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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I use three sizes in the build up with my fuck buddy, going from small to the largest during extended foreplay. She's then ready to take me in her bum comfortably and with ease. I also plug her with a medium one afterwards to stop the cum leaking out if we're going for a post coital drink lol |
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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago
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"A couple of hours does me. Thinking of moving on to a remote control butt plug."
I have a Lovense Hush remote control plug and can really recommend them with various options for remote control either locally or apparently over longer distances although I haven't tried the later. |
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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago
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As far as how long I wear a plug for it depends on what I'm trying to achieve, I have some plugs which are only used directly during play. I do, however, have some plugs which are used for longer sessions, these tend to have broad necks and are designed for stretching. |
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I tend to use for no more an hour, love it flicked with finger (like subunit) while in place, sends vibration through you. After an bout I tend to cum, which the intensity of which is heighten with but plug in. Alternatively I take out and get pegged or .... |
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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago
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"OK so a couple of hours tops. You don't recommend I go out for the evening wearing one then. ???"
I know a lot of fetishist folk who were anal stretching rings for a lot longer than that but this is quiet often linked with incontenence play, where the goal is to use a plug with a wide neck so that the sphincter muscles get adjusted to being more open.
With narrower necked plugs this shouldn't happen and I think the main issue would be keeping it lubricated so that you can sensibly extract it afterwards.
The section below was copied from the sheppardexprees website:
"There is a general consensus among sexuality educators that wearing a plug for 10-12 hours should cause no harm, as long as the user follows the general rules of anal play: Use lubricant, go slow and pay attention to your body's signals. If you are interested in wearing a plug for hours at a time, it's best to work up to this by gradually leaving the plug in place for longer and longer periods each time you wear it—don't try to go for 10 hours on the first attempt. Also, if you are experiencing pain or discomfort, remove the plug, even if it means that you don't reach your goal.
It's always important to use lube during anal play, but this is even more important when wearing a plug for a long period of time. Water-based lubricants will eventually dry up or be absorbed by the body and should be reapplied to prevent discomfort and chafing from the plug. Silicone lubricants will stay slippery longer, but can't be used with silicone toys, and I definitely would NOT recommend anything but silicone, glass or metal for extended anal wear, since toys not made from these materials can contain toxic chemicals that could cause irritation if they're in contact with your skin for a long period of time.
The type of plug you choose will also affect your comfort and thus your ability to wear it for extended periods of time. Plugs with a base that fits comfortably between your cheeks will be easy to wear while sitting, standing or walking, and plugs with a narrower neck and thicker top will be easier for your body to keep inside. You may need to experiment with a few different types to see which one is most comfortable for you.
Finally, be prepared for unexpected interruptions. Inserting a butt plug can cause peristalsis, which is the reflexive muscle action that moves matter through the digestive tract. In other words, you may need to poop, and you may need to poop suddenly. Think ahead about bathroom access if you'll be wearing a plug while out and about. Also, even though you've been able to wear a plug for four hours on one occasion does not mean that you'll always be able to do this with comfort. Take a plastic resealable baggie with you in case you need to remove the plug while away from home, and don't worry that you've "failed" somehow—sometimes our bodies can't do everything we want them to do."
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