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Fully dressed in no clothes areas

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So you're all gathered around in the hot tub naked and having fun and some princess comes along and gets in with her dress on... what's that all about?

I'm talking about a no clothes area at a swingers club not the Jacuzzi at a hotel spa.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan over a year ago

D*unk ?

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By *r Costa xxMan over a year ago

stirling

Maybe she can't swim?

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By *plpxp2Couple over a year ago

Middlesbrough

"So you're all gathered around in the hot tub naked and having fun and some princess comes along and gets in with her dress on... what's that all about?

I'm talking about a no clothes area at a swingers club not the Jacuzzi at a hotel spa. "

Washing machine must be broken

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe it was the emperors new clothes and your just too damn smart?

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By *heBlackPantherCouple over a year ago

Guilford

She's cold.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some people are a law all onto themselves

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan over a year ago

Only been to one club that had a hot tub and you had to be dressed down to be in that area

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"D*unk ?"

No more than anyone else.

You get clubs like Chams where you change out of your clothes as soon as you get there but you get other clubs where there are no clothes areas... but some people feel these rules aren't for them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Some people are a law all onto themselves"

I can understand when it's someone who feels embarrassed about their bodies.... but I've only seen the model look at me types do it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

*adopting pirate voice*

They're more like guidelines, than actual rules

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i would have insisted the dress came off

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd be more interested in whether she brought a change of clothing, or went home dripping.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Only been to one club that had a hot tub and you had to be dressed down to be in that area "
most areas you get dressed down for but seen plenty of women that arent happy to get completely naked.. and all sorts of ladies... not just slim ..medium.. big.. etc.

Clubs are were you can embrace your fantasy but not impose on others

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Only been to one club that had a hot tub and you had to be dressed down to be in that area "

I'm inclined to say whatever but the problem is that when some people are naked and some fully dressed then the naked people start to feel self-conscious and it kills the mood.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Did the dress become see thro when wet making it loom like she was naked?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A princess in a wet dress sounds rather erotic to me.... (is it just me?)

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Only been to one club that had a hot tub and you had to be dressed down to be in that area most areas you get dressed down for but seen plenty of women that arent happy to get completely naked.. and all sorts of ladies... not just slim ..medium.. big.. etc.

Clubs are were you can embrace your fantasy but not impose on others "

At Kestrels for instance if you swim in clothes (even a bikini bottom) they will ask you to remove it. Again I've never seen any of the bigger girls try to cover up. It's always (in my experience) been the girls with the slim builds.

I've sort of adopted the attitude that they think they are to good to be naked in front of normal people but a recent conversation has made me question that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Clubs are were you can embrace your fantasy but not impose on others

I've sort of adopted the attitude that they think they are to good to be naked in front of normal people but a recent conversation has made me question that."

When I first went to clubs I would go into the pool and hot tub with my bikini bottom on. I didn't think I was a princess, I was just really nervous and I'm more self-conscious of my bum than my boobs. I stopped doing it when I became more comfortable, but I was just scared at the time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

something to do with fabric conditioners and dyes going into the water is one reason to go in bare

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan over a year ago

"Only been to one club that had a hot tub and you had to be dressed down to be in that area

I'm inclined to say whatever but the problem is that when some people are naked and some fully dressed then the naked people start to feel self-conscious and it kills the mood."

"I'm inclined to say whatever"

I was giving my only experience of a club with a hot tub that's all,

Next time just speak to a staff member if its against the club rules otherwise don't worry about it, Its their bodies let them do as they please

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Clubs are were you can embrace your fantasy but not impose on others

I've sort of adopted the attitude that they think they are to good to be naked in front of normal people but a recent conversation has made me question that.

This is exactly what I don't understand. You have the kind of body that gets fabbed onto page one. You have photos on your profile.... I'm not knocking you just trying to get my head around being shy but going to a sex club...

Thanks for enlightening me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nerves probably.

Fat women already know people will judge them on their bodies, so have nothing to lose.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Taking your clothes off in front of strangers isn't something everyone can do at the drop of a hat.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When I first went to clubs I would go into the pool and hot tub with my bikini bottom on. I didn't think I was a princess, I was just really nervous and I'm more self-conscious of my bum than my boobs. I stopped doing it when I became more comfortable, but I was just scared at the time.

Thanks for enlightening me."

We started swinging 2 years ago. We went to clubs before we even knew what fab was. It was a very nervous experience for me. I wouldn't say I'm shy, but until I walked into a club no one other than Marc had even seen me naked. I like pools and such so it seemed like a good place to get used to having less clothes on, but I couldn't bring myself to get fully undressed.

When a did start a profile here we had no naked pics...in fact I was in my bikini in all of them because I thought it showed what I looked like without showing too much, if that makes sense? As we continued on I got more comfortable and my pics and actions reflect that. And I never make it anywhere near page 9, nevermind page 1 of hot pics.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would feel super nervous to go to a club and get naked in front of loads of strangers (I would say I'm not fat but not slim either so class myself as average) but would like to see what the whole club had to offer if I'd plucked enough courage to go

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am pretty slim but I get nervous as hell about getting naked.

Up until we started swinging 3-4 months ago, it was only Adam who had seen me naked.

I am very self conscious about my body despite what others say.

Posting pics is alot different to being in front of people and getting naked.

I realise it's probably silly but my mind isn't the most rational thing when it comes my self worth.

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks for your views. I think maybe I've been a bit judgemental. Nice to see things from the other side.

I guess some people are still naturally shy even though they are at a swingers club.

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By *edonistic ExplorersCouple over a year ago

Stratford

"Thanks for your views. I think maybe I've been a bit judgemental. Nice to see things from the other side.

I guess some people are still naturally shy even though they are at a swingers club."

^^ This. I will happily strut around Chams in a corset, stockings and heels but you'll never ever get me there on naked night - I'm just too shy. Meet me in the boardroom and never would you describe me as shy but the thought of going naked in a club full of strangers gives me the horrors.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I've always thought of nudity as the great equaliser. I'm more confident naked than I am with clothes on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So you're all gathered around in the hot tub naked and having fun and some princess comes along and gets in with her dress on... what's that all about?

I'm talking about a no clothes area at a swingers club not the Jacuzzi at a hotel spa. "

Sounds hot to me.

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By *ymruambythCouple over a year ago

grantham

I'm inclined to say whatever but the problem is that when some people are naked and some fully dressed then the naked people start to feel self-conscious and it kills the mood."

This is one of the main reasons we prefer 'dress down' clubs like Chams where everyone gets into towels or underwear/lingerie as soon as they arrive. Getting into any state of undress at a club where people are dressed feels a bit weird at times.

Example - at the Attic, went for a jacuzzi and had changed to be naked (w/towel) beforehand. Afterwards, go for stroll around club. Yes there were naked people in a playroom having fun, but the vast majority were still fully dressed. Some even wearing outside coats. On that occasion it didn't feel conducive to a sexy atmosphere.

That said, I don't think I've ever seen anyone get into the jacuzzi at Chams fully dressed although I have seen one woman get in wearing her underwear.... frankly, it made her stand out more, not less!

In the early days of going to clubs, where we were more self conscious of our bodies we tended to find jacuzzi's were a 'safe' place to be, as once you are in, it's only really the top of your chest/head that is clearly visible to others anyway. Only the getting in and out bit caused any anxiety. Now, we couldn't care less

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

Getting naked in front of anyone is always daunting, even people I have met before. My first ever club visit with the regular squeeze I kept lingerie and a kimono on and only got naked when we had the pool to ourselves. I've been to a club once on a naked night and despite being a bag of nerves the whole night as a result also found it quite a liberating experience. But I had to be talked into doing it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I'm inclined to say whatever but the problem is that when some people are naked and some fully dressed then the naked people start to feel self-conscious and it kills the mood.

We've used to go to a party which shall not be named but would often find myself in a tangle of bodies and then look up to find myself surrounded by fully clothed men feeling themselves through their pants. It's amazing how quickly sexy can turn to sleazy. Instant mood killer.

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"Thanks for your views. I think maybe I've been a bit judgemental. Nice to see things from the other side.

I guess some people are still naturally shy even though they are at a swingers club."

Naked bodies in their droves turn me off. Growing up in a seaside resort has a lot to answer for. I avoid these type of clubs for this reason and because I feel they are imposing something on me ...

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