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"How many of you ladies were first reluctantly introduced to swinging by an eager partner but soon enjoyed it more than them?
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Me. I'll happily admit it.
Adam started by telling me he had been having dreams of me having sex with another man. I thought it was weird but thought nothing of it.
Then he told me it turned him on, a lot. He told me often and would tell me the effect it was having on him before telling me he wanted to see it.
I was so deeply hurt that my husband didn't love me enough to keep me to himself.
We argued furiously for weeks, I sobbed my heart out many times.
Then one day it clicked. I finally listened to him and what he had to say. I actually heard him when he said he loved me more than life but that sex was just sex. A way to have pleasure and fun. He told me we could do anything and still walk away hand in hand before cuddling up to watch a film.
I wanted to try it and now I'm so glad he broached the subject.
I had a very traumatic childhood and had stuffed myself into this little box in which I told myself that sex outside of the average marital sex with wrong. Porn was wrong. Everything was wrong.
I was wrong. I realised one morning that enjoying sex and pleasure wouldn't make me a bad person and that my husband and I were still madly in love and could enjoy everything the world has to offer.
So now I'm a nympho who can't get enough ha ha.
Eve. X |
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"How many of you ladies were first reluctantly introduced to swinging by an eager partner but soon enjoyed it more than them?
Me. I'll happily admit it.
Adam started by telling me he had been having dreams of me having sex with another man. I thought it was weird but thought nothing of it.
Then he told me it turned him on, a lot. He told me often and would tell me the effect it was having on him before telling me he wanted to see it.
I was so deeply hurt that my husband didn't love me enough to keep me to himself.
We argued furiously for weeks, I sobbed my heart out many times.
Then one day it clicked. I finally listened to him and what he had to say. I actually heard him when he said he loved me more than life but that sex was just sex. A way to have pleasure and fun. He told me we could do anything and still walk away hand in hand before cuddling up to watch a film.
I wanted to try it and now I'm so glad he broached the subject.
I had a very traumatic childhood and had stuffed myself into this little box in which I told myself that sex outside of the average marital sex with wrong. Porn was wrong. Everything was wrong.
I was wrong. I realised one morning that enjoying sex and pleasure wouldn't make me a bad person and that my husband and I were still madly in love and could enjoy everything the world has to offer.
So now I'm a nympho who can't get enough ha ha.
Eve. X"
Unfotunately a similar but different experience. I started out the same with my ex as you hubby did with you. We hd the arguments and crying but she never got distinction between sex is sex and can be for fun and pleasure but that Love is something else.
I tucked that part of me away whilst we were married and now looking to get it out again after divorcing.  |
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over a year ago
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"How many of you ladies were first reluctantly introduced to swinging by an eager partner but soon enjoyed it more than them?
Me. I'll happily admit it.
Adam started by telling me he had been having dreams of me having sex with another man. I thought it was weird but thought nothing of it.
Then he told me it turned him on, a lot. He told me often and would tell me the effect it was having on him before telling me he wanted to see it.
I was so deeply hurt that my husband didn't love me enough to keep me to himself.
We argued furiously for weeks, I sobbed my heart out many times.
Then one day it clicked. I finally listened to him and what he had to say. I actually heard him when he said he loved me more than life but that sex was just sex. A way to have pleasure and fun. He told me we could do anything and still walk away hand in hand before cuddling up to watch a film.
I wanted to try it and now I'm so glad he broached the subject.
I had a very traumatic childhood and had stuffed myself into this little box in which I told myself that sex outside of the average marital sex with wrong. Porn was wrong. Everything was wrong.
I was wrong. I realised one morning that enjoying sex and pleasure wouldn't make me a bad person and that my husband and I were still madly in love and could enjoy everything the world has to offer.
So now I'm a nympho who can't get enough ha ha.
Eve. X"
Love this answer.xxx
I joined as a singleton and attend clubs as a singeton, sometimes with a friend too. I'm now in the slightly odd position that I'd love to have another relationship and find my life partner....but worry that vanilla wouldn't be enough for me now  |
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"How many of you ladies were first reluctantly introduced to swinging by an eager partner but soon enjoyed it more than them?
Me. I'll happily admit it.
Adam started by telling me he had been having dreams of me having sex with another man. I thought it was weird but thought nothing of it.
Then he told me it turned him on, a lot. He told me often and would tell me the effect it was having on him before telling me he wanted to see it.
I was so deeply hurt that my husband didn't love me enough to keep me to himself.
We argued furiously for weeks, I sobbed my heart out many times.
Then one day it clicked. I finally listened to him and what he had to say. I actually heard him when he said he loved me more than life but that sex was just sex. A way to have pleasure and fun. He told me we could do anything and still walk away hand in hand before cuddling up to watch a film.
I wanted to try it and now I'm so glad he broached the subject.
I had a very traumatic childhood and had stuffed myself into this little box in which I told myself that sex outside of the average marital sex with wrong. Porn was wrong. Everything was wrong.
I was wrong. I realised one morning that enjoying sex and pleasure wouldn't make me a bad person and that my husband and I were still madly in love and could enjoy everything the world has to offer.
So now I'm a nympho who can't get enough ha ha.
Eve. X
Love this answer.xxx
I joined as a singleton and attend clubs as a singeton, sometimes with a friend too. I'm now in the slightly odd position that I'd love to have another relationship and find my life partner....but worry that vanilla wouldn't be enough for me now "
Agreed but then I am a man and like to have cake and eat it  |
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For us it was a mutual decision to swing, an idea we'd toyed with but not taken any further. Then, during a nice session, we chatted about it again, looked up adult clubs and booked a night out.
For the first few meets I faked orgasm, not because the sex was bad but because I was too nervous to really let myself go in front of him. We had a chat on the way home from Abfabs one night, he explained that he found the idea really horny to see me really have sex with our usual wild abandon. Since then I've never faked, never had to . I've like greedy nights, gb's, mfm's etc. Let's be honest, I'm a cock hungry tart now lol. |
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