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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"I'm failing to understand how does skin colour become a sexual preference? I see some profiles they say Black only, Asian only and White only.  "
Same way as sexual orientation, height, weight, attractiveness, age does
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OP for a lot of people skin colour is a preference. There are just as many profiles which say BBC only as there are those that say no blacks or Asians.
There's nothing you can do about it if you don't match with someone's preferences, just look for others who you do match with. |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
Leeds |
I have a weird ass theory that it has something to do with what you were exposed to as a pubescent. Not in a sexual way, obviously, that's ick.
For me, I went to an all girls school that was diverse - skin colour has zero part in my attraction to women, I like all types with petite and lithe being my particular preference. However, where I grew up was very rural and predominantly white. As in, all white. So the guys I grew up around were all white and I find I'm not attracted to anythig else. Nothing against it, I just haven't met a single asian, black or east asian guy that I find attractive, despite having spent a considerable number of my adult years living in asian or black Somali areas.
It's weird, but I don't worry my head about it too much.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think it's literally the colour of skin. I've noticed a lot of women say they find black men attractive but are not attracted to Asian men. Yet an Asian person could have the same or similar skin colour as someone of Afrocaribean origin. People are attracted to or not attracted to how someone of a certain race looks, but the shade of skin is only part of the physical features that are typical of certain races. So no I don't think it's skin colour that influences people's preferences. That being said we would not put a racial preference on our profile, as we would rather look at the individual and decide if we fancy them or not.
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I have a weird ass theory that it has something to do with what you were exposed to as a pubescent. Not in a sexual way, obviously, that's ick.
For me, I went to an all girls school that was diverse - skin colour has zero part in my attraction to women, I like all types with petite and lithe being my particular preference. However, where I grew up was very rural and predominantly white. As in, all white. So the guys I grew up around were all white and I find I'm not attracted to anythig else. Nothing against it, I just haven't met a single asian, black or east asian guy that I find attractive, despite having spent a considerable number of my adult years living in asian or black Somali areas.
It's weird, but I don't worry my head about it too much.
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I've spent nearly all my formative years in York, which has a very small ethnic population. I find black and Asian men extremely attractive.
I think, like most things on here, it's just preference. Some may have latent racism to deal with, but it's mostly just that we like what we see. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you for your contributions. I'm not worried or bothered by it. I kinda get the height etc aspects of sex just not the colour thing. I guess there's more to sex than just sex.  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Thank you for your contributions. I'm not worried or bothered by it. I kinda get the height etc aspects of sex just not the colour thing. I guess there's more to sex than just sex. "
I'm just stunned you've been on this site for 3 months and not come across it before. It's a constant forum subject. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You can't help what you do or don't like.
There'll be men out there that would love to bed me yet ones who can't imagine anything worse "
There are also women out there that would love to get their hands on you too...just saying. 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm failing to understand how does skin colour become a sexual preference? I see some profiles they say Black only, Asian only and White only. "
I only find white men attractive due to my penchant for blue/green eyes and chiselled features.
My pal is a sucker for oriental women and my other pal on here loves big black women.
It's totally a sexual preference. Always has and always will, for some. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What has my username got anything to do with it? Is it to much that I ask an honest question to find out what other people about a particular subject. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What has my username got anything to do with it? Is it to much that I ask an honest question to find out what other people about a particular subject. "
Everything. Why even mention it if you don't think it's a selling point to some? |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"What has my username got anything to do with it? Is it to much that I ask an honest question to find out what other people about a particular subject. "
Why not WHITEstead? Is it because you are Black and wanted to advertise that fact
Considering that, your query sounds hollow |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"What has my username got anything to do with it? Is it to much that I ask an honest question to find out what other people about a particular subject. "
When a black guy draws attention to his blackness, some people might be confused as to how he has got his far on Fab without understanding the difference in opinion about skin colour. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Actually My username is just a coincidence it came from a movie "black night" I use to watch. I choose to use to show that I have stamina more than anything not the colour of my skin.
I have gotten far by processing and come to my own conclusions. I wanted to know what other people about it. Those who understood my question have answered it properly. Of how they personally come to prefer either or the other. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Actually My username is just a coincidence it came from a movie "black night" I use to watch. I choose to use to show that I have stamina more than anything not the colour of my skin.
I have gotten far by processing and come to my own conclusions. I wanted to know what other people about it. Those who understood my question have answered it properly. Of how they personally come to prefer either or the other. "
Everyone understands the question, being a common and simple theme on Fab.
Maybe you don't like some answers more than others. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Actually My username is just a coincidence it came from a movie "black night" I use to watch. I choose to use to show that I have stamina more than anything not the colour of my skin.
I have gotten far by processing and come to my own conclusions. I wanted to know what other people about it. Those who understood my question have answered it properly. Of how they personally come to prefer either or the other. "
Well, you have some seriously nice pics, whatever the motivation for your username. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To solve this racist problem I continue to read on this forum .... I suggest we have a free pass swingers day.
On this day all the women who only like to have sex with BBC , must have sex with any non black man that messages them.
The same for women who only like to play with white men only, you have to have sex with any non white man that messages you.
All the women can be blindfolded if need be or you can suggest the men wear a bag over their heads.
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We can skip over the profiles that don't match what we are looking for.
I personally add every profile that says white only to my hotlist. They have the best status updates  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"To solve this racist problem I continue to read on this forum .... I suggest we have a free pass swingers day.
On this day all the women who only like to have sex with BBC , must have sex with any non black man that messages them.
The same for women who only like to play with white men only, you have to have sex with any non white man that messages you.
All the women can be blindfolded if need be or you can suggest the men wear a bag over their heads.
Or
We can skip over the profiles that don't match what we are looking for.
I personally add every profile that says white only to my hotlist. They have the best status updates "
It's a serious shame that when I am in Manhattan in June I will be with my sister so will have to behave. Bah! |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"To solve this racist problem I continue to read on this forum .... I suggest we have a free pass swingers day.
On this day all the women who only like to have sex with BBC , must have sex with any non black man that messages them.
The same for women who only like to play with white men only, you have to have sex with any non white man that messages you.
All the women can be blindfolded if need be or you can suggest the men wear a bag over their heads.
Or
We can skip over the profiles that don't match what we are looking for.
I personally add every profile that says white only to my hotlist. They have the best status updates "
I vote for bags; more humane  |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
Leeds |
"To solve this racist problem I continue to read on this forum .... I suggest we have a free pass swingers day.
On this day all the women who only like to have sex with BBC , must have sex with any non black man that messages them.
The same for women who only like to play with white men only, you have to have sex with any non white man that messages you.
All the women can be blindfolded if need be or you can suggest the men wear a bag over their heads.
Or
We can skip over the profiles that don't match what we are looking for.
I personally add every profile that says white only to my hotlist. They have the best status updates "
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