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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have no problem with not being someone's type
Or people who have 'types'
But some profiles....
Must be 5ft 3
Must be hung
Must be libra
Must be this
Blah blah blah
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We all have our preferences. Many people, I guess, apply these preferences to the messages/winks/etc. they receive.
Stating those preferences in your profile is simply pre-filtering, this surely saves everyone involved time, effort and disappointment?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can be a libra"
Fabulous and bearded....you've made your profile a cock pic! (Not that I'm complaining) but it was refreshing to see your elusive pics from different angles that gave a glimpse but didn't quite show the whole thing |
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"I have no problem with not being someone's type
Or people who have 'types'
But some profiles....
Must be 5ft 3
Must be hung
Must be libra
Must be this
Blah blah blah
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Fantasy...people are allowed them. If their criteria is too stringent and they can't find what they want they may loosen them or leave.
Either way, not your concern really, is it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have no problem with not being someone's type
Or people who have 'types'
But some profiles....
Must be 5ft 3
Must be hung
Must be libra
Must be this
Blah blah blah
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I agree
You could be attracted to someone totally not your type
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"I have no problem with not being someone's type
Or people who have 'types'
But some profiles....
Must be 5ft 3
Must be hung
Must be libra
Must be this
Blah blah blah
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Its all women... They can pick and choose so much their profiles get outta hand* lol
*(completly just my opinion and I am more than likely completely wrong) |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"I have no problem with not being someone's type
Or people who have 'types'
But some profiles....
Must be 5ft 3
Must be hung
Must be libra
Must be this
Blah blah blah
"
crag lists was there a price next to a bill of service by any chance    |
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"I have no problem with not being someone's type
Or people who have 'types'
But some profiles....
Must be 5ft 3
Must be hung
Must be libra
Must be this
Blah blah blah
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It means you're not compatible therefore not each others type.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have no problem with not being someone's type
Or people who have 'types'
But some profiles....
Must be 5ft 3
Must be hung
Must be libra
Must be this
Blah blah blah
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Must message me with a face pic
If you message me I will kill you ....? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We all have our preferences. Many people, I guess, apply these preferences to the messages/winks/etc. they receive.
Stating those preferences in your profile is simply pre-filtering, this surely saves everyone involved time, effort and disappointment?!"
It might if they actually bothered to read profiles! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have no problem with not being someone's type
Or people who have 'types'
But some profiles....
Must be 5ft 3
Must be hung
Must be libra
Must be this
Blah blah blah
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When I read a profile like this.... I think this person has met all the suitable candidates in their area and now will have to start traveling |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I am grateful to people who take the time to describe exactly what they are looking for rather than finding out you're not compatible many messages later or even worse when you get to meet. For me, the more detail the better. Thanks ladies for taking the time to prevent me wasting mine! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have no problem with not being someone's type
Or people who have 'types'
But some profiles....
Must be 5ft 3
Must be hung
Must be libra
Must be this
Blah blah blah
Fantasy...people are allowed them. If their criteria is too stringent and they can't find what they want they may loosen them or leave.
Either way, not your concern really, is it?"
sorry
my mistake i thought this was a forum where stuff (anything)was discussed
99%of forum topics are not really anyones concern but hey
its good to talk
thank you for your valued opinion |
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"We all have our preferences. Many people, I guess, apply these preferences to the messages/winks/etc. they receive.
Stating those preferences in your profile is simply pre-filtering, this surely saves everyone involved time, effort and disappointment?!
It might if they actually bothered to read profiles!"
Ahh! Therein lies a problem!
Not much you can do about there terminally ignorant!
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"Personally I am grateful to people who take the time to describe exactly what they are looking for rather than finding out you're not compatible many messages later or even worse when you get to meet. For me, the more detail the better. Thanks ladies for taking the time to prevent me wasting mine! "
Was just having this conversation with my other half. He reckons some of the women are delusional on here with their big tick list. I argue it allows people to exclude themselves to avoid wasting time.
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"I have no problem with not being someone's type
Or people who have 'types'
But some profiles....
Must be 5ft 3
Must be hung
Must be libra
Must be this
Blah blah blah
Fantasy...people are allowed them. If their criteria is too stringent and they can't find what they want they may loosen them or leave.
Either way, not your concern really, is it?
sorry
my mistake i thought this was a forum where stuff (anything)was discussed
99%of forum topics are not really anyones concern but hey
its good to talk
thank you for your valued opinion"
Not a problem.
I'm happy to recognise I'm not everyone's cup of java and wouldn't want to come across petulant or entitled by highlighting how other members pick their playmates.
But each to their own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm extremely picky and if people don't like it, they can always message someone else.
I don't get as many meets as I'd like but I'd rather have a 'lady wank' than drop my standards! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm extremely picky and if people don't like it, they can always message someone else.
I don't get as many meets as I'd like but I'd rather have a 'lady wank' than drop my standards! "
Yep I'm with her! Not actually, cos them it would be classed as amutual lady wanking, but I'd much rather be super picky. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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I'm very fussy about who I meet and I make no apologies for it.
It means I don't get as much sex as I would like, but then it also allows me to look myself in the eyes, knowing I haven't compromised, it is also why toys were invented   |
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"I'm very fussy about who I meet and I make no apologies for it.
It means I don't get as much sex as I would like, but then it also allows me to look myself in the eyes, knowing I haven't compromised, it is also why toys were invented "
My hands and imagination are my toys
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"I'm looking for fun.
Generally those who have a stringent list of what they are looking for, are not fun.
But each to their own. "
Completely disagree. We're looking for something very specific and don't want to waste anyone's time messaging. We get what we want from the site and guess what? We are great fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm looking for fun.
Generally those who have a stringent list of what they are looking for, are not fun.
But each to their own.
Completely disagree. We're looking for something very specific and don't want to waste anyone's time messaging. We get what we want from the site and guess what? We are great fun "
No fun for him, he must mean |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why shouldn't people look for their fantasy on here? They're using it as a filter to narrow down who they hear from, saves them and you time.
Honestly even with a 20 point check list you'll still get people who either don't read or ignore it and chance their arm by sending a message. If you don't like it block the profile and move on. |
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By *haunMan
over a year ago
Halton |
"I'm looking for fun.
Generally those who have a stringent list of what they are looking for, are not fun.
But each to their own.
Completely disagree. We're looking for something very specific and don't want to waste anyone's time messaging. We get what we want from the site and guess what? We are great fun "
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Perfect reason.
It's my prerogative if I choose to ignore a list of wants / needs or specific interests.
A list helps me to make a reasonably informed decision if I am going to message or not?
If I am so off the mark to their requirements then why should I waste my time (and theirs) on a message that will either be deleted or I get blocked.
So I think it helps.
To those who think it is being picky or it won't be fun!
Unlucky.
It generally means that you fall short (and I have fell short on many occasion) to their requirements and what constitutes fun for them.
Leave the alone, don't worry about it and continue enjoying my time on Fab.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have no problem with not being someone's type
Or people who have 'types'
But some profiles....
Must be 5ft 3
Must be hung
Must be libra
Must be this
Blah blah blah
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Well I don't have a must for the other person what they must like tho is playing with cuddly Man and must loved being please thats it haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have no problem with not being someone's type
Or people who have 'types'
But some profiles....
Must be 5ft 3
Must be hung
Must be libra
Must be this
Blah blah blah
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I've got a picky list  but it's a useful filter. For those who read it, usually message me as we may have something in comment, and then I can see which ones haven't but having a quick look at their profile tells me we wouldn't have a chance of meeting.
I run my profile as I see fit, if it isn't liked, oh well. |
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"I'm looking for fun.
Generally those who have a stringent list of what they are looking for, are not fun.
But each to their own. "
I don't agree.
Just because I want a connection and not a string of odd meets doesn't mean I'm not looking for /that I'm not fun.
In fact the person who ticks all the boxes..who spends the time with me (as against just getting their rocks off!)
Well... they get to see some different sides to me that most definitely please ... |
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We do look and tend to pass those who state they are attractive and super thin and fit , because we have lumps and bumps and live in the real world . We do wonder if some might be better on a dating site. |
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Yes, no fun for me.
Even in the unlikely event that I fit through the filter, my feeling is that the meet will be organised and scripted, rather than relaxed.
I appreciate that it saves time by stopping honest but unsuitable contacts. But as an email I've received this week has been from a person who hasn't read or can't understand my profile, (straight male) I wonder how effective filters are. |
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"Yes, no fun for me.
Even in the unlikely event that I fit through the filter, my feeling is that the meet will be organised and scripted, rather than relaxed.
I appreciate that it saves time by stopping honest but unsuitable contacts. But as an email I've received this week has been from a person who hasn't read or can't understand my profile, (straight male) I wonder how effective filters are."
So block single males then! The site gives you the tools to use... |
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By *P_80Man
over a year ago
Waterford |
It's the name of the game buddy. Males compete, females choose. It's the same with almost every species of animal on the planet.
Ask yourself this; If you walked into a shop and there was a 20" TV and a 40" TV, both with the exact same features and quality, on sale for the exact same price, which one would you choose?
I know which one I'd take. The 20" will work fine but I'd get more enjoyment out of the 40".
Fab is the shop, males are the products on offer, and females and couples are the consumers.
I find it amazing that some men still can't grasp this concept. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's the name of the game buddy. Males compete, females choose. It's the same with almost every species of animal on the planet.
Ask yourself this; If you walked into a shop and there was a 20" TV and a 40" TV, both with the exact same features and quality, on sale for the exact same price, which one would you choose?
I know which one I'd take. The 20" will work fine but I'd get more enjoyment out of the 40".
Fab is the shop, males are the products on offer, and females and couples are the consumers.
I find it amazing that some men still can't grasp this concept."
Yes! Intelligence is an issue on here, I find.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You should be able to be picky plenty to chose from for a woman on here for a start. We are all not desperate l o l "
Lol...so true...like being in a sweet shop with lots of choice....and picking your most preferred  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You should be able to be picky plenty to chose from for a woman on here for a start. We are all not desperate l o l
Lol...so true...like being in a sweet shop with lots of choice....and picking your most preferred "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Different people are picky in different ways. For example we have no problem with smokers and no huge restriction on age or distance, whereas many others do.
Sure there's something for everyone. |
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