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Can't cum from a BJ
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find that if you try to cum, you won't. Just let yourself go with the flow and let her keep sucking you. May just not be doing it long enough for you to cum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Iv only ever cum once from a BJ and that was when I was about 18. I enjoy them it's just no where near as fulfilling as penetrative sex. A good build up always helps though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm always astounded when anyone says they haven't shot their load from a blowjob.
Surely that's crazy talk? 
My tip would be to find a woman who is semi decent to amazing at sucking dick and let her get down on it whilst she sits on a vibrator. That way she is horny as hell and will be sucking dick like a possessed woman.
I have never failed to make Adam Cum with a blow job and I do it regularly. I have only sucked one other dick and he told me off for making him want to Cum too quickly. 
The key is to have a passion for the sucking, not an obligation.
Eve. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm always astounded when anyone says they haven't shot their load from a blowjob.
Surely that's crazy talk?
My tip would be to find a woman who is semi decent to amazing at sucking dick and let her get down on it whilst she sits on a vibrator. That way she is horny as hell and will be sucking dick like a possessed woman.
I have never failed to make Adam Cum with a blow job and I do it regularly. I have only sucked one other dick and he told me off for making him want to Cum too quickly.
The key is to have a passion for the sucking, not an obligation.
Eve. X"
Must admit I have to hold back or I pop way too soon |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ads had never cum from a wank apart from himself before or a bj ever, I think it's all in the mind and letting it go.
Even when he wanks me, I get to that point where I feel like I'm gonna piss myself when I've just had the initial blow out and I push him away because I don't know what comes next...it's all in the mind and meeting the right person might help with this, took us about four months for him to cum with a wank x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If i am struggling to cum from a BJ, i let her lay across me, facing away and suck my cock..then i reach and finger her bumhole...dunno why but the dirtyness of it sorts me right out  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't. Sometimes it's quick, sometimes it's slow. Relax and enjoy it and be glad someone is willing to give your cock some special attention  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm always astounded when anyone says they haven't shot their load from a blowjob.
Surely that's crazy talk?
My tip would be to find a woman who is semi decent to amazing at sucking dick and let her get down on it whilst she sits on a vibrator. That way she is horny as hell and will be sucking dick like a possessed woman.
I have never failed to make Adam Cum with a blow job and I do it regularly. I have only sucked one other dick and he told me off for making him want to Cum too quickly.
The key is to have a passion for the sucking, not an obligation.
Eve. X"
Exactly. Getting a blowjob off someone who enjoys giving them is way better than someone who sees it as a chore. Same with giving oral to a woman. If I get sucked off, I prefer it in 69, as I love eating a woman out, and it makes her more eager |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't. Sometimes it's quick, sometimes it's slow. Relax and enjoy it and be glad someone is willing to give your cock some special attention "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have trouble with this too. However, there have been a couple of occasions where I've been very horny and had to stop her sucking because she's only been doing it for a minute lol
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm always astounded when anyone says they haven't shot their load from a blowjob.
Surely that's crazy talk?
My tip would be to find a woman who is semi decent to amazing at sucking dick and let her get down on it whilst she sits on a vibrator. That way she is horny as hell and will be sucking dick like a possessed woman.
I have never failed to make Adam Cum with a blow job and I do it regularly. I have only sucked one other dick and he told me off for making him want to Cum too quickly.
The key is to have a passion for the sucking, not an obligation.
Eve. X
Exactly. Getting a blowjob off someone who enjoys giving them is way better than someone who sees it as a chore. Same with giving oral to a woman. If I get sucked off, I prefer it in 69, as I love eating a woman out, and it makes her more eager"
I find they struggle to concentrate during a 69 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why do people find this unusual? I'm pretty sure not every woman will orgasm from oral sex so it stands to reason that not every man will either. Just because one person cums without fail from something doesn't mean another will like it.
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By *B904280Man
over a year ago
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I had this problem for years then had a hookup with an ex porn actress who saw it as a challenge. She kept at it for ages and managed to do the deed.
Since that day its been more of a problem trying not to explode too soon but if I'm ever struggling closing my eyes and thinking dirty thoughts tends to work. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm always astounded when anyone says they haven't shot their load from a blowjob.
Surely that's crazy talk?
My tip would be to find a woman who is semi decent to amazing at sucking dick and let her get down on it whilst she sits on a vibrator. That way she is horny as hell and will be sucking dick like a possessed woman.
I have never failed to make Adam Cum with a blow job and I do it regularly. I have only sucked one other dick and he told me off for making him want to Cum too quickly.
The key is to have a passion for the sucking, not an obligation.
Eve. X
Exactly. Getting a blowjob off someone who enjoys giving them is way better than someone who sees it as a chore. Same with giving oral to a woman. If I get sucked off, I prefer it in 69, as I love eating a woman out, and it makes her more eager
I find they struggle to concentrate during a 69 "
I personally enjoy the distraction  means I'm doing a good job |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm always astounded when anyone says they haven't shot their load from a blowjob.
Surely that's crazy talk?
My tip would be to find a woman who is semi decent to amazing at sucking dick and let her get down on it whilst she sits on a vibrator. That way she is horny as hell and will be sucking dick like a possessed woman.
I have never failed to make Adam Cum with a blow job and I do it regularly. I have only sucked one other dick and he told me off for making him want to Cum too quickly.
The key is to have a passion for the sucking, not an obligation.
Eve. X
Exactly. Getting a blowjob off someone who enjoys giving them is way better than someone who sees it as a chore. Same with giving oral to a woman. If I get sucked off, I prefer it in 69, as I love eating a woman out, and it makes her more eager"
My FWB has never come from a blow job. I don't treat it as a chore and have made plenty of other men cum through a BJ.
So I don't agree with your statement that the key is passion and not treating it as lan obligation. I do it to my FWB with plenty of passion. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm always astounded when anyone says they haven't shot their load from a blowjob.
Surely that's crazy talk?
My tip would be to find a woman who is semi decent to amazing at sucking dick and let her get down on it whilst she sits on a vibrator. That way she is horny as hell and will be sucking dick like a possessed woman.
I have never failed to make Adam Cum with a blow job and I do it regularly. I have only sucked one other dick and he told me off for making him want to Cum too quickly.
The key is to have a passion for the sucking, not an obligation.
Eve. X
Exactly. Getting a blowjob off someone who enjoys giving them is way better than someone who sees it as a chore. Same with giving oral to a woman. If I get sucked off, I prefer it in 69, as I love eating a woman out, and it makes her more eager
My FWB has never come from a blow job. I don't treat it as a chore and have made plenty of other men cum through a BJ.
So I don't agree with your statement that the key is passion and not treating it as lan obligation. I do it to my FWB with plenty of passion. X"
I see it as foreplay. I was just stating that its more enjoyable if the person performing it on you is enjoying it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Struggle to cum from a BJ, as in I never have. I feel I maybe missing out
Any tips?
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I used to think this.. After long term relationship.. Then I met someone who made me look in her eyes till I relaxed, another who made it clear she wanted nothing more in the world than to make me cum, another who let me cum on her face, another in her mouth, another swallowed me whole, beginning to end.. Or was it all one woman? 
Relax, relax in yourself, shut your eyes, let her do it, let her take control, take time, then open your eyes and look at that porn star on the end of your cock! Girlfriend, wife, mistress, fuck buddy,or one off, look at her, touch her, tell her how it feels, tell her what you'd like, shut your eyes. Forget about cumming.. It'll happen. |
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I've only met one woman who could consistently have me trying to hold back and not shoot, from her oral technique. I don't know what she did that was different to the other women who have sucked me, but she was amazing (and always swallowed every drop ) Apart from her, a bj is a pleasant experience for me, if not always satisfying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's all about relaxing and being comfortable with your partner. It also helps if she's got incredible technique! I've only been with one girl who could make me shoot in her mouth every time, her deepthroating was a rare treat... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've NEVER cum from a blow job in my life, and I've had some pretty amazing blow jobs since we started swinging, but no one has ever been able to get me over that edge. |
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