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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Time waster what do they get out of wasting people time on here y spend time to set up a profile just to piss people off "
They're only wasting your time if they arrange to meet and don't turn up. Other than that they're using the site how it suits them. |
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By *andemanMan
over a year ago
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Sadly not always. I had a great meet with a couple a while back and when we arranged a second one they did a no show and no explination or oppologie. Anoying! I am a big boy a polite decline is fine, but a no show at all is just rude. |
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We had one recently, single guy really nice messages nice profile and verified, chatted via messages for a few weeks arranged a meet at his, still messaging up til the day , we messaged about two hours before to say we were running a bit late but would be there at 8.30 and could he send address. Nothing !! Never heard from him since. Put us off arranging any more meets for months, just slowly getting back into it now. But very very cautious |
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"Sadly not always. I had a great meet with a couple a while back and when we arranged a second one they did a no show and no explination or oppologie. Anoying! I am a big boy a polite decline is fine, but a no show at all is just rude."
Totally agree with you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hate people who do that when I get my chance for meet I be grateful someone time and effort meet me. I would let them know a day in advance if something important came up just good manners. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Time waster what do they get out of wasting people time on here y spend time to set up a profile just to piss people off "
Why/how did they piss you off? |
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"Time waster what do they get out of wasting people time on here y spend time to set up a profile just to piss people off "
The fakes are pretty easy to spot, and are mostly closet gay men looking for cock pics to whack off over, or blokes pretending to be couples looking for pics to whack off over  Apart from those, the people who can let you down tend to be nervous newbies, who bottle it at the last minute  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a messsge yesterday from a guy wanting me to meet him that night in a hotel. I politely said no and got called a time waster and that I should go on Facebook ........is it me?? "
No, you are lovely. Nice chat yesterday, it won't go any further but was not a waste of time. Some people are just dicks (but hopefully, that makes the rest of us look better!) |
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By *andemanMan
over a year ago
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"I had a messsge yesterday from a guy wanting me to meet him that night in a hotel. I politely said no and got called a time waster and that I should go on Facebook ........is it me?? "
No its not. I get that myself sometimes.
"If you cant meet to get me off right this second your not a serious swinger!"
No folks we have lives!
Its not you its them.
Just block them and use the experience to filter out dickheads. |
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By *andemanMan
over a year ago
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"That happened to us, the guy gave us his mobile number even answered it then pretended he couldn't hear! Why? His loss xx"
Wow what a tragic failure! Turn you down??? Numpty!!!!
All the best you dodged on there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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the only problem with blocking these so called timewasters is that they can still see what you post on here..
so not only have they got to you in the real world, they can also see how much it has p***ed you off on here...double bonus for them, I'd say  |
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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Time waster what do they get out of wasting people time on here y spend time to set up a profile just to piss people off "
Because they have some fantastic wanks chatting with you/us. When they're sussed out, they just sod off, change their user name and start a new profile....
And the process starts all over again! |
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I think they do it for wank fodder they have no intention of meeting they just get off on the fact that they can chat for a while then either panic when a meet gets mentioned or arrange the meet then become a no show probably still sat at home wanking about what might have been |
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By *andemanMan
over a year ago
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"the only problem with blocking these so called timewasters is that they can still see what you post on here..
so not only have they got to you in the real world, they can also see how much it has p***ed you off on here...double bonus for them, I'd say "
Thats a really good point i had not thought of. We might just be adding fuel to thier fire by having this thread at all.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We got accused of being time wasters back in the summer by a guy who we hadn't even agreed to meet. Some people don't get the idea that we don't immediately drop our pants for everybody we talk to, and if you start to get pushy you're lowering your chances immensely. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive had my fair share of chatting to women on here for a while until its the day before an arranged meet then .... POOF they disappear and all communication ceases.
These types of places attract alot of The Fantasists unfortunately.
Its Par for the course so dont let it it irk you too much.
Onwards and upwards
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive realised people suddenly disappear for all sorts of reasons. Some come back to explain, some don't.
While it's frustrating if you've cleared your diary for someone, only for them to let you down last minute, shit happens in the real world and you just have to remember that complete strangers aren't a priority when life gets in the way.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends what you class as a timewaster "
Agreed. Could be argued that those who don't ever take a cursory glance at your profile before messaging are time wasters, but it's probably their own time they are wasting... |
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