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"We've seen a few. No offence but always wondered if there's a reason that nearly all of the girls that do them are overweight and have a bit of a trainwreck vibe about them, perhaps it's a lifelong feeling of being unwanted (or less wanted than say a slim woman) that leads them to try to make up for that. Or Daddy issues? Would certainly explain why you see it as something that can never be truly satisfied. Certainly some sort of psychology behind it, as with all aspects of sex really." ...... exactly I think you have hit the nail on the head there . | |||
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"We've seen a few. No offence but always wondered if there's a reason that nearly all of the girls that do them are overweight and have a bit of a trainwreck vibe about them, perhaps it's a lifelong feeling of being unwanted (or less wanted than say a slim woman) that leads them to try to make up for that. Or Daddy issues? Would certainly explain why you see it as something that can never be truly satisfied. Certainly some sort of psychology behind it, as with all aspects of sex really." Wow! Looking at your pics, you are very slim. There must be something wrong with fat women, unlovable/ugly/daddy issues/can't compare to a slim woman. Get your head out your tiny ass. Women of all shapes and sizes love gangbangs for different reasons. You have basically just said it's mostly fat unlovable women that do it to hide their issues. People are different sizes for different reasons, some poor health, genetics, diet etc. We can't all be skinny perfect things! | |||
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"We've seen a few. No offence but always wondered if there's a reason that nearly all of the girls that do them are overweight and have a bit of a trainwreck vibe about them, perhaps it's a lifelong feeling of being unwanted (or less wanted than say a slim woman) that leads them to try to make up for that. Or Daddy issues? Would certainly explain why you see it as something that can never be truly satisfied. Certainly some sort of psychology behind it, as with all aspects of sex really. Wow! Looking at your pics, you are very slim. There must be something wrong with fat women, unlovable/ugly/daddy issues/can't compare to a slim woman. Get your head out your tiny ass. Women of all shapes and sizes love gangbangs for different reasons. You have basically just said it's mostly fat unlovable women that do it to hide their issues. People are different sizes for different reasons, some poor health, genetics, diet etc. We can't all be skinny perfect things!" Well said  | |||
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"We've seen a few. No offence but always wondered if there's a reason that nearly all of the girls that do them are overweight and have a bit of a trainwreck vibe about them, perhaps it's a lifelong feeling of being unwanted (or less wanted than say a slim woman) that leads them to try to make up for that. Or Daddy issues? Would certainly explain why you see it as something that can never be truly satisfied. Certainly some sort of psychology behind it, as with all aspects of sex really. Wow! Looking at your pics, you are very slim. There must be something wrong with fat women, unlovable/ugly/daddy issues/can't compare to a slim woman. Get your head out your tiny ass. Women of all shapes and sizes love gangbangs for different reasons. You have basically just said it's mostly fat unlovable women that do it to hide their issues. People are different sizes for different reasons, some poor health, genetics, diet etc. We can't all be skinny perfect things!" . (Kat) xx | |||
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"exactly I think you have hit the nail on the head there . "  | |||
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"We've seen a few. No offence but always wondered if there's a reason that nearly all of the girls that do them are overweight and have a bit of a trainwreck vibe about them, perhaps it's a lifelong feeling of being unwanted (or less wanted than say a slim woman) that leads them to try to make up for that. Or Daddy issues? Would certainly explain why you see it as something that can never be truly satisfied. Certainly some sort of psychology behind it, as with all aspects of sex really....... exactly I think you have hit the nail on the head there . " | |||
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"Not saying that nobody fancies larger women. Someone for everyone. They just aren't as desirable as slimmer ones to the majority of people! Hence why models, porn stars and the WAGs of the rich/famous are nearly all thin. Also not saying ALL women who do gangbangs are obese. Just, in our 50+ club visits they seem to be a majority and there must be a reason for that." Look at society first. Is the general public more overweight than it was 20 years ago? Yes. Is society pressuring women into being skinny, forcing young girls into eating disorders to look like the magazines? Yes Is there a reasonable subsection of overweight to skinny people that represents the wider population? Ie more overweight people. Yes. Go back a couple hundred years and the fattest were the most desirable as it showed wealth and excess!!!!!!! There are lots of reasons people do gangbangs. Money, fun, to prove they could, to achieve fantasies, bdsm! But it's totally crass and ignorant to assume 'fat people are unattractive, and they must do it to feel wanted' Stop making blunt sweeping and blatantly offensive statements without looking at the wider picture. | |||
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"We've seen a few. No offence but always wondered if there's a reason that nearly all of the girls that do them are overweight and have a bit of a trainwreck vibe about them, perhaps it's a lifelong feeling of being unwanted (or less wanted than say a slim woman) that leads them to try to make up for that. Or Daddy issues? Would certainly explain why you see it as something that can never be truly satisfied. Certainly some sort of psychology behind it, as with all aspects of sex really. Wow! Looking at your pics, you are very slim. There must be something wrong with fat women, unlovable/ugly/daddy issues/can't compare to a slim woman. Get your head out your tiny ass. Women of all shapes and sizes love gangbangs for different reasons. You have basically just said it's mostly fat unlovable women that do it to hide their issues. People are different sizes for different reasons, some poor health, genetics, diet etc. We can't all be skinny perfect things!" I want to believe this is true. But I had an ex who started taking part in gangbangs...she had severe mental health issues and used to be overweight and it had a visible effect on her self esteem. I know this is swinging and we should be accepting of people's fetishes but it would be obtuse to not see the obvious...its way more common for "greedy girls" to be not as attractive as those who dont partake in the same activity. Its goddamn irritating when people like you start shaming others for their observations. | |||
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"Not saying that nobody fancies larger women. Someone for everyone. They just aren't as desirable as slimmer ones to the majority of people! Hence why models, porn stars and the WAGs of the rich/famous are nearly all thin. Also not saying ALL women who do gangbangs are obese. Just, in our 50+ club visits they seem to be a majority and there must be a reason for that. Look at society first. Is the general public more overweight than it was 20 years ago? Yes. Is society pressuring women into being skinny, forcing young girls into eating disorders to look like the magazines? Yes Is there a reasonable subsection of overweight to skinny people that represents the wider population? Ie more overweight people. Yes. Go back a couple hundred years and the fattest were the most desirable as it showed wealth and excess!!!!!!! There are lots of reasons people do gangbangs. Money, fun, to prove they could, to achieve fantasies, bdsm! But it's totally crass and ignorant to assume 'fat people are unattractive, and they must do it to feel wanted' Stop making blunt sweeping and blatantly offensive statements without looking at the wider picture. " Your mentality is weak minded and lazy. Quit looking for external factors to blame your own poor habits on. This politically correct nonsense is what a lot of people are tired of. No one can make any observations because people like you insist on playing white knight and saving the poor wittle sould who cant have their feewings hurt  | |||
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"Not saying that nobody fancies larger women. Someone for everyone. They just aren't as desirable as slimmer ones to the majority of people! Hence why models, porn stars and the WAGs of the rich/famous are nearly all thin. Also not saying ALL women who do gangbangs are obese. Just, in our 50+ club visits they seem to be a majority and there must be a reason for that." Yes a reason but it isn't necessarily a psychological thing they could just enjoy them, you're a couple that swings does this mean that psychologically speaking your insecure on your relationship, think your partner will cheat anyway so you might as well swing to help desperately keep each other? Or do you maybe think that physiologically analysing you in that way is a tad bit ridiculous because you swing for enjoyment? | |||
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" Its goddamn irritating when people like you start shaming others for their observations." Shaming? Challenging! As I stated in a previous post there are many reasons for gangbangs. Certainly there will be those that struggle mentally or indeed have severe issues. I challenged the broadbrush offence viewpoint. If their comment had been made in a tactful way (yours was)... | |||
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"Also being overweight is due to over eating. Case. Closed. You ARE NOT fat because of "genetics"." Have you not seen the research on the fat gene? Or the medical evidence regarding thyroid problems, diabetes etc. Let me guess, you are the kinda guy that would tell someone with depression to 'get over it and stop being sad' or an agraphobic to just 'take a walk outside and see people' | |||
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"Not saying that nobody fancies larger women. Someone for everyone. They just aren't as desirable as slimmer ones to the majority of people! Hence why models, porn stars and the WAGs of the rich/famous are nearly all thin. Also not saying ALL women who do gangbangs are obese. Just, in our 50+ club visits they seem to be a majority and there must be a reason for that. Look at society first. Is the general public more overweight than it was 20 years ago? Yes. Is society pressuring women into being skinny, forcing young girls into eating disorders to look like the magazines? Yes Is there a reasonable subsection of overweight to skinny people that represents the wider population? Ie more overweight people. Yes. Go back a couple hundred years and the fattest were the most desirable as it showed wealth and excess!!!!!!! There are lots of reasons people do gangbangs. Money, fun, to prove they could, to achieve fantasies, bdsm! But it's totally crass and ignorant to assume 'fat people are unattractive, and they must do it to feel wanted' Stop making blunt sweeping and blatantly offensive statements without looking at the wider picture. Your mentality is weak minded and lazy. Quit looking for external factors to blame your own poor habits on. This politically correct nonsense is what a lot of people are tired of. No one can make any observations because people like you insist on playing white knight and saving the poor wittle sould who cant have their feewings hurt "You don't live in the real world far to busy look at yourself in the mirror?? We all come in different shapes and sizes deal with it. I lived with someone with a genetic bowel disorder she struggled for year on different diets to try and deal with it. Up all night with cramps. she had to worl out what she could and couldnt eat. Even goung gluten free for year didnt help. So stop generalising when you dont know shit. | |||
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"Not saying that nobody fancies larger women. Someone for everyone. They just aren't as desirable as slimmer ones to the majority of people! Hence why models, porn stars and the WAGs of the rich/famous are nearly all thin. Also not saying ALL women who do gangbangs are obese. Just, in our 50+ club visits they seem to be a majority and there must be a reason for that. Yes a reason but it isn't necessarily a psychological thing they could just enjoy them, you're a couple that swings does this mean that psychologically speaking your insecure on your relationship, think your partner will cheat anyway so you might as well swing to help desperately keep each other? Or do you maybe think that physiologically analysing you in that way is a tad bit ridiculous because you swing for enjoyment? " To be honest...a lot of couples I have met have told me that they were trying to save their marriage through swinging. It wasnt the majority...but there was a sizable number. It was an interesting site to behold. Just ask any swinger who has ventured to a club and they will have a story of either one or more of a couple being d*unk or their being disagreements about who was sleeping with who. The biggest problem I have with our modern approach to sex and femininity is this aggressive desperation to pretend that everything is wonderful and not a single negative thought can enter the mind of a swinger. We're all wonderful open minded hippies who have transcended natural feelings of guilt, envy, shame and lust...all feelings which are pretty darn common in many sexual experiences. Swinging is a great pastime and a good chance to learn a lot about yourself. I have at least. But sitting here and pretending it doesnt have its pitfalls and that there are not those who have slightly unhealthy motives is a little naive. | |||
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"Also being overweight is due to over eating. Case. Closed. You ARE NOT fat because of "genetics". Have you not seen the research on the fat gene? Or the medical evidence regarding thyroid problems, diabetes etc. Let me guess, you are the kinda guy that would tell someone with depression to 'get over it and stop being sad' or an agraphobic to just 'take a walk outside and see people' " The fat gene? Have you ever taken biology class?? Hyperthyroidism is found in less than 6 percent of the population...the vast, VAST majority of overweight/obese people do not thyroid deficiency and even if they did, Triiodothyronine also known as T3 is prescribed in many cases to alleviate such deficit. Besides, this post contradicts your last post in which you state lifestyle changes contribute to poor health and excess weight. Now its the "fat gene"...I mean this is just bad science. An attempt to present any amount of bad data to support your bad habits. There is a habit among people to make out as if EVERYTHING is okay. As if anyone saying anything remotely negative about someone means they're being offensive. Your diet and lifestyle choices are really down to the individual, trying to sit here and pretend as if one is not responsible for their own weight is pathetically immature. | |||
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"Also being overweight is due to over eating. Case. Closed. You ARE NOT fat because of "genetics". Have you not seen the research on the fat gene? Or the medical evidence regarding thyroid problems, diabetes etc. Let me guess, you are the kinda guy that would tell someone with depression to 'get over it and stop being sad' or an agraphobic to just 'take a walk outside and see people' " There's new studies show now that the leading cause of female obesity is hormonal changes to the body specifically the ones from using female contraceptives. Depo injection is the worst, followed by the implant, and they're the two most effective forms of contraception and therefore the most popular choices | |||
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"Also being overweight is due to over eating. Case. Closed. You ARE NOT fat because of "genetics". Have you not seen the research on the fat gene? Or the medical evidence regarding thyroid problems, diabetes etc. Let me guess, you are the kinda guy that would tell someone with depression to 'get over it and stop being sad' or an agraphobic to just 'take a walk outside and see people' There's new studies show now that the leading cause of female obesity is hormonal changes to the body specifically the ones from using female contraceptives. Depo injection is the worst, followed by the implant, and they're the two most effective forms of contraception and therefore the most popular choices " Yup. Its just NEVER our fault. There is always a fancy new study to blame our bad habits on. Always. 
First it was genetics, then it was access to junk food, then its the thyroid, then its the pill, then its social pressure, then its work/life balance.
I wonder, why was the considerably less overweight/obese people 50-60 years ago??? | |||
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"Also being overweight is due to over eating. Case. Closed. You ARE NOT fat because of "genetics". Have you not seen the research on the fat gene? Or the medical evidence regarding thyroid problems, diabetes etc. Let me guess, you are the kinda guy that would tell someone with depression to 'get over it and stop being sad' or an agraphobic to just 'take a walk outside and see people' The fat gene? Have you ever taken biology class?? Hyperthyroidism is found in less than 6 percent of the population...the vast, VAST majority of overweight/obese people do not thyroid deficiency and even if they did, Triiodothyronine also known as T3 is prescribed in many cases to alleviate such deficit. Besides, this post contradicts your last post in which you state lifestyle changes contribute to poor health and excess weight. Now its the "fat gene"...I mean this is just bad science. An attempt to present any amount of bad data to support your bad habits. There is a habit among people to make out as if EVERYTHING is okay. As if anyone saying anything remotely negative about someone means they're being offensive. Your diet and lifestyle choices are really down to the individual, trying to sit here and pretend as if one is not responsible for their own weight is pathetically immature. " Hey. Fat person with an under active thyroid here. It's not as simple as just taking a tablet. Yes I am medicated but the levels need constant adjustment and losing weight is really difficult. | |||
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" The fat gene? Have you ever taken biology class?? Hyperthyroidism is found in less than 6 percent of the population...the vast, VAST majority of overweight/obese people do not thyroid deficiency and even if they did, Triiodothyronine also known as T3 is prescribed in many cases to alleviate such deficit. Besides, this post contradicts your last post in which you state lifestyle changes contribute to poor health and excess weight. Now its the "fat gene"...I mean this is just bad science. An attempt to present any amount of bad data to support your bad habits. There is a habit among people to make out as if EVERYTHING is okay. As if anyone saying anything remotely negative about someone means they're being offensive. Your diet and lifestyle choices are really down to the individual, trying to sit here and pretend as if one is not responsible for their own weight is pathetically immature. " http://www.nhs.uk/news/2013/07July/Pages/Does-genetic-fat-mutation-cause-obesity.aspx Still early research, to show mutated genes can cause weight issues. Stating the lifestyle choices and medical issues and genetics can cause weight issues doesn't make them mutually exclusive. They can all contribute. Yes there are plenty of bad diets and laziness. I haven't denied that. You can be negative all you want and express it as much as you want! It's the method applied to saying it. Ie a sweeping insulting generalisation. The offense is in the way something is done/taken. not the intent behind it. | |||
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"Also being overweight is due to over eating. Case. Closed. You ARE NOT fat because of "genetics". Have you not seen the research on the fat gene? Or the medical evidence regarding thyroid problems, diabetes etc. Let me guess, you are the kinda guy that would tell someone with depression to 'get over it and stop being sad' or an agraphobic to just 'take a walk outside and see people' There's new studies show now that the leading cause of female obesity is hormonal changes to the body specifically the ones from using female contraceptives. Depo injection is the worst, followed by the implant, and they're the two most effective forms of contraception and therefore the most popular choices " Well, I have always used the contraceptive pill, then for the last 9 years I have been on the implant, whilst it doesn't suit all, I have always managed to maintain my weight, just my observation based on ME | |||
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"Also being overweight is due to over eating. Case. Closed. You ARE NOT fat because of "genetics". Have you not seen the research on the fat gene? Or the medical evidence regarding thyroid problems, diabetes etc. Let me guess, you are the kinda guy that would tell someone with depression to 'get over it and stop being sad' or an agraphobic to just 'take a walk outside and see people' There's new studies show now that the leading cause of female obesity is hormonal changes to the body specifically the ones from using female contraceptives. Depo injection is the worst, followed by the implant, and they're the two most effective forms of contraception and therefore the most popular choices Yup. Its just NEVER our fault. There is always a fancy new study to blame our bad habits on. Always.
First it was genetics, then it was access to junk food, then its the thyroid, then its the pill, then its social pressure, then its work/life balance.
I wonder, why was the considerably less overweight/obese people 50-60 years ago???"Because 50-60 years ago depo and implant never exsisted | |||
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"I have been to a few gangbangs in the past, It still and has always amazed me the appetite for sex these greedy girls have, I'm pretty sure after all the guys have given everything these girls still want more, I'm just curious do they get lost in the moment in the gangbang!! or are they just down right nymphs who need it all the time??" I haven't been involved in a gang bang still something I want to do. However when I have sex I am horny before but once I have it I am like something possessed and just want more and more. X | |||
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"Anyway to get back on topic; Personally as part of the cuckholding experience me and my ex partner decided a gang bang was something on our bucket list. We tried it out of pure curiosity, nothing else, though I enjoyed it in that moment once the adrenaline wore of, I went downwards emotionally and felt a bit used and cheap and worth more than that so I decided not to do it again and never have, curiosity cured. Of course I'm only speaking from my experience just because I felt that way doesn't mean others would." Whats odd is that your post actually agrees with the very observation myself and other posters were making...and yet we must still sit here and pretend that these feelings in the minority Sometimes, only some, I feel people here (men especially) will pretend that every sexual itch is just wonderful and that no negative feelings can arouse on the womans behalf, simply in order to get in a womans pants. | |||
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"Anyway to get back on topic; Personally as part of the cuckholding experience me and my ex partner decided a gang bang was something on our bucket list. We tried it out of pure curiosity, nothing else, though I enjoyed it in that moment once the adrenaline wore of, I went downwards emotionally and felt a bit used and cheap and worth more than that so I decided not to do it again and never have, curiosity cured. Of course I'm only speaking from my experience just because I felt that way doesn't mean others would. Whats odd is that your post actually agrees with the very observation myself and other posters were making...and yet we must still sit here and pretend that these feelings in the minority Sometimes, only some, I feel people here (men especially) will pretend that every sexual itch is just wonderful and that no negative feelings can arouse on the womans behalf, simply in order to get in a womans pants." Not really apparently I'm supposed to except that feeling and enjoy it because I'm fat so deserve no better | |||
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"Why don't you ask them after your next GB? "Lol | |||
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"Anyway to get back on topic; Personally as part of the cuckholding experience me and my ex partner decided a gang bang was something on our bucket list. We tried it out of pure curiosity, nothing else, though I enjoyed it in that moment once the adrenaline wore of, I went downwards emotionally and felt a bit used and cheap and worth more than that so I decided not to do it again and never have, curiosity cured. Of course I'm only speaking from my experience just because I felt that way doesn't mean others would. Whats odd is that your post actually agrees with the very observation myself and other posters were making...and yet we must still sit here and pretend that these feelings in the minority Sometimes, only some, I feel people here (men especially) will pretend that every sexual itch is just wonderful and that no negative feelings can arouse on the womans behalf, simply in order to get in a womans pants." No, we don't have to sit here and pretend these feelings are in the minority, hence why these threads, (when they remain on point) are interesting. I want to find out more about others experiences and drives. What I don't want is to read more about fat people and their origins. | |||
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"Not saying that nobody fancies larger women. Someone for everyone. They just aren't as desirable as slimmer ones to the majority of people! Hence why models, porn stars and the WAGs of the rich/famous are nearly all thin. Also not saying ALL women who do gangbangs are obese. Just, in our 50+ club visits they seem to be a majority and there must be a reason for that." Gotta disagree. When Negan killed skinny Glenn and Abraham Rick was fine. When he stole their food he was happy. When they burned his bed he said no problem. Gutt one of his guys at the pool table sure that's cool..... BUT when they shot the last curvy girl on post apocalyptic earth Rick said no more Mr Nice guy. This means war! Has to be for a reason.....  | |||
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"We've seen a few. No offence but always wondered if there's a reason that nearly all of the girls that do them are overweight and have a bit of a trainwreck vibe about them, perhaps it's a lifelong feeling of being unwanted (or less wanted than say a slim woman) that leads them to try to make up for that. Or Daddy issues? Would certainly explain why you see it as something that can never be truly satisfied. Certainly some sort of psychology behind it, as with all aspects of sex really."  | |||
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"We've seen a few. No offence but always wondered if there's a reason that nearly all of the girls that do them are overweight and have a bit of a trainwreck vibe about them, perhaps it's a lifelong feeling of being unwanted (or less wanted than say a slim woman) that leads them to try to make up for that. Or Daddy issues? Would certainly explain why you see it as something that can never be truly satisfied. Certainly some sort of psychology behind it, as with all aspects of sex really. Wow! Looking at your pics, you are very slim. There must be something wrong with fat women, unlovable/ugly/daddy issues/can't compare to a slim woman. Get your head out your tiny ass. Women of all shapes and sizes love gangbangs for different reasons. You have basically just said it's mostly fat unlovable women that do it to hide their issues. People are different sizes for different reasons, some poor health, genetics, diet etc. We can't all be skinny perfect things!" Well said. Not all overweight ladies have issues ur just jealous the where having more c**k than u | |||
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"I have been to a few gangbangs in the past, It still and has always amazed me the appetite for sex these greedy girls have, I'm pretty sure after all the guys have given everything these girls still want more, I'm just curious do they get lost in the moment in the gangbang!! or are they just down right nymphs who need it all the time??" I think if you asked the average man on the street if he'd like sex with a queue of horny girls he'd say yes please and no one would be sending him for a psychiatric evaluation. But it seems despite us being in the modern age women still aren't allowed to have sexual desires and live their fantasies. So far at the "fat girl theory" goes, it probably has more to do with conformity. Society has demanded that you are thin despite it being unnatural. You don't have the character to rebel so you conform. Is it any wonder that someone who doesn't have the freewill to eat a cream donut doesn't do something as taboo as gang bangs? | |||
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"We've seen a few. No offence but always wondered if there's a reason that nearly all of the girls that do them are overweight and have a bit of a trainwreck vibe about them, perhaps it's a lifelong feeling of being unwanted (or less wanted than say a slim woman) that leads them to try to make up for that. Or Daddy issues? Would certainly explain why you see it as something that can never be truly satisfied. Certainly some sort of psychology behind it, as with all aspects of sex really." Really...
Okay im a big girl now but not always been.. why i love gg / gangbang is simply because i find it empowering and its what i like from other men.. and trust me gg events are no good if you have confidence issues.. ( hence ive not been doing them for a while) when i do them its because i feel good in myself and I enjoy that type of vibe..
Plenty of people on here have issues but certainly couldn't say all gg have... they just like lots of guys..
For me 121 scares the crap outta me... its to intimate and its not a spectators event... ( obviously talking with meets not my partner here) one guy cant do it for me on a psychological level on nsa sex.. with out the added connection im quickly bored.. so gg play us actually pure self indulgence and im not being used.. nor degraded... but it takes a confidence I currently dont possess... funny as lost 6 stone and did it quite easily at my biggest.
So your observations are flawed and maybe you just dont get that some women are happy being bigger snd some men adore them.. although i know not all mean what they say x | |||
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"OP I have taken part in one or two and I think I like the feeling of many sets of hands grabbing me. Completely raw unadulterated passion and the chance to experience different peoples 'styles' one after the other . It's living out a fantasy so not something I would do all the time but every now and then is great . Well that's what I think but according to some people it's due to the fact I eat too many crisps and therefore have issues " | |||
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"We've seen a few. No offence but always wondered if there's a reason that nearly all of the girls that do them are overweight and have a bit of a trainwreck vibe about them, perhaps it's a lifelong feeling of being unwanted (or less wanted than say a slim woman) that leads them to try to make up for that. Or Daddy issues? Would certainly explain why you see it as something that can never be truly satisfied. Certainly some sort of psychology behind it, as with all aspects of sex really. Wow! Looking at your pics, you are very slim. There must be something wrong with fat women, unlovable/ugly/daddy issues/can't compare to a slim woman. Get your head out your tiny ass. Women of all shapes and sizes love gangbangs for different reasons. You have basically just said it's mostly fat unlovable women that do it to hide their issues. People are different sizes for different reasons, some poor health, genetics, diet etc. We can't all be skinny perfect things! Well said "I second that | |||
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"I can certainly say im not one of the majority!! Because I love women with curves the tend to be less shallow minded as well. "+1 I love women with curves. | |||
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"I know it's off topic but I spend a lot of time at the VA and the stereotype model is prancing around with her clothes on and getting into the hot tub with her underwear still on because she's too good for mere mortals to lay eyes on her perfection. Then gets on the bed with clothes still on and shag her bf because he's the only one good enough for her. Keep telling yourself you're getting more penis.... because while you do the curvy girls are having more fun "Sooooo...they're arrogant and conceited for not wanting to have sex with you?? This is kinda what I am talking about. Not everyone who ventures to a club is obligated to have sex with anyone other than her boyfriend/partner/chaperone. | |||
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"I know it's off topic but I spend a lot of time at the VA and the stereotype model is prancing around with her clothes on and getting into the hot tub with her underwear still on because she's too good for mere mortals to lay eyes on her perfection. Then gets on the bed with clothes still on and shag her bf because he's the only one good enough for her. Keep telling yourself you're getting more penis.... because while you do the curvy girls are having more fun
Sooooo...they're arrogant and conceited for not wanting to have sex with you?? This is kinda what I am talking about. Not everyone who ventures to a club is obligated to have sex with anyone other than her boyfriend/partner/chaperone.".... and they're not even obligated to have sex with them either | |||
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"I know it's off topic but I spend a lot of time at the VA and the stereotype model is prancing around with her clothes on and getting into the hot tub with her underwear still on because she's too good for mere mortals to lay eyes on her perfection. Then gets on the bed with clothes still on and shag her bf because he's the only one good enough for her. Keep telling yourself you're getting more penis.... because while you do the curvy girls are having more fun
Sooooo...they're arrogant and conceited for not wanting to have sex with you?? This is kinda what I am talking about. Not everyone who ventures to a club is obligated to have sex with anyone other than her boyfriend/partner/chaperone."So you'll see the offence there and object to it but ignore the offensive reference to fat people? | |||
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"Not saying that nobody fancies larger women. Someone for everyone. They just aren't as desirable as slimmer ones to the majority of people! Hence why models, porn stars and the WAGs of the rich/famous are nearly all thin. Also not saying ALL women who do gangbangs are obese. Just, in our 50+ club visits they seem to be a majority and there must be a reason for that. Look at society first. Is the general public more overweight than it was 20 years ago? Yes. Is society pressuring women into being skinny, forcing young girls into eating disorders to look like the magazines? Yes Is there a reasonable subsection of overweight to skinny people that represents the wider population? Ie more overweight people. Yes. Go back a couple hundred years and the fattest were the most desirable as it showed wealth and excess!!!!!!! There are lots of reasons people do gangbangs. Money, fun, to prove they could, to achieve fantasies, bdsm! But it's totally crass and ignorant to assume 'fat people are unattractive, and they must do it to feel wanted' Stop making blunt sweeping and blatantly offensive statements without looking at the wider picture. " | |||
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"I know it's off topic but I spend a lot of time at the VA and the stereotype model is prancing around with her clothes on and getting into the hot tub with her underwear still on because she's too good for mere mortals to lay eyes on her perfection. Then gets on the bed with clothes still on and shag her bf because he's the only one good enough for her. Keep telling yourself you're getting more penis.... because while you do the curvy girls are having more fun
Sooooo...they're arrogant and conceited for not wanting to have sex with you?? This is kinda what I am talking about. Not everyone who ventures to a club is obligated to have sex with anyone other than her boyfriend/partner/chaperone."Well to start off read my profile. I'm not attracted to gym bunnies. So I don't want them. Secondly ask anyone who knows me, I don't struggle. And lastly the main point is that if you're getting into a hot tub in a sex club with your clothes on then maybe it's you that needs the psychiatric evaluation. Does there need to be a sign up that says "No clothes allowed even if you look like a model"? | |||
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"Also being overweight is due to over eating. Case. Closed. You ARE NOT fat because of "genetics". Have you not seen the research on the fat gene? Or the medical evidence regarding thyroid problems, diabetes etc. Let me guess, you are the kinda guy that would tell someone with depression to 'get over it and stop being sad' or an agraphobic to just 'take a walk outside and see people' " Would I assume that you are one of those people who believe ADHD is a problem that any energetic child.... Being an energetic child has got. Is like saying people who are overweight, do no exercise or care for what they eat are victims of genetics right? Come on.... Get real. | |||
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"Also being overweight is due to over eating. Case. Closed. You ARE NOT fat because of "genetics". Have you not seen the research on the fat gene? Or the medical evidence regarding thyroid problems, diabetes etc. Let me guess, you are the kinda guy that would tell someone with depression to 'get over it and stop being sad' or an agraphobic to just 'take a walk outside and see people' Would I assume that you are one of those people who believe ADHD is a problem that any energetic child.... Being an energetic child has got. Is like saying people who are overweight, do no exercise or care for what they eat are victims of genetics right? Come on.... Get real. " Who has defined overweight? The billion dollar weight loss industry? Should you be able to slip your girlfriend under the door...? Consider what is now "overweight" has only been fashionable for the last 50 years or so. For thousands of years before that curvy girls ruled the world. | |||
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"I know it's off topic but I spend a lot of time at the VA and the stereotype model is prancing around with her clothes on and getting into the hot tub with her underwear still on because she's too good for mere mortals to lay eyes on her perfection. Then gets on the bed with clothes still on and shag her bf because he's the only one good enough for her. Keep telling yourself you're getting more penis.... because while you do the curvy girls are having more fun
Sooooo...they're arrogant and conceited for not wanting to have sex with you?? This is kinda what I am talking about. Not everyone who ventures to a club is obligated to have sex with anyone other than her boyfriend/partner/chaperone.
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"Also being overweight is due to over eating. Case. Closed. You ARE NOT fat because of "genetics". Have you not seen the research on the fat gene? Or the medical evidence regarding thyroid problems, diabetes etc. Let me guess, you are the kinda guy that would tell someone with depression to 'get over it and stop being sad' or an agraphobic to just 'take a walk outside and see people' Would I assume that you are one of those people who believe ADHD is a problem that any energetic child.... Being an energetic child has got. Is like saying people who are overweight, do no exercise or care for what they eat are victims of genetics right? Come on.... Get real. Who has defined overweight? The billion dollar weight loss industry? Should you be able to slip your girlfriend under the door...? Consider what is now "overweight" has only been fashionable for the last 50 years or so. For thousands of years before that curvy girls ruled the world." You sure do talk in extremes...there's never anything in the middle, eh | |||
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"I know it's off topic but I spend a lot of time at the VA and the stereotype model is prancing around with her clothes on and getting into the hot tub with her underwear still on because she's too good for mere mortals to lay eyes on her perfection. Then gets on the bed with clothes still on and shag her bf because he's the only one good enough for her. Keep telling yourself you're getting more penis.... because while you do the curvy girls are having more fun
Sooooo...they're arrogant and conceited for not wanting to have sex with you?? This is kinda what I am talking about. Not everyone who ventures to a club is obligated to have sex with anyone other than her boyfriend/partner/chaperone.
Well to start off read my profile. I'm not attracted to gym bunnies. So I don't want them. Secondly ask anyone who knows me, I don't struggle. And lastly the main point is that if you're getting into a hot tub in a sex club with your clothes on then maybe it's you that needs the psychiatric evaluation. Does there need to be a sign up that says "No clothes allowed even if you look like a model"?"Hmmmm. You're not the arbiter of what a woman can and cant do in a club. She (or he) is perfectly entitled to to frolic with all her clothes on and tease as much as she likes. You seem to be dealing with a lot of personal rejection. Your disinterest in "gym bunnies" seems to be built up from personal feelings of inferiority and preemptive rejection. I find it kinda rich you preach of judgement and then go on to judge others for how they play simply due to them looking a certain way. Maybe you should stick to acts which make women feel cheap, that personality type seems to suit you. | |||
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"Also being overweight is due to over eating. Case. Closed. You ARE NOT fat because of "genetics"." Sorry, wrong. I got quite large for a while as my thyroid had basically all but packed in. The disease runs in the family, and it took medication and a shit ton of effort to fix. People get fat for a number of reasons, but I'm pretty sure if they wanted to fix it, most people could. Also, bigger, and fat & unhealthy are not the same thing. | |||
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"Also being overweight is due to over eating. Case. Closed. You ARE NOT fat because of "genetics". Have you not seen the research on the fat gene? Or the medical evidence regarding thyroid problems, diabetes etc. Let me guess, you are the kinda guy that would tell someone with depression to 'get over it and stop being sad' or an agraphobic to just 'take a walk outside and see people' Would I assume that you are one of those people who believe ADHD is a problem that any energetic child.... Being an energetic child has got. Is like saying people who are overweight, do no exercise or care for what they eat are victims of genetics right? Come on.... Get real. Who has defined overweight? The billion dollar weight loss industry? Should you be able to slip your girlfriend under the door...? Consider what is now "overweight" has only been fashionable for the last 50 years or so. For thousands of years before that curvy girls ruled the world." Ha! Define overweight? Lol... Touche... Define curvy.... Because I like my women to have some curves on them.. But no preference for overweight or those who don't look after themselves... And I don't mean I expect them to be hitting the gym all the time .... But some people apply the definition of curvy a little bit too loosely... As what they would like to be a opposed to what they are . No issue with larger women. If you're big.... Own that shit. If you're athletic, same... No one was born overweight and no one was born athletic or skinny.... Apart from a very small percentage.... We are products of how we treat our bodies. In surprised someone hasn't brought up the whole large white women going for black guys. Lol ha ha ha | |||
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"Also being overweight is due to over eating. Case. Closed. You ARE NOT fat because of "genetics". Have you not seen the research on the fat gene? Or the medical evidence regarding thyroid problems, diabetes etc. Let me guess, you are the kinda guy that would tell someone with depression to 'get over it and stop being sad' or an agraphobic to just 'take a walk outside and see people' Would I assume that you are one of those people who believe ADHD is a problem that any energetic child.... Being an energetic child has got. Is like saying people who are overweight, do no exercise or care for what they eat are victims of genetics right? Come on.... Get real. Who has defined overweight? The billion dollar weight loss industry? Should you be able to slip your girlfriend under the door...? Consider what is now "overweight" has only been fashionable for the last 50 years or so. For thousands of years before that curvy girls ruled the world. You sure do talk in extremes...there's never anything in the middle, eh "There's quite often something in the middle. Me
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"I know it's off topic but I spend a lot of time at the VA and the stereotype model is prancing around with her clothes on and getting into the hot tub with her underwear still on because she's too good for mere mortals to lay eyes on her perfection. Then gets on the bed with clothes still on and shag her bf because he's the only one good enough for her. Keep telling yourself you're getting more penis.... because while you do the curvy girls are having more fun
Sooooo...they're arrogant and conceited for not wanting to have sex with you?? This is kinda what I am talking about. Not everyone who ventures to a club is obligated to have sex with anyone other than her boyfriend/partner/chaperone.
Well to start off read my profile. I'm not attracted to gym bunnies. So I don't want them. Secondly ask anyone who knows me, I don't struggle. And lastly the main point is that if you're getting into a hot tub in a sex club with your clothes on then maybe it's you that needs the psychiatric evaluation. Does there need to be a sign up that says "No clothes allowed even if you look like a model"?
Hmmmm. You're not the arbiter of what a woman can and cant do in a club. She (or he) is perfectly entitled to to frolic with all her clothes on and tease as much as she likes.
You seem to be dealing with a lot of personal rejection. Your disinterest in "gym bunnies" seems to be built up from personal feelings of inferiority and preemptive rejection. I find it kinda rich you preach of judgement and then go on to judge others for how they play simply due to them looking a certain way.
Maybe you should stick to acts which make women feel cheap, that personality type seems to suit you. "What do you mean acts that make women feel cheap ? | |||
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"Not saying that nobody fancies larger women. Someone for everyone. They just aren't as desirable as slimmer ones to the majority of people! Hence why models, porn stars and the WAGs of the rich/famous are nearly all thin. Also not saying ALL women who do gangbangs are obese. Just, in our 50+ club visits they seem to be a majority and there must be a reason for that. Gotta disagree. When Negan killed skinny Glenn and Abraham Rick was fine. When he stole their food he was happy. When they burned his bed he said no problem. Gutt one of his guys at the pool table sure that's cool..... BUT when they shot the last curvy girl on post apocalyptic earth Rick said no more Mr Nice guy. This means war! Has to be for a reason..... "Absolutely love this reasoning lol A x | |||
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"Not saying that nobody fancies larger women. Someone for everyone. They just aren't as desirable as slimmer ones to the majority of people! Hence why models, porn stars and the WAGs of the rich/famous are nearly all thin. Also not saying ALL women who do gangbangs are obese. Just, in our 50+ club visits they seem to be a majority and there must be a reason for that. Gotta disagree. When Negan killed skinny Glenn and Abraham Rick was fine. When he stole their food he was happy. When they burned his bed he said no problem. Gutt one of his guys at the pool table sure that's cool..... BUT when they shot the last curvy girl on post apocalyptic earth Rick said no more Mr Nice guy. This means war! Has to be for a reason.....
Absolutely love this reasoning lol
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"I know it's off topic but I spend a lot of time at the VA and the stereotype model is prancing around with her clothes on and getting into the hot tub with her underwear still on because she's too good for mere mortals to lay eyes on her perfection. Then gets on the bed with clothes still on and shag her bf because he's the only one good enough for her. Keep telling yourself you're getting more penis.... because while you do the curvy girls are having more fun
Sooooo...they're arrogant and conceited for not wanting to have sex with you?? This is kinda what I am talking about. Not everyone who ventures to a club is obligated to have sex with anyone other than her boyfriend/partner/chaperone.
Well to start off read my profile. I'm not attracted to gym bunnies. So I don't want them. Secondly ask anyone who knows me, I don't struggle. And lastly the main point is that if you're getting into a hot tub in a sex club with your clothes on then maybe it's you that needs the psychiatric evaluation. Does there need to be a sign up that says "No clothes allowed even if you look like a model"?
Hmmmm. You're not the arbiter of what a woman can and cant do in a club. She (or he) is perfectly entitled to to frolic with all her clothes on and tease as much as she likes.
You seem to be dealing with a lot of personal rejection. Your disinterest in "gym bunnies" seems to be built up from personal feelings of inferiority and preemptive rejection. I find it kinda rich you preach of judgement and then go on to judge others for how they play simply due to them looking a certain way.
Maybe you should stick to acts which make women feel cheap, that personality type seems to suit you. "Don't give your day job because you fail as a self pronounced psychoanalyst. But while you've opened up the topic... it might be because I'm openly bi and like my tight bums to be on guys instead of hiding it and expecting my women to have tight bums. Take that any way you like... If the club rules say no clothes there's a reason for it. Some naked people feel uncomfortable with fully clothed people sitting around gawking at them. I'm not prescribing what people must do. The rules do. The fact that I think models need to follow the rules too doesn't make me deeply resentful. | |||
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"We've seen a few. No offence but always wondered if there's a reason that nearly all of the girls that do them are overweight and have a bit of a trainwreck vibe about them, perhaps it's a lifelong feeling of being unwanted (or less wanted than say a slim woman) that leads them to try to make up for that. Or Daddy issues? Would certainly explain why you see it as something that can never be truly satisfied. Certainly some sort of psychology behind it, as with all aspects of sex really." Rubbish, my FWB is planning a gangbang for me, I,m quite podgy but I,m no train wreck. | |||
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"I know it's off topic but I spend a lot of time at the VA and the stereotype model is prancing around with her clothes on and getting into the hot tub with her underwear still on because she's too good for mere mortals to lay eyes on her perfection. Then gets on the bed with clothes still on and shag her bf because he's the only one good enough for her. Keep telling yourself you're getting more penis.... because while you do the curvy girls are having more fun
Sooooo...they're arrogant and conceited for not wanting to have sex with you?? This is kinda what I am talking about. Not everyone who ventures to a club is obligated to have sex with anyone other than her boyfriend/partner/chaperone.
Well to start off read my profile. I'm not attracted to gym bunnies. So I don't want them. Secondly ask anyone who knows me, I don't struggle. And lastly the main point is that if you're getting into a hot tub in a sex club with your clothes on then maybe it's you that needs the psychiatric evaluation. Does there need to be a sign up that says "No clothes allowed even if you look like a model"?
Hmmmm. You're not the arbiter of what a woman can and cant do in a club. She (or he) is perfectly entitled to to frolic with all her clothes on and tease as much as she likes.
You seem to be dealing with a lot of personal rejection. Your disinterest in "gym bunnies" seems to be built up from personal feelings of inferiority and preemptive rejection. I find it kinda rich you preach of judgement and then go on to judge others for how they play simply due to them looking a certain way.
Maybe you should stick to acts which make women feel cheap, that personality type seems to suit you.
What do you mean acts that make women feel cheap ?"Apparently it's when people actually swing with other people at a club instead of just going to a club to be admired. | |||
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"I know it's off topic but I spend a lot of time at the VA and the stereotype model is prancing around with her clothes on and getting into the hot tub with her underwear still on because she's too good for mere mortals to lay eyes on her perfection. Then gets on the bed with clothes still on and shag her bf because he's the only one good enough for her. Keep telling yourself you're getting more penis.... because while you do the curvy girls are having more fun
Sooooo...they're arrogant and conceited for not wanting to have sex with you?? This is kinda what I am talking about. Not everyone who ventures to a club is obligated to have sex with anyone other than her boyfriend/partner/chaperone.
Well to start off read my profile. I'm not attracted to gym bunnies. So I don't want them. Secondly ask anyone who knows me, I don't struggle. And lastly the main point is that if you're getting into a hot tub in a sex club with your clothes on then maybe it's you that needs the psychiatric evaluation. Does there need to be a sign up that says "No clothes allowed even if you look like a model"?
Hmmmm. You're not the arbiter of what a woman can and cant do in a club. She (or he) is perfectly entitled to to frolic with all her clothes on and tease as much as she likes.
You seem to be dealing with a lot of personal rejection. Your disinterest in "gym bunnies" seems to be built up from personal feelings of inferiority and preemptive rejection. I find it kinda rich you preach of judgement and then go on to judge others for how they play simply due to them looking a certain way.
Maybe you should stick to acts which make women feel cheap, that personality type seems to suit you.
Don't give your day job because you fail as a self pronounced psychoanalyst. But while you've opened up the topic... it might be because I'm openly bi and like my tight bums to be on guys instead of hiding it and expecting my women to have tight bums. Take that any way you like...
If the club rules say no clothes there's a reason for it. Some naked people feel uncomfortable with fully clothed people sitting around gawking at them. I'm not prescribing what people must do. The rules do. The fact that I think models need to follow the rules too doesn't make me deeply resentful."The resentment reeks through your posts. Its rather obvious. Also I never knew misinterpretation of swingers club rules was exclusive to "fit" women. As said, you're dealing with a lot of personal angst about both your sexuality and fit women. You should deal with that. | |||
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"I know it's off topic but I spend a lot of time at the VA and the stereotype model is prancing around with her clothes on and getting into the hot tub with her underwear still on because she's too good for mere mortals to lay eyes on her perfection. Then gets on the bed with clothes still on and shag her bf because he's the only one good enough for her. Keep telling yourself you're getting more penis.... because while you do the curvy girls are having more fun
Sooooo...they're arrogant and conceited for not wanting to have sex with you?? This is kinda what I am talking about. Not everyone who ventures to a club is obligated to have sex with anyone other than her boyfriend/partner/chaperone.
Well to start off read my profile. I'm not attracted to gym bunnies. So I don't want them. Secondly ask anyone who knows me, I don't struggle. And lastly the main point is that if you're getting into a hot tub in a sex club with your clothes on then maybe it's you that needs the psychiatric evaluation. Does there need to be a sign up that says "No clothes allowed even if you look like a model"?
Hmmmm. You're not the arbiter of what a woman can and cant do in a club. She (or he) is perfectly entitled to to frolic with all her clothes on and tease as much as she likes.
You seem to be dealing with a lot of personal rejection. Your disinterest in "gym bunnies" seems to be built up from personal feelings of inferiority and preemptive rejection. I find it kinda rich you preach of judgement and then go on to judge others for how they play simply due to them looking a certain way.
Maybe you should stick to acts which make women feel cheap, that personality type seems to suit you.
What do you mean acts that make women feel cheap ?
Apparently it's when people actually swing with other people at a club instead of just going to a club to be admired."And, once again, since when did you become the authority on what people can and cant do in the club. Are you one of those creepy single dudes who follows couples around with your penis in your hand?? The last time I went to an event a good chunk of people there felt comfortable simply spectating. It was the pathetic, desperado types with your attitude who would often put them off swinging clubs because they felt they were being judged for not playing. Or not playing with others. | |||
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"Also being overweight is due to over eating. Case. Closed. You ARE NOT fat because of "genetics". Have you not seen the research on the fat gene? Or the medical evidence regarding thyroid problems, diabetes etc. Let me guess, you are the kinda guy that would tell someone with depression to 'get over it and stop being sad' or an agraphobic to just 'take a walk outside and see people' Would I assume that you are one of those people who believe ADHD is a problem that any energetic child.... Being an energetic child has got. Is like saying people who are overweight, do no exercise or care for what they eat are victims of genetics right? Come on.... Get real. Who has defined overweight? The billion dollar weight loss industry? Should you be able to slip your girlfriend under the door...? Consider what is now "overweight" has only been fashionable for the last 50 years or so. For thousands of years before that curvy girls ruled the world. Ha! Define overweight? Lol... Touche... Define curvy.... Because I like my women to have some curves on them.. But no preference for overweight or those who don't look after themselves... And I don't mean I expect them to be hitting the gym all the time .... But some people apply the definition of curvy a little bit too loosely... As what they would like to be a opposed to what they are . No issue with larger women. If you're big.... Own that shit. If you're athletic, same... No one was born overweight and no one was born athletic or skinny.... Apart from a very small percentage.... We are products of how we treat our bodies. In surprised someone hasn't brought up the whole large white women going for black guys. Lol ha ha ha " You need to inform my midwife that no ones born overweight then as after doing my youngest birth measurements she told me she was overweight | |||
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"We've seen a few. No offence but always wondered if there's a reason that nearly all of the girls that do them are overweight and have a bit of a trainwreck vibe about them, perhaps it's a lifelong feeling of being unwanted (or less wanted than say a slim woman) that leads them to try to make up for that. Or Daddy issues? Would certainly explain why you see it as something that can never be truly satisfied. Certainly some sort of psychology behind it, as with all aspects of sex really." Na...I know a few size 6/8 stunners ..no psychological disposition. .no daddy issues. ...they just loved cock..plain and simple | |||
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"I know it's off topic but I spend a lot of time at the VA and the stereotype model is prancing around with her clothes on and getting into the hot tub with her underwear still on because she's too good for mere mortals to lay eyes on her perfection. Then gets on the bed with clothes still on and shag her bf because he's the only one good enough for her. Keep telling yourself you're getting more penis.... because while you do the curvy girls are having more fun
Sooooo...they're arrogant and conceited for not wanting to have sex with you?? This is kinda what I am talking about. Not everyone who ventures to a club is obligated to have sex with anyone other than her boyfriend/partner/chaperone.
Well to start off read my profile. I'm not attracted to gym bunnies. So I don't want them. Secondly ask anyone who knows me, I don't struggle. And lastly the main point is that if you're getting into a hot tub in a sex club with your clothes on then maybe it's you that needs the psychiatric evaluation. Does there need to be a sign up that says "No clothes allowed even if you look like a model"?
Hmmmm. You're not the arbiter of what a woman can and cant do in a club. She (or he) is perfectly entitled to to frolic with all her clothes on and tease as much as she likes.
You seem to be dealing with a lot of personal rejection. Your disinterest in "gym bunnies" seems to be built up from personal feelings of inferiority and preemptive rejection. I find it kinda rich you preach of judgement and then go on to judge others for how they play simply due to them looking a certain way.
Maybe you should stick to acts which make women feel cheap, that personality type seems to suit you.
What do you mean acts that make women feel cheap ?
Apparently it's when people actually swing with other people at a club instead of just going to a club to be admired.
And, once again, since when did you become the authority on what people can and cant do in the club. Are you one of those creepy single dudes who follows couples around with your penis in your hand??
The last time I went to an event a good chunk of people there felt comfortable simply spectating. It was the pathetic, desperado types with your attitude who would often put them off swinging clubs because they felt they were being judged for not playing. Or not playing with others. "Why don't you tell me? You're the expert! Not that it's any of your business but just to prove how utterly ignorant you are... I have a couple's profile with my girlfriend which has over 100 verifications and they weren't how I walked around cock in hand. In fact I've never been to a club or party without a date. This because I'm a genuine swinger not an insecure egotist who only goes to a club to strut around and be looked at. Why don't you look at club reviews. Find one that says.. "Brilliant night. Everyone just kept to themselves". | |||
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"I know it's off topic but I spend a lot of time at the VA and the stereotype model is prancing around with her clothes on and getting into the hot tub with her underwear still on because she's too good for mere mortals to lay eyes on her perfection. Then gets on the bed with clothes still on and shag her bf because he's the only one good enough for her. Keep telling yourself you're getting more penis.... because while you do the curvy girls are having more fun
Sooooo...they're arrogant and conceited for not wanting to have sex with you?? This is kinda what I am talking about. Not everyone who ventures to a club is obligated to have sex with anyone other than her boyfriend/partner/chaperone.
Well to start off read my profile. I'm not attracted to gym bunnies. So I don't want them. Secondly ask anyone who knows me, I don't struggle. And lastly the main point is that if you're getting into a hot tub in a sex club with your clothes on then maybe it's you that needs the psychiatric evaluation. Does there need to be a sign up that says "No clothes allowed even if you look like a model"?
Hmmmm. You're not the arbiter of what a woman can and cant do in a club. She (or he) is perfectly entitled to to frolic with all her clothes on and tease as much as she likes.
You seem to be dealing with a lot of personal rejection. Your disinterest in "gym bunnies" seems to be built up from personal feelings of inferiority and preemptive rejection. I find it kinda rich you preach of judgement and then go on to judge others for how they play simply due to them looking a certain way.
Maybe you should stick to acts which make women feel cheap, that personality type seems to suit you.
What do you mean acts that make women feel cheap ?
Apparently it's when people actually swing with other people at a club instead of just going to a club to be admired.
And, once again, since when did you become the authority on what people can and cant do in the club. Are you one of those creepy single dudes who follows couples around with your penis in your hand??
The last time I went to an event a good chunk of people there felt comfortable simply spectating. It was the pathetic, desperado types with your attitude who would often put them off swinging clubs because they felt they were being judged for not playing. Or not playing with others.
Why don't you tell me? You're the expert! Not that it's any of your business but just to prove how utterly ignorant you are... I have a couple's profile with my girlfriend which has over 100 verifications and they weren't how I walked around cock in hand. In fact I've never been to a club or party without a date. This because I'm a genuine swinger not an insecure egotist who only goes to a club to strut around and be looked at.
Why don't you look at club reviews. Find one that says.. "Brilliant night. Everyone just kept to themselves"."LOL you seem kinda frustrated. There is no such thing as a "genuine swinger" and even if there was you wouldnt be the authority on what pertains to a "genuine swinger". People are entitled to experience swinging and swinging clubs without the desperate and sad frothing at the mouth at them having the temerity not to play. Christ, your attitude is sad. | |||
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"I know it's off topic but I spend a lot of time at the VA and the stereotype model is prancing around with her clothes on and getting into the hot tub with her underwear still on because she's too good for mere mortals to lay eyes on her perfection. Then gets on the bed with clothes still on and shag her bf because he's the only one good enough for her. Keep telling yourself you're getting more penis.... because while you do the curvy girls are having more fun
Sooooo...they're arrogant and conceited for not wanting to have sex with you?? This is kinda what I am talking about. Not everyone who ventures to a club is obligated to have sex with anyone other than her boyfriend/partner/chaperone.
Well to start off read my profile. I'm not attracted to gym bunnies. So I don't want them. Secondly ask anyone who knows me, I don't struggle. And lastly the main point is that if you're getting into a hot tub in a sex club with your clothes on then maybe it's you that needs the psychiatric evaluation. Does there need to be a sign up that says "No clothes allowed even if you look like a model"?
Hmmmm. You're not the arbiter of what a woman can and cant do in a club. She (or he) is perfectly entitled to to frolic with all her clothes on and tease as much as she likes.
You seem to be dealing with a lot of personal rejection. Your disinterest in "gym bunnies" seems to be built up from personal feelings of inferiority and preemptive rejection. I find it kinda rich you preach of judgement and then go on to judge others for how they play simply due to them looking a certain way.
Maybe you should stick to acts which make women feel cheap, that personality type seems to suit you.
What do you mean acts that make women feel cheap ?
Apparently it's when people actually swing with other people at a club instead of just going to a club to be admired.
And, once again, since when did you become the authority on what people can and cant do in the club. Are you one of those creepy single dudes who follows couples around with your penis in your hand??
The last time I went to an event a good chunk of people there felt comfortable simply spectating. It was the pathetic, desperado types with your attitude who would often put them off swinging clubs because they felt they were being judged for not playing. Or not playing with others.
Why don't you tell me? You're the expert! Not that it's any of your business but just to prove how utterly ignorant you are... I have a couple's profile with my girlfriend which has over 100 verifications and they weren't how I walked around cock in hand. In fact I've never been to a club or party without a date. This because I'm a genuine swinger not an insecure egotist who only goes to a club to strut around and be looked at.
Why don't you look at club reviews. Find one that says.. "Brilliant night. Everyone just kept to themselves".
LOL you seem kinda frustrated.
There is no such thing as a "genuine swinger" and even if there was you wouldnt be the authority on what pertains to a "genuine swinger". People are entitled to experience swinging and swinging clubs without the desperate and sad frothing at the mouth at them having the temerity not to play.
Christ, your attitude is sad."I never said they weren't. Stay with me here. My comment was in response to someone saying that skinny girls got more action. My personal observation is that in general the skinny girls tend to spend more time looking at themselves in the mirror and it seems to me that it's usually the curvy girls in the middle of the orgy. All you have done is confirm my original statement. So thanks for that. | |||
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"We've seen a few. No offence but always wondered if there's a reason that nearly all of the girls that do them are overweight and have a bit of a trainwreck vibe about them, perhaps it's a lifelong feeling of being unwanted (or less wanted than say a slim woman) that leads them to try to make up for that. Or Daddy issues? Would certainly explain why you see it as something that can never be truly satisfied. Certainly some sort of psychology behind it, as with all aspects of sex really." What a condescending piece of drivel. Why must a woman who loves sex (lots of it) HAVE to have psychological, weight and/or self esteem/Daddy issues ? Can't she be a normal girl who enjoys carnal pleasure? | |||
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"We've seen a few. No offence but always wondered if there's a reason that nearly all of the girls that do them are overweight and have a bit of a trainwreck vibe about them, perhaps it's a lifelong feeling of being unwanted (or less wanted than say a slim woman) that leads them to try to make up for that. Or Daddy issues? Would certainly explain why you see it as something that can never be truly satisfied. Certainly some sort of psychology behind it, as with all aspects of sex really. What a condescending piece of drivel. Why must a woman who loves sex (lots of it) HAVE to have psychological, weight and/or self esteem/Daddy issues ? Can't she be a normal girl who enjoys carnal pleasure? " | |||
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"I know it's off topic but I spend a lot of time at the VA and the stereotype model is prancing around with her clothes on and getting into the hot tub with her underwear still on because she's too good for mere mortals to lay eyes on her perfection. Then gets on the bed with clothes still on and shag her bf because he's the only one good enough for her. Keep telling yourself you're getting more penis.... because while you do the curvy girls are having more fun
Sooooo...they're arrogant and conceited for not wanting to have sex with you?? This is kinda what I am talking about. Not everyone who ventures to a club is obligated to have sex with anyone other than her boyfriend/partner/chaperone.
Well to start off read my profile. I'm not attracted to gym bunnies. So I don't want them. Secondly ask anyone who knows me, I don't struggle. And lastly the main point is that if you're getting into a hot tub in a sex club with your clothes on then maybe it's you that needs the psychiatric evaluation. Does there need to be a sign up that says "No clothes allowed even if you look like a model"?
Hmmmm. You're not the arbiter of what a woman can and cant do in a club. She (or he) is perfectly entitled to to frolic with all her clothes on and tease as much as she likes.
You seem to be dealing with a lot of personal rejection. Your disinterest in "gym bunnies" seems to be built up from personal feelings of inferiority and preemptive rejection. I find it kinda rich you preach of judgement and then go on to judge others for how they play simply due to them looking a certain way.
Maybe you should stick to acts which make women feel cheap, that personality type seems to suit you.
What do you mean acts that make women feel cheap ?
Apparently it's when people actually swing with other people at a club instead of just going to a club to be admired.
And, once again, since when did you become the authority on what people can and cant do in the club. Are you one of those creepy single dudes who follows couples around with your penis in your hand??
The last time I went to an event a good chunk of people there felt comfortable simply spectating. It was the pathetic, desperado types with your attitude who would often put them off swinging clubs because they felt they were being judged for not playing. Or not playing with others.
Why don't you tell me? You're the expert! Not that it's any of your business but just to prove how utterly ignorant you are... I have a couple's profile with my girlfriend which has over 100 verifications and they weren't how I walked around cock in hand. In fact I've never been to a club or party without a date. This because I'm a genuine swinger not an insecure egotist who only goes to a club to strut around and be looked at.
Why don't you look at club reviews. Find one that says.. "Brilliant night. Everyone just kept to themselves".
LOL you seem kinda frustrated.
There is no such thing as a "genuine swinger" and even if there was you wouldnt be the authority on what pertains to a "genuine swinger". People are entitled to experience swinging and swinging clubs without the desperate and sad frothing at the mouth at them having the temerity not to play.
Christ, your attitude is sad.
I never said they weren't. Stay with me here. My comment was in response to someone saying that skinny girls got more action. My personal observation is that in general the skinny girls tend to spend more time looking at themselves in the mirror and it seems to me that it's usually the curvy girls in the middle of the orgy. All you have done is confirm my original statement.
So thanks for that. "Alright...lets be real here. Have a look at the most fab photos. Take a look at what they look like. Then have a look at the profile of the more "photogenic" couples/singles and see what their criteria is. You seem to operate in a strange, juvenile false reality where, objectively speaking, slimmer and more in shape couples/single ladies dont receive more attention than their larger counterparts. I mean, how comical do some of you get?? Lets call the sky green whilst we're at it
From personal observation? I find that the more traditionally good looking people on here tend to be far pickier about who they sleep with. When I read greedy girls threads or hear about the events attended they are almost always filled with larger women/BBWs. I dont really think anyone can honestly deny this. I think you're attempts to do so may be in order to carry favor.
Now, and this is my personal observation, I tend to find that the larger women you meet were a lot more open to kinkier sex acts. I felt that there was a link between this and the self esteem of the person in question. Any who disagrees is perfectly entitled to their opinion. | |||
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"I know it's off topic but I spend a lot of time at the VA and the stereotype model is prancing around with her clothes on and getting into the hot tub with her underwear still on because she's too good for mere mortals to lay eyes on her perfection. Then gets on the bed with clothes still on and shag her bf because he's the only one good enough for her. Keep telling yourself you're getting more penis.... because while you do the curvy girls are having more fun
Sooooo...they're arrogant and conceited for not wanting to have sex with you?? This is kinda what I am talking about. Not everyone who ventures to a club is obligated to have sex with anyone other than her boyfriend/partner/chaperone.
Well to start off read my profile. I'm not attracted to gym bunnies. So I don't want them. Secondly ask anyone who knows me, I don't struggle. And lastly the main point is that if you're getting into a hot tub in a sex club with your clothes on then maybe it's you that needs the psychiatric evaluation. Does there need to be a sign up that says "No clothes allowed even if you look like a model"?
Hmmmm. You're not the arbiter of what a woman can and cant do in a club. She (or he) is perfectly entitled to to frolic with all her clothes on and tease as much as she likes.
You seem to be dealing with a lot of personal rejection. Your disinterest in "gym bunnies" seems to be built up from personal feelings of inferiority and preemptive rejection. I find it kinda rich you preach of judgement and then go on to judge others for how they play simply due to them looking a certain way.
Maybe you should stick to acts which make women feel cheap, that personality type seems to suit you.
What do you mean acts that make women feel cheap ?
Apparently it's when people actually swing with other people at a club instead of just going to a club to be admired.
And, once again, since when did you become the authority on what people can and cant do in the club. Are you one of those creepy single dudes who follows couples around with your penis in your hand??
The last time I went to an event a good chunk of people there felt comfortable simply spectating. It was the pathetic, desperado types with your attitude who would often put them off swinging clubs because they felt they were being judged for not playing. Or not playing with others.
Why don't you tell me? You're the expert! Not that it's any of your business but just to prove how utterly ignorant you are... I have a couple's profile with my girlfriend which has over 100 verifications and they weren't how I walked around cock in hand. In fact I've never been to a club or party without a date. This because I'm a genuine swinger not an insecure egotist who only goes to a club to strut around and be looked at.
Why don't you look at club reviews. Find one that says.. "Brilliant night. Everyone just kept to themselves".
LOL you seem kinda frustrated.
There is no such thing as a "genuine swinger" and even if there was you wouldnt be the authority on what pertains to a "genuine swinger". People are entitled to experience swinging and swinging clubs without the desperate and sad frothing at the mouth at them having the temerity not to play.
Christ, your attitude is sad.
I never said they weren't. Stay with me here. My comment was in response to someone saying that skinny girls got more action. My personal observation is that in general the skinny girls tend to spend more time looking at themselves in the mirror and it seems to me that it's usually the curvy girls in the middle of the orgy. All you have done is confirm my original statement.
So thanks for that.
Alright...lets be real here. Have a look at the most fab photos. Take a look at what they look like. Then have a look at the profile of the more "photogenic" couples/singles and see what their criteria is.
You seem to operate in a strange, juvenile false reality where, objectively speaking, slimmer and more in shape couples/single ladies dont receive more attention than their larger counterparts. I mean, how comical do some of you get??
Lets call the sky green whilst we're at it
From personal observation? I find that the more traditionally good looking people on here tend to be far pickier about who they sleep with. When I read greedy girls threads or hear about the events attended they are almost always filled with larger women/BBWs. I dont really think anyone can honestly deny this. I think you're attempts to do so may be in order to carry favor.
Now, and this is my personal observation, I tend to find that the larger women you meet were a lot more open to kinkier sex acts. I felt that there was a link between this and the self esteem of the person in question. Any who disagrees is perfectly entitled to their opinion."So because I'm overweight a) I'm automatically not attractive and b) I'll sleep with anyone ??? | |||
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"I know it's off topic but I spend a lot of time at the VA and the stereotype model is prancing around with her clothes on and getting into the hot tub with her underwear still on because she's too good for mere mortals to lay eyes on her perfection. Then gets on the bed with clothes still on and shag her bf because he's the only one good enough for her. Keep telling yourself you're getting more penis.... because while you do the curvy girls are having more fun
Sooooo...they're arrogant and conceited for not wanting to have sex with you?? This is kinda what I am talking about. Not everyone who ventures to a club is obligated to have sex with anyone other than her boyfriend/partner/chaperone.
Well to start off read my profile. I'm not attracted to gym bunnies. So I don't want them. Secondly ask anyone who knows me, I don't struggle. And lastly the main point is that if you're getting into a hot tub in a sex club with your clothes on then maybe it's you that needs the psychiatric evaluation. Does there need to be a sign up that says "No clothes allowed even if you look like a model"?
Hmmmm. You're not the arbiter of what a woman can and cant do in a club. She (or he) is perfectly entitled to to frolic with all her clothes on and tease as much as she likes.
You seem to be dealing with a lot of personal rejection. Your disinterest in "gym bunnies" seems to be built up from personal feelings of inferiority and preemptive rejection. I find it kinda rich you preach of judgement and then go on to judge others for how they play simply due to them looking a certain way.
Maybe you should stick to acts which make women feel cheap, that personality type seems to suit you.
What do you mean acts that make women feel cheap ?
Apparently it's when people actually swing with other people at a club instead of just going to a club to be admired.
And, once again, since when did you become the authority on what people can and cant do in the club. Are you one of those creepy single dudes who follows couples around with your penis in your hand??
The last time I went to an event a good chunk of people there felt comfortable simply spectating. It was the pathetic, desperado types with your attitude who would often put them off swinging clubs because they felt they were being judged for not playing. Or not playing with others.
Why don't you tell me? You're the expert! Not that it's any of your business but just to prove how utterly ignorant you are... I have a couple's profile with my girlfriend which has over 100 verifications and they weren't how I walked around cock in hand. In fact I've never been to a club or party without a date. This because I'm a genuine swinger not an insecure egotist who only goes to a club to strut around and be looked at.
Why don't you look at club reviews. Find one that says.. "Brilliant night. Everyone just kept to themselves".
LOL you seem kinda frustrated.
There is no such thing as a "genuine swinger" and even if there was you wouldnt be the authority on what pertains to a "genuine swinger". People are entitled to experience swinging and swinging clubs without the desperate and sad frothing at the mouth at them having the temerity not to play.
Christ, your attitude is sad.
I never said they weren't. Stay with me here. My comment was in response to someone saying that skinny girls got more action. My personal observation is that in general the skinny girls tend to spend more time looking at themselves in the mirror and it seems to me that it's usually the curvy girls in the middle of the orgy. All you have done is confirm my original statement.
So thanks for that.
Alright...lets be real here. Have a look at the most fab photos. Take a look at what they look like. Then have a look at the profile of the more "photogenic" couples/singles and see what their criteria is.
You seem to operate in a strange, juvenile false reality where, objectively speaking, slimmer and more in shape couples/single ladies dont receive more attention than their larger counterparts. I mean, how comical do some of you get??
Lets call the sky green whilst we're at it
From personal observation? I find that the more traditionally good looking people on here tend to be far pickier about who they sleep with. When I read greedy girls threads or hear about the events attended they are almost always filled with larger women/BBWs. I dont really think anyone can honestly deny this. I think you're attempts to do so may be in order to carry favor.
Now, and this is my personal observation, I tend to find that the larger women you meet were a lot more open to kinkier sex acts. I felt that there was a link between this and the self esteem of the person in question. Any who disagrees is perfectly entitled to their opinion.
So because I'm overweight a) I'm automatically not attractive and b) I'll sleep with anyone ??? "Thats what I have seen. 5/6 of the direct experiences I had were that and the other one was a girl who was overweight for a longtime and only recently lost weight. What are you going to do? Tell me to deny my own reality??? As said if you think differently, thats perfectly fine. If you think I am wrong thats also fine. But, judging by this thread, I am not alone in that observation. What I dont like is these lame attempts at shaming people for their observations. We can agree to disagree. | |||
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"I know it's off topic but I spend a lot of time at the VA and the stereotype model is prancing around with her clothes on and getting into the hot tub with her underwear still on because she's too good for mere mortals to lay eyes on her perfection. Then gets on the bed with clothes still on and shag her bf because he's the only one good enough for her. Keep telling yourself you're getting more penis.... because while you do the curvy girls are having more fun
Sooooo...they're arrogant and conceited for not wanting to have sex with you?? This is kinda what I am talking about. Not everyone who ventures to a club is obligated to have sex with anyone other than her boyfriend/partner/chaperone.
Well to start off read my profile. I'm not attracted to gym bunnies. So I don't want them. Secondly ask anyone who knows me, I don't struggle. And lastly the main point is that if you're getting into a hot tub in a sex club with your clothes on then maybe it's you that needs the psychiatric evaluation. Does there need to be a sign up that says "No clothes allowed even if you look like a model"?
Hmmmm. You're not the arbiter of what a woman can and cant do in a club. She (or he) is perfectly entitled to to frolic with all her clothes on and tease as much as she likes.
You seem to be dealing with a lot of personal rejection. Your disinterest in "gym bunnies" seems to be built up from personal feelings of inferiority and preemptive rejection. I find it kinda rich you preach of judgement and then go on to judge others for how they play simply due to them looking a certain way.
Maybe you should stick to acts which make women feel cheap, that personality type seems to suit you.
What do you mean acts that make women feel cheap ?
Apparently it's when people actually swing with other people at a club instead of just going to a club to be admired.
And, once again, since when did you become the authority on what people can and cant do in the club. Are you one of those creepy single dudes who follows couples around with your penis in your hand??
The last time I went to an event a good chunk of people there felt comfortable simply spectating. It was the pathetic, desperado types with your attitude who would often put them off swinging clubs because they felt they were being judged for not playing. Or not playing with others.
Why don't you tell me? You're the expert! Not that it's any of your business but just to prove how utterly ignorant you are... I have a couple's profile with my girlfriend which has over 100 verifications and they weren't how I walked around cock in hand. In fact I've never been to a club or party without a date. This because I'm a genuine swinger not an insecure egotist who only goes to a club to strut around and be looked at.
Why don't you look at club reviews. Find one that says.. "Brilliant night. Everyone just kept to themselves".
LOL you seem kinda frustrated.
There is no such thing as a "genuine swinger" and even if there was you wouldnt be the authority on what pertains to a "genuine swinger". People are entitled to experience swinging and swinging clubs without the desperate and sad frothing at the mouth at them having the temerity not to play.
Christ, your attitude is sad.
I never said they weren't. Stay with me here. My comment was in response to someone saying that skinny girls got more action. My personal observation is that in general the skinny girls tend to spend more time looking at themselves in the mirror and it seems to me that it's usually the curvy girls in the middle of the orgy. All you have done is confirm my original statement.
So thanks for that.
Alright...lets be real here. Have a look at the most fab photos. Take a look at what they look like. Then have a look at the profile of the more "photogenic" couples/singles and see what their criteria is.
You seem to operate in a strange, juvenile false reality where, objectively speaking, slimmer and more in shape couples/single ladies dont receive more attention than their larger counterparts. I mean, how comical do some of you get??
Lets call the sky green whilst we're at it
From personal observation? I find that the more traditionally good looking people on here tend to be far pickier about who they sleep with. When I read greedy girls threads or hear about the events attended they are almost always filled with larger women/BBWs. I dont really think anyone can honestly deny this. I think you're attempts to do so may be in order to carry favor.
Now, and this is my personal observation, I tend to find that the larger women you meet were a lot more open to kinkier sex acts. I felt that there was a link between this and the self esteem of the person in question. Any who disagrees is perfectly entitled to their opinion.
So because I'm overweight a) I'm automatically not attractive and b) I'll sleep with anyone ???
Thats what I have seen. 5/6 of the direct experiences I had were that and the other one was a girl who was overweight for a longtime and only recently lost weight. What are you going to do? Tell me to deny my own reality??? As said if you think differently, thats perfectly fine. If you think I am wrong thats also fine. But, judging by this thread, I am not alone in that observation.
What I dont like is these lame attempts at shaming people for their observations. We can agree to disagree. "Really do you honestly believe the drivel coming out of your mouth. The only shaming going on is from yourself going on and on how big women are easy... Now i actually think that your not alone in your assumptions... its one reason while i enjoy bbw bashes for catching up with friends.. I am very reluctant to play with guys at these events as I truly believe that many go with the attitude you seem to portray. Its also why it is rare I take compliments... but to actually base your opinions on 5 or 6 incidents.. well i have 18 years in this lifestyle. Go to clubs most weekends and sometimes more than once.. and worked at hosted events for many years. Occassionally what you say maybe true of that person but its not the same for everyone x | |||
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"Wow that did go a country mile off topic, So anyone fancy a gangbang??? "I quite fancy one. I like decadent, free spirited, debauched sex. Why not have it with more than one man? | |||
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"Wow that did go a country mile off topic, So anyone fancy a gangbang??? "Yes please - can I have a bag of crisps too | |||
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"And the shower of shit continues " Funny shit isn't it. | |||
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"Wow this all took a turn for the worse didn't it. I personally like a bigger girl who is curvy. "Because they never say no? | |||
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"Hey any advice for a single straight male that's just come out of a 20 year relationship and want to try the swing scene!! " Get yourself to a greedy girl event, they fuck anyone apparently. | |||
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" Really do you honestly believe the drivel coming out of your mouth. The only shaming going on is from yourself going on and on how big women are easy... Now i actually think that your not alone in your assumptions... its one reason while i enjoy bbw bashes for catching up with friends.. I am very reluctant to play with guys at these events as I truly believe that many go with the attitude you seem to portray. Its also why it is rare I take compliments... but to actually base your opinions on 5 or 6 incidents.. well i have 18 years in this lifestyle. Go to clubs most weekends and sometimes more than once.. and worked at hosted events for many years. " I am not entirely sure why you ask whether I believe what I say and then go onto to say "Occassionally what you say maybe true of that person but its not the same for everyone x" As said, its been my observation. You're entitle to disagree. But, oddly enough, you say you have run into that very attitude at the events you have gone to. Soooo...other than frequency, arent we in agreement??? Also, considering what you said about reluctance to play with certain attendees, I have a strong feeling you see where I am coming from. I think your attitude is a good one. I have heard larger swingers tell me that sometimes they felt cheapened and not shown the same respect as others because of their weight. Once again, this is purely an observation that I ALONE have witnessed. | |||
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" Really do you honestly believe the drivel coming out of your mouth. The only shaming going on is from yourself going on and on how big women are easy... Now i actually think that your not alone in your assumptions... its one reason while i enjoy bbw bashes for catching up with friends.. I am very reluctant to play with guys at these events as I truly believe that many go with the attitude you seem to portray. Its also why it is rare I take compliments... but to actually base your opinions on 5 or 6 incidents.. well i have 18 years in this lifestyle. Go to clubs most weekends and sometimes more than once.. and worked at hosted events for many years. I am not entirely sure why you ask whether I believe what I say and then go onto to say Occassionally what you say maybe true of that person but its not the same for everyone x As said, its been my observation. You're entitle to disagree. But, oddly enough, you say you have run into that very attitude at the events you have gone to. Soooo...other than frequency, arent we in agreement??? Also, considering what you said about reluctance to play with certain attendees, I have a strong feeling you see where I am coming from. I think your attitude is a good one. I have heard larger swingers tell me that sometimes they felt cheapened and not shown the same respect as others because of their weight. Once again, this is purely an observation that I ALONE have witnessed. " I think your observations may be due to the events you attend and your own attitude towards physical appearance. Have a look around the site at the slim women who have gang bangs-not the ones getting paid for them. | |||
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"Free chocolate and crisps at the all you can eat gangbang. Happy days!! "I just want the sex thanks. | |||
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" Really do you honestly believe the drivel coming out of your mouth. The only shaming going on is from yourself going on and on how big women are easy... Now i actually think that your not alone in your assumptions... its one reason while i enjoy bbw bashes for catching up with friends.. I am very reluctant to play with guys at these events as I truly believe that many go with the attitude you seem to portray. Its also why it is rare I take compliments... but to actually base your opinions on 5 or 6 incidents.. well i have 18 years in this lifestyle. Go to clubs most weekends and sometimes more than once.. and worked at hosted events for many years. I am not entirely sure why you ask whether I believe what I say and then go onto to say Occassionally what you say maybe true of that person but its not the same for everyone x As said, its been my observation. You're entitle to disagree. But, oddly enough, you say you have run into that very attitude at the events you have gone to. Soooo...other than frequency, arent we in agreement??? Also, considering what you said about reluctance to play with certain attendees, I have a strong feeling you see where I am coming from. I think your attitude is a good one. I have heard larger swingers tell me that sometimes they felt cheapened and not shown the same respect as others because of their weight. Once again, this is purely an observation that I ALONE have witnessed. I think your observations may be due to the events you attend and your own attitude towards physical appearance. Have a look around the site at the slim women who have gang bangs-not the ones getting paid for them. "
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I just want the sex thanks."Are you sure your a Bad Nanna!! I'd say you where a Naughty Nanna!! sorry that was extremely cheesy!! even i cringed writing it!! | |||
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"Free chocolate and crisps at the all you can eat gangbang. Happy days!!
I just want the sex thanks.
Are you sure your a Bad Nanna!! I'd say you where a Naughty Nanna!! sorry that was extremely cheesy!! even i cringed writing it!!"I'm too old to be naughty. I'm bad | |||
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" Really do you honestly believe the drivel coming out of your mouth. The only shaming going on is from yourself going on and on how big women are easy... Now i actually think that your not alone in your assumptions... its one reason while i enjoy bbw bashes for catching up with friends.. I am very reluctant to play with guys at these events as I truly believe that many go with the attitude you seem to portray. Its also why it is rare I take compliments... but to actually base your opinions on 5 or 6 incidents.. well i have 18 years in this lifestyle. Go to clubs most weekends and sometimes more than once.. and worked at hosted events for many years. I am not entirely sure why you ask whether I believe what I say and then go onto to say Occassionally what you say maybe true of that person but its not the same for everyone x As said, its been my observation. You're entitle to disagree. But, oddly enough, you say you have run into that very attitude at the events you have gone to. Soooo...other than frequency, arent we in agreement??? Also, considering what you said about reluctance to play with certain attendees, I have a strong feeling you see where I am coming from. I think your attitude is a good one. I have heard larger swingers tell me that sometimes they felt cheapened and not shown the same respect as others because of their weight. Once again, this is purely an observation that I ALONE have witnessed. I think your observations may be due to the events you attend and your own attitude towards physical appearance. Have a look around the site at the slim women who have gang bangs-not the ones getting paid for them.
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"We've seen a few. No offence but always wondered if there's a reason that nearly all of the girls that do them are overweight and have a bit of a trainwreck vibe about them, perhaps it's a lifelong feeling of being unwanted (or less wanted than say a slim woman) that leads them to try to make up for that. Or Daddy issues? Would certainly explain why you see it as something that can never be truly satisfied. Certainly some sort of psychology behind it, as with all aspects of sex really." I have been to numerous greedy girl Gangbang type meets over the years. The one common theme I can draw from my vast experience of Gangbang's is the only common denominator is the cock craving. I have seen meets with slim, fat, old, young, stunning and less attractive. It's the state of mind. It would be my dream partner a greedy girl who want lots of cock. Massive turn on for me. Xxxx | |||
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"Hey any advice for a single straight male that's just come out of a 20 year relationship and want to try the swing scene!! Get yourself to a greedy girl event, they fuck anyone apparently. " surely that's not totally true is that actually swinging!! | |||
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"We've seen a few. No offence but always wondered if there's a reason that nearly all of the girls that do them are overweight and have a bit of a trainwreck vibe about them, perhaps it's a lifelong feeling of being unwanted (or less wanted than say a slim woman) that leads them to try to make up for that. Or Daddy issues? Would certainly explain why you see it as something that can never be truly satisfied. Certainly some sort of psychology behind it, as with all aspects of sex really." Just to address this comment. Fat women are not unwanted all their lives. You may not want them, others will. The daddy issues you need to explain more please as I can't see the correlation between them. | |||
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"Hey any advice for a single straight male that's just come out of a 20 year relationship and want to try the swing scene!! Get yourself to a greedy girl event, they fuck anyone apparently. surely that's not totally true is that actually swinging!! " Fuck knows. Swinging is what you want it to be. You don't have a partner to swap, so some people will say you can't be a swinger. | |||
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" Really do you honestly believe the drivel coming out of your mouth. The only shaming going on is from yourself going on and on how big women are easy... Now i actually think that your not alone in your assumptions... its one reason while i enjoy bbw bashes for catching up with friends.. I am very reluctant to play with guys at these events as I truly believe that many go with the attitude you seem to portray. Its also why it is rare I take compliments... but to actually base your opinions on 5 or 6 incidents.. well i have 18 years in this lifestyle. Go to clubs most weekends and sometimes more than once.. and worked at hosted events for many years. I am not entirely sure why you ask whether I believe what I say and then go onto to say Occassionally what you say maybe true of that person but its not the same for everyone x As said, its been my observation. You're entitle to disagree. But, oddly enough, you say you have run into that very attitude at the events you have gone to. Soooo...other than frequency, arent we in agreement??? Also, considering what you said about reluctance to play with certain attendees, I have a strong feeling you see where I am coming from. I think your attitude is a good one. I have heard larger swingers tell me that sometimes they felt cheapened and not shown the same respect as others because of their weight. Once again, this is purely an observation that I ALONE have witnessed. I think your observations may be due to the events you attend and your own attitude towards physical appearance. Have a look around the site at the slim women who have gang bangs-not the ones getting paid for them. " Yeah there are...I think attitude tends to exist. But thats a completely different topic. Besides not really wanting to get into the whole topic. Its like the guy earlier said, there are plenty of psychological underpinnings behind many different sexual behaviors. This is pretty well established too. I personally found that some gangbangs seemed to be more about the woman involved getting off on the degradation and humiliation. But then the same can be said about cuckolds who like to be abused as they watch their wives/partners have sex. Its not really wrong, but I personally felt it was a little too toxic and debasing for my taste. Same way I have felt odd when couples insist on being belittled when involved in a cuckold threesome. This is the thing. No one has to approve of every pastime or sexual act you partake in. And you're perfectly entitled to think I am a prude/insecure/narcissist/douche/wanker for not approving of them. | |||
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"We've seen a few. No offence but always wondered if there's a reason that nearly all of the girls that do them are overweight and have a bit of a trainwreck vibe about them, perhaps it's a lifelong feeling of being unwanted (or less wanted than say a slim woman) that leads them to try to make up for that. Or Daddy issues? Would certainly explain why you see it as something that can never be truly satisfied. Certainly some sort of psychology behind it, as with all aspects of sex really. What a condescending piece of drivel. Why must a woman who loves sex (lots of it) HAVE to have psychological, weight and/or self esteem/Daddy issues ? Can't she be a normal girl who enjoys carnal pleasure? " I agree with you fully Xxxxc | |||
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"We've seen a few. No offence but always wondered if there's a reason that nearly all of the girls that do them are overweight and have a bit of a trainwreck vibe about them, perhaps it's a lifelong feeling of being unwanted (or less wanted than say a slim woman) that leads them to try to make up for that. Or Daddy issues? Would certainly explain why you see it as something that can never be truly satisfied. Certainly some sort of psychology behind it, as with all aspects of sex really. Just to address this comment. Fat women are not unwanted all their lives. You may not want them, others will. The daddy issues you need to explain more please as I can't see the correlation between them. " what is this tw@t talking about what as being fat got to do with it, go crawl back into your hole...idiot | |||
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"Anyway to get back on topic; Personally as part of the cuckholding experience me and my ex partner decided a gang bang was something on our bucket list. We tried it out of pure curiosity, nothing else, though I enjoyed it in that moment once the adrenaline wore of, I went downwards emotionally and felt a bit used and cheap and worth more than that so I decided not to do it again and never have, curiosity cured. Of course I'm only speaking from my experience just because I felt that way doesn't mean others would. Whats odd is that your post actually agrees with the very observation myself and other posters were making...and yet we must still sit here and pretend that these feelings in the minority Sometimes, only some, I feel people here (men especially) will pretend that every sexual itch is just wonderful and that no negative feelings can arouse on the womans behalf, simply in order to get in a womans pants." Her post never said she felt used and cheap because she was fat, so in fact she hasn't ageeed with your post . I'm fat because I eat too much, but I enjoy sex because it feels good not because I'm fat and need attention. I had plenty of sex when I was younger and thinner too, wonder what my reasons were then? | |||
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" Really do you honestly believe the drivel coming out of your mouth. The only shaming going on is from yourself going on and on how big women are easy... Now i actually think that your not alone in your assumptions... its one reason while i enjoy bbw bashes for catching up with friends.. I am very reluctant to play with guys at these events as I truly believe that many go with the attitude you seem to portray. Its also why it is rare I take compliments... but to actually base your opinions on 5 or 6 incidents.. well i have 18 years in this lifestyle. Go to clubs most weekends and sometimes more than once.. and worked at hosted events for many years. I am not entirely sure why you ask whether I believe what I say and then go onto to say Occassionally what you say maybe true of that person but its not the same for everyone x As said, its been my observation. You're entitle to disagree. But, oddly enough, you say you have run into that very attitude at the events you have gone to. Soooo...other than frequency, arent we in agreement??? Also, considering what you said about reluctance to play with certain attendees, I have a strong feeling you see where I am coming from. I think your attitude is a good one. I have heard larger swingers tell me that sometimes they felt cheapened and not shown the same respect as others because of their weight. Once again, this is purely an observation that I ALONE have witnessed. I think your observations may be due to the events you attend and your own attitude towards physical appearance. Have a look around the site at the slim women who have gang bangs-not the ones getting paid for them. Yeah there are...I think attitude tends to exist. But thats a completely different topic. Besides not really wanting to get into the whole topic. Its like the guy earlier said, there are plenty of psychological underpinnings behind many different sexual behaviors. This is pretty well established too. I personally found that some gangbangs seemed to be more about the woman involved getting off on the degradation and humiliation. But then the same can be said about cuckolds who like to be abused as they watch their wives/partners have sex. Its not really wrong, but I personally felt it was a little too toxic and debasing for my taste. Same way I have felt odd when couples insist on being belittled when involved in a cuckold threesome. This is the thing. No one has to approve of every pastime or sexual act you partake in. And you're perfectly entitled to think I am a prude/insecure/narcissist/douche/wanker for not approving of them. " This isn't about approval. You seem to not have noticed that average, slim and underweight women indulge in gang bangs too. | |||
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" As said, its been my observation. You're entitle to disagree. But, oddly enough, you say you have run into that very attitude at the events you have gone to. " No not in agreement... I was saying men seem to think the same as you despite it not in most cases being true. Ive got more picky the bigger and older ive got... I even refuse people ive previously met as simply not for me now. Your observations are blinkered because you already have a condescending view of bigger ladies. Ive swung at a size 12 and a size 32 ... and most sizes in between. Im no different at any size.. but sometimes guys attitudes are.. like the ones that think I should be flattered that they will lower their standards to fuck me... no thanks plenty of genuine guys that want to. And I cant do gangbangs when not feeling confident as its my confidence that drives me sexual urges x | |||
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"Hey any advice for a single straight male that's just come out of a 20 year relationship and want to try the swing scene!! Get yourself to a greedy girl event, they fuck anyone apparently. surely that's not totally true is that actually swinging!! Fuck knows. Swinging is what you want it to be. You don't have a partner to swap, so some people will say you can't be a swinger. " I don't know can't comment!I suppose back in the day it use to be a couples only thing but things have moved on since then life and times they change, it's hard being a single male stepping into the swing scene, but totally ok for a single women too!! If I go onto a normal dating site like pof or match I'm not gonna find a women that's interested in swing, hence the reason I joined fab!!! This is more of a sexy site not swing!! There are more singles on here than couples, I hope I can connect with a single women of here and together we can swing, that's my aim !! So if any greedy girls can help me out, cus apparently you fuck anything lol come and say hello pmsl | |||
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" Really do you honestly believe the drivel coming out of your mouth. The only shaming going on is from yourself going on and on how big women are easy... Now i actually think that your not alone in your assumptions... its one reason while i enjoy bbw bashes for catching up with friends.. I am very reluctant to play with guys at these events as I truly believe that many go with the attitude you seem to portray. Its also why it is rare I take compliments... but to actually base your opinions on 5 or 6 incidents.. well i have 18 years in this lifestyle. Go to clubs most weekends and sometimes more than once.. and worked at hosted events for many years. I am not entirely sure why you ask whether I believe what I say and then go onto to say Occassionally what you say maybe true of that person but its not the same for everyone x As said, its been my observation. You're entitle to disagree. But, oddly enough, you say you have run into that very attitude at the events you have gone to. Soooo...other than frequency, arent we in agreement??? Also, considering what you said about reluctance to play with certain attendees, I have a strong feeling you see where I am coming from. I think your attitude is a good one. I have heard larger swingers tell me that sometimes they felt cheapened and not shown the same respect as others because of their weight. Once again, this is purely an observation that I ALONE have witnessed. I think your observations may be due to the events you attend and your own attitude towards physical appearance. Have a look around the site at the slim women who have gang bangs-not the ones getting paid for them. Yeah there are...I think attitude tends to exist. But thats a completely different topic. Besides not really wanting to get into the whole topic. Its like the guy earlier said, there are plenty of psychological underpinnings behind many different sexual behaviors. This is pretty well established too. I personally found that some gangbangs seemed to be more about the woman involved getting off on the degradation and humiliation. But then the same can be said about cuckolds who like to be abused as they watch their wives/partners have sex. Its not really wrong, but I personally felt it was a little too toxic and debasing for my taste. Same way I have felt odd when couples insist on being belittled when involved in a cuckold threesome. This is the thing. No one has to approve of every pastime or sexual act you partake in. And you're perfectly entitled to think I am a prude/insecure/narcissist/douche/wanker for not approving of them. This isn't about approval. You seem to not have noticed that average, slim and underweight women indulge in gang bangs too. " Yeah. You know I used to be fat myself. Years ago, when I was a teenager. I would attend these workshops and I learned that losing weight was thinking about the psychology of food rather than simply the food itself. Your body tends to be a physical manifestation of your conscious and subconcious self and, in many cases, overweight people tend to be so due to other psychological issues or unresolved feelings of self hate. However, not all people reflect such feelings through their body/their diet. I just found that, in cases were the gangbangs were more frantic (little eye for safe sex/a lack of hygiene or respect among the attendees), the women were more of an emotional wreck. Even the women I used to casually date who had gone on to get involved in bukkakees/gangbangs often had a lot of issues with poor self esteem that they were contending with. You see, the problem I have now is that people seem to becoming offended at my statements. Tends to make me think I am hitting a nerve. | |||
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"Hey any advice for a single straight male that's just come out of a 20 year relationship and want to try the swing scene!! Get yourself to a greedy girl event, they fuck anyone apparently. surely that's not totally true is that actually swinging!! Fuck knows. Swinging is what you want it to be. You don't have a partner to swap, so some people will say you can't be a swinger. I don't know can't comment!I suppose back in the day it use to be a couples only thing but things have moved on since then life and times they change, it's hard being a single male stepping into the swing scene, but totally ok for a single women too!! If I go onto a normal dating site like pof or match I'm not gonna find a women that's interested in swing, hence the reason I joined fab!!! This is more of a sexy site not swing!! There are more singles on here than couples, I hope I can connect with a single women of here and together we can swing, that's my aim !! So if any greedy girls can help me out, cus apparently you fuck anything lol come and say hello pmsl " Why stop at greedy girls? According to certain members of this forum you just need to find a curvy girl because they can't get sex. This has been proved by the fact that thin girls get more fabs. Still not sure of the correlation but apparently he observes things so he can't be wrong. If you observe something different you live in your own reality. Personally I tend not to believe too much from anyone with no published verifications.... | |||
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"What a genuine question OP but what sad sad uninformed opionated responses. It's these type of responses that vanilla people have.of swingers saying we must have unresolved issues and psychological trauma and the like. As for the weight thing. Oh dear. But I will say a fat person if they so choose to can loose weight. A person with a blinded bigoted nature will rarely change their ugly attitude. There are opinions and there r maybe put ur foot in your mouth before finger to keyboard moments!" Sorry but we aren't uninformed or vanilla. As stated these opinions are based from years of active swinging across many clubs, parties etc. Stating that "the majority of women who enjoy gangbangs appear to be obese" isn't "bigoted", it's merely reporting our experience of how the scene works. Just because you don't like the truth, or it doesn't fit in with a politically correct world-view doesn't make it false. And besides there are plenty of people agreeing with it!
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" Really do you honestly believe the drivel coming out of your mouth. The only shaming going on is from yourself going on and on how big women are easy... Now i actually think that your not alone in your assumptions... its one reason while i enjoy bbw bashes for catching up with friends.. I am very reluctant to play with guys at these events as I truly believe that many go with the attitude you seem to portray. Its also why it is rare I take compliments... but to actually base your opinions on 5 or 6 incidents.. well i have 18 years in this lifestyle. Go to clubs most weekends and sometimes more than once.. and worked at hosted events for many years. I am not entirely sure why you ask whether I believe what I say and then go onto to say Occassionally what you say maybe true of that person but its not the same for everyone x As said, its been my observation. You're entitle to disagree. But, oddly enough, you say you have run into that very attitude at the events you have gone to. Soooo...other than frequency, arent we in agreement??? Also, considering what you said about reluctance to play with certain attendees, I have a strong feeling you see where I am coming from. I think your attitude is a good one. I have heard larger swingers tell me that sometimes they felt cheapened and not shown the same respect as others because of their weight. Once again, this is purely an observation that I ALONE have witnessed. I think your observations may be due to the events you attend and your own attitude towards physical appearance. Have a look around the site at the slim women who have gang bangs-not the ones getting paid for them. Yeah there are...I think attitude tends to exist. But thats a completely different topic. Besides not really wanting to get into the whole topic. Its like the guy earlier said, there are plenty of psychological underpinnings behind many different sexual behaviors. This is pretty well established too. I personally found that some gangbangs seemed to be more about the woman involved getting off on the degradation and humiliation. But then the same can be said about cuckolds who like to be abused as they watch their wives/partners have sex. Its not really wrong, but I personally felt it was a little too toxic and debasing for my taste. Same way I have felt odd when couples insist on being belittled when involved in a cuckold threesome. This is the thing. No one has to approve of every pastime or sexual act you partake in. And you're perfectly entitled to think I am a prude/insecure/narcissist/douche/wanker for not approving of them. This isn't about approval. You seem to not have noticed that average, slim and underweight women indulge in gang bangs too. Yeah. You know I used to be fat myself. Years ago, when I was a teenager. I would attend these workshops and I learned that losing weight was thinking about the psychology of food rather than simply the food itself. Your body tends to be a physical manifestation of your conscious and subconcious self and, in many cases, overweight people tend to be so due to other psychological issues or unresolved feelings of self hate. However, not all people reflect such feelings through their body/their diet. I just found that, in cases were the gangbangs were more frantic (little eye for safe sex/a lack of hygiene or respect among the attendees), the women were more of an emotional wreck. Even the women I used to casually date who had gone on to get involved in bukkakees/gangbangs often had a lot of issues with poor self esteem that they were contending with. You see, the problem I have now is that people seem to becoming offended at my statements. Tends to make me think I am hitting a nerve." | |||
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" No not in agreement... I was saying men seem to think the same as you despite it not in most cases being true. Okay. So you think most men are wrong then? Genuine question. " in my vast experience... yup. X | |||
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"According to the urban dictionary; No offence, usually said right before someone horribly insults you. It removes guilt from them and so they can say anything, however cruel without feeling remorseful. Just saying "Or it means what you're about to say isn't aimed at offending somebody personally. Such in situations like this where we're discussing general concepts, not individuals | |||
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"Hey any advice for a single straight male that's just come out of a 20 year relationship and want to try the swing scene!! Get yourself to a greedy girl event, they fuck anyone apparently. surely that's not totally true is that actually swinging!! Fuck knows. Swinging is what you want it to be. You don't have a partner to swap, so some people will say you can't be a swinger. I don't know can't comment!I suppose back in the day it use to be a couples only thing but things have moved on since then life and times they change, it's hard being a single male stepping into the swing scene, but totally ok for a single women too!! If I go onto a normal dating site like pof or match I'm not gonna find a women that's interested in swing, hence the reason I joined fab!!! This is more of a sexy site not swing!! There are more singles on here than couples, I hope I can connect with a single women of here and together we can swing, that's my aim !! So if any greedy girls can help me out, cus apparently you fuck anything lol come and say hello pmsl Why stop at greedy girls? According to certain members of this forum you just need to find a curvy girl because they can't get sex. This has been proved by the fact that thin girls get more fabs. Still not sure of the correlation but apparently he observes things so he can't be wrong. If you observe something different you live in your own reality. Personally I tend not to believe too much from anyone with no published verifications...." You hold too much weight in verifications. Quite frankly you come off as a 12 year old begger. Like someone who just discovered sex. | |||
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"What a genuine question OP but what sad sad uninformed opionated responses. It's these type of responses that vanilla people have.of swingers saying we must have unresolved issues and psychological trauma and the like. As for the weight thing. Oh dear. But I will say a fat person if they so choose to can loose weight. A person with a blinded bigoted nature will rarely change their ugly attitude. There are opinions and there r maybe put ur foot in your mouth before finger to keyboard moments! Sorry but we aren't uninformed or vanilla. As stated these opinions are based from years of active swinging across many clubs, parties etc. Stating that "the majority of women who enjoy gangbangs appear to be obese" isn't "bigoted", it's merely reporting our experience of how the scene works. Just because you don't like the truth, or it doesn't fit in with a politically correct world-view doesn't make it false. And besides there are plenty of people agreeing with it!
We aren't out to offend anyone, single anyone out or shame anyone. It's an explanation for the OP's quesiton as to why these women are insatiable. That's because it's a psychological need, not a physical one!"Wow! Your experience is the truth! I do not think so, as there plenty of other people with experiences that contradict yours, but as their experience contradict yours some how their experiences are not the truth. You have no idea what is going through the heads of people being gangbanged, there is no imperical evidence. You have cited no academic work on the psychology of gangbangs, you are not speaking the truth but a load of prejudices. | |||
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"What a genuine question OP but what sad sad uninformed opionated responses. It's these type of responses that vanilla people have.of swingers saying we must have unresolved issues and psychological trauma and the like. As for the weight thing. Oh dear. But I will say a fat person if they so choose to can loose weight. A person with a blinded bigoted nature will rarely change their ugly attitude. There are opinions and there r maybe put ur foot in your mouth before finger to keyboard moments! Sorry but we aren't uninformed or vanilla. As stated these opinions are based from years of active swinging across many clubs, parties etc. Stating that "the majority of women who enjoy gangbangs appear to be obese" isn't "bigoted", it's merely reporting our experience of how the scene works. Just because you don't like the truth, or it doesn't fit in with a politically correct world-view doesn't make it false. And besides there are plenty of people agreeing with it!
We aren't out to offend anyone, single anyone out or shame anyone. It's an explanation for the OP's quesiton as to why these women are insatiable. That's because it's a psychological need, not a physical one!"As someone who really used to only do gb.. i was often the token fat chick. Perhaps you just notice them more. Just curious as to where you got your psychology degree from... mine was Nottingham trent | |||
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" No not in agreement... I was saying men seem to think the same as you despite it not in most cases being true. Okay. So you think most men are wrong then? Genuine question. in my vast experience... yup. X " Okay. But the I wonder, wouldn't it then pertain that there is a high chance that the men who participate in gangbangs with you hold the same views that I do? Are you comfortable in engaging in group sex with people who may have the same views that I do? | |||
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"According to the urban dictionary; No offence, usually said right before someone horribly insults you. It removes guilt from them and so they can say anything, however cruel without feeling remorseful. Just saying
Or it means what you're about to say isn't aimed at offending somebody personally.
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"What a genuine question OP but what sad sad uninformed opionated responses. It's these type of responses that vanilla people have.of swingers saying we must have unresolved issues and psychological trauma and the like. As for the weight thing. Oh dear. But I will say a fat person if they so choose to can loose weight. A person with a blinded bigoted nature will rarely change their ugly attitude. There are opinions and there r maybe put ur foot in your mouth before finger to keyboard moments! Sorry but we aren't uninformed or vanilla. As stated these opinions are based from years of active swinging across many clubs, parties etc. Stating that "the majority of women who enjoy gangbangs appear to be obese" isn't "bigoted", it's merely reporting our experience of how the scene works. Just because you don't like the truth, or it doesn't fit in with a politically correct world-view doesn't make it false. And besides there are plenty of people agreeing with it!
We aren't out to offend anyone, single anyone out or shame anyone. It's an explanation for the OP's quesiton as to why these women are insatiable. That's because it's a psychological need, not a physical one!
Wow! Your experience is the truth! I do not think so, as there plenty of other people with experiences that contradict yours, but as their experience contradict yours some how their experiences are not the truth. You have no idea what is going through the heads of people being gangbanged, there is no imperical evidence. You have cited no academic work on the psychology of gangbangs, you are not speaking the truth but a load of prejudices."LOL, funnily enough. There is some "empirical" evidence that casual sex is only enjoyable if you're a "strong, narcisstic male" http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-2669057/Casual-sex-IS-good-self-esteem-youre-physically-strong-narcissistic-male.html It is the Daily Mail though soooo...
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"What a genuine question OP but what sad sad uninformed opionated responses. It's these type of responses that vanilla people have.of swingers saying we must have unresolved issues and psychological trauma and the like. As for the weight thing. Oh dear. But I will say a fat person if they so choose to can loose weight. A person with a blinded bigoted nature will rarely change their ugly attitude. There are opinions and there r maybe put ur foot in your mouth before finger to keyboard moments! Sorry but we aren't uninformed or vanilla. As stated these opinions are based from years of active swinging across many clubs, parties etc. Stating that "the majority of women who enjoy gangbangs appear to be obese" isn't "bigoted", it's merely reporting our experience of how the scene works. Just because you don't like the truth, or it doesn't fit in with a politically correct world-view doesn't make it false. And besides there are plenty of people agreeing with it!
We aren't out to offend anyone, single anyone out or shame anyone. It's an explanation for the OP's quesiton as to why these women are insatiable. That's because it's a psychological need, not a physical one!
As someone who really used to only do gb.. i was often the token fat chick. Perhaps you just notice them more.
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" No not in agreement... I was saying men seem to think the same as you despite it not in most cases being true. Okay. So you think most men are wrong then? Genuine question. in my vast experience... yup. X Okay. But the I wonder, wouldn't it then pertain that there is a high chance that the men who participate in gangbangs with you hold the same views that I do? Are you comfortable in engaging in group sex with people who may have the same views that I do?" i have often refused guys that have gone to other women first and me last.. Doesn't bother me that much as if i didnt find them for me id say sod off. They are sorting my need and fantasy in that scenario but as a couple no they have to work damned hard to convince me they like me for me. Ive turned many guys down simply because every woman on their verifications is slim. | |||
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"Hey any advice for a single straight male that's just come out of a 20 year relationship and want to try the swing scene!! Get yourself to a greedy girl event, they fuck anyone apparently. surely that's not totally true is that actually swinging!! Fuck knows. Swinging is what you want it to be. You don't have a partner to swap, so some people will say you can't be a swinger. I don't know can't comment!I suppose back in the day it use to be a couples only thing but things have moved on since then life and times they change, it's hard being a single male stepping into the swing scene, but totally ok for a single women too!! If I go onto a normal dating site like pof or match I'm not gonna find a women that's interested in swing, hence the reason I joined fab!!! This is more of a sexy site not swing!! There are more singles on here than couples, I hope I can connect with a single women of here and together we can swing, that's my aim !! So if any greedy girls can help me out, cus apparently you fuck anything lol come and say hello pmsl Why stop at greedy girls? According to certain members of this forum you just need to find a curvy girl because they can't get sex. This has been proved by the fact that thin girls get more fabs. Still not sure of the correlation but apparently he observes things so he can't be wrong. If you observe something different you live in your own reality. Personally I tend not to believe too much from anyone with no published verifications.... You hold too much weight in verifications. Quite frankly you come off as a 12 year old begger. Like someone who just discovered sex." Spoken like someone with no verifications. Oh earlier I was a single guy wanking at a club. I no I just discovered that someone can type without having a fully functional brain. | |||
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"According to the urban dictionary; No offence, usually said right before someone horribly insults you. It removes guilt from them and so they can say anything, however cruel without feeling remorseful. Just saying
Or it means what you're about to say isn't aimed at offending somebody personally.
Such in situations like this where we're discussing general concepts, not individuals "You know, I have been told that gyms and bodybuilding are pastimes which tend to attract the narcisstic and self obsessed. Its an observations which holds some weight, have never really taken offence to it because of that. Problem with a lot of people here is that they're, quite frankly, mentally weak. Probably the same types who drink themselves to oblivion and get wasted on club nights spoiling the atmosphere for everyone else. Their sexual urges are driven by deep seated insecurities/unresolved personal issues and thus they lash out whenever anyone cottons on to them. I notice this clearly with those who get offended at any attempt to understand their sexual pathologies. They see it as an attack as they fear getting exposed. | |||
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"What a genuine question OP but what sad sad uninformed opionated responses. It's these type of responses that vanilla people have.of swingers saying we must have unresolved issues and psychological trauma and the like. As for the weight thing. Oh dear. But I will say a fat person if they so choose to can loose weight. A person with a blinded bigoted nature will rarely change their ugly attitude. There are opinions and there r maybe put ur foot in your mouth before finger to keyboard moments! Sorry but we aren't uninformed or vanilla. As stated these opinions are based from years of active swinging across many clubs, parties etc. Stating that "the majority of women who enjoy gangbangs appear to be obese" isn't "bigoted", it's merely reporting our experience of how the scene works. Just because you don't like the truth, or it doesn't fit in with a politically correct world-view doesn't make it false. And besides there are plenty of people agreeing with it!
We aren't out to offend anyone, single anyone out or shame anyone. It's an explanation for the OP's quesiton as to why these women are insatiable. That's because it's a psychological need, not a physical one!
Wow! Your experience is the truth! I do not think so, as there plenty of other people with experiences that contradict yours, but as their experience contradict yours some how their experiences are not the truth. You have no idea what is going through the heads of people being gangbanged, there is no imperical evidence. You have cited no academic work on the psychology of gangbangs, you are not speaking the truth but a load of prejudices.
LOL, funnily enough. There is some "empirical" evidence that casual sex is only enjoyable if you're a "strong, narcisstic male"
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-2669057/Casual-sex-IS-good-self-esteem-youre-physically-strong-narcissistic-male.html
It is the Daily Mail though soooo...
"As an educated man you would know one piece of research does not make evidence. Especially from a tabloid newspaper! | |||
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"Hey any advice for a single straight male that's just come out of a 20 year relationship and want to try the swing scene!! Get yourself to a greedy girl event, they fuck anyone apparently. surely that's not totally true is that actually swinging!! Fuck knows. Swinging is what you want it to be. You don't have a partner to swap, so some people will say you can't be a swinger. I don't know can't comment!I suppose back in the day it use to be a couples only thing but things have moved on since then life and times they change, it's hard being a single male stepping into the swing scene, but totally ok for a single women too!! If I go onto a normal dating site like pof or match I'm not gonna find a women that's interested in swing, hence the reason I joined fab!!! This is more of a sexy site not swing!! There are more singles on here than couples, I hope I can connect with a single women of here and together we can swing, that's my aim !! So if any greedy girls can help me out, cus apparently you fuck anything lol come and say hello pmsl Why stop at greedy girls? According to certain members of this forum you just need to find a curvy girl because they can't get sex. This has been proved by the fact that thin girls get more fabs. Still not sure of the correlation but apparently he observes things so he can't be wrong. If you observe something different you live in your own reality. Personally I tend not to believe too much from anyone with no published verifications.... You hold too much weight in verifications. Quite frankly you come off as a 12 year old begger. Like someone who just discovered sex. Spoken like someone with no verifications. Oh earlier I was a single guy wanking at a club. I no I just discovered that someone can type without having a fully functional brain." You take verifications as an achievement, I have feeling this is due to the fact that you probably feel some kind of relief at a woman who is willing to shag you. Sorry that I dont share your same lack of self worth. | |||
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"According to the urban dictionary; No offence, usually said right before someone horribly insults you. It removes guilt from them and so they can say anything, however cruel without feeling remorseful. Just saying
Or it means what you're about to say isn't aimed at offending somebody personally.
Such in situations like this where we're discussing general concepts, not individuals
You know, I have been told that gyms and bodybuilding are pastimes which tend to attract the narcisstic and self obsessed. Its an observations which holds some weight, have never really taken offence to it because of that.
Problem with a lot of people here is that they're, quite frankly, mentally weak. Probably the same types who drink themselves to oblivion and get wasted on club nights spoiling the atmosphere for everyone else. Their sexual urges are driven by deep seated insecurities/unresolved personal issues and thus they lash out whenever anyone cottons on to them.
I notice this clearly with those who get offended at any attempt to understand their sexual pathologies. They see it as an attack as they fear getting exposed. "I think you confuse people just thinking you're wrong with "offended/fear/lashing out". You and another poster have stated that your experience is one thing, other posters have stated that their experience is different. Both sides are probably guilty of confirmation bias in that what they see reflects their own inherent prejudices and biases. Your experience isn't more "right" than theirs. (Disclaimer - I really don't give a shit either way since gang bangs or even clubs full stop hold no appeal for me whatsoever. So actually, I'm probably the one who is right because I'm not pushing a particular agenda.) | |||
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"I have been to a few gangbangs in the past, It still and has always amazed me the appetite for sex these greedy girls have, I'm pretty sure after all the guys have given everything these girls still want more, I'm just curious do they get lost in the moment in the gangbang!! or are they just down right nymphs who need it all the time??" Back to your original post... most women in general have a higher sexual drive and needs than men.. just year's and years of social conditioning means that in modern society its frowned on.. Most just chase that inhibited animalistic fun and sexually charged environment that gangbangs give. Some do it as part of a ds relationship. Some do it to feel a slut.. and sure there are a million personal reasons why women do it and want more. For me its because i can.. x | |||
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"According to the urban dictionary; No offence, usually said right before someone horribly insults you. It removes guilt from them and so they can say anything, however cruel without feeling remorseful. Just saying
Or it means what you're about to say isn't aimed at offending somebody personally.
Such in situations like this where we're discussing general concepts, not individuals
You know, I have been told that gyms and bodybuilding are pastimes which tend to attract the narcisstic and self obsessed. Its an observations which holds some weight, have never really taken offence to it because of that.
Problem with a lot of people here is that they're, quite frankly, mentally weak. Probably the same types who drink themselves to oblivion and get wasted on club nights spoiling the atmosphere for everyone else. Their sexual urges are driven by deep seated insecurities/unresolved personal issues and thus they lash out whenever anyone cottons on to them.
I notice this clearly with those who get offended at any attempt to understand their sexual pathologies. They see it as an attack as they fear getting exposed.
I think you confuse people just thinking you're wrong with "offended/fear/lashing out". You and another poster have stated that your experience is one thing, other posters have stated that their experience is different. Both sides are probably guilty of confirmation bias in that what they see reflects their own inherent prejudices and biases. Your experience isn't more "right" than theirs.
(Disclaimer - I really don't give a shit either way since gang bangs or even clubs full stop hold no appeal for me whatsoever. So actually, I'm probably the one who is right because I'm not pushing a particular agenda.)"If you change your mind and decide to go to a club... I suggest you stay away from the deep end of the pool. | |||
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"Hey any advice for a single straight male that's just come out of a 20 year relationship and want to try the swing scene!! Get yourself to a greedy girl event, they fuck anyone apparently. surely that's not totally true is that actually swinging!! Fuck knows. Swinging is what you want it to be. You don't have a partner to swap, so some people will say you can't be a swinger. I don't know can't comment!I suppose back in the day it use to be a couples only thing but things have moved on since then life and times they change, it's hard being a single male stepping into the swing scene, but totally ok for a single women too!! If I go onto a normal dating site like pof or match I'm not gonna find a women that's interested in swing, hence the reason I joined fab!!! This is more of a sexy site not swing!! There are more singles on here than couples, I hope I can connect with a single women of here and together we can swing, that's my aim !! So if any greedy girls can help me out, cus apparently you fuck anything lol come and say hello pmsl Why stop at greedy girls? According to certain members of this forum you just need to find a curvy girl because they can't get sex. This has been proved by the fact that thin girls get more fabs. Still not sure of the correlation but apparently he observes things so he can't be wrong. If you observe something different you live in your own reality. Personally I tend not to believe too much from anyone with no published verifications.... You hold too much weight in verifications. Quite frankly you come off as a 12 year old begger. Like someone who just discovered sex." I get what your saying! because I'm single and on a swing site, I'm looked upon as desperate!!! I'm not begging at mate at all, and what you put is very disrespectful, but I suppose someone as perfect as you!! Lives in your own little perfect world where nothing but perfection should exist, you are very narrow minded mate, and if your so perfect what you actually doing on a site like this?? Shouldn't you have women falling at your feet!! But i suppose once they hear the sh!t that comes from your mouth there off.....your just another arrogant arshole mate.....tw@t | |||
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"What a genuine question OP but what sad sad uninformed opionated responses. It's these type of responses that vanilla people have.of swingers saying we must have unresolved issues and psychological trauma and the like. As for the weight thing. Oh dear. But I will say a fat person if they so choose to can loose weight. A person with a blinded bigoted nature will rarely change their ugly attitude. There are opinions and there r maybe put ur foot in your mouth before finger to keyboard moments! Sorry but we aren't uninformed or vanilla. As stated these opinions are based from years of active swinging across many clubs, parties etc. Stating that "the majority of women who enjoy gangbangs appear to be obese" isn't "bigoted", it's merely reporting our experience of how the scene works. Just because you don't like the truth, or it doesn't fit in with a politically correct world-view doesn't make it false. And besides there are plenty of people agreeing with it!
We aren't out to offend anyone, single anyone out or shame anyone. It's an explanation for the OP's quesiton as to why these women are insatiable. That's because it's a psychological need, not a physical one!
Wow! Your experience is the truth! I do not think so, as there plenty of other people with experiences that contradict yours, but as their experience contradict yours some how their experiences are not the truth. You have no idea what is going through the heads of people being gangbanged, there is no imperical evidence. You have cited no academic work on the psychology of gangbangs, you are not speaking the truth but a load of prejudices.
LOL, funnily enough. There is some "empirical" evidence that casual sex is only enjoyable if you're a "strong, narcisstic male"
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-2669057/Casual-sex-IS-good-self-esteem-youre-physically-strong-narcissistic-male.html
It is the Daily Mail though soooo...
As an educated man you would know one piece of research does not make evidence. Especially from a tabloid newspaper! "To be honest, there is a lot of data out there, from many respected journals. And thats in regards to the simple act of casual sex itself. Depression and anxiety among swingers: http://austinpublishinggroup.com/depression-anxiety/download.php?file=fulltext/depression-v3-id1079.pdf Depression and anxiety from casual sex: http://www.nhs.uk/news/2013/07July/Pages/Casual-sex-linked-to-depression-and-anxiety.aspx Casual sex linked to suicidal thoughts: http://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/sex/10463976/Casual-sex-linked-to-depression-and-suicidal-thoughts.html I like wine, I like McDonalds, I like some extreme sports. I accept that there are potential pitfalls in all of them and the psychological reasonings behind consuming them or partking in them. What I dont do, is construct a false reality for myself where everything I do is wonderful and call anyone who criticizes me for partaking in those same things some judgemental cretin. | |||
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"Hey any advice for a single straight male that's just come out of a 20 year relationship and want to try the swing scene!! Get yourself to a greedy girl event, they fuck anyone apparently. surely that's not totally true is that actually swinging!! Fuck knows. Swinging is what you want it to be. You don't have a partner to swap, so some people will say you can't be a swinger. I don't know can't comment!I suppose back in the day it use to be a couples only thing but things have moved on since then life and times they change, it's hard being a single male stepping into the swing scene, but totally ok for a single women too!! If I go onto a normal dating site like pof or match I'm not gonna find a women that's interested in swing, hence the reason I joined fab!!! This is more of a sexy site not swing!! There are more singles on here than couples, I hope I can connect with a single women of here and together we can swing, that's my aim !! So if any greedy girls can help me out, cus apparently you fuck anything lol come and say hello pmsl Why stop at greedy girls? According to certain members of this forum you just need to find a curvy girl because they can't get sex. This has been proved by the fact that thin girls get more fabs. Still not sure of the correlation but apparently he observes things so he can't be wrong. If you observe something different you live in your own reality. Personally I tend not to believe too much from anyone with no published verifications.... You hold too much weight in verifications. Quite frankly you come off as a 12 year old begger. Like someone who just discovered sex. I get what your saying! because I'm single and on a swing site, I'm looked upon as desperate!!! I'm not begging at mate at all, and what you put is very disrespectful, but I suppose someone as perfect as you!! Lives in your own little perfect world where nothing but perfection should exist, you are very narrow minded mate, and if your so perfect what you actually doing on a site like this?? Shouldn't you have women falling at your feet!! But i suppose once they hear the sh!t that comes from your mouth there off.....your just another arrogant arshole mate.....tw@t" Come on mate, lets keep the conversation constructive. | |||
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"According to the urban dictionary; No offence, usually said right before someone horribly insults you. It removes guilt from them and so they can say anything, however cruel without feeling remorseful. Just saying
Or it means what you're about to say isn't aimed at offending somebody personally.
Such in situations like this where we're discussing general concepts, not individuals
You know, I have been told that gyms and bodybuilding are pastimes which tend to attract the narcisstic and self obsessed. Its an observations which holds some weight, have never really taken offence to it because of that.
Problem with a lot of people here is that they're, quite frankly, mentally weak. Probably the same types who drink themselves to oblivion and get wasted on club nights spoiling the atmosphere for everyone else. Their sexual urges are driven by deep seated insecurities/unresolved personal issues and thus they lash out whenever anyone cottons on to them.
I notice this clearly with those who get offended at any attempt to understand their sexual pathologies. They see it as an attack as they fear getting exposed. "Enlighten us....why are you on here seeking sexual encounters? Is it only gym freaks like yourself who have so called legitimate reasons or are allowed to horny all the time? | |||
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"What a genuine question OP but what sad sad uninformed opionated responses. It's these type of responses that vanilla people have.of swingers saying we must have unresolved issues and psychological trauma and the like. As for the weight thing. Oh dear. But I will say a fat person if they so choose to can loose weight. A person with a blinded bigoted nature will rarely change their ugly attitude. There are opinions and there r maybe put ur foot in your mouth before finger to keyboard moments! Sorry but we aren't uninformed or vanilla. As stated these opinions are based from years of active swinging across many clubs, parties etc. Stating that "the majority of women who enjoy gangbangs appear to be obese" isn't "bigoted", it's merely reporting our experience of how the scene works. Just because you don't like the truth, or it doesn't fit in with a politically correct world-view doesn't make it false. And besides there are plenty of people agreeing with it!
We aren't out to offend anyone, single anyone out or shame anyone. It's an explanation for the OP's quesiton as to why these women are insatiable. That's because it's a psychological need, not a physical one!
Wow! Your experience is the truth! I do not think so, as there plenty of other people with experiences that contradict yours, but as their experience contradict yours some how their experiences are not the truth. You have no idea what is going through the heads of people being gangbanged, there is no imperical evidence. You have cited no academic work on the psychology of gangbangs, you are not speaking the truth but a load of prejudices.
LOL, funnily enough. There is some "empirical" evidence that casual sex is only enjoyable if you're a "strong, narcisstic male"
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-2669057/Casual-sex-IS-good-self-esteem-youre-physically-strong-narcissistic-male.html
It is the Daily Mail though soooo...
As an educated man you would know one piece of research does not make evidence. Especially from a tabloid newspaper!
To be honest, there is a lot of data out there, from many respected journals. And thats in regards to the simple act of casual sex itself.
Depression and anxiety among swingers:
http://austinpublishinggroup.com/depression-anxiety/download.php?file=fulltext/depression-v3-id1079.pdf
Depression and anxiety from casual sex:
http://www.nhs.uk/news/2013/07July/Pages/Casual-sex-linked-to-depression-and-anxiety.aspx
Casual sex linked to suicidal thoughts:
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/sex/10463976/Casual-sex-linked-to-depression-and-suicidal-thoughts.html
I like wine, I like McDonalds, I like some extreme sports. I accept that there are potential pitfalls in all of them and the psychological reasonings behind consuming them or partking in them. What I dont do, is construct a false reality for myself where everything I do is wonderful and call anyone who criticizes me for partaking in those same things some judgemental cretin.
"Did someone mention McDonalds??? Nom nom nom. Miss C. Xx | |||
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"According to the urban dictionary; No offence, usually said right before someone horribly insults you. It removes guilt from them and so they can say anything, however cruel without feeling remorseful. Just saying
Or it means what you're about to say isn't aimed at offending somebody personally.
Such in situations like this where we're discussing general concepts, not individuals
You know, I have been told that gyms and bodybuilding are pastimes which tend to attract the narcisstic and self obsessed. Its an observations which holds some weight, have never really taken offence to it because of that.
Problem with a lot of people here is that they're, quite frankly, mentally weak. Probably the same types who drink themselves to oblivion and get wasted on club nights spoiling the atmosphere for everyone else. Their sexual urges are driven by deep seated insecurities/unresolved personal issues and thus they lash out whenever anyone cottons on to them.
I notice this clearly with those who get offended at any attempt to understand their sexual pathologies. They see it as an attack as they fear getting exposed. "This is absolutely bang-on. I've done things in the past, through this site, I'd never dream of doing now... and most of that correlates with self esteem and where my head was/is. I couldn't be told though, even though deep down I knew what the real score was.. Alas, people wake up to things (the truth) only when they become strong enough to. | |||
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"Fuck. This escalated quickly. I need a snack. *plods fattly to the kitchen* As the girlfriend of Mr MayContainFullNuts and a fat girl I have seen what he was talking about in clubs. I am the first to get my fat ass outta my clothes and go tubbin',so no self esteem issues there. Also my parents are still married and I still have my Dad, so no issues there. I personally DO NOT like gang bangs but each to their own, fat, thin, tall, short and all the rest....... Can't we all just FUCK, safely of course and get along?
*Mike drop!* "Oooops now you've now you've gone and done it! Oh you might want to read through our verifications and realise what a complete and utter fool you've made of yourself. But probably not. | |||
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"According to the urban dictionary; No offence, usually said right before someone horribly insults you. It removes guilt from them and so they can say anything, however cruel without feeling remorseful. Just saying
Or it means what you're about to say isn't aimed at offending somebody personally.
Such in situations like this where we're discussing general concepts, not individuals
You know, I have been told that gyms and bodybuilding are pastimes which tend to attract the narcisstic and self obsessed. Its an observations which holds some weight, have never really taken offence to it because of that.
Problem with a lot of people here is that they're, quite frankly, mentally weak. Probably the same types who drink themselves to oblivion and get wasted on club nights spoiling the atmosphere for everyone else. Their sexual urges are driven by deep seated insecurities/unresolved personal issues and thus they lash out whenever anyone cottons on to them.
I notice this clearly with those who get offended at any attempt to understand their sexual pathologies. They see it as an attack as they fear getting exposed.
I think you confuse people just thinking you're wrong with "offended/fear/lashing out". You and another poster have stated that your experience is one thing, other posters have stated that their experience is different. Both sides are probably guilty of confirmation bias in that what they see reflects their own inherent prejudices and biases. Your experience isn't more "right" than theirs.
(Disclaimer - I really don't give a shit either way since gang bangs or even clubs full stop hold no appeal for me whatsoever. So actually, I'm probably the one who is right because I'm not pushing a particular agenda.)"Well thats clearly not whats happening here. There are civil disagreements and then there are posts like these: "You hold too much weight in verifications. Quite frankly you come off as a 12 year old begger. Like someone who just discovered sex. I get what your saying! because I'm single and on a swing site, I'm looked upon as desperate!!! I'm not begging at mate at all, and what you put is very disrespectful, but I suppose someone as perfect as you!! Lives in your own little perfect world where nothing but perfection should exist, you are very narrow minded mate, and if your so perfect what you actually doing on a site like this?? Shouldn't you have women falling at your feet!! But i suppose once they hear the sh!t that comes from your mouth there off.....your just another arrogant arshole mate.....tw@t"" Stop being disingenuous and only seeing what you want to because those same people agree with you. | |||
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"According to the urban dictionary; No offence, usually said right before someone horribly insults you. It removes guilt from them and so they can say anything, however cruel without feeling remorseful. Just saying
Or it means what you're about to say isn't aimed at offending somebody personally.
Such in situations like this where we're discussing general concepts, not individuals
You know, I have been told that gyms and bodybuilding are pastimes which tend to attract the narcisstic and self obsessed. Its an observations which holds some weight, have never really taken offence to it because of that.
Problem with a lot of people here is that they're, quite frankly, mentally weak. Probably the same types who drink themselves to oblivion and get wasted on club nights spoiling the atmosphere for everyone else. Their sexual urges are driven by deep seated insecurities/unresolved personal issues and thus they lash out whenever anyone cottons on to them.
I notice this clearly with those who get offended at any attempt to understand their sexual pathologies. They see it as an attack as they fear getting exposed.
Enlighten us....why are you on here seeking sexual encounters? Is it only gym freaks like yourself who have so called legitimate reasons or are allowed to horny all the time? "Yeah dude...what's YOUR issues??? Miss C. | |||
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"Hey any advice for a single straight male that's just come out of a 20 year relationship and want to try the swing scene!! Get yourself to a greedy girl event, they fuck anyone apparently. surely that's not totally true is that actually swinging!! Fuck knows. Swinging is what you want it to be. You don't have a partner to swap, so some people will say you can't be a swinger. I don't know can't comment!I suppose back in the day it use to be a couples only thing but things have moved on since then life and times they change, it's hard being a single male stepping into the swing scene, but totally ok for a single women too!! If I go onto a normal dating site like pof or match I'm not gonna find a women that's interested in swing, hence the reason I joined fab!!! This is more of a sexy site not swing!! There are more singles on here than couples, I hope I can connect with a single women of here and together we can swing, that's my aim !! So if any greedy girls can help me out, cus apparently you fuck anything lol come and say hello pmsl Why stop at greedy girls? According to certain members of this forum you just need to find a curvy girl because they can't get sex. This has been proved by the fact that thin girls get more fabs. Still not sure of the correlation but apparently he observes things so he can't be wrong. If you observe something different you live in your own reality. Personally I tend not to believe too much from anyone with no published verifications.... You hold too much weight in verifications. Quite frankly you come off as a 12 year old begger. Like someone who just discovered sex. I get what your saying! because I'm single and on a swing site, I'm looked upon as desperate!!! I'm not begging at mate at all, and what you put is very disrespectful, but I suppose someone as perfect as you!! Lives in your own little perfect world where nothing but perfection should exist, you are very narrow minded mate, and if your so perfect what you actually doing on a site like this?? Shouldn't you have women falling at your feet!! But i suppose once they hear the sh!t that comes from your mouth there off.....your just another arrogant arshole mate.....tw@t Come on mate, lets keep the conversation constructive. "constructive!!! Pmsl | |||
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"According to the urban dictionary; No offence, usually said right before someone horribly insults you. It removes guilt from them and so they can say anything, however cruel without feeling remorseful. Just saying
Or it means what you're about to say isn't aimed at offending somebody personally.
Such in situations like this where we're discussing general concepts, not individuals
You know, I have been told that gyms and bodybuilding are pastimes which tend to attract the narcisstic and self obsessed. Its an observations which holds some weight, have never really taken offence to it because of that.
Problem with a lot of people here is that they're, quite frankly, mentally weak. Probably the same types who drink themselves to oblivion and get wasted on club nights spoiling the atmosphere for everyone else. Their sexual urges are driven by deep seated insecurities/unresolved personal issues and thus they lash out whenever anyone cottons on to them.
I notice this clearly with those who get offended at any attempt to understand their sexual pathologies. They see it as an attack as they fear getting exposed.
I think you confuse people just thinking you're wrong with "offended/fear/lashing out". You and another poster have stated that your experience is one thing, other posters have stated that their experience is different. Both sides are probably guilty of confirmation bias in that what they see reflects their own inherent prejudices and biases. Your experience isn't more "right" than theirs.
(Disclaimer - I really don't give a shit either way since gang bangs or even clubs full stop hold no appeal for me whatsoever. So actually, I'm probably the one who is right because I'm not pushing a particular agenda.)
Well thats clearly not whats happening here. There are civil disagreements and then there are posts like these:
You hold too much weight in verifications. Quite frankly you come off as a 12 year old begger. Like someone who just discovered sex. I get what your saying! because I'm single and on a swing site, I'm looked upon as desperate!!! I'm not begging at mate at all, and what you put is very disrespectful, but I suppose someone as perfect as you!! Lives in your own little perfect world where nothing but perfection should exist, you are very narrow minded mate, and if your so perfect what you actually doing on a site like this?? Shouldn't you have women falling at your feet!! But i suppose once they hear the sh!t that comes from your mouth there off.....your just another arrogant arshole mate.....tw@t"
Stop being disingenuous and only seeing what you want to because those same people agree with you."I'm not being disingenuous. And nobody agrees with me, because I haven't stated an argument except that yours is probably wrong. That post is pretty abusive, yes. The majority of the posts on the thread, however, particularly those by the women who've said they partake in gang bangs - who I assumed were the posters you were referring to because of your reference to their sexual pathologies - aren't. They just think you're wrong, based on their own experiences. | |||
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anyway the only guys who've mentioned daddy whilst having sex with me have been black guys, so I don't think it's my/our issue.....just my experience of course | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 03/01/17 17:57:52]" Lame. LOL a lot of people cant even stand on your own two feet. Tell you what though, yes, I would say there are tons of deep seated desires behind my sexual fetishes. Do you legitimately think anyone who says they want to be worshiped by the people they fuck isnt a narcissist? You know what, I accept my flaws. It's cathartic and allows me to grow as a person. What I dont do is run away from the past experiences that have contributed to my present sexuality and then call everyone a bigot for observing them. | |||
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"According to the urban dictionary; No offence, usually said right before someone horribly insults you. It removes guilt from them and so they can say anything, however cruel without feeling remorseful. Just saying
Or it means what you're about to say isn't aimed at offending somebody personally.
Such in situations like this where we're discussing general concepts, not individuals
You know, I have been told that gyms and bodybuilding are pastimes which tend to attract the narcisstic and self obsessed. Its an observations which holds some weight, have never really taken offence to it because of that.
Problem with a lot of people here is that they're, quite frankly, mentally weak. Probably the same types who drink themselves to oblivion and get wasted on club nights spoiling the atmosphere for everyone else. Their sexual urges are driven by deep seated insecurities/unresolved personal issues and thus they lash out whenever anyone cottons on to them.
I notice this clearly with those who get offended at any attempt to understand their sexual pathologies. They see it as an attack as they fear getting exposed.
This is absolutely bang-on.
I've done things in the past, through this site, I'd never dream of doing now...
and most of that correlates with self esteem and where my head was/is.
I couldn't be told though, even though deep down I knew what the real score was..
Alas, people wake up to things (the truth) only when they become strong enough to.
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"I can't find the original comment about us fat girls having daddy issues anyway the only guys who've mentioned daddy whilst having sex with me have been black guys, so I don't think it's my/our issue.....just my experience of course"Oh look, its casual racialism. Last refuge of the scoundrel. | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 03/01/17 17:57:52] Lame. LOL a lot of people cant even stand on your own two feet. Tell you what though, yes, I would say there are tons of deep seated desires behind my sexual fetishes. Do you legitimately think anyone who says they want to be worshiped by the people they fuck isnt a narcissist? You know what, I accept my flaws. It's cathartic and allows me to grow as a person. What I dont do is run away from the past experiences that have contributed to my present sexuality and then call everyone a bigot for observing them. "*Mike drop to you good sir* Why didn't you say that in the first place? There? See? Can we all be friends now? Miss C. | |||
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" Really do you honestly believe the drivel coming out of your mouth. The only shaming going on is from yourself going on and on how big women are easy... Now i actually think that your not alone in your assumptions... its one reason while i enjoy bbw bashes for catching up with friends.. I am very reluctant to play with guys at these events as I truly believe that many go with the attitude you seem to portray. Its also why it is rare I take compliments... but to actually base your opinions on 5 or 6 incidents.. well i have 18 years in this lifestyle. Go to clubs most weekends and sometimes more than once.. and worked at hosted events for many years. I am not entirely sure why you ask whether I believe what I say and then go onto to say Occassionally what you say maybe true of that person but its not the same for everyone x As said, its been my observation. You're entitle to disagree. But, oddly enough, you say you have run into that very attitude at the events you have gone to. Soooo...other than frequency, arent we in agreement??? Also, considering what you said about reluctance to play with certain attendees, I have a strong feeling you see where I am coming from. I think your attitude is a good one. I have heard larger swingers tell me that sometimes they felt cheapened and not shown the same respect as others because of their weight. Once again, this is purely an observation that I ALONE have witnessed. I think your observations may be due to the events you attend and your own attitude towards physical appearance. Have a look around the site at the slim women who have gang bangs-not the ones getting paid for them. Yeah there are...I think attitude tends to exist. But thats a completely different topic. Besides not really wanting to get into the whole topic. Its like the guy earlier said, there are plenty of psychological underpinnings behind many different sexual behaviors. This is pretty well established too. I personally found that some gangbangs seemed to be more about the woman involved getting off on the degradation and humiliation. But then the same can be said about cuckolds who like to be abused as they watch their wives/partners have sex. Its not really wrong, but I personally felt it was a little too toxic and debasing for my taste. Same way I have felt odd when couples insist on being belittled when involved in a cuckold threesome. This is the thing. No one has to approve of every pastime or sexual act you partake in. And you're perfectly entitled to think I am a prude/insecure/narcissist/douche/wanker for not approving of them. This isn't about approval. You seem to not have noticed that average, slim and underweight women indulge in gang bangs too. Yeah. You know I used to be fat myself. Years ago, when I was a teenager. I would attend these workshops and I learned that losing weight was thinking about the psychology of food rather than simply the food itself. Your body tends to be a physical manifestation of your conscious and subconcious self and, in many cases, overweight people tend to be so due to other psychological issues or unresolved feelings of self hate. However, not all people reflect such feelings through their body/their diet. I just found that, in cases were the gangbangs were more frantic (little eye for safe sex/a lack of hygiene or respect among the attendees), the women were more of an emotional wreck. Even the women I used to casually date who had gone on to get involved in bukkakees/gangbangs often had a lot of issues with poor self esteem that they were contending with. You see, the problem I have now is that people seem to becoming offended at my statements. Tends to make me think I am hitting a nerve." I don't see anyone saying they are offended. Are you,as a former fat person, projecting your insecurities onto other fat people, perchance? | |||
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"New question. Marilyn Monroe. Hardly Kate Moss. As a curvy girl was she desperate for sex or was she bonking the president of the USA? I suppose Kennedy was a desperate 12 year old who couldn't get a skinny girl. In your world." TBH that's a crap example, Marilyn Monroe was the equivalent of about a size 8 in today's sizes. | |||
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"What a genuine question OP but what sad sad uninformed opionated responses. It's these type of responses that vanilla people have.of swingers saying we must have unresolved issues and psychological trauma and the like. As for the weight thing. Oh dear. But I will say a fat person if they so choose to can loose weight. A person with a blinded bigoted nature will rarely change their ugly attitude. There are opinions and there r maybe put ur foot in your mouth before finger to keyboard moments! Sorry but we aren't uninformed or vanilla. As stated these opinions are based from years of active swinging across many clubs, parties etc. Stating that "the majority of women who enjoy gangbangs appear to be obese" isn't "bigoted", it's merely reporting our experience of how the scene works. Just because you don't like the truth, or it doesn't fit in with a politically correct world-view doesn't make it false. And besides there are plenty of people agreeing with it!
We aren't out to offend anyone, single anyone out or shame anyone. It's an explanation for the OP's quesiton as to why these women are insatiable. That's because it's a psychological need, not a physical one!
Wow! Your experience is the truth! I do not think so, as there plenty of other people with experiences that contradict yours, but as their experience contradict yours some how their experiences are not the truth. You have no idea what is going through the heads of people being gangbanged, there is no imperical evidence. You have cited no academic work on the psychology of gangbangs, you are not speaking the truth but a load of prejudices.
LOL, funnily enough. There is some "empirical" evidence that casual sex is only enjoyable if you're a "strong, narcisstic male"
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-2669057/Casual-sex-IS-good-self-esteem-youre-physically-strong-narcissistic-male.html
It is the Daily Mail though soooo...
As an educated man you would know one piece of research does not make evidence. Especially from a tabloid newspaper!
To be honest, there is a lot of data out there, from many respected journals. And thats in regards to the simple act of casual sex itself.
Depression and anxiety among swingers:
http://austinpublishinggroup.com/depression-anxiety/download.php?file=fulltext/depression-v3-id1079.pdf
Depression and anxiety from casual sex:
http://www.nhs.uk/news/2013/07July/Pages/Casual-sex-linked-to-depression-and-anxiety.aspx
Casual sex linked to suicidal thoughts:
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/sex/10463976/Casual-sex-linked-to-depression-and-suicidal-thoughts.html
I like wine, I like McDonalds, I like some extreme sports. I accept that there are potential pitfalls in all of them and the psychological reasonings behind consuming them or partking in them. What I dont do, is construct a false reality for myself where everything I do is wonderful and call anyone who criticizes me for partaking in those same things some judgemental cretin.
"That's good that you don't create a false reality for yourself. But you are not saying women that partake in gang bangs cretins. But you are assuming they have issues. My point is that although it's your opinion it's a opinion that is unjust and hurtful with no for sight in the implications of your opinion that at times should stay in your head. Your opinion is not research based it's just an opinion from your experience. That is just an opinion but 1 that is derogatory and you know it. Please consider that rather than continue on the vein | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 03/01/17 17:57:52] Lame. LOL a lot of people cant even stand on your own two feet. Tell you what though, yes, I would say there are tons of deep seated desires behind my sexual fetishes. Do you legitimately think anyone who says they want to be worshiped by the people they fuck isnt a narcissist? You know what, I accept my flaws. It's cathartic and allows me to grow as a person. What I dont do is run away from the past experiences that have contributed to my present sexuality and then call everyone a bigot for observing them. "You're full of it. First you say that your conclusions are OBSERVATIONS and then you say you don't go to clubs. There's nothing that suggests that you aren't actually a 12 year old troll. You have 5 pictures that could be anyone, nothing to prove you are what you say you are. You make assumptions about people you don't know and aren't many enough to admit when you're proved wrong. You have offended just about everyone except for people who are supposedly like you. You have obviously no respect for anyone least of all yourself or you wouldn't be embarrassing yourself like this. Oh and you can't follow logical argument. On the plus side you use big words like marmalade. Too bad no one likes you. | |||
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