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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just curious if it is normal for a woman to cum everytime they are licked I thought it was! But my friend who got lucky New Year said he had trouble and always does?
I though it was normal for a woman to cum even more Han once? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It varies. What's normal for one woman isn't for another. Some will cum more than once, some won't. Some will cum through oral, some won't. Although if he's never made a lady cum though oral and he's had a few different women then I would question his technique!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just curious if it is normal for a woman to cum everytime they are licked I thought it was! But my friend who got lucky New Year said he had trouble and always does?
I though it was normal for a woman to cum even more Han once?"
I've never orgasmed from orgasm. I've occasionally made a woman orgasm from oral, but far from every time. If a man is insistent I used to fake it just to get it over with.
Women don't automatically orgasmed during sex. For many it can be quite hard. |
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I too have never orgasmed from oral and if done wrong, it can be quite painful as I am extremely sensitive. If done right, it's a very nice addition to the experience but it's never going to get me there.
My wife on the other hand, she rarely fails to cum in that way. We're all different. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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I have orgasmed through oral but it is rare, it usually takes me ages whatever so it was probably a combination of a good technique and the fact that he was a new lover. Everyone is different as has been said  |
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"Like others have said, everyone is different, and the fun is in finding what works!"
Exactly this! And the same goes for men receiving oral; we don't all cum this way (but we do enjoy you trying girls  ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think that most guys think that they are better at oral than they actually are and are pretty good at making the woman feel like it's her fault when she doesn't cum. The female orgasm is very much a state of mind as much as it is mechanical technique. Face if she isn't "feeling it" no matter what you do or how good you are it's not going to happen. |
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"Just curious if it is normal for a woman to cum everytime they are licked I thought it was! But my friend who got lucky New Year said he had trouble and always does?
I though it was normal for a woman to cum even more Han once?"
There is no normal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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it's rare i'll cum through oral because most guys don't spend enough time doing that for me to.
if i do cum it's unlikely i'll want to again. hardly any guys can keep me turned on but some have done. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is also the pressure to cum causing anxiety and having the opposite effect to what was hoped for. My advice to women who struggle to cum is don't worry about the orgasm. Lie back and enjoy. If he does do something right let him know. An experienced guy will be trying every trick he knows and gauging your reaction. If you don't give him feedback he won't know when he's getting it right. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think that most guys think that they are better at oral than they actually are "
Haha the truth in this! The more confident/cocky they are that their technique is the best the less likely I am to let them lick me out. I find most men go too strong for what I like, use too much sharp, poking tongue instead of kissing/stroking/sucking soft lips (theirs not mine).
"I've never orgasmed from orgasm. "
This lapsus made me giggle! "I orgasmed so hard it made me orgasm". |
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All women are different: what may work on some occasions with certain women, may not work for others. There's no one technique which will work for everyone.
Ask the lady what you can do for her, to hell her along her way. If it takes a while or doesn't happen, don't blame her (as a former male partner did!), let her enjoy the experience!?? |
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By *erminxWoman
over a year ago
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I never cum through penetration alone
Occasionally from oral, usually from oral & fingers, highly likely from oral & ass play
Not cumming does not mean bad sex, I actually love the prolonged horn, believe it's that causing my nympho tendencies  |
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"There is also the pressure to cum causing anxiety and having the opposite effect to what was hoped for. My advice to women who struggle to cum is don't worry about the orgasm. Lie back and enjoy. If he does do something right let him know. An experienced guy will be trying every trick he knows and gauging your reaction. If you don't give him feedback he won't know when he's getting it right."
And equally; this applies to women giving a guy oral sex. All sex play is a two-way street  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just curious if it is normal for a woman to cum everytime they are licked I thought it was! But my friend who got lucky New Year said he had trouble and always does?
I though it was normal for a woman to cum even more Han once?"
very unlikely for me with a meet that id orgasm... Doesn't mean i wont have a good time. And with oral it is very hard for me too unless im totally relaxed.. so tends to only happen with my partner |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think that most guys think that they are better at oral than they actually are
Haha the truth in this! The more confident/cocky they are that their technique is the best the less likely I am to let them lick me out. I find most men go too strong for what I like, use too much sharp, poking tongue instead of kissing/stroking/sucking soft lips (theirs not mine).
I've never orgasmed from orgasm.
This lapsus made me giggle! "I orgasmed so hard it made me orgasm"."
Men and women are very similar in this regard. If a woman sucks a man too vigorously before he's hard it can sometimes be painful. In the same way women need to get a "ladyboner" before one can lick harder. Some women will then complain they are being "tickled". I've found most women prefer it when one uses the flat of one's tongue rather than the tip. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It all depends on the technique for me. Oral is my favourite thing ever, and when done well I'll happily lie (or sit) for hours. I prefer it soft and repetitive than hard and erratic, and I don't always want fingers involved, sometimes it detracts from the sensation around the clit. If someone can make me orgasm through oral it's always really intense, everything goes hyper-sensitive so I can't have anything touch it for a couple of minutes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A women squirted in my mouth once (quite a lot) so I crawled up her body and spat it all over her tits/face. Was revenge for her tricking me in to snowballing my cum the day before |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think that most guys think that they are better at oral than they actually are
Haha the truth in this! The more confident/cocky they are that their technique is the best the less likely I am to let them lick me out. I find most men go too strong for what I like, use too much sharp, poking tongue instead of kissing/stroking/sucking soft lips (theirs not mine).
I've never orgasmed from orgasm.
This lapsus made me giggle! "I orgasmed so hard it made me orgasm".
Men and women are very similar in this regard. If a woman sucks a man too vigorously before he's hard it can sometimes be painful. In the same way women need to get a "ladyboner" before one can lick harder. Some women will then complain they are being "tickled". I've found most women prefer it when one uses the flat of one's tongue rather than the tip."
I have the tickling issue also haha. Guilty as charged - my boyfriend stops me often enough because I get carried away and suck too hard. I do stop though, unlike men who often cannot take instruction. I was impressed by what you wrote earlier (we cross posted so I saw it afterwards) that a man would try his bag of tricks and watch out for responses. I don't know if you have sex with men (on the receiving end) but in my experience the men who do this are few and far between. Add total strangers, some alcohol, and a night's tiredness to the mix - as per OP - and the chances of getting a cunnilingus tailored to suit fall to nil! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can orgasm from oral, not everytime but when I do its very intense and leaves me very sensitive so carrying on for another orgasm through oral is not going to work for me, doggy style after always works best for me for another orgasm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had never ever come from oral until I met my husband and I was quite reluctant to let people go down on me.
Matt was very persistant and when he did It was amazing!
I have met a few guys since who have made me cum but I think I needed someone to help me let myself go the first time!
Now I love it as much as possible! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love making a lady come with tongue...every lady is different tho you have to explore their beautiful bodies....the best I ever had was a bbw who loved to him with a tongue in her pussy and a finger up her bum....sooooo sexy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most of the women I have been with have cum through oral. Not every time and for some it was easier/quicker than others. Some didn't but they tended to be one off partners rather than regular, though that wasn't always the case. I guess some may have faked it, but for most their orgasms were unmistakable. That said oral was rarely the only thing we were doing.
However it is one of my favourite sexual activities  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never made a woman cum through oral alone but then I've never tried, I always have to get my fingers involved and that does the trick a lot of the time."
That's cheating. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never made a woman cum through oral alone but then I've never tried, I always have to get my fingers involved and that does the trick a lot of the time.
That's cheating."
That's why God gave us fingers. |
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Of course, different people could be talking about slightly different things. There is 'clitoral orgasm' which is short and not dissimilar to a mans orgasm - with associated loss in sexual interest, sensitivity etc. Every woman is different but some can reach this point very quickly. Oral is a great way to reach this point IMO.
The other is 'vaginal orgasm' which is more of a full-body orgasm and can for some women include an ejaculation (squirting) - it often takes a lot longer to reach and doesn't result in loss of sexual interest but nearly always requires specific internal manipulation which wouldn't be common via oral alone.
With the latter, there is a psychological factor also. Some women try to suppress the feeling of 'letting go' which can prevent the full range of physical effects from happening.
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"I've never made a woman cum through oral alone but then I've never tried, I always have to get my fingers involved and that does the trick a lot of the time."
Yeah that works! Has your chest dried yet?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've never made a woman cum through oral alone but then I've never tried, I always have to get my fingers involved and that does the trick a lot of the time.
Yeah that works! Has your chest dried yet? "
Remember. Breathe through your nose.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Of course, different people could be talking about slightly different things. There is 'clitoral orgasm' which is short and not dissimilar to a mans orgasm - with associated loss in sexual interest, sensitivity etc. Every woman is different but some can reach this point very quickly. Oral is a great way to reach this point IMO.
The other is 'vaginal orgasm' which is more of a full-body orgasm and can for some women include an ejaculation (squirting) - it often takes a lot longer to reach and doesn't result in loss of sexual interest but nearly always requires specific internal manipulation which wouldn't be common via oral alone.
With the latter, there is a psychological factor also. Some women try to suppress the feeling of 'letting go' which can prevent the full range of physical effects from happening.
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Yep, spot on. Clitoral ones are really intense, like a burst of energy with the clit as the focal point, whereas vaginal ones are felt through my entire body. I can go again and again after a vaginal orgasm, especially if i start squirting.
Do men really only have one type of orgasm? |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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All women are different. I can cum through oral if the guy is doing it right, I can also cum through penetrative sex if I am on top and take control - but men please note if I am in the middle of cumming please just let my body tell you when to stop briefly as things do get a little too bit sensitive, don't keep going like a jack hammer and give me time to recover.
However, if alcohol is involved, even just two glasses of wine, whist I thoroughly enjoy sex, my sensitivity goes and the chances of me cumming are zero, so again guys, please don't try and force the issue and just enjoy the current situation  |
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"Just curious if it is normal for a woman to cum everytime they are licked I thought it was! But my friend who got lucky New Year said he had trouble and always does?
I though it was normal for a woman to cum even more Han once?"
Watching too much porn? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Of course, different people could be talking about slightly different things. There is 'clitoral orgasm' which is short and not dissimilar to a mans orgasm - with associated loss in sexual interest, sensitivity etc. Every woman is different but some can reach this point very quickly. Oral is a great way to reach this point IMO.
The other is 'vaginal orgasm' which is more of a full-body orgasm and can for some women include an ejaculation (squirting) - it often takes a lot longer to reach and doesn't result in loss of sexual interest but nearly always requires specific internal manipulation which wouldn't be common via oral alone.
With the latter, there is a psychological factor also. Some women try to suppress the feeling of 'letting go' which can prevent the full range of physical effects from happening.
Yep, spot on. Clitoral ones are really intense, like a burst of energy with the clit as the focal point, whereas vaginal ones are felt through my entire body. I can go again and again after a vaginal orgasm, especially if i start squirting.
Do men really only have one type of orgasm?"
Nope prostate orgasms are different to the normal orgasms and more akin to the female vaginal orgasm. However you can't have them without the prostrate being massaged/stimulated |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just curious if it is normal for a woman to cum everytime they are licked I thought it was! But my friend who got lucky New Year said he had trouble and always does?
I though it was normal for a woman to cum even more Han once?"
that's like saying 'I thought it was normal for women to only like one legged men with one blue and one brown eye'  |
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"Just curious if it is normal for a woman to cum everytime they are licked I thought it was! But my friend who got lucky New Year said he had trouble and always does?
I though it was normal for a woman to cum even more Han once?
that's like saying 'I thought it was normal for women to only like one legged men with one blue and one brown eye' "
Haha I smell Bull from this post also. Quick girls run run to the guy who always makes girls cum  |
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"Just curious if it is normal for a woman to cum everytime they are licked I thought it was! But my friend who got lucky New Year said he had trouble and always does?
I though it was normal for a woman to cum even more Han once?"
Porn, again. Step away from the screen and do some reading. |
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