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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Seems like a lot of us enjoy a social meet before taking the next step.
I find it fun, and its less pressure. But I find them more nerve-racking than getting straight down to business meets. I'm not a big drinker so usually just muddle through.
Anyone else have this issue?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I enjoy them too once I've relaxed. I'm usually confident in other aspects of life!
Is there something in particular that bothers you?"
I don't know, nerves and excitement of the unknown i guess! |
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"I enjoy them too once I've relaxed. I'm usually confident in other aspects of life!
Is there something in particular that bothers you?
I don't know, nerves and excitement of the unknown i guess!"
I'm just thinking if you could pinpoint something you could work on it.
I remember my first social and all I was worried about was if people listened in. But they don't so I got over that. |
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I guess there is also an element of 'what if xxxxx doesn't like me in person', so there is a fear of them saying 'sorry not for me' and walking off into the sunset |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I enjoy them too once I've relaxed. I'm usually confident in other aspects of life!
Is there something in particular that bothers you?
I don't know, nerves and excitement of the unknown i guess!
I'm just thinking if you could pinpoint something you could work on it.
I remember my first social and all I was worried about was if people listened in. But they don't so I got over that."
Yeah that could be it. I'm fine once the person I've met is normal and not a wacko. And I guess I'm always easy to spot (very tall) so am conscious ill be spotted. But I know in reality if someone seeing me having a drink with someone they wont think anything. Haha |
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Yep we love what basically amounts to a job interview and a "we will let you know" social only scenario....NOT 
We are happy to meet socially with a view to playing that night if we are all feeling like it, with no pressure x |
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