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19. Is my age against me?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It's seems young women and couple want to experiment with older men and older women and couples also prefer older men which I can only presume is because of experience. But it's that same old people want me to have experience first but nobody is willing to give it me.
Anybody want to help?
Thanks lee |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most would suggest that, at your age, you should be out there experiencing that incredible thing called 'Life'.
Having the sorts of experiences a young 19 year old should be having.
And yes, many will consider that someone of your age is going to be lacking in experience, and as we're all here for our own enjoyment, they're going to want someone who knows what they're doing.
So, in answer to your question, yes, your age is against you, but there's absolutely nothing you can do about it.
That's not to say that it will be impossible for you to get meets, but you have to consider that there are an overwhelming number of single guys on here, vastly outnumbering the ladies and couples, and so we all have it tough - some just have it tougher than others.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's seems young women and couple want to experiment with older men and older women and couples also prefer older men which I can only presume is because of experience. But it's that same old people want me to have experience first but nobody is willing to give it me.
Anybody want to help?
Thanks lee"
Yes, your age is against you if you are trying to meet folk in an older age bracket.
We find we have little in common with characters and personalities much younger than ourselves. Others won't have an issue but, yes, since some do it will limit your interest.
Is that a surprise to you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me I cant imagine meeting anyone early twenties or younger. Experience is a big bonus and having something in common also is. Yes, you young guys have youth, stamina on your side but I think alot of women not all, like men who look like men not young lads.
That said, you will find there are those who actually like young guys. Good luck you will be fine if you are patient.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's seems young women and couple want to experiment with older men and older women and couples also prefer older men which I can only presume is because of experience. But it's that same old people want me to have experience first but nobody is willing to give it me.
Anybody want to help?
Thanks lee
Yes, your age is against you if you are trying to meet folk in an older age bracket.
We find we have little in common with characters and personalities much younger than ourselves. Others won't have an issue but, yes, since some do it will limit your interest.
Is that a surprise to you?"
No its not a suprise I just thought that maybe there'd at least be a few who would be willing to give a younger guy a chance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nah your not to young, depends entirely on your persona. I find alot of older woman love the idea of a younger lad. Just doubt they want to feel like there teaching anyone.
Personally I resonate well, if not better with older soul's. Just take it as it comes.
Dont get caught up with. Take it in your stride. Good things come to those that wait |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think they think you get experience from people closer to your age. "
Only problem is everytime I fI'd someone my own age on here they have an age restriction for people much older |
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"I think they think you get experience from people closer to your age.
Only problem is everytime I fI'd someone my own age on here they have an age restriction for people much older"
......"on here"......use this place as an addition not as a mainstay. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think they think you get experience from people closer to your age.
Only problem is everytime I fI'd someone my own age on here they have an age restriction for people much older......"on here"......use this place as an addition not as a mainstay. "
I try to but I need the verification from meets on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do people know that women and couples prefer older men?
Where is this survey of fab meets where people glean this information from?"
Who knows, good question. let's start. Do you enjoy the Company of a younger lad?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think they think you get experience from people closer to your age.
Only problem is everytime I fI'd someone my own age on here they have an age restriction for people much older"
Please share the details of these paragons of good taste
(obviously don't cos it's against the rules) |
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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago
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Men often ask if i like younger men?
My reply is age doesn't matter to me, but a sexy imagination does.
I've met younger men that show more experience than some older men I've met but also I've met older men than have more stamina than younger men. For me it's about a physical and mental connection irrespective of age |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile says you are looking for a regular fuck buddy. Achieving that at your age should be easy. Pick up a pretty girl on a night out, or use something like Tinder. I think you're making life a bit difficult for yourself by looking for a fuck buddy on a swingers website, where the majority of people are probably a generation older than you.
No I don't see the point in having sex with someone your age. Men have youth and stamina well into their thirties. If I want a young fit guy I only need to find a man 10 years younger. I find really young guys difficult to communicate with and on a different wavelength.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me you're too young.
But even if I was 19 again, you'd still be too young. Most 19 year olds I know (male and female) are still quite immature and should be out clubbing with others of the same age and flirting, getting lucky etc.
Just my opinion x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You're age is probably against you now but on the plus side you'll still be swinging when I'm dead so it's not all doom and gloom  "
Well there's a way to put it blimey!
You don't look on your way. You look beautiful   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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While your age is probably against you don't make the mistake of automatically blaming something that you can't change or influence as the reason you are struggling. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's seems young women and couple want to experiment with older men and older women and couples also prefer older men which I can only presume is because of experience. But it's that same old people want me to have experience first but nobody is willing to give it me.
Anybody want to help?
Thanks lee
Yes, your age is against you if you are trying to meet folk in an older age bracket.
We find we have little in common with characters and personalities much younger than ourselves. Others won't have an issue but, yes, since some do it will limit your interest.
Is that a surprise to you?
No its not a suprise I just thought that maybe there'd at least be a few who would be willing to give a younger guy a chance "
a chance to do what? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"While your age is probably against you don't make the mistake of automatically blaming something that you can't change or influence as the reason you are struggling."
 this, lots of men struggle here, regardless of age |
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"Most would suggest that, at your age, you should be out there experiencing that incredible thing called 'Life'.
Having the sorts of experiences a young 19 year old should be having.
And yes, many will consider that someone of your age is going to be lacking in experience, and as we're all here for our own enjoyment, they're going to want someone who knows what they're doing.
So, in answer to your question, yes, your age is against you, but there's absolutely nothing you can do about it.
That's not to say that it will be impossible for you to get meets, but you have to consider that there are an overwhelming number of single guys on here, vastly outnumbering the ladies and couples, and so we all have it tough - some just have it tougher than others.
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Here here |
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"You're age is probably against you now but on the plus side you'll still be swinging when I'm dead so it's not all doom and gloom
Well there's a way to put it blimey!
You don't look on your way. You look beautiful "
Thanking you muchly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep sorry it just doesn't appeal to me at all. Just go out with your mates like most of us were doing when we were 19!
Can't say I had a shortage of of the fuck buddies that you are looking for at that age, but I also can't say that the sex was outstanding and I certainly don't want to be going back there.
Also, it's just a generational thing, it's easier to be with people my own age with similar life experiences and outlook on life.
I'm not saying you are at all, but I was a bit of a nobhead at 19 and I'd hate to spend any time with me now, like I was then!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's seems young women and couple want to experiment with older men and older women and couples also prefer older men which I can only presume is because of experience. But it's that same old people want me to have experience first but nobody is willing to give it me.
Anybody want to help?
Thanks lee"
EurekaCougarsandCubs are on tour. There are plenty of sexy Cougars who won love to get their hands on you!
https://m.fabswingers.com/profile/eurekacougarsandcubs |
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By *andemanMan
over a year ago
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"It's seems young women and couple want to experiment with older men and older women and couples also prefer older men which I can only presume is because of experience. But it's that same old people want me to have experience first but nobody is willing to give it me.
Anybody want to help?
Thanks lee
EurekaCougarsandCubs are on tour. There are plenty of sexy Cougars who won love to get their hands on you!
https://m.fabswingers.com/profile/eurekacougarsandcubs"
Op. I was going to suggest this myself. Just look for cougars i am sure they will ear you up. (But be carful they can bite). |
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By *i de BiCouple
over a year ago
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"We're not averse to a younger guy...preferably bi though "
Certainly agree with you . We have met some very mature young guys for their age and it's important to us they can engage in a good conversation with us . |
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