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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone seems to have a different definition of FWB's, what is the most common definition, anyone?"
A mate who you can fuck but also have a social drink and a chat with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone seems to have a different definition of FWB's, what is the most common definition, anyone?
A mate who you can fuck but also have a social drink and a chat with. "
Let's be friends  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not sure but I'd like a few hot local ones!
A lot harder to find than you'd think!  "
In Belfast a lot are up for fwb, that's part of the reason I ask the definition cos I think they confuse with FB's |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone who you can meet when you feeling down, Netflix and chill, someone who you have sex with but no strings attached and who also advises you on women lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Someone who you can meet when you feeling down, Netflix and chill, someone who you have sex with but no strings attached and who also advises you on women lol "
You see, I consider that perfect, and be able to text and have every day conversation with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone who you can meet when you feeling down, Netflix and chill, someone who you have sex with but no strings attached and who also advises you on women lol "
I wouldn't expect an FWB to advise me on women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone who you can meet when you feeling down, Netflix and chill, someone who you have sex with but no strings attached and who also advises you on women lol
I wouldn't expect an FWB to advise me on women."
Why not, best thing if you ask me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone who you can meet when you feeling down, Netflix and chill, someone who you have sex with but no strings attached and who also advises you on women lol
I wouldn't expect an FWB to advise me on women.
Why not, best thing if you ask me "
I wouldn't ask a FWB for advise on other women if I am honest. Same as I wouldn't want a FWB to ask me advise about other men. We all wanna feel a bit special, regardless of what the situation is, innit |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"FWB? Sometimes we all have an itch needs scratched, but not every friendship can survive afterwards. Made that mistake once long ago..."
Was that because one half of the friendship wanted exclusivity? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"FWB? Sometimes we all have an itch needs scratched, but not every friendship can survive afterwards. Made that mistake once long ago...
Was that because one half of the friendship wanted exclusivity?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone who you can meet when you feeling down, Netflix and chill, someone who you have sex with but no strings attached and who also advises you on women lol
You see, I consider that perfect, and be able to text and have every day conversation with."
Yes exactly it becomes a honest and trustworthy friendship, with the benefits obviously  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Someone who you can meet when you feeling down, Netflix and chill, someone who you have sex with but no strings attached and who also advises you on women lol
You see, I consider that perfect, and be able to text and have every day conversation with.
Yes exactly it becomes a honest and trustworthy friendship, with the benefits obviously "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Na...she had 'issues'...long story but she had reasons. Only did one night stands cos if she slept with someone she never wanted to see him again. We tried to get past it but failed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone who you can meet when you feeling down, Netflix and chill, someone who you have sex with but no strings attached and who also advises you on women lol
I wouldn't expect an FWB to advise me on women.
Why not, best thing if you ask me
I wouldn't ask a FWB for advise on other women if I am honest. Same as I wouldn't want a FWB to ask me advise about other men. We all wanna feel a bit special, regardless of what the situation is, innit "
I guess there have to be some boundaries - friend space and benefits space need to be kept apart. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a fwb and he gives me advice on men but only because I'm looking for a relationship. He gives me great sex while I'm looking though  I'm not yet sure that once the "benefits" stop that we'll be able to stay just friends though which is a shame as he's lovely and we chat everyday!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I kind of feel like 'friends with benefits' is a really unkind term. Like, all my friends have benefits - that's why they're my friend. If they didn't have any benefits then they wouldn't be my friend.
I have sex with some of my friends. They are 'friends who I have sex with' just like I have 'friends who I airsoft with' and 'friends who I go to the theatre with'. It's just another activity that I do with them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not sure but I'd like a few hot local ones!
A lot harder to find than you'd think!
In Belfast a lot are up for fwb, that's part of the reason I ask the definition cos I think they confuse with FB's "
I suspect everyone has a different definition of friends with benefits and fuckbuddies if you ask on here. |
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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago
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"Everyone seems to have a different definition of FWB's, what is the most common definition, anyone?"
Friend you can do regular friend stuff with as well as have sex. Sometimes it's hard tho esp if sex is good and chemistry and friendship. The longer it continues the more chance you run of "catching feelings".
Unless of course you still have others you see regularly but we all have our favourites and everyone to some level suffers jealousy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The longer it continues the more chance you run of "catching feelings".
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What's wrong with having feelings? It's not like you'll use up all your feelings and not have them available for anyone else... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone seems to have a different definition of FWB's, what is the most common definition, anyone?
A mate who you can fuck but also have a social drink and a chat with. "
This is how I see it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think for me it would hinge on your definition of friend first. I have two fwb's who I've known for about 15 years. There's a solid friendship underlying it so the benefits are an occasional bonus between people who know each other well enough to accept it for what it is and without expectations or worries about pillow talk :p I think I'd struggle to be fwb with someone id just met. Surely that's more of a fb? Or even dating?
This has broken my tiny male mind |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had one for a couple of years and would pop around once or maybe twice a week we would have a cuppa and a chat and then the conversation would turn dirty.
I will leave the rest to you're imagination 
It worked for us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone seems to have a different definition of FWB's, what is the most common definition, anyone?
A mate who you can fuck but also have a social drink and a chat with. "
Yup |
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"The longer it continues the more chance you run of "catching feelings".
What's wrong with having feelings? It's not like you'll use up all your feelings and not have them available for anyone else..."
Agree 100% m, how can they be a friend if you have no feelings between you. For me, there's the difference between a FWB and a FB. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not sure but I'd like a few hot local ones!
A lot harder to find than you'd think! "
I'd like to meet you for a drink and see where it goes, but I bet I'm not too your taste :-s |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
on the hill NordWest of |
I've a few lads I do repeat meets with and normally we've dinner together - if not - at least a cup of tea. Per definition of this thread they're all fwb of mine 
Tbh I thought this is what swinging is all about to meet people for NSA sex but also to socialise. |
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"I've a few lads I do repeat meets with and normally we've dinner together - if not - at least a cup of tea. Per definition of this thread they're all fwb of mine
Tbh I thought this is what swinging is all about to meet people for NSA sex but also to socialise. "
This is what it is meant to be , I agree fully, though guys will perhaps be giving the different answer
We have two male friends I can meet for a chat and that is it equally we or I can meet and go straight to play .
Total trust and fun |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
on the hill NordWest of |
"I've a few lads I do repeat meets with and normally we've dinner together - if not - at least a cup of tea. Per definition of this thread they're all fwb of mine
Tbh I thought this is what swinging is all about to meet people for NSA sex but also to socialise.
This is what it is meant to be , I agree fully, though guys will perhaps be giving the different answer
We have two male friends I can meet for a chat and that is it equally we or I can meet and go straight to play .
Total trust and fun "
I' not a big fab of labels and I simply regard them as good fab friends/swinger friends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fwb's are the perfect arrangement for me. Guys you get to know, can trust, have coffee with, great sex and no fluff!
Not even belly button fluff?  "
I shaved mine off  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have found that as fwb we get the fun times with amazing sex and exploring with other couples ?
But have given each other support when feeling down or just need a laugh ?
No want or need to be together as a couple just the benefits we have as a pair of nutters lol |
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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago
the gym and random places |
"The longer it continues the more chance you run of "catching feelings".
What's wrong with having feelings? It's not like you'll use up all your feelings and not have them available for anyone else..."
I have no issue with it. I jusy know a number of my male mates who have said specifically if the female has feelings they will call it all off.
I've had feelings for fb's. I'm human it would be strange not to |
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By *andemanMan
over a year ago
bedforshire |
I have had 2 types of FWB.
The ones i have sex with and the ones i dont but can talk about this stuff with and go to clubs with and so on.
My definition of FWB is trustworthy people who i can share my invovment on the scene with but who know my real life but would NEVER interfear with it.
So FWB = trustworty Real Freinds on the Scene. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have had 2 types of FWB.
The ones i have sex with and the ones i dont but can talk about this stuff with and go to clubs with and so on.
My definition of FWB is trustworthy people who i can share my invovment on the scene with but who know my real life but would NEVER interfear with it.
So FWB = trustworty Real Freinds on the Scene."
But do they exist? I'm still looking.
If anyone is reading. That's a hint by the way. |
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By *eefy74Man
over a year ago
Mid Ulster |
I think a FWB is someone you can have a laugh with, meet socially etc and obviously have sex with without it ever leading to commitment.
A FB on the other hand is an someone you just meet for sex without any friendship, commitment or socialising.
Having said that, a FB that develops into a FWB is the best scenario all round |
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By *andemanMan
over a year ago
bedforshire |
They exist.
Sadly my best one died a few years back now.
I have friends on the scene who i do not have sex with but trust completly.
I have previous mistresses that i can still trust and not play with.
Looking for a new FWB that i do have sex with at the moment.
But yes they are out there. |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
Ashton Under Lyne |
I place the men I interact with in 3 categories
1. Vanilla friends. Self explanatory, no sex involved. I'll say I have very few of them because of #2.
2. FWB. Like someone else said, I think it's an unfair and unkind term. These are friends, I don't regard sex as a "benefit" I regard it as a natural interaction between two individuals (just because society doesn't agree with it, who fucking cares). These are the majority of my true friends, I totally believe that friends can have sex too - why the hell not? My friendship with these blokes is deep and intimate, we talk and share so much at a personal level, we go out and eat, watch movies and concerts after which sometimes we'll have sex. Sometimes we'll watch TV at mine or his, cuddle and kiss and ultimately have sex. Sometimes no sex, just chill and relax together. I've said this before on the forums, I have a deep loving relationship with most of my FWB and I see no reason why I can't love more than one man.
3. Fuck buddies. These are just pure sex, "booty call" type of stuff. A text to a bloke to come over and sex 20 minutes after which they may leave or even stay overnight. Key thing is very little contact or communication in between sexual exploits. I think every girl on Fab has one of these !!
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
"Fwb's are the perfect arrangement for me. Guys you get to know, can trust, have coffee with, great sex and no fluff!
Perfect but so hard to find "
They are hard to find but do exist, I've been lucky to have found 3 guys who I considered fwbs. Still looking |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I place the men I interact with in 3 categories
1. Vanilla friends. Self explanatory, no sex involved. I'll say I have very few of them because of #2.
2. FWB. Like someone else said, I think it's an unfair and unkind term. These are friends, I don't regard sex as a "benefit" I regard it as a natural interaction between two individuals (just because society doesn't agree with it, who fucking cares). These are the majority of my true friends, I totally believe that friends can have sex too - why the hell not? My friendship with these blokes is deep and intimate, we talk and share so much at a personal level, we go out and eat, watch movies and concerts after which sometimes we'll have sex. Sometimes we'll watch TV at mine or his, cuddle and kiss and ultimately have sex. Sometimes no sex, just chill and relax together. I've said this before on the forums, I have a deep loving relationship with most of my FWB and I see no reason why I can't love more than one man.
3. Fuck buddies. These are just pure sex, "booty call" type of stuff. A text to a bloke to come over and sex 20 minutes after which they may leave or even stay overnight. Key thing is very little contact or communication in between sexual exploits. I think every girl on Fab has one of these !!
xxx"
Can I be all of them? I'm greedy |
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By *andemanMan
over a year ago
bedforshire |
Actually i recon our definitions are not that disimilar. Its a Friend and one you can have sex with. I add its also an ex-lover you can still trust with this life and a person on the scene that you dont have sex with but knows you from outside and again is trustworthy.
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By *andemanMan
over a year ago
bedforshire |
"Everyone seems to have a different definition of FWB's, what is the most common definition, anyone?
I don't have a fwb so can't comment "
Well happy to demonstrate. For educational purposes of course. Lol |
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"Everyone seems to have a different definition of FWB's, what is the most common definition, anyone?
I don't have a fwb so can't comment
Well happy to demonstrate. For educational purposes of course. Lol"
I am all for further education |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fwb's are the perfect arrangement for me. Guys you get to know, can trust, have coffee with, great sex and no fluff!
Perfect but so hard to find
They are hard to find but do exist, I've been lucky to have found 3 guys who I considered fwbs. Still looking "
I've had 3 great guys too I'm on my 4th and they all in different areas so I'm really lucky x |
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