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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Now. I would consider myself a long term swinger
Wouldn't say experience but been on the scene a few years
Having recently hooked up and made a couple profile I'm saddened by people who call themselves 'experienced' who actually look down on those less 'experienced' than them
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Swinging has changed so much in the last few years... it's seems people are finding more reasons not to meet people for a great sex ,
Than actually meeting for great sex |
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I describe myself as experienced but I hope I don't come over as "looking down" on newer arrivals to the scene.
In fact I often offer advice to newcomers - couples and singles - and I've had a number of people thank me for helping them to overcome their nerves about going to clubs, etc.
I know some people look for others to be experienced and verified - which is understandable given the "idiot ratio" on here, but I like to think there's room for plenty of genuine newcomers alongside old-timers like me!
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We describe ourselves as experienced in our profile header- it's nothing to do with looking down on less experienced people, it's telling those looking at our profile exactly what we are, and what to expect. Some people find experience off putting, others actively seek it out. Therefore, we make it clear from the start. Then people have the correct information with which to decide whether or not to contact us. |
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"Would you meet a young, unverified, soft swing woman or couple OP? I wouldn't"
Probably not, soft swing and unverified wouldn't put us off. Young might (although having said that we have come across some young couples who do fit our likes).
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Just had a quick look at the OPs profile and seen they describe themselves as "seasoned swingers"... Is there a difference between saying you are a seasoned swinger and saying you are an experienced swinger? Just wondering....  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just had a quick look at the OPs profile and seen they describe themselves as "seasoned swingers"...
Seasoned swingers must be taken with a pinch of salt and a good grind of pepper.
Sally
Ha!  "
My issue is not how experienced they are
It's when this experience gives them the right to frown upon those less experienced
It happens every day |
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"Just had a quick look at the OPs profile and seen they describe themselves as "seasoned swingers"...
Seasoned swingers must be taken with a pinch of salt and a good grind of pepper.
Sally
Ha!
My issue is not how experienced they are
It's when this experience gives them the right to frown upon those less experienced
It happens every day "
I think that the first lesson I learned on here was to not let other bother us. There are enough nice, sexy and fun people on here to not have to deal with those who aren't compatible with us.
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By (user no longer on site)
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We don't frown upon 'the less experienced' - we only make a point of our own experience just so that people are certain about what we like and don't like. And that neither of us is pressuring the other into playing, and that we've done enough swinging to know that jealousy and insecurity isn't a problem between us. |
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"We don't frown upon 'the less experienced' - we only make a point of our own experience just so that people are certain about what we like and don't like. And that neither of us is pressuring the other into playing, and that we've done enough swinging to know that jealousy and insecurity isn't a problem between us. "
Spot on x |
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