from South Africa. so i can't compere here due to not been involved with anyone in the UK yet.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"all these questions pertain to what chance do you think you have with a lady for sex, fwb, or full on relationships.

do you compare yourself to the ladys' previous meets? (that you can see and she has been verified by or know of some other way). if you do then:

do you do this only for sex, the compare to previous sexual encounters thing?

what about for a relationship? would you compare yourself to previous relationships she's had or might be in now?

what do you compare? is it looks, personality, the way she's been treated or the way you know she's like to be treated, or something else? or a combination of these things?

just asking based on lots of things i've read or heard about over the years.

I would never look on here for a relationship

that's not what i asked. just coz i asked on fab doesn't mean the question revolves 'round fab either."

Perhaps you should have stated that, if you start a thread on here then it is safe to assume it is about fab

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Really irritates me when men say they'd never look for a relationship on here. Says to me they're not into swinging only a quick shag. I think this is a good place to look if you are into swinging. "

What is swinging??

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan  over a year ago

London


"topic derailed. please close this."

you don't always get the responses that you would like

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"topic derailed. please close this.

you don't always get the responses that you would like "

Especially when it is vague

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I do look at a woman's previous meets to see if she has a type and if she has and is not me, eg younger, gym fit, VWE, BBC etc then I'll not bother getting in touch as I'm not what she's looking for

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Would be interesting to hear if guys compare themselves the same way (some) women do. For example if I met a guy I'd like to think I was better looking than his last girlfriend and would feel a bit threatened or have some sort of issue if his previous bird was more attractive (cos I'm funny like that) Do guys have the same thoughts/feelings or are they not arsed? Like if you knew her ex had a massive dick, would it play on your mind?"

I wouldn't compare myself to her exes. If i let something like an ex being better looking bother me then I'd have no one to go out with, most exes will be better looking than me.

Ditto cock size, tho if she made a point of mentioning it to me would suggest that it's important to her and ergo I'm not right for her

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't check local ladies verifications as much as I check local guys verifications who I consider to be similar to me in some way. That way I get an idea who the local ladies are that might enjoy meeting guys like me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't check local ladies verifications as much as I check local guys verifications who I consider to be similar to me in some way. That way I get an idea who the local ladies are that might enjoy meeting guys like me "

That's a good idea

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I don't check local ladies verifications as much as I check local guys verifications who I consider to be similar to me in some way. That way I get an idea who the local ladies are that might enjoy meeting guys like me "

never even thought about that.

i know one of my previous meets used to look at my veris, then the guys i'd met at their veris and then meet the women they'd met.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Would be interesting to hear if guys compare themselves the same way (some) women do. For example if I met a guy I'd like to think I was better looking than his last girlfriend and would feel a bit threatened or have some sort of issue if his previous bird was more attractive (cos I'm funny like that) Do guys have the same thoughts/feelings or are they not arsed? Like if you knew her ex had a massive dick, would it play on your mind?

I wouldn't compare myself to her exes. If i let something like an ex being better looking bother me then I'd have no one to go out with, most exes will be better looking than me.

Ditto cock size, tho if she made a point of mentioning it to me would suggest that it's important to her and ergo I'm not right for her "

I'm with you on the cock size thing but only because when women do mention cock size they often aren't specific enough, saying WE or VWE doesn't tell me enough.

It's like those who say "exceptional males" I mean wtf does that mean?, it's totally subjective and I'm not a mind reader! I have no problem with ladies being choosy but if a lady has such a specific idea about the type of guy she wants to meet then I wish they would be specific, if you want a ripped meathead with at least a 9" cock then just say so. If you are vague while also wanting a specific type of guy then how do we know if we fit the bill or not? Sorry that sounds like a rant

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't check local ladies verifications as much as I check local guys verifications who I consider to be similar to me in some way. That way I get an idea who the local ladies are that might enjoy meeting guys like me

That's a good idea "

It does mean you can't help but see a lot more cock pics than you really ever want to but it's worth it!

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By *ittleAcornMan  over a year ago

visiting the beach


"all these questions pertain to what chance do you think you have with a lady for sex, fwb, or full on relationships.

do you compare yourself to the ladys' previous meets? (that you can see and she has been verified by or know of some other way). if you do then:

do you do this only for sex, the compare to previous sexual encounters thing?

what about for a relationship? would you compare yourself to previous relationships she's had or might be in now?

what do you compare? is it looks, personality, the way she's been treated or the way you know she's like to be treated, or something else? or a combination of these things?

just asking based on lots of things i've read or heard about over the years.

"

I tend to look more at what someone wants today. If I fit the biil, then that's somewhere to start.

I guess history does repeat itself though, I see lots of people around me finding/choosing similar "types" again and again.

However, in real life you don't get too much info about a person's past (unless you know them already).

So this place is a little special, where you can judge on previous choices. I must admit it had not occurred to me to do so. Not sure I want to though...

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By *uzy444Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"all these questions pertain to what chance do you think you have with a lady for sex, fwb, or full on relationships.

do you compare yourself to the ladys' previous meets? (that you can see and she has been verified by or know of some other way). if you do then:

do you do this only for sex, the compare to previous sexual encounters thing?

what about for a relationship? would you compare yourself to previous relationships she's had or might be in now?

what do you compare? is it looks, personality, the way she's been treated or the way you know she's like to be treated, or something else? or a combination of these things?

just asking based on lots of things i've read or heard about over the years.

I would never look on here for a relationship "

are you only on here, cos no one else will have you then?...id only have a relationship off of here, so you are safe...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No. I dont compare myself with someones latest meet. I havent seen someone with my body on the veris, cos the bar would be set high for the next person

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"all these questions pertain to what chance do you think you have with a lady for sex, fwb, or full on relationships.

do you compare yourself to the ladys' previous meets? (that you can see and she has been verified by or know of some other way). if you do then:

do you do this only for sex, the compare to previous sexual encounters thing?

what about for a relationship? would you compare yourself to previous relationships she's had or might be in now?

what do you compare? is it looks, personality, the way she's been treated or the way you know she's like to be treated, or something else? or a combination of these things?

just asking based on lots of things i've read or heard about over the years.

I would never look on here for a relationship are you only on here, cos no one else will have you then?...id only have a relationship off of here, so you are safe... "

Do we know each other?? Why are you trying to insult me??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"topic derailed. please close this.

you don't always get the responses that you would like "

You don't ever get the requests that you ask for here either.

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By *arvin35Man  over a year ago

penrith

sometimes look at Veri's to see ages, i.e. if they're all sub 30 i'm not gonna get a look in, also look at veri's if they don't have much info on there profile other than "woman looking for men"

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By *uzy444Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"all these questions pertain to what chance do you think you have with a lady for sex, fwb, or full on relationships.

do you compare yourself to the ladys' previous meets? (that you can see and she has been verified by or know of some other way). if you do then:

do you do this only for sex, the compare to previous sexual encounters thing?

what about for a relationship? would you compare yourself to previous relationships she's had or might be in now?

what do you compare? is it looks, personality, the way she's been treated or the way you know she's like to be treated, or something else? or a combination of these things?

just asking based on lots of things i've read or heard about over the years.

I would never look on here for a relationship are you only on here, cos no one else will have you then?...id only have a relationship off of here, so you are safe...

Do we know each other?? Why are you trying to insult me?? "

cos we arent worth dating, we are just slags who fuck right? what do you expect...? pleasantries?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"all these questions pertain to what chance do you think you have with a lady for sex, fwb, or full on relationships.

do you compare yourself to the ladys' previous meets? (that you can see and she has been verified by or know of some other way). if you do then:

do you do this only for sex, the compare to previous sexual encounters thing?

what about for a relationship? would you compare yourself to previous relationships she's had or might be in now?

what do you compare? is it looks, personality, the way she's been treated or the way you know she's like to be treated, or something else? or a combination of these things?

just asking based on lots of things i've read or heard about over the years.

I would never look on here for a relationship are you only on here, cos no one else will have you then?...id only have a relationship off of here, so you are safe...

Do we know each other?? Why are you trying to insult me?? cos we arent worth dating, we are just slags who fuck right? what do you expect...? pleasantries?"

he didn't say that you are jumping to conclusions, I think he just believes this isn't a good place to seek a relationship in his opinion and would probably try more mainstream dating sites etc

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"all these questions pertain to what chance do you think you have with a lady for sex, fwb, or full on relationships.

do you compare yourself to the ladys' previous meets? (that you can see and she has been verified by or know of some other way). if you do then:

do you do this only for sex, the compare to previous sexual encounters thing?

what about for a relationship? would you compare yourself to previous relationships she's had or might be in now?

what do you compare? is it looks, personality, the way she's been treated or the way you know she's like to be treated, or something else? or a combination of these things?

just asking based on lots of things i've read or heard about over the years.

I would never look on here for a relationship are you only on here, cos no one else will have you then?...id only have a relationship off of here, so you are safe...

Do we know each other?? Why are you trying to insult me?? cos we arent worth dating, we are just slags who fuck right? what do you expect...? pleasantries?"

Chip on your shoulder ??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"all these questions pertain to what chance do you think you have with a lady for sex, fwb, or full on relationships.

do you compare yourself to the ladys' previous meets? (that you can see and she has been verified by or know of some other way). if you do then:

do you do this only for sex, the compare to previous sexual encounters thing?

what about for a relationship? would you compare yourself to previous relationships she's had or might be in now?

what do you compare? is it looks, personality, the way she's been treated or the way you know she's like to be treated, or something else? or a combination of these things?

just asking based on lots of things i've read or heard about over the years.

I would never look on here for a relationship are you only on here, cos no one else will have you then?...id only have a relationship off of here, so you are safe...

Do we know each other?? Why are you trying to insult me?? cos we arent worth dating, we are just slags who fuck right? what do you expect...? pleasantries? he didn't say that you are jumping to conclusions, I think he just believes this isn't a good place to seek a relationship in his opinion and would probably try more mainstream dating sites etc "

Exactly,

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By *uzy444Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"all these questions pertain to what chance do you think you have with a lady for sex, fwb, or full on relationships.

do you compare yourself to the ladys' previous meets? (that you can see and she has been verified by or know of some other way). if you do then:

do you do this only for sex, the compare to previous sexual encounters thing?

what about for a relationship? would you compare yourself to previous relationships she's had or might be in now?

what do you compare? is it looks, personality, the way she's been treated or the way you know she's like to be treated, or something else? or a combination of these things?

just asking based on lots of things i've read or heard about over the years.

I would never look on here for a relationship are you only on here, cos no one else will have you then?...id only have a relationship off of here, so you are safe...

Do we know each other?? Why are you trying to insult me?? cos we arent worth dating, we are just slags who fuck right? what do you expect...? pleasantries?

Chip on your shoulder ?? "

not at all, i love this lifestyle,very happy with my choices and playmates thanks...you getting any?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"all these questions pertain to what chance do you think you have with a lady for sex, fwb, or full on relationships.

do you compare yourself to the ladys' previous meets? (that you can see and she has been verified by or know of some other way). if you do then:

do you do this only for sex, the compare to previous sexual encounters thing?

what about for a relationship? would you compare yourself to previous relationships she's had or might be in now?

what do you compare? is it looks, personality, the way she's been treated or the way you know she's like to be treated, or something else? or a combination of these things?

just asking based on lots of things i've read or heard about over the years.

I would never look on here for a relationship are you only on here, cos no one else will have you then?...id only have a relationship off of here, so you are safe...

Do we know each other?? Why are you trying to insult me?? cos we arent worth dating, we are just slags who fuck right? what do you expect...? pleasantries?

Chip on your shoulder ?? not at all, i love this lifestyle,very happy with my choices and playmates thanks...you getting any?"

More than enough, you don't sound very happy, quite bitter in fact

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By *uzy444Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"all these questions pertain to what chance do you think you have with a lady for sex, fwb, or full on relationships.

do you compare yourself to the ladys' previous meets? (that you can see and she has been verified by or know of some other way). if you do then:

do you do this only for sex, the compare to previous sexual encounters thing?

what about for a relationship? would you compare yourself to previous relationships she's had or might be in now?

what do you compare? is it looks, personality, the way she's been treated or the way you know she's like to be treated, or something else? or a combination of these things?

just asking based on lots of things i've read or heard about over the years.

I would never look on here for a relationship are you only on here, cos no one else will have you then?...id only have a relationship off of here, so you are safe...

Do we know each other?? Why are you trying to insult me?? cos we arent worth dating, we are just slags who fuck right? what do you expect...? pleasantries? he didn't say that you are jumping to conclusions, I think he just believes this isn't a good place to seek a relationship in his opinion and would probably try more mainstream dating sites etc "

white knight alert, im sure hes quite capable of explaining what he meant, without help..

"I would never look on here for a relationship "..is what he said, if he wants to clarify that, thats up to him..

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By *uzy444Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"all these questions pertain to what chance do you think you have with a lady for sex, fwb, or full on relationships.

do you compare yourself to the ladys' previous meets? (that you can see and she has been verified by or know of some other way). if you do then:

do you do this only for sex, the compare to previous sexual encounters thing?

what about for a relationship? would you compare yourself to previous relationships she's had or might be in now?

what do you compare? is it looks, personality, the way she's been treated or the way you know she's like to be treated, or something else? or a combination of these things?

just asking based on lots of things i've read or heard about over the years.

I would never look on here for a relationship are you only on here, cos no one else will have you then?...id only have a relationship off of here, so you are safe...

Do we know each other?? Why are you trying to insult me?? cos we arent worth dating, we are just slags who fuck right? what do you expect...? pleasantries?

Chip on your shoulder ?? not at all, i love this lifestyle,very happy with my choices and playmates thanks...you getting any?

More than enough, you don't sound very happy, quite bitter in fact "

bless...have fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"all these questions pertain to what chance do you think you have with a lady for sex, fwb, or full on relationships.

do you compare yourself to the ladys' previous meets? (that you can see and she has been verified by or know of some other way). if you do then:

do you do this only for sex, the compare to previous sexual encounters thing?

what about for a relationship? would you compare yourself to previous relationships she's had or might be in now?

what do you compare? is it looks, personality, the way she's been treated or the way you know she's like to be treated, or something else? or a combination of these things?

just asking based on lots of things i've read or heard about over the years.

I would never look on here for a relationship are you only on here, cos no one else will have you then?...id only have a relationship off of here, so you are safe...

Do we know each other?? Why are you trying to insult me?? cos we arent worth dating, we are just slags who fuck right? what do you expect...? pleasantries?

Chip on your shoulder ?? not at all, i love this lifestyle,very happy with my choices and playmates thanks...you getting any?

More than enough, you don't sound very happy, quite bitter in fact "

Jesus, play nice you two ??

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By *ust PeachyWoman  over a year ago

Prestonish


"I don't check local ladies verifications as much as I check local guys verifications who I consider to be similar to me in some way. That way I get an idea who the local ladies are that might enjoy meeting guys like me "

When I've done anything similar in the past I've been given huge amounts of grief. Considering this is a swinging site, many people are hugely proprietorial about their meets!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"all these questions pertain to what chance do you think you have with a lady for sex, fwb, or full on relationships.

do you compare yourself to the ladys' previous meets? (that you can see and she has been verified by or know of some other way). if you do then:

do you do this only for sex, the compare to previous sexual encounters thing?

what about for a relationship? would you compare yourself to previous relationships she's had or might be in now?

what do you compare? is it looks, personality, the way she's been treated or the way you know she's like to be treated, or something else? or a combination of these things?

just asking based on lots of things i've read or heard about over the years.

I would never look on here for a relationship are you only on here, cos no one else will have you then?...id only have a relationship off of here, so you are safe...

Do we know each other?? Why are you trying to insult me?? cos we arent worth dating, we are just slags who fuck right? what do you expect...? pleasantries? he didn't say that you are jumping to conclusions, I think he just believes this isn't a good place to seek a relationship in his opinion and would probably try more mainstream dating sites etc white knight alert, im sure hes quite capable of explaining what he meant, without help..

"I would never look on here for a relationship "..is what he said, if he wants to clarify that, thats up to him.."

haha I'm no white knight I pretty much said the same the thing earlier on. If I was looking for a relationship I wouldn't be on here myself. It is a preference whether you see women on here as potential relationship material. There is double standards when it comes to men and women's behaviour it is more expected of men, that is reality unfortunately. Obviously you have encountered this double standards hence the bitterness.

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By *ust PeachyWoman  over a year ago

Prestonish


"Would be interesting to hear if guys compare themselves the same way (some) women do. For example if I met a guy I'd like to think I was better looking than his last girlfriend and would feel a bit threatened or have some sort of issue if his previous bird was more attractive (cos I'm funny like that) Do guys have the same thoughts/feelings or are they not arsed? Like if you knew her ex had a massive dick, would it play on your mind?

I wouldn't compare myself to her exes. If i let something like an ex being better looking bother me then I'd have no one to go out with, most exes will be better looking than me.

Ditto cock size, tho if she made a point of mentioning it to me would suggest that it's important to her and ergo I'm not right for her

I'm with you on the cock size thing but only because when women do mention cock size they often aren't specific enough, saying WE or VWE doesn't tell me enough.

It's like those who say "exceptional males" I mean wtf does that mean?, it's totally subjective and I'm not a mind reader! I have no problem with ladies being choosy but if a lady has such a specific idea about the type of guy she wants to meet then I wish they would be specific, if you want a ripped meathead with at least a 9" cock then just say so. If you are vague while also wanting a specific type of guy then how do we know if we fit the bill or not? Sorry that sounds like a rant "

It does a little bit!

You sound like you need a hug - c'mere!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"all these questions pertain to what chance do you think you have with a lady for sex, fwb, or full on relationships.

do you compare yourself to the ladys' previous meets? (that you can see and she has been verified by or know of some other way). if you do then:

do you do this only for sex, the compare to previous sexual encounters thing?

what about for a relationship? would you compare yourself to previous relationships she's had or might be in now?

what do you compare? is it looks, personality, the way she's been treated or the way you know she's like to be treated, or something else? or a combination of these things?

just asking based on lots of things i've read or heard about over the years.

I would never look on here for a relationship are you only on here, cos no one else will have you then?...id only have a relationship off of here, so you are safe...

Do we know each other?? Why are you trying to insult me?? cos we arent worth dating, we are just slags who fuck right? what do you expect...? pleasantries? he didn't say that you are jumping to conclusions, I think he just believes this isn't a good place to seek a relationship in his opinion and would probably try more mainstream dating sites etc white knight alert, im sure hes quite capable of explaining what he meant, without help..

"I would never look on here for a relationship "..is what he said, if he wants to clarify that, thats up to him.. haha I'm no white knight I pretty much said the same the thing earlier on. If I was looking for a relationship I wouldn't be on here myself. It is a preference whether you see women on here as potential relationship material. There is double standards when it comes to men and women's behaviour it is more expected of men, that is reality unfortunately. Obviously you have encountered this double standards hence the bitterness."

Ignore her, she is an irrelevance

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Would be interesting to hear if guys compare themselves the same way (some) women do. For example if I met a guy I'd like to think I was better looking than his last girlfriend and would feel a bit threatened or have some sort of issue if his previous bird was more attractive (cos I'm funny like that) Do guys have the same thoughts/feelings or are they not arsed? Like if you knew her ex had a massive dick, would it play on your mind?"

I've been mostly single and on and off pof for about 7 years, I have dated a lot of women in that time, I don't ever considered who there ex was? It really never enters my head.

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By *uzy444Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"all these questions pertain to what chance do you think you have with a lady for sex, fwb, or full on relationships.

do you compare yourself to the ladys' previous meets? (that you can see and she has been verified by or know of some other way). if you do then:

do you do this only for sex, the compare to previous sexual encounters thing?

what about for a relationship? would you compare yourself to previous relationships she's had or might be in now?

what do you compare? is it looks, personality, the way she's been treated or the way you know she's like to be treated, or something else? or a combination of these things?

just asking based on lots of things i've read or heard about over the years.

I would never look on here for a relationship are you only on here, cos no one else will have you then?...id only have a relationship off of here, so you are safe...

Do we know each other?? Why are you trying to insult me?? cos we arent worth dating, we are just slags who fuck right? what do you expect...? pleasantries? he didn't say that you are jumping to conclusions, I think he just believes this isn't a good place to seek a relationship in his opinion and would probably try more mainstream dating sites etc white knight alert, im sure hes quite capable of explaining what he meant, without help..

"I would never look on here for a relationship "..is what he said, if he wants to clarify that, thats up to him.. haha I'm no white knight I pretty much said the same the thing earlier on. If I was looking for a relationship I wouldn't be on here myself. It is a preference whether you see women on here as potential relationship material. There is double standards when it comes to men and women's behaviour it is more expected of men, that is reality unfortunately. Obviously you have encountered this double standards hence the bitterness."

im not interested in having a relationship im quite happy with how i live my life..to say however that you wouldnt look for a relationship on here however is a kin to saying the women on here are good enough to fuck but not to date..its that i am objecting too, there are some lovely lovely women on here, deserving of more than being treated as a fuck..dont assume things about me, you dont know me and your pulling at the wrong straws

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

I have no need to compare myself with others as what they did, do or will do, is of zero interest to me.

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

[Removed by poster at 09/01/17 17:19:12]

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"all these questions pertain to what chance do you think you have with a lady for sex, fwb, or full on relationships.

do you compare yourself to the ladys' previous meets? (that you can see and she has been verified by or know of some other way). if you do then:

do you do this only for sex, the compare to previous sexual encounters thing?

what about for a relationship? would you compare yourself to previous relationships she's had or might be in now?

what do you compare? is it looks, personality, the way she's been treated or the way you know she's like to be treated, or something else? or a combination of these things?

just asking based on lots of things i've read or heard about over the years.

I would never look on here for a relationship are you only on here, cos no one else will have you then?...id only have a relationship off of here, so you are safe...

Do we know each other?? Why are you trying to insult me?? cos we arent worth dating, we are just slags who fuck right? what do you expect...? pleasantries? he didn't say that you are jumping to conclusions, I think he just believes this isn't a good place to seek a relationship in his opinion and would probably try more mainstream dating sites etc white knight alert, im sure hes quite capable of explaining what he meant, without help..

"I would never look on here for a relationship "..is what he said, if he wants to clarify that, thats up to him.. haha I'm no white knight I pretty much said the same the thing earlier on. If I was looking for a relationship I wouldn't be on here myself. It is a preference whether you see women on here as potential relationship material. There is double standards when it comes to men and women's behaviour it is more expected of men, that is reality unfortunately. Obviously you have encountered this double standards hence the bitterness.im not interested in having a relationship im quite happy with how i live my life..to say however that you wouldnt look for a relationship on here however is a kin to saying the women on here are good enough to fuck but not to date..its that i am objecting too, there are some lovely lovely women on here, deserving of more than being treated as a fuck..dont assume things about me, you dont know me and your pulling at the wrong straws"

no it just isn't conventional to seek a relationship on a predominantly NSA sex site. The dynamics are completely different.

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By *ysnomiaMan  over a year ago

Preston


"I have seen women say if they like a guy then his previous veris can put them off meeting him if the women are considered 'better' than they are."

I could imagine a lot of men feeling the same way.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Really irritates me when men say they'd never look for a relationship on here. Says to me they're not into swinging only a quick shag. I think this is a good place to look if you are into swinging. "

I could not agree more! Surely if you are into Swinging then it would be ideal to meet someone on here.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Really irritates me when men say they'd never look for a relationship on here. Says to me they're not into swinging only a quick shag. I think this is a good place to look if you are into swinging.

I could not agree more! Surely if you are into Swinging then it would be ideal to meet someone on here. "

What is a 'swinger' ??

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By *uzy444Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"all these questions pertain to what chance do you think you have with a lady for sex, fwb, or full on relationships.

do you compare yourself to the ladys' previous meets? (that you can see and she has been verified by or know of some other way). if you do then:

do you do this only for sex, the compare to previous sexual encounters thing?

what about for a relationship? would you compare yourself to previous relationships she's had or might be in now?

what do you compare? is it looks, personality, the way she's been treated or the way you know she's like to be treated, or something else? or a combination of these things?

just asking based on lots of things i've read or heard about over the years.

I would never look on here for a relationship are you only on here, cos no one else will have you then?...id only have a relationship off of here, so you are safe...

Do we know each other?? Why are you trying to insult me?? cos we arent worth dating, we are just slags who fuck right? what do you expect...? pleasantries? he didn't say that you are jumping to conclusions, I think he just believes this isn't a good place to seek a relationship in his opinion and would probably try more mainstream dating sites etc white knight alert, im sure hes quite capable of explaining what he meant, without help..

"I would never look on here for a relationship "..is what he said, if he wants to clarify that, thats up to him.. haha I'm no white knight I pretty much said the same the thing earlier on. If I was looking for a relationship I wouldn't be on here myself. It is a preference whether you see women on here as potential relationship material. There is double standards when it comes to men and women's behaviour it is more expected of men, that is reality unfortunately. Obviously you have encountered this double standards hence the bitterness.im not interested in having a relationship im quite happy with how i live my life..to say however that you wouldnt look for a relationship on here however is a kin to saying the women on here are good enough to fuck but not to date..its that i am objecting too, there are some lovely lovely women on here, deserving of more than being treated as a fuck..dont assume things about me, you dont know me and your pulling at the wrong straws no it just isn't conventional to seek a relationship on a predominantly NSA sex site. The dynamics are completely different."

i dont do vanilla relationships, to me it would be normal...and nsa doesnt always mean fuck and go...nsa can mean different things to different people.x

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

I don't do relationships, so I am here for quick shags. I don't pretend otherwise that is I don't get involved in all the flirting shite that many indulge in with all the

But if I was looking for someone, I would not get into a relationship with someone from here.

I think there are many many more ladies would stop swinging if they met a man on here and a lot of guys looking for that special lady are looking more for the 'couple profile' than love. It opens the door to more pussy.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"all these questions pertain to what chance do you think you have with a lady for sex, fwb, or full on relationships.

do you compare yourself to the ladys' previous meets? (that you can see and she has been verified by or know of some other way). if you do then:

do you do this only for sex, the compare to previous sexual encounters thing?

what about for a relationship? would you compare yourself to previous relationships she's had or might be in now?

what do you compare? is it looks, personality, the way she's been treated or the way you know she's like to be treated, or something else? or a combination of these things?

just asking based on lots of things i've read or heard about over the years.

I would never look on here for a relationship are you only on here, cos no one else will have you then?...id only have a relationship off of here, so you are safe...

Do we know each other?? Why are you trying to insult me?? cos we arent worth dating, we are just slags who fuck right? what do you expect...? pleasantries? he didn't say that you are jumping to conclusions, I think he just believes this isn't a good place to seek a relationship in his opinion and would probably try more mainstream dating sites etc white knight alert, im sure hes quite capable of explaining what he meant, without help..

"I would never look on here for a relationship "..is what he said, if he wants to clarify that, thats up to him.. haha I'm no white knight I pretty much said the same the thing earlier on. If I was looking for a relationship I wouldn't be on here myself. It is a preference whether you see women on here as potential relationship material. There is double standards when it comes to men and women's behaviour it is more expected of men, that is reality unfortunately. Obviously you have encountered this double standards hence the bitterness.im not interested in having a relationship im quite happy with how i live my life..to say however that you wouldnt look for a relationship on here however is a kin to saying the women on here are good enough to fuck but not to date..its that i am objecting too, there are some lovely lovely women on here, deserving of more than being treated as a fuck..dont assume things about me, you dont know me and your pulling at the wrong straws no it just isn't conventional to seek a relationship on a predominantly NSA sex site. The dynamics are completely different.i dont do vanilla relationships, to me it would be normal...and nsa doesnt always mean fuck and go...nsa can mean different things to different people.x"

yes and other peoples opinions differ but doesn't necessarily mean they are judging these women the way you implied before. They just think there is better places to seek a relationship that's all.

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By *uzy444Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"all these questions pertain to what chance do you think you have with a lady for sex, fwb, or full on relationships.

do you compare yourself to the ladys' previous meets? (that you can see and she has been verified by or know of some other way). if you do then:

do you do this only for sex, the compare to previous sexual encounters thing?

what about for a relationship? would you compare yourself to previous relationships she's had or might be in now?

what do you compare? is it looks, personality, the way she's been treated or the way you know she's like to be treated, or something else? or a combination of these things?

just asking based on lots of things i've read or heard about over the years.

I would never look on here for a relationship are you only on here, cos no one else will have you then?...id only have a relationship off of here, so you are safe...

Do we know each other?? Why are you trying to insult me?? cos we arent worth dating, we are just slags who fuck right? what do you expect...? pleasantries? he didn't say that you are jumping to conclusions, I think he just believes this isn't a good place to seek a relationship in his opinion and would probably try more mainstream dating sites etc white knight alert, im sure hes quite capable of explaining what he meant, without help..

"I would never look on here for a relationship "..is what he said, if he wants to clarify that, thats up to him.. haha I'm no white knight I pretty much said the same the thing earlier on. If I was looking for a relationship I wouldn't be on here myself. It is a preference whether you see women on here as potential relationship material. There is double standards when it comes to men and women's behaviour it is more expected of men, that is reality unfortunately. Obviously you have encountered this double standards hence the bitterness.im not interested in having a relationship im quite happy with how i live my life..to say however that you wouldnt look for a relationship on here however is a kin to saying the women on here are good enough to fuck but not to date..its that i am objecting too, there are some lovely lovely women on here, deserving of more than being treated as a fuck..dont assume things about me, you dont know me and your pulling at the wrong straws no it just isn't conventional to seek a relationship on a predominantly NSA sex site. The dynamics are completely different.i dont do vanilla relationships, to me it would be normal...and nsa doesnt always mean fuck and go...nsa can mean different things to different people.x yes and other peoples opinions differ but doesn't necessarily mean they are judging these women the way you implied before. They just think there is better places to seek a relationship that's all."

green arrow is your friend...i dont imply anything, through previous encounters i know exactly what he meant, thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"all these questions pertain to what chance do you think you have with a lady for sex, fwb, or full on relationships.

do you compare yourself to the ladys' previous meets? (that you can see and she has been verified by or know of some other way). if you do then:

do you do this only for sex, the compare to previous sexual encounters thing?

what about for a relationship? would you compare yourself to previous relationships she's had or might be in now?

what do you compare? is it looks, personality, the way she's been treated or the way you know she's like to be treated, or something else? or a combination of these things?

just asking based on lots of things i've read or heard about over the years.

I would never look on here for a relationship are you only on here, cos no one else will have you then?...id only have a relationship off of here, so you are safe...

Do we know each other?? Why are you trying to insult me?? cos we arent worth dating, we are just slags who fuck right? what do you expect...? pleasantries? he didn't say that you are jumping to conclusions, I think he just believes this isn't a good place to seek a relationship in his opinion and would probably try more mainstream dating sites etc white knight alert, im sure hes quite capable of explaining what he meant, without help..

"I would never look on here for a relationship "..is what he said, if he wants to clarify that, thats up to him.. haha I'm no white knight I pretty much said the same the thing earlier on. If I was looking for a relationship I wouldn't be on here myself. It is a preference whether you see women on here as potential relationship material. There is double standards when it comes to men and women's behaviour it is more expected of men, that is reality unfortunately. Obviously you have encountered this double standards hence the bitterness.im not interested in having a relationship im quite happy with how i live my life..to say however that you wouldnt look for a relationship on here however is a kin to saying the women on here are good enough to fuck but not to date..its that i am objecting too, there are some lovely lovely women on here, deserving of more than being treated as a fuck..dont assume things about me, you dont know me and your pulling at the wrong straws no it just isn't conventional to seek a relationship on a predominantly NSA sex site. The dynamics are completely different.i dont do vanilla relationships, to me it would be normal...and nsa doesnt always mean fuck and go...nsa can mean different things to different people.x yes and other peoples opinions differ but doesn't necessarily mean they are judging these women the way you implied before. They just think there is better places to seek a relationship that's all.green arrow is your friend...i dont imply anything, through previous encounters i know exactly what he meant, thanks."

The green arrow is indeed your friend, are you still eating lemons??

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By *uzy444Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"all these questions pertain to what chance do you think you have with a lady for sex, fwb, or full on relationships.

do you compare yourself to the ladys' previous meets? (that you can see and she has been verified by or know of some other way). if you do then:

do you do this only for sex, the compare to previous sexual encounters thing?

what about for a relationship? would you compare yourself to previous relationships she's had or might be in now?

what do you compare? is it looks, personality, the way she's been treated or the way you know she's like to be treated, or something else? or a combination of these things?

just asking based on lots of things i've read or heard about over the years.

I would never look on here for a relationship are you only on here, cos no one else will have you then?...id only have a relationship off of here, so you are safe...

Do we know each other?? Why are you trying to insult me?? cos we arent worth dating, we are just slags who fuck right? what do you expect...? pleasantries? he didn't say that you are jumping to conclusions, I think he just believes this isn't a good place to seek a relationship in his opinion and would probably try more mainstream dating sites etc white knight alert, im sure hes quite capable of explaining what he meant, without help..

"I would never look on here for a relationship "..is what he said, if he wants to clarify that, thats up to him.. haha I'm no white knight I pretty much said the same the thing earlier on. If I was looking for a relationship I wouldn't be on here myself. It is a preference whether you see women on here as potential relationship material. There is double standards when it comes to men and women's behaviour it is more expected of men, that is reality unfortunately. Obviously you have encountered this double standards hence the bitterness.im not interested in having a relationship im quite happy with how i live my life..to say however that you wouldnt look for a relationship on here however is a kin to saying the women on here are good enough to fuck but not to date..its that i am objecting too, there are some lovely lovely women on here, deserving of more than being treated as a fuck..dont assume things about me, you dont know me and your pulling at the wrong straws no it just isn't conventional to seek a relationship on a predominantly NSA sex site. The dynamics are completely different.i dont do vanilla relationships, to me it would be normal...and nsa doesnt always mean fuck and go...nsa can mean different things to different people.x yes and other peoples opinions differ but doesn't necessarily mean they are judging these women the way you implied before. They just think there is better places to seek a relationship that's all.green arrow is your friend...i dont imply anything, through previous encounters i know exactly what he meant, thanks.

The green arrow is indeed your friend, are you still eating lemons?? "

you cant green arrow me as i have you blocked and you know it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"all these questions pertain to what chance do you think you have with a lady for sex, fwb, or full on relationships.

do you compare yourself to the ladys' previous meets? (that you can see and she has been verified by or know of some other way). if you do then:

do you do this only for sex, the compare to previous sexual encounters thing?

what about for a relationship? would you compare yourself to previous relationships she's had or might be in now?

what do you compare? is it looks, personality, the way she's been treated or the way you know she's like to be treated, or something else? or a combination of these things?

just asking based on lots of things i've read or heard about over the years.

I would never look on here for a relationship are you only on here, cos no one else will have you then?...id only have a relationship off of here, so you are safe...

Do we know each other?? Why are you trying to insult me?? cos we arent worth dating, we are just slags who fuck right? what do you expect...? pleasantries? he didn't say that you are jumping to conclusions, I think he just believes this isn't a good place to seek a relationship in his opinion and would probably try more mainstream dating sites etc white knight alert, im sure hes quite capable of explaining what he meant, without help..

"I would never look on here for a relationship "..is what he said, if he wants to clarify that, thats up to him.. haha I'm no white knight I pretty much said the same the thing earlier on. If I was looking for a relationship I wouldn't be on here myself. It is a preference whether you see women on here as potential relationship material. There is double standards when it comes to men and women's behaviour it is more expected of men, that is reality unfortunately. Obviously you have encountered this double standards hence the bitterness.im not interested in having a relationship im quite happy with how i live my life..to say however that you wouldnt look for a relationship on here however is a kin to saying the women on here are good enough to fuck but not to date..its that i am objecting too, there are some lovely lovely women on here, deserving of more than being treated as a fuck..dont assume things about me, you dont know me and your pulling at the wrong straws no it just isn't conventional to seek a relationship on a predominantly NSA sex site. The dynamics are completely different.i dont do vanilla relationships, to me it would be normal...and nsa doesnt always mean fuck and go...nsa can mean different things to different people.x yes and other peoples opinions differ but doesn't necessarily mean they are judging these women the way you implied before. They just think there is better places to seek a relationship that's all.green arrow is your friend...i dont imply anything, through previous encounters i know exactly what he meant, thanks.

The green arrow is indeed your friend, are you still eating lemons?? you cant green arrow me as i have you blocked and you know it. "

Believe me , I can , and are you sure it was you who blocked me??

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By *uzy444Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"all these questions pertain to what chance do you think you have with a lady for sex, fwb, or full on relationships.

do you compare yourself to the ladys' previous meets? (that you can see and she has been verified by or know of some other way). if you do then:

do you do this only for sex, the compare to previous sexual encounters thing?

what about for a relationship? would you compare yourself to previous relationships she's had or might be in now?

what do you compare? is it looks, personality, the way she's been treated or the way you know she's like to be treated, or something else? or a combination of these things?

just asking based on lots of things i've read or heard about over the years.

I would never look on here for a relationship are you only on here, cos no one else will have you then?...id only have a relationship off of here, so you are safe...

Do we know each other?? Why are you trying to insult me?? cos we arent worth dating, we are just slags who fuck right? what do you expect...? pleasantries? he didn't say that you are jumping to conclusions, I think he just believes this isn't a good place to seek a relationship in his opinion and would probably try more mainstream dating sites etc white knight alert, im sure hes quite capable of explaining what he meant, without help..

"I would never look on here for a relationship "..is what he said, if he wants to clarify that, thats up to him.. haha I'm no white knight I pretty much said the same the thing earlier on. If I was looking for a relationship I wouldn't be on here myself. It is a preference whether you see women on here as potential relationship material. There is double standards when it comes to men and women's behaviour it is more expected of men, that is reality unfortunately. Obviously you have encountered this double standards hence the bitterness.im not interested in having a relationship im quite happy with how i live my life..to say however that you wouldnt look for a relationship on here however is a kin to saying the women on here are good enough to fuck but not to date..its that i am objecting too, there are some lovely lovely women on here, deserving of more than being treated as a fuck..dont assume things about me, you dont know me and your pulling at the wrong straws no it just isn't conventional to seek a relationship on a predominantly NSA sex site. The dynamics are completely different.i dont do vanilla relationships, to me it would be normal...and nsa doesnt always mean fuck and go...nsa can mean different things to different people.x yes and other peoples opinions differ but doesn't necessarily mean they are judging these women the way you implied before. They just think there is better places to seek a relationship that's all.green arrow is your friend...i dont imply anything, through previous encounters i know exactly what he meant, thanks.

The green arrow is indeed your friend, are you still eating lemons?? you cant green arrow me as i have you blocked and you know it.

Believe me , I can , and are you sure it was you who blocked me?? "

yeah im sure, i hope you reciprocated

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"all these questions pertain to what chance do you think you have with a lady for sex, fwb, or full on relationships.

do you compare yourself to the ladys' previous meets? (that you can see and she has been verified by or know of some other way). if you do then:

do you do this only for sex, the compare to previous sexual encounters thing?

what about for a relationship? would you compare yourself to previous relationships she's had or might be in now?

what do you compare? is it looks, personality, the way she's been treated or the way you know she's like to be treated, or something else? or a combination of these things?

just asking based on lots of things i've read or heard about over the years.

I would never look on here for a relationship are you only on here, cos no one else will have you then?...id only have a relationship off of here, so you are safe...

Do we know each other?? Why are you trying to insult me?? cos we arent worth dating, we are just slags who fuck right? what do you expect...? pleasantries? he didn't say that you are jumping to conclusions, I think he just believes this isn't a good place to seek a relationship in his opinion and would probably try more mainstream dating sites etc white knight alert, im sure hes quite capable of explaining what he meant, without help..

"I would never look on here for a relationship "..is what he said, if he wants to clarify that, thats up to him.. haha I'm no white knight I pretty much said the same the thing earlier on. If I was looking for a relationship I wouldn't be on here myself. It is a preference whether you see women on here as potential relationship material. There is double standards when it comes to men and women's behaviour it is more expected of men, that is reality unfortunately. Obviously you have encountered this double standards hence the bitterness.im not interested in having a relationship im quite happy with how i live my life..to say however that you wouldnt look for a relationship on here however is a kin to saying the women on here are good enough to fuck but not to date..its that i am objecting too, there are some lovely lovely women on here, deserving of more than being treated as a fuck..dont assume things about me, you dont know me and your pulling at the wrong straws no it just isn't conventional to seek a relationship on a predominantly NSA sex site. The dynamics are completely different.i dont do vanilla relationships, to me it would be normal...and nsa doesnt always mean fuck and go...nsa can mean different things to different people.x yes and other peoples opinions differ but doesn't necessarily mean they are judging these women the way you implied before. They just think there is better places to seek a relationship that's all.green arrow is your friend...i dont imply anything, through previous encounters i know exactly what he meant, thanks.

The green arrow is indeed your friend, are you still eating lemons?? you cant green arrow me as i have you blocked and you know it.

Believe me , I can , and are you sure it was you who blocked me?? yeah im sure, i hope you reciprocated "

Ok, let's be honest , what you say to and about me is totally irrelevant to me and this will be the last time I read or reply to one of your bitter posts. Stay happy

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"sometimes look at Veri's to see ages, i.e. if they're all sub 30 i'm not gonna get a look in, also look at veri's if they don't have much info on there profile other than "woman looking for men""

that's kind of what i was asking yeah.

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"all these questions pertain to what chance do you think you have with a lady for sex, fwb, or full on relationships.

do you compare yourself to the ladys' previous meets? (that you can see and she has been verified by or know of some other way). if you do then:

do you do this only for sex, the compare to previous sexual encounters thing?

what about for a relationship? would you compare yourself to previous relationships she's had or might be in now?

what do you compare? is it looks, personality, the way she's been treated or the way you know she's like to be treated, or something else? or a combination of these things?

just asking based on lots of things i've read or heard about over the years.

I would never look on here for a relationship are you only on here, cos no one else will have you then?...id only have a relationship off of here, so you are safe...

Do we know each other?? Why are you trying to insult me?? cos we arent worth dating, we are just slags who fuck right? what do you expect...? pleasantries? he didn't say that you are jumping to conclusions, I think he just believes this isn't a good place to seek a relationship in his opinion and would probably try more mainstream dating sites etc white knight alert, im sure hes quite capable of explaining what he meant, without help..

"I would never look on here for a relationship "..is what he said, if he wants to clarify that, thats up to him.."

He maybe knows he doesn't want a swinging relationship should he decide he wants one, chances are that's what he'd get here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

When i've looked at female profiles I do read the verifications as well as the profile itself.

As for comparing myself to other people that the individual may have met, I try not to. Of course we all get a little envious over certain things but i'm confident in my personality and how I conduct myself that i'll be fine when it comes to the meet.

Do I do this only for sex - that's tough to answer. I came out of a long term relationship and thought now would be a good time to meet new people and maybe try some new things when it comes to sex. That being said, i'd be happy just making friends on here and chatting to people.

As for finding a relationship on here, I tend to not rule anything out. That wasn't my intention when I signed up but that's not to say I won't meet someone who I could start a relationship with.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Would not need to compare but be happy to share. Better to concentrate on the here now and the next. Ha Ha or next we be having sexual comparison website blowcompare.com lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Would not need to compare but be happy to share. Better to concentrate on the here now and the next. Ha Ha or next we be having sexual comparison website blowcompare.com lol"

lol.

this is a good point as well because peoples wants can change.

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