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"I go to work out and tone up. I get all sweaty and red faced and curly hair - perving on men is the last thing on my mind." And great you look, good job  | |||
"Mainly to work out but there's a lot of wonderful looking women of all ages in mine so, it's hard not to. Not sure why you're turning the question onto me though?" Because your question seems to suggest that women are more likely to go to the gym just to check men out that actually seriously lift. It's a common problem - women are often not taken seriously in the gym by blokes. | |||
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"Personally I go to the gym with one purpose. I'm not there to flirt, perv or even talk if I can help it. Women generally don't want to be perved on in the gym in my experience and I imagine it puts a lot of women off going." I certainly cover myself up and wear baggy clothes because I find it really, really, really uncomfortable when guys look at me in the gym. | |||
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"Some people get so touchy on here. Don't take life too seriously "Welcome to the forums  | |||
"Personally I go to the gym with one purpose. I'm not there to flirt, perv or even talk if I can help it. Women generally don't want to be perved on in the gym in my experience and I imagine it puts a lot of women off going. I certainly cover myself up and wear baggy clothes because I find it really, really, really uncomfortable when guys look at me in the gym." You must be the exception these days. | |||
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"I don't go to the gym to look at men. I feel that would be very shallow. If there's someone attractive there, I might notice, but that would be the same anywhere. It's rude to stare, so I don't. " I just know that some do, obviously all the women on fab forums are too classy for any such nonsense  | |||
"Personally I go to the gym with one purpose. I'm not there to flirt, perv or even talk if I can help it. Women generally don't want to be perved on in the gym in my experience and I imagine it puts a lot of women off going. I certainly cover myself up and wear baggy clothes because I find it really, really, really uncomfortable when guys look at me in the gym."  I do the same. I'm not there to give a man a semi, I'm there to try and get healthier and fitter. Also, I don't like tight gymwear generally. And if a man tries approaching me to flirt whilst I'm at the gym, he's guaranteed to get a polite not interested. | |||
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"I'm definitely only there to work out and nothing more. I find it incredibly uncomfortable if someone is watching." Aside the price, that's why I don't go to the gym, but rather working at home or in a secluded area of my garden. | |||
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"I don't go to the gym to look at men. I feel that would be very shallow. If there's someone attractive there, I might notice, but that would be the same anywhere. It's rude to stare, so I don't. I just know that some do, obviously all the women on fab forums are too classy for any such nonsense "I'm only speaking for myself, not all the women, I don't doubt there are some that do. As another lady says above, I'm there for a reason and by the time I leave I'm a sweaty mess, which I like. For myself, I don't see it as a flirting opportunity, others might. | |||
"I go in an attempt to look nice when naked but nothing wrong with having a perm along the way "And nice you look | |||
"I don't go to the gym to look at men. I feel that would be very shallow. If there's someone attractive there, I might notice, but that would be the same anywhere. It's rude to stare, so I don't. I just know that some do, obviously all the women on fab forums are too classy for any such nonsense
I don't get why women are so distraught by the way they look after the gym, the best thing is the women who work there ass off and the sweatiness in a strange way is part of the attraction. Guys like myself who genuinely go to train hard as a priority appreciate women who bust a gut as opposed to the women who leave like they've just come out of a salon
I'm only speaking for myself, not all the women, I don't doubt there are some that do. As another lady says above, I'm there for a reason and by the time I leave I'm a sweaty mess, which I like. For myself, I don't see it as a flirting opportunity, others might. " | |||
"Is it not border line hypocrisy though posting complete nudity on this site and giving men masturbation material but not like being appreciated in the gym whilst wearing clothing? As I say, i appreciate women in the most minimal and subtle manner possible in the gym but I also respect that some guys can take a step too far" You asked what peoples' motivation was for attending the gym; I would say it is highly unlikely that the motivation for being on Fab is comparable. I certainly didn't join fab and post photos in order to maintain and improve my level of fitness. However, that is why I joined the gym. Real life and fab life, quite different for some people. | |||
"I go in an attempt to look nice when naked but nothing wrong with having a perm along the way
And nice you look"That's kind thank you.. Recent pic shows a clear neglect of the gym so back to perving... I mean working out | |||
"I don't go to the gym to look at men. I feel that would be very shallow. If there's someone attractive there, I might notice, but that would be the same anywhere. It's rude to stare, so I don't. I just know that some do, obviously all the women on fab forums are too classy for any such nonsense
I'm only speaking for myself, not all the women, I don't doubt there are some that do. As another lady says above, I'm there for a reason and by the time I leave I'm a sweaty mess, which I like. For myself, I don't see it as a flirting opportunity, others might. "I don't get why women are so distraught by the way they look after the gym, the best thing is the women who work there ass off and the sweatiness in a strange way is part of the attraction. Guys like myself who genuinely go to train hard as a priority appreciate women who bust a gut as opposed to the women who leave like they've just come out of a salon | |||
"Is it not border line hypocrisy though posting complete nudity on this site and giving men masturbation material but not like being appreciated in the gym whilst wearing clothing? As I say, i appreciate women in the most minimal and subtle manner possible in the gym but I also respect that some guys can take a step too far You asked what peoples' motivation was for attending the gym; I would say it is highly unlikely that the motivation for being on Fab is comparable. I certainly didn't join fab and post photos in order to maintain and improve my level of fitness. However, that is why I joined the gym. Real life and fab life, quite different for some people. " Sorry I can't argue with you. You're unbelievable | |||
"Is it not border line hypocrisy though posting complete nudity on this site and giving men masturbation material but not like being appreciated in the gym whilst wearing clothing? As I say, i appreciate women in the most minimal and subtle manner possible in the gym but I also respect that some guys can take a step too far" No, not hypocritical at all. I'm not at the gym to have sex, I'm there to work out. I'm not here to work out, I'm here to have sex. Just as I'd find it unprofessional if people hit on me at work, I find it pretty gross when people hit on me at the gym. | |||
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"Zzz" Sorry... are people ruining your fantasy that women are mostly at the gym to check you out?  | |||
"I don't go to the gym to look at men. I feel that would be very shallow. If there's someone attractive there, I might notice, but that would be the same anywhere. It's rude to stare, so I don't. I just know that some do, obviously all the women on fab forums are too classy for any such nonsense
I'm only speaking for myself, not all the women, I don't doubt there are some that do. As another lady says above, I'm there for a reason and by the time I leave I'm a sweaty mess, which I like. For myself, I don't see it as a flirting opportunity, others might.
I don't get why women are so distraught by the way they look after the gym, the best thing is the women who work there ass off and the sweatiness in a strange way is part of the attraction. Guys like myself who genuinely go to train hard as a priority appreciate women who bust a gut as opposed to the women who leave like they've just come out of a salon"Gosh I'm not distraught about it. I think what we're trying to say is there's a separation of fablife and outside life. I didn't join a gym to look at fit men. I do that here. I don't dress for men in the gym. I do here (not stockings though lol). I bloody love leaving the gym a mess! I also love getting in a sweaty mess with a fit, sexy man in the bedroom. Make no mistake I utterly appreciate a fit body and the work that goes into it and have no hesitation inviting these guys to my bedroom, but outside of the naughty side of things I would feel rude, and disrespectful ogling young men in my gym. | |||
"Zzz Sorry... are people ruining your fantasy that women are mostly at the gym to check you out? "I doubt that the men are either. | |||
"Zzz Sorry... are people ruining your fantasy that women are mostly at the gym to check you out? "Not at all you clearly have no understanding of what I'm saying. Why even comment on the post when it's not about 'who hates being perved on in the gym'. It was never a reflection on myself and it was aimed at people are openly happy to admit it. Not for people who hate it or certain people to crawl out there holes who feel they must have a say on everything | |||
"Zzz Sorry... are people ruining your fantasy that women are mostly at the gym to check you out?
Not at all you clearly have no understanding of what I'm saying. Why even comment on the post when it's not about 'who hates being perved on in the gym'. It was never a reflection on myself and it was aimed at people are openly happy to admit it. Not for people who hate it or certain people to crawl out there holes who feel they must have a say on everything "Your opening question doesn't make it clear you only want to hear from ladies who admit they joined a gym to look at fit men. However, it's a forum intended for open discussion and that will happen regardless. Do you think your last sentence is acceptable? | |||
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"Some people get so touchy on here. Don't take life too seriously "Well said. Fab seems to bring out the angry side in some folk, swinging is supposed to be fun and a bit of an escape from day to day life! | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 30/12/16 11:52:58]" They aren't though. If women think men are constantly perving and staring at them, it either A : self flattery, or B : delusion. Whatever buoys the ego I suppose. | |||
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"Is it not border line hypocrisy though posting complete nudity on this site and giving men masturbation material but not like being appreciated in the gym whilst wearing clothing? As I say, i appreciate women in the most minimal and subtle manner possible in the gym but I also respect that some guys can take a step too far" No it's not hypocrisy. just because a woman or man wants to flash the flesh on here and be perved on here it doesn't mean she/he wants that in daily life. Getting the most out of thof gym requires concentration which must be difficult when guys/girls are drooling on the squat rack. | |||
" I rarely if ever speak to anyone in the gym and to avoid people asking me pointless questions, I have my headphones on the minute I walk in, do my work out and leave. " Some guys pester you until you take the headphones off. If punching people wasn't an offence... | |||
" I rarely if ever speak to anyone in the gym and to avoid people asking me pointless questions, I have my headphones on the minute I walk in, do my work out and leave. Some guys pester you until you take the headphones off. If punching people wasn't an offence..." If punching people wasn't an offense and you punched a man who is far larger and stronger than you, I don't think you could handle the reciprocated blow. | |||
"If you struggled to understand it then hopefully I've just cleared it up for you. It was a light hearted question in any case" Thank you for the clarification. I had also originally intended to be light hearted. | |||
" I rarely if ever speak to anyone in the gym and to avoid people asking me pointless questions, I have my headphones on the minute I walk in, do my work out and leave. Some guys pester you until you take the headphones off. If punching people wasn't an offence... If punching people wasn't an offense and you punched a man who is far larger and stronger than you, I don't think you could handle the reciprocated blow." You had a point for a while. But sadly it has diminished into childishness. Some people like to keep their sex lives in certain areas and are entitled to do that. However people are entitled to look at someone attractive and think they are attractive. It is also the case that some people find the existence of men near them to be singularly unacceptable and threatening. It does appear that some people are in the unfortunate position of not being able to walk down the road without being violated in one way or another. It is certain people only and their personality types often share similarities. That's their prerogative and we need to let all comers get by. Unfortunately it can distill itself into childish comments as above or very subtle misandry/misogyny where the perpetrator feels utterly justified and will never realise what they are doing. If you like seeing pretty people in the gym, go for it. But don't be unreasonably off putting as that is not why people go to the gym. But you are entitled to look and enjoy the sight. As are women's and I know for a fact that plenty do. | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 30/12/16 12:18:55]" Auld Lang Syne* It is a Scottish folk song. Nothing to do with Quakers. Also if you read my post you will find I was actually arguing your point for a great portion of it. But where you resorted to childish "I can punch harder than you" shite I criticised you. As you said, this is a forum, it is open to all. | |||
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" I rarely if ever speak to anyone in the gym and to avoid people asking me pointless questions, I have my headphones on the minute I walk in, do my work out and leave. Some guys pester you until you take the headphones off. If punching people wasn't an offence... If punching people wasn't an offense and you punched a man who is far larger and stronger than you, I don't think you could handle the reciprocated blow." Cool story bro. | |||
"Is it not border line hypocrisy though posting complete nudity on this site and giving men masturbation material but not like being appreciated in the gym whilst wearing clothing? As I say, i appreciate women in the most minimal and subtle manner possible in the gym but I also respect that some guys can take a step too far" Isn't it a matter of "time and place" though? | |||
"To steer the thread in an agreeable direction, I'd say I go to the gym to work out and that's it! I rarely if ever speak to anyone in the gym and to avoid people asking me pointless questions, I have my headphones on the minute I walk in, do my work out and leave. Sometimes I see attractive women in the gym and I glance and then back to my workout. I would hate it if someone stared at me in the gym as an object of lust, which women possibly get often and which spoils the experience for women. I find that it is very easy to see women's point of view on things like that if you just put yourself in their shoes. Imagine if your whole existence is judged through the prism of the size of your arse, tits and body and eveywhere you go, you are continuously stared at and objectified. I know I would hate that very much. Once you get that, you can see where some of the above comments are coming from." | |||
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"Alot of people talk big game about how serious they take the gym...amusingly enough the results never seem to reflect that. You WILL be perved at in the gym. The laws of pheromones and testosterone's release during physical activity make that inevitable. I've fucked women I met in the gym..hell, Ive had sex in the gym numerous times. Never really stopped me from taking the gym seriously. This idea that the gym is this ultra serious place strictly for people to work out has always struck me as a little amusing. It always seems to cover for the fact that people are often terrible at communicating with others without the help of alcohol or the protection of anonymity of the internet. I actually think its a great place to meet people of the opposite sex. In that scenario the "perving" is inevitable. Everyone claims the gym is not the place to meet people until some hot guy/pretty lady gives them the time of day." Well said! | |||
"Alot of people talk big game about how serious they take the gym...amusingly enough the results never seem to reflect that. You WILL be perved at in the gym. The laws of pheromones and testosterone's release during physical activity make that inevitable. I've fucked women I met in the gym..hell, Ive had sex in the gym numerous times. Never really stopped me from taking the gym seriously. This idea that the gym is this ultra serious place strictly for people to work out has always struck me as a little amusing. It always seems to cover for the fact that people are often terrible at communicating with others without the help of alcohol or the protection of anonymity of the internet. I actually think its a great place to meet people of the opposite sex. In that scenario the "perving" is inevitable. Everyone claims the gym is not the place to meet people until some hot guy/pretty lady gives them the time of day." Quite a few hot guys have given me the time of day in the gym - it's not the place for me to meet people as I use it to stop myself being the size I was. So I don't feel aroused at the gym, just bloody aching and tired. And as for the results? Size 28 to a 16 is fucking good going so yeah, I'll keep taking it seriously whilst you fuck the other women there. | |||
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"Personally I go to the gym with one purpose. I'm not there to flirt, perv or even talk if I can help it. Women generally don't want to be perved on in the gym in my experience and I imagine it puts a lot of women off going." Agree H | |||
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"Out of those ladies who go.. Who go mainly to have a perve on muscley gents, or go for proper reasons but happily enjoy the eye candy that they find? It's hard to catch women in the act because they hide it so well unlike us gentleman "I go for proper reasons but like to watch them pumping the iron...and mirrors everywhere make it much easier to do that! | |||
"Out of those ladies who go.. Who go mainly to have a perve on muscley gents, or go for proper reasons but happily enjoy the eye candy that they find? It's hard to catch women in the act because they hide it so well unlike us gentleman "I go to actually work out. I'm usually a sweaty mess and too focused on form and how heavy the weights are ha ha. Although I have to admit, I love working out with Adam so I can perve on him. I just stand open mouthed and watch his sweat covered muscles glisten and pump.
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"I find women a distraction. That's why I train at a backstreet gym with no women members " What are those gyms like? I want to start lifting weights and l also would prefer no women. | |||
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I'll also say I'm not a body beautiful in a traditional sense, I'm a size 24, massive stomach, huge hanging breasts and scars all over me, but I am body confident none the less, where as I think many many women see too many of their flaws to appreciate their beauty, and the gym can highlight these flaws and diminish that confidence even more.
I feel the OP has taken a bit of a bashing here, and I don't think it's fair. I've had some very body beautiful female friends who have gone to the gym to pull. They would do a full head of makeup, style their hair and make sure they never broke a sweat, hell one was even able to go for a swim and still look like she was about to go on a date! There were about 5 of them that would do the same, to be honest I think they were embarrassed by me and my determination to turn my face the same shade as my hair... That said though, they were lovely girls, all scientists who were bright and articulate, they just knew what they wanted and good on them, because each and every one of them got it. So OP, yes there are loads of women who go to perve on men, and there are loads who don't wish to be seen as sexual creature at those times, and there are some of us who genuinely don't care one way or the other. I bet there's a million and one other varieties too!
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"The best muscle can't be enhanced in any gym... The brain!!!" The brain is not a muscle. | |||
"The best muscle can't be enhanced in any gym... The brain!!! The brain is not a muscle." Stop being facetious.. | |||
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"The best muscle can't be enhanced in any gym... The brain!!! The brain is not a muscle. Stop being facetious.." I am not. The brain is not a muscle. Nothing facetious about it. The brain is not a muscle. It is a different thing. Additionally you do learn in the gym. You learn a great many things. | |||
"The best muscle can't be enhanced in any gym... The brain!!!" So where else have I learned about how specific types of hypertrophy training affect my physique, how tracking my macronutrients can determine my strength and energy levels on any given day, how to lift with correct form for maximum benefits and minimum risk of injury. You also learn a lot about yourself, are you someone who pushes yourself to your limits to achieve a goal or do you quit when it gets hard or when progress stalls. I understand the point you're trying to make but not everyone who works out is a stereotypical meat head. I've learned a great deal from my time in the gym and continue to learn each time I go. | |||
"The best muscle can't be enhanced in any gym... The brain!!! So where else have I learned about how specific types of hypertrophy training affect my physique, how tracking my macronutrients can determine my strength and energy levels on any given day, how to lift with correct form for maximum benefits and minimum risk of injury. You also learn a lot about yourself, are you someone who pushes yourself to your limits to achieve a goal or do you quit when it gets hard or when progress stalls. I understand the point you're trying to make but not everyone who works out is a stereotypical meat head. I've learned a great deal from my time in the gym and continue to learn each time I go." .. Eve. X | |||
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"Some people get so touchy on here. Don't take life too seriously "We're all allowed to reply as we wish | |||
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"thats brilliant weight loss,a big well done to you,ive gone from a size 22 to an 18 ,i also go to the gym only to work out,ive no time for meeting people there only working my butt off ." Message me please, have a question | |||
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"I go to the gym to keep / get fit. I'm not interested in perving, but occasionally I've noticed guys staring at my boobs. Nita " I can look at mine all I want and be called a pervert  | |||
"Out of those ladies who go.. Who go mainly to have a perve on muscley gents, or go for proper reasons but happily enjoy the eye candy that they find? It's hard to catch women in the act because they hide it so well unlike us gentleman "No sorry absolutely no interest in the guys but I might notice a nice lady come in  | |||
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. I am primarily there to workout and once I've finished my cardio I look God awful, but whilst I'm moving around between exercises fit people do catch my eye the same way they would if I was out and about. Just as long as you aren't staring or following people around the gym I don't see the harm. I wouldn't ever make anyone feel uncomfortable. | |||
"I go to work out and tone up. I get all sweaty and red faced and curly hair - perving on men is the last thing on my mind." I walk in. I do my work out. I get all sweaty. And mean looking. I walk out knackered. No time to loose. | |||
"I go to work out and tone up. I get all sweaty and red faced and curly hair - perving on men is the last thing on my mind. I walk in. I do my work out. I get all sweaty. And mean looking. I walk out knackered. No time to loose. "As it should be | |||
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"Never been a gym in my life. Or have I took supplements. Train hard everyday. You don't need to go the gym. Run. Calinetics and eat propley. That's it. Saying that you all look fabulous..And when I train at home I do have fitness women on my YouTube channel. Something about them love bums in them leggings that makes a workout much easier.. "That's disgusting. You can only find women attractive when you have written permission from them. | |||
"Never been a gym in my life. Or have I took supplements. Train hard everyday. You don't need to go the gym. Run. Calinetics and eat propley. That's it. Saying that you all look fabulous..And when I train at home I do have fitness women on my YouTube channel. Something about them love bums in them leggings that makes a workout much easier..
That's disgusting. You can only find women attractive when you have written permission from them."That's right. Disgusting. | |||
"Never been a gym in my life. Or have I took supplements. Train hard everyday. You don't need to go the gym. Run. Calinetics and eat propley. That's it. Saying that you all look fabulous..And when I train at home I do have fitness women on my YouTube channel. Something about them love bums in them leggings that makes a workout much easier..
That's disgusting. You can only find women attractive when you have written permission from them.
That's right. Disgusting."And permission from who. It's free on YouTube. And I find most women attractive specially the naughty ones. | |||
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"Let me turn the question around. Do you go to the gym to perv on people or to work out?" Me? Both. 2 birds with one stone | |||
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"I find groups of women are the worst. All the gear and no idea. Just stand there gossiping and watching " | |||
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"Being a fat bird in the gym, sweating my wobbly arse off on the treadmill, I doubt anyone perves on me. The only looks I get are ones of disgust. And I don't go to perve on others either, I pop in my headphones and just try not to die lmao " I doubt they look in disgust. More in respect. At least your the one there training. | |||
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"Never been a gym in my life. Or have I took supplements. Train hard everyday. You don't need to go the gym. Run. Calinetics and eat propley. That's it. Saying that you all look fabulous..And when I train at home I do have fitness women on my YouTube channel. Something about them love bums in them leggings that makes a workout much easier..
That's disgusting. You can only find women attractive when you have written permission from them.
That's right. Disgusting.
And permission from who.
It's free on YouTube. And I find most women attractive specially the naughty ones. "Dickhead | |||
"Out of those ladies who go.. Who go mainly to have a perve on muscley gents, or go for proper reasons but happily enjoy the eye candy that they find? It's hard to catch women in the act because they hide it so well unlike us gentleman "I have just restarted after 18 months away. I always have a look to see who is there. Muscle bound men are not my thing. I'd perve the softer guys with a bit of a tum ?? Mrs _d40 | |||
