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What do you think, fems 1st bi experience
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Me and the misses have been chatting about swinging for well over 2 years now and are ready to start meeting people in the next few weeks. You see mrs average is abit shy when it comes to this as sometimes she thinks that its not right to be doing this but when we talk about it then she gets turned on like never before.
We have discusted about meeting guys for 3sums and she is well happy with this just as long as they are good looking and VWE, this i dont have a problem with and infact its a real turn on for me and i cant wait for it to happen.
Weve also discusted her sleeping with women ,at the start she was'nt to keen on the idea but after chating about why she wouldnt, then she came to relaise that it was society making her think like this.
We starting watching porn which really turns her on now but when we put lesbian porn on with girls kissing and having good hot sex, then she got turned on like never before. I honestly havent seen her so horned up in all the years ive been with her(11). She even let me fell her vanny and it was soaking wet and now she wants to have her first bi experience but she's really nervous and is afraid of letting the other fem down and not being able to please her properly.
We are now going to start swinging for real now and even thinking about it ,its really turned us both on. We've agreed that we can meet single guys for 3sums, cples with bi-fem so the wife can play and if the guy would like to join in with my wife then im well fine with this. She isnt to happy with me playing with other women(for now,lol.)but im fine with this because i really want to see my wife enjoy herself like never before.
Can we hear of stories of some bi-fems and their first experience and how you felt before and after your first kiss/sex with another women. How did you feel preforming infront of your husband for the first time and do you really enjoy it, whats the best moments and how different is it from sleeping with men.
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
Livingston |
just my own opinion, but as this is your first "foray" into swinging it may be an idea for you to go to a club and socially interact with other swingers, as a way of easing yourself into the scene, then progress to soft swap as opposed to diving head first (excuse the pun) into full play/swapping.
The first time doing anything new can be a bit daunting.
Good luck and happy times to you both x |
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The north of ireland is a really small place and we would like to keep this as private as possible, dont think we would go to a swinging club just yet. We would rather meet a cple for drinks before we could set foot into a swing club in the north. We were thinking of going to glasgow and heading to cjs some night but only really chatted about this once or twice |
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its always nerve racking meeting new ppl especially when you know what u might be meeting for,maybe just meet for socials to see how ur missus gets on with the woman and if she could see herself doing anything with her.has she ever kissed a woman before?
i wasnt really nervous when i went with a woman when we first started swinging coz id already kissed a few women when i was younger so i knew i liked women and it just doubley confirmed it for me.And my best time was evertime apart from one where she nearly bit my clit off haha,but you just have to talk about what you like and stop the person doing things that you are not liking,its all about being vocal.
you just need to take things slowly  |
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
Livingston |
my apologies, I never actually noticed you were in Ireland.
In that case, might be worth checking in the meets and events section to see if there is anything happening in your area.
Failing that...... move to Scotland  |
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Start slowly meet couples face to face socially for a drink and a chat and build up slowly at your wifes pace. Dont push her to far she may get scared off. Check meets and events in your area or post a meet there yourself and good luck and welcome to fabs |
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Weve also discusted her sleeping with women ,at the start she was'nt to keen on the idea but after chating about why she wouldnt, then she came to relaise that it was society making her think like this.
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society? or you?? |
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We are both new to this , thought about it for years and we eventually took the the plunge three weeks ago , and love it!!
