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When did blowjobs get so bad?

By *helonewolf OP Man over a year ago

Teesside

Hi all,

Quick background - me and my ex split a while back and she gave amazing blowjobs. I'm talking lots of spit, enthusiasm and deep-throat action.

Since then I've seen a handful of women (off-site) and one thing I've noticed is how bad the blowjobs are. Most don't even do it (bad gag-reflex) and the ones that did do it, didn't really know what they were doing.

What's going on? Do good blowjobs only come from people from our lifestyle? Anyone else encountered this or have I just been unlucky?

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By * Kiwis and a BananaMan over a year ago

Part of your 5 a day

"Hi all,

Quick background - me and my ex split a while back and she gave amazing blowjobs. I'm talking lots of spit, enthusiasm and deep-throat action.

What's going on? Do good blowjobs only come from people from our lifestyle? Anyone else encountered this or have I just been unlucky?"

I think you have been unlucky...pornstar like blowjobs are a rarity for me but generally most women tend to have average to ok bj skills.

I do admit I have had some shocking displays in my life i.e some use their teeth and accidentally bite me. Maybe you ought to say something or guide them a little on how to please you best.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Definitely just been unlucky

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By *iscreet UnicornWoman over a year ago

Windsor-ish

Well i can say wifey gives an amazing blowjob. She was the first to make me cum just through blowjob alone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You've experienced the rest now try the best!

That's my flirting done for the day

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By * Kiwis and a BananaMan over a year ago

Part of your 5 a day

"Well i can say wifey gives an amazing blowjob. She was the first to make me cum just through blowjob alone."

I have not had that happen most give up after about an hour...what's it like?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I reckon you've just been unlucky OP, keep sticking your dick in people's mouths, I'm sure you'll find a good one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Think u have just shot yrself in the foot mate.. ladies don't like being told their crap at something..

Good luck with this one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah you've been unlucky! I've had some amazing bj's, a lot of them from ladies not remotely connected to swinging or adult dating.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi all,

Quick background - me and my ex split a while back and she gave amazing blowjobs. I'm talking lots of spit, enthusiasm and deep-throat action.

What's going on? Do good blowjobs only come from people from our lifestyle? Anyone else encountered this or have I just been unlucky?"

Could he worse, one woman thought a blow job was blowing on my penis.................

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By *iscreet UnicornWoman over a year ago

Windsor-ish

"Well i can say wifey gives an amazing blowjob. She was the first to make me cum just through blowjob alone.

I have not had that happen most give up after about an hour...what's it like? "
all i can say is wow just wow!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I reckon you've just been unlucky OP, keep sticking your dick in people's mouths, I'm sure you'll find a good one

Well, there's a motto to live your life by

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

TBH if a woman is willing to go down there I'm pretty happy.

I don't want someone spitting on my cock and I'd much prefer she does what she is comfortable with than expect some sort of porn star nonsense.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I reckon you've just been unlucky OP, keep sticking your dick in people's mouths, I'm sure you'll find a good one

Well, there's a motto to live your life by

cock in cheek?

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS over a year ago

Bristol

You've been unlucky for sure- plenty around that give fantastic Bjs.

Deepthroat mixed with sensual licking and kissing is my favourite!

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By * Kiwis and a BananaMan over a year ago

Part of your 5 a day

"Think u have just shot yrself in the foot mate.. ladies don't like being told their crap at something..

Good luck with this one

If she wants to please you the best she can she would welcome some advice...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No you are not alone in this. I do remember the last time a lady gave me an unforgettable experience. She was slow, tactile , loving. Its been a long time since i have experienced that. Im just so glad i have a great memory lol... if i could do it myself i would!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You're 25!! I'm not being funny but you have a LOT of living to do before penning your guide to the 'art of a blowjob'

Get out there and keep chalking them up lad.

....Blow jobs are so overrated...

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By *ilmiss75Woman over a year ago

Thornton

I think you have been watching to much porn...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Let's blame brexit.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You're 25!! I'm not being funny but you have a LOT of living to do before penning your guide to the 'art of a blowjob'

Get out there and keep chalking them up lad.

....Blow jobs are so overrated..."

Mine aren't

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By * Kiwis and a BananaMan over a year ago

Part of your 5 a day

"I think you have been watching to much porn..."

Is that a bad thing?

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By *helonewolf OP Man over a year ago

Teesside

From the sound of it I've just been unlucky. Either that or lasses in the North East don't know how to give good head? I'll have to do a bit more practical research and post my findings in the sex journal.

All in the name of science of course!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"From the sound of it I've just been unlucky. Either that or lasses in the North East don't know how to give good head? I'll have to do a bit more practical research and post my findings in the sex journal.

All in the name of science of course!"

Woahhhhhh there, don't tar us all with the same brush!

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By *eavenscentitCouple over a year ago

barnstaple

I love a good suck ha ha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Blow jobs are overrated.

Or at least the theory that there are many women who can give good ones are.

Only one lass ive known whos been able to make me cum from a bj (a current fb).

The rest have said theyre good but not been able to show it.

Im still looking for a woman who knows how to give them good.

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By *helonewolf OP Man over a year ago

Teesside

All in the name of science of course!

Woahhhhhh there, don't tar us all with the same brush!

You should totally prove me wrong!

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By *heBlackPantherCouple over a year ago

Guilford

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By *heBlackPantherCouple over a year ago

Guilford

Is your cock having a hard time finding the right mouth?

Don't hesitate OP, just removed two ribs and take care of yourself!

You know what they say, If you want a BJ well done...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Great sex rarely comes from one off random fucks anyway

Talking and discussing your likes and dislikes over time, either before a meet or ongoing as part of a relationship helps to get you both what you need as you both understand what makes the other tick.

One shoe definitely does not fit all. One person may absolutely love deep throat, rimming, gagging, spitting, balls licking and sucking and a finger up the ass as they cum all as part of a blow job but believe me I know very well that just because that blows one persons mind, someone else will find every part of it weird and abhorrent.

But that's fine, everyone's different and we find out our likes and dislikes by talking and exploring and talking some more.

Don't expect your mind to be blown by a one off fuck with someone you've never spoken to at all, and most likely don't communicate to whilst you are fucking.

If your mind is blown in this situation it's by luck and chance that's all.

stop being disparaging of young and inexperienced women who are just trying their best to please you and have probably never had anyone talk to them properly about what works and what doesn't - both ways - who says that you are doing a great oral job on them either?

Ruby

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

Sounds to me like your biggest problem is your still hung up on your ex so nones quite measuring up to the pedestal you've got her on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Great sex rarely comes from one off random fucks anyway

But that's fine, everyone's different and we find out our likes and dislikes by talking and exploring and talking some more.

Don't expect your mind to be blown by a one off fuck with someone you've never spoken to at all, and most likely don't communicate to whilst you are fucking.

If your mind is blown in this situation it's by luck and chance that's all.

Ruby"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi all,

Quick background - me and my ex split a while back and she gave amazing blowjobs. I'm talking lots of spit, enthusiasm and deep-throat action.

What's going on? Do good blowjobs only come from people from our lifestyle? Anyone else encountered this or have I just been unlucky?"

Not every woman likes to deep throat, being sick often offends!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Blow jobs as many have said are completely overrated in the main.

I can honestly say I've had maybe two decent ones and the rest were not much more than formalities.

Many women expect you to be a master at oral yet barely think about what they're doing.

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By *hoot45Man over a year ago

Ramsgate

If u r broad minded, adventurous and like experimenting then try letting a bloke do it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not every woman likes to deep throat, being sick often offends! "

Oh so much!

Due to certain issues - not going into them here - I'm careful about who I'll give a blow job to, and even if I do it once with a man, I might not feel comfortable enough to do it again. Thankfully, men respect that.

OP, how much effort do you put in sexually with the women you're complaining about?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've found it's very hot or miss but nothing beats a good cock sucker when you find one!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi all,

Quick background - me and my ex split a while back and she gave amazing blowjobs. I'm talking lots of spit, enthusiasm and deep-throat action.

What's going on? Do good blowjobs only come from people from our lifestyle? Anyone else encountered this or have I just been unlucky?"

Just goes to show how we're all different! I'll agree ethusiasm is important, but deep throat? Boring. And spit? No ta. Both of these are too porny for me, makes me feel like she's trying to compete with some crap movie she's seen. I'll add in gagging to the list.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

I think your ex gave you what you wanted and other women give different not bad bj's

I don't want someone spitting over my cock I think that's more of a porn film bj

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All in the name of science of course!"

Maybe your just not finding the right "lasses" but some of us in the north east are pretty good at them (or so I'm told

)

Jane x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Great sex rarely comes from one off random fucks anyway

But that's fine, everyone's different and we find out our likes and dislikes by talking and exploring and talking some more.

Don't expect your mind to be blown by a one off fuck with someone you've never spoken to at all, and most likely don't communicate to whilst you are fucking.

If your mind is blown in this situation it's by luck and chance that's all.

Ruby"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My main problem with blow jobs is there's just not enough stimulation, visually and sensory, it's all focused on the cock...When you're in your teens it's pretty awesome, but as you mature and take the whole experience on, it becomes a very small part, my mind wanders if it's too long..

A quick suck, great, keeps things moving...But if someone starts slobbering on my cock, I risk nodding off...

Women think most men love them more than they actually do...And most men think they should love them more than they actually do..

Now kissing.....THATS where we can never drop standards!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All in the name of science of course!

Woahhhhhh there, don't tar us all with the same brush!

You should totally prove me wrong!

Haha I don't deep throat so we mismatch

good luck though!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi all,

Quick background - me and my ex split a while back and she gave amazing blowjobs. I'm talking lots of spit, enthusiasm and deep-throat action.

What's going on? Do good blowjobs only come from people from our lifestyle? Anyone else encountered this or have I just been unlucky?"

There are plenty of ladies in this lifestyle that dont like or give bad ones from what people have said... and mr and I even have gestures for a rescue from a bad bj if we are playing with others...

But what is bad for one guy.. maybe heaven for another. bit like most things.

I enjoy them more than sex with meets but thats just me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Great sex rarely comes from one off random fucks anyway

But that's fine, everyone's different and we find out our likes and dislikes by talking and exploring and talking some more.

Don't expect your mind to be blown by a one off fuck with someone you've never spoken to at all, and most likely don't communicate to whilst you are fucking.

If your mind is blown in this situation it's by luck and chance that's all.

Ruby"

Wise words

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By *lowercandyWoman over a year ago

Lancashire

"Great sex rarely comes from one off random fucks anyway

But that's fine, everyone's different and we find out our likes and dislikes by talking and exploring and talking some more.

Don't expect your mind to be blown by a one off fuck with someone you've never spoken to at all, and most likely don't communicate to whilst you are fucking.

If your mind is blown in this situation it's by luck and chance that's all.

Ruby"

Well said Ruby xx

Communication is the skill in everything in life

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sounds to me like your biggest problem is your still hung up on your ex so nones quite measuring up to the pedestal you've got her on"

Yes this too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Blow jobs as many have said are completely overrated in the main.

I can honestly say I've had maybe two decent ones and the rest were not much more than formalities.

Many women expect you to be a master at oral yet barely think about what they're doing.

"
see I'd say the same about guys.. bj is the part of sex with others I get the most satisfaction about.. but as men are mostly visual you have to make it as much a visual experience as sensually x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Think u have just shot yrself in the foot mate.. ladies don't like being told their crap at something..

Good luck with this one

Why a man should even think of saying something on fab even it's how he felt oh he might sorry correction he will definitely lose the chance of a meet

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By *carlettxWoman over a year ago

Essex

What makes a bad blowjob ?

What makes a great blowjob ?

Personal preference really

What is good for one is not good for another ... I know guys that like sensual and lots of tongue and kisses , rovers that like hats fast and deep and some that like a bit of biting (softly) and some that love/hate deepthroat ...

Much the same as they way I like to be licked may be different to how other women might like it

Best thing really is to tell that person that you lucky enough to have their mouth round your cock all the things you love then you will be happy and so will they ! But remember it goes both ways lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've only ever had a couple of decent ones.

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By *xcited99Couple over a year ago

omagh

My wife's oral skills are amazing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've only ever had a couple of decent ones.

Want another one?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Blowjobs haven't gotten bad, you've just not found the right woman x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've only ever had a couple of decent ones.

Want another one?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've only ever had a couple of decent ones.

Want another one?

Worth a try isn't it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agree with scarlett, I've had a few in my time.. and none come close to Eves. I'd say that's because after 10 years together she knows what I do and don't like.

And she's yet to receive any complaints from guys on here

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By *carlettxWoman over a year ago

Essex

"I agree with scarlett, I've had a few in my time.. and none come close to Eves. I'd say that's because after 10 years together she knows what I do and don't like.

And she's yet to receive any complaints from guys on here

Hit the nail on the head !

But to flip it on its side there are not many women that know how to make me come Thro oral ... be nice to find one haha

Maybe it's because I like it a bit rough

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Enthusiasm is the key and I just love to suck

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi all,

Quick background - me and my ex split a while back and she gave amazing blowjobs. I'm talking lots of spit, enthusiasm and deep-throat action.

What's going on? Do good blowjobs only come from people from our lifestyle? Anyone else encountered this or have I just been unlucky?"

I know I'm crap at blowjobs so I let people know and usually don't bother. But that's ok, because most people are crap at oral sex on women, so I don't feel particularly weird there.

I maintain that the best way to get good oral sex is to hook up with someone experienced who has similar genitals to yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have to agree. They generally lack effort. I think it's because of a common attitude amongst women that she's even deigned to fuck you and you should be grateful for even that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have to agree. They generally lack effort. I think it's because of a common attitude amongst women that she's even deigned to fuck you and you should be grateful for even that."

yeh be grateful

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By *ire_thornMan over a year ago

no comment

I imagine for the same reason women complain about bad oral, you can't just use the tip of your tongue. Stick your face in it stupid.... use your fingers, nibble bite kiss suck... it's not a tootsie pop... it takes more than three links

Maybe. .. just maybe blow jobs would be better if men would learn to eat pussy better

And I was not calling anybody on this thread stupid. ..

That's was just a little phrase

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Let's blame brexit. "

I rank the OP with the "I have never cum from a blowjob line" but of course Brexit is realy to blame

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By *carlettxWoman over a year ago

Essex

"I imagine for the same reason women complain about bad oral, you can't just use the tip of your tongue. Stick your face in it stupid.... use your fingers, nibble bite kiss suck... it's not a tootsie pop... it takes more than three links

Maybe. .. just maybe blow jobs would be better if men would learn to eat pussy better

And I was not calling anybody on this thread stupid. ..

That's was just a little phrase "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've never had any complaints #justsayin

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have to agree. They generally lack effort. I think it's because of a common attitude amongst women that she's even deigned to fuck you and you should be grateful for even that."

I think the only time a girl is lacking effort is if she actually doesn't want to be sucking your cock. If it's something she wants to do then surely the effort will be there, perhaps just not the technique that you like

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By *epper123Woman over a year ago

London

"I have to agree. They generally lack effort. I think it's because of a common attitude amongst women that she's even deigned to fuck you and you should be grateful for even that."

There are plenty of men who lack effort too ... usually those who think they are doing the women of fab a favour.

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"I have to agree. They generally lack effort. I think it's because of a common attitude amongst women that she's even deigned to fuck you and you should be grateful for even that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i'm less enthusiastic about bjs now ive met a fair amount of selfish guys who don't reciprocate. maybe these women have also had too much shit sex?

if a guy really turns me on i'm more than happy to be enthusiastic. if it's all about his dick then he can fuck off.

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By *ire_thornMan over a year ago

no comment

"i'm less enthusiastic about bjs now ive met a fair amount of selfish guys who don't reciprocate. maybe these women have also had too much shit sex?

if a guy really turns me on i'm more than happy to be enthusiastic. if it's all about his dick then he can fuck off."

I'm more than willing and enthusiastic to go down on a woman, and honestly she don't have to reciprocate. That don't bother me in the slightest

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i'm less enthusiastic about bjs now ive met a fair amount of selfish guys who don't reciprocate. maybe these women have also had too much shit sex?

if a guy really turns me on i'm more than happy to be enthusiastic. if it's all about his dick then he can fuck off.

I'm more than willing and enthusiastic to go down on a woman, and honestly she don't have to reciprocate. That don't bother me in the slightest "

previous crap sex can make it so you're not as enthusiastic about sex any more.

although i tend to just not meet many guys or have much sex rather than have shit sex where i cba.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The same can be said for men who don't even give oral or even know how to make a woman cum properly. Half hearted efforts. Absolutely awful both ways.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have to agree. They generally lack effort. I think it's because of a common attitude amongst women that she's even deigned to fuck you and you should be grateful for even that.

this!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've experienced past meets where the guys cock smells of urine....ffs!!! Instant put off...bluddy disgusting. Also if a man has lied about his cock size I find it an instant turn off and will not give a blow job.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bad girls bible helped me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is because they don't really wanna be doing it! We are always better at the things we enjoy doing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Alot is happening when giving a blow job

Sucking licking breathing jaw movement moaning while trying to look sexy tongue movement and trying to keep mouth wet and teeth out of the way whilst feeling horny and turning the guy on

Seriously hard work

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By *lorious hole bs16Man over a year ago

Bristol

No two blow jobs are the same..i may give you a great bj tonight but next week may not work..The smell of urine is not uncommon and sometimes I get off on it and other times it's a turn off..

As previously said it is a two way thing and the suckee has a part to play...

The best blow job is always the next one!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Alot is happening when giving a blow job

Sucking licking breathing jaw movement moaning while trying to look sexy tongue movement and trying to keep mouth wet and teeth out of the way whilst feeling horny and turning the guy on

Seriously hard work

fantastic description i love it!!

it is hard

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

All in the name of science of course!"

From experience O.P. I can tell you that women tend not to outdo men for fear of emasculating them.

Women tend to match like for like.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All in the name of science of course!

From experience O.P. I can tell you that women tend not to outdo men for fear of emasculating them.

Women tend to match like for like. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some guidance from a guy can help since loads like it different ways.

I find not all cocks are suckable and the connection, environment, hornyness levels makes a huge difference to the effort I can be arse to put in.

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By *inzi LTV/TS over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

They say that you have to be a woman to know where and how to touch one and know what she likes...

I guess the same goes for men!

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By *r Mouth FillerMan over a year ago

South Hampshire

Hang on - there is such a thing as a BAD blowjob? Blimey - you live and learn don't you???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've experienced past meets where the guys cock smells of urine....ffs!!! Instant put off...bluddy disgusting. Also if a man has lied about his cock size I find it an instant turn off and will not give a blow job. "

It's not unusual for ladies to smell slightly of pee when you first start giving oral too, but it's no issue, you're putting genitals in your mouth so kind of to be expected, surely? And to the OP, you have a very set definition of what is "good" to you. Perhaps if it's that important then spend longer seeking those who are compatible?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All in the name of science of course!

From experience O.P. I can tell you that women tend not to outdo men for fear of emasculating them.

Women tend to match like for like. "

I'm going to use that one. Paraphrased : I'm rubbish at it but I'm just going to say that it's all because of your ego.

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By *ingAlMan over a year ago

hereford

I've often wondered why its called a blow job

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm great at it. Terrible modest too.

Eve. X

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By *nlyfun3Woman over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

I don't say I'm good at them but others do and often reference it in their veris to me. For me it's that I enjoy giving them and that there is no standard way of giving them it's about reading a man to see how he reacts and go with that to make it individual

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've often wondered why its called a blow job"

One theory is a below job evolved to become blow job during the Victorian era. You're welcome.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You could communicate to the person you're with how you like it. You're welcome.

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By *hoot45Man over a year ago

Ramsgate

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By *hoot45Man over a year ago

Ramsgate

"No two blow jobs are the same..i may give you a great bj tonight but next week may not work..The smell of urine is not uncommon and sometimes I get off on it and other times it's a turn off..

As previously said it is a two way thing and the suckee has a part to play...

The best blow job is always the next one! "

Well u r certainly doing something right as u have an army of guys with glowing verifications - many guys seem to like the excitement of a gloryhole

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No no no young lady! I am clean if I'm going to receive oral sex...I make sure of that!! I expect cleanliness from others.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i'm less enthusiastic about bjs now ive met a fair amount of selfish guys who don't reciprocate. maybe these women have also had too much shit sex?

if a guy really turns me on i'm more than happy to be enthusiastic. if it's all about his dick then he can fuck off.

I'm more than willing and enthusiastic to go down on a woman, and honestly she don't have to reciprocate. That don't bother me in the slightest "

I'm definately with you on that, I do love a good blowjob but I'd much rather head on down there on her!

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"From experience O.P. I can tell you that women tend not to outdo men for fear of emasculating them.

Women tend to match like for like. "

Granny's previous meets' reaction...

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By * Kiwis and a BananaMan over a year ago

Part of your 5 a day

"I've often wondered why its called a blow job"

Cause it's hard work

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By *aughty2foryouCouple over a year ago

Devon/Cornwall

Maybe ladies who are swingers seem better because they're more comfortable with themselves and are happy to take advice about what a man enjoys?

I know Tiny and I are quite happy to guide each other...after all you don't always want the same kind of oral every time!

A girl a went out with when I was younger was giving me a bj, I politely asked if she could do something (can't remember but it wasn't out of the ordinary or porn star like) and she had a go at me telling me that she knows how to give bjs and that it wasn't any of my business

I could be wrong about the swinger thing though!

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By *ouple4biMMFCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

"Hi all,

Quick background - me and my ex split a while back and she gave amazing blowjobs. I'm talking lots of spit, enthusiasm and deep-throat action.

What's going on? Do good blowjobs only come from people from our lifestyle? Anyone else encountered this or have I just been unlucky?"

I'd say you were lucky in having an ex who gave amazing bj's.

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By *ouple4biMMFCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

It's rare to find guy's good as oral,but that's for another thread

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By *BW star and DocCouple over a year ago

Manchester

Love giving blow jobs and the Mr says I'm very good. Also made a few guys cum from it who never had before. Love a challenge!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What really gets me is this myth, I can't cum from a blowjob and no one can succeed... bullshit.

It's a two way street oral sex, if you sit quiet and say fuck all then of course she isn't gonna make you cum, and same for a lady! Have to talk to make it work!

And I like a little biting when receiving

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i always suspect guys are lying when they say they've never cum from a bj because they have tended to when i've given them one, been proved this once on here already also -had a guy who has cum in my mouth got on his profile that he's never done that.

bjs aren't hard work, can be tiring on the cheeks sometimes, but otherwise they're fairly easy to do. i'm just sick of guys thinking their dick is the focus of attention and want more foreplay, won't entertain going down on a guy otherwise.

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"i always suspect guys are lying when they say they've never cum from a bj because they have tended to when i've given them one, been proved this once on here already also -had a guy who has cum in my mouth got on his profile that he's never done that.

I know plenty of guys that still do claim they can't cum from one yet have with me also.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I know plenty of guys that still do claim they can't cum from one yet have with me also. "

sad innit?

i love cumming on a guys face and happy to so again.

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

The worst blow job I ever had...... was fantastic

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If women are crap at it - try a man

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Unlucky OP, I've had no complaints yet!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If a lady is good enough to take me in her mouth I'm never gonna complain.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know plenty of guys that still do claim they can't cum from one yet have with me also. "

Seems like they do it as a challenge make you work harder at it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Alot is happening when giving a blow job

Sucking licking breathing jaw movement moaning while trying to look sexy tongue movement and trying to keep mouth wet and teeth out of the way whilst feeling horny and turning the guy on

Seriously hard work

"
but in my opinion the best bit of a meet.. I prefer to do this than anything else with a meet. A good fuck would be nice to but it rarely gets to full sex..

I still even now with Mr like to try new things when giving him a nice Bj.... and I do watch what other women do.

If we are playing with a couple I like to watch them together first as it gives me a better idea of what the guy likes.

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By *iscreet UnicornWoman over a year ago

Windsor-ish

"Love giving blow jobs and the Mr says I'm very good. Also made a few guys cum from it who never had before. Love a challenge!"

Oooh i wonder if you can make me cum from oral?

Lol, its Claire btw xx hehee

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By *rSlim92Man over a year ago

York

A BJ from a partner you've been with for some time is often going to be better for you, she will know what you like and what really arouses you! Like everything with sex in my opinion, if you don't fully enjoy what your doing its never going to be great!

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"Hi all,

Quick background - me and my ex split a while back and she gave amazing blowjobs. I'm talking lots of spit, enthusiasm and deep-throat action.

What's going on? Do good blowjobs only come from people from our lifestyle? Anyone else encountered this or have I just been unlucky?"

If he wants, I don't mind spitting on a c**k but that is as far as I am willing to go

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well I love to suck cock and feel I have a talent for it, I guess the fact I love to do it helps x

Sandy

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

Most people will be average. And people eat differently when they're really hungry - is there an abundance of supply there? Many factors will influence results.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Got the same feeling not had a decent bj for ages

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By *appychap20000Man over a year ago

cannock

I think you was lucky and didn't realise how lucky you was.

I'm 44 and still waiting to be made to cum by mouth alone.

As a man I think we are arse holes and grass is greener etc. And I believe when eh know the secret we die. So we cannot share it

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By *lackMetalMan over a year ago

Centre

Very true, it is possibly a dying art.

I have been lucky to meet women who literally made me jump out of my skin from a blowjob. But it is not every time you come across this.

It's simple really:

- No pulling of the shaft, but gliding the hand across it.

- Lots of lubrication preferably from spitting/from the mouth.

- No teeth, I repeat, no teeth.

- If in doubt, watch some porn.

You can't EVER go wrong with the above.

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

Poor guys

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just as women like different things from oral sex, not all men like the same kind of blow jobs. You're all doing yourselves a disservice by just lying back and complaining about it afterwards. If you want something different then ask for it. Otherwise we've nothing to go on but what the other blokes have enjoyed, and if that's different from what you enjoy and you don't speak up then it's your own bloody faults.

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By *workoutMan over a year ago

Cradley Heath

I think finding someone who genuinely enjoys giving blowjob is a good start, especially if they are able to read the guys reactions. If a woman can pick up on the changes in a guys breathing, the way he moves his body in reaction to how they touch him, the noises he makes. Pick up on those cues and take the time to get a feel for what works and the results can be mind blowing orgasms that send rushes of electricity throughout your whole body.

Princess Peach nearly had me rip my bedsheets in two from doing exactly that.

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By *ock69erMan over a year ago

Middle o’ Fife

Different guys like their blow jobs different ways... how's a girl to know? and although I love all warm, wet mouths around my cock I've found that guys definitely give the best blow jobs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just as women like different things from oral sex, not all men like the same kind of blow jobs. You're all doing yourselves a disservice by just lying back and complaining about it afterwards. If you want something different then ask for it. Otherwise we've nothing to go on but what the other blokes have enjoyed, and if that's different from what you enjoy and you don't speak up then it's your own bloody faults."

Oh believe me, tried so many times, but never feel any good change

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They were great back in 2014, when I last received one

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"I think finding someone who genuinely enjoys giving blowjob is a good start, especially if they are able to read the guys reactions. If a woman can pick up on the changes in a guys breathing, the way he moves his body in reaction to how they touch him, the noises he makes. Pick up on those cues and take the time to get a feel for what works and the results can be mind blowing orgasms that send rushes of electricity throughout your whole body.

Princess Peach nearly had me rip my bedsheets in two from doing exactly that.

Well....they aren't lies

Some like doing it, some don't.

Some LOVE doing it.

Now, I can't deep throat and nor would I want to. Up until now I've never needed to and I think my technique comes from having a super sensitive gag reflex, so....I do what works for me

And most guys to be fair!

Thank you for the mention.

I would change my name to blowjobqueen, but it makes me sound big headed hahahhaa.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can i have blow job?

You said different...

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By *heaspieswingerMan over a year ago

Peak District

"Hi all,

Quick background - me and my ex split a while back and she gave amazing blowjobs. I'm talking lots of spit, enthusiasm and deep-throat action.

What's going on? Do good blowjobs only come from people from our lifestyle? Anyone else encountered this or have I just been unlucky?"

How long were you together? My OHs ex was apparently bloody awful when they first met, but after a bit of practice and learning how he liked them she could sometimes go from start to finish in 30 seconds. Although he has said that was because she wanted to get it over with!

It's probably because your ex became accustomed to how you liked it, and you the same with how she did it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Unlucky OP, I've had no complaints yet!

Interesting comment a general thing I've heard

Thing is do people complain about these things or just not go back for more

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"They were great back in 2014, when I last received one

I can help with that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Unlucky OP, I've had no complaints yet!

Interesting comment a general thing I've heard

Thing is do people complain about these things or just not go back for more "

i always wondered this. I mean I have had no complaints and people keep coming back for more so I take it as a positive sign. But if it was really bad will someone actually tell me? Who knows

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Unlucky OP, I've had no complaints yet!

Interesting comment a general thing I've heard

Thing is do people complain about these things or just not go back for more

i always wondered this. I mean I have had no complaints and people keep coming back for more so I take it as a positive sign. But if it was really bad will someone actually tell me? Who knows "

i think they would tell you.

one of my regular meets told me i was grating him with my teeth. he is very girthy, the biggest i've met probably, and my mouth is small but i hadn't realised. don't think he mentioned it the first few times though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Unlucky OP, I've had no complaints yet!

Interesting comment a general thing I've heard

Thing is do people complain about these things or just not go back for more

i always wondered this. I mean I have had no complaints and people keep coming back for more so I take it as a positive sign. But if it was really bad will someone actually tell me? Who knows

i think they would tell you.

I've discussed this with a few in my time I have the weirdest convo's and most say they don't complain. Some say any bj is better than none.

How the hell is anyone to improve if you're to worried to talk about it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Unlucky OP, I've had no complaints yet!

Interesting comment a general thing I've heard

Thing is do people complain about these things or just not go back for more

i always wondered this. I mean I have had no complaints and people keep coming back for more so I take it as a positive sign. But if it was really bad will someone actually tell me? Who knows

i think they would tell you.

I've discussed this with a few in my time I have the weirdest convo's and most say they don't complain. Some say any bj is better than none.

How the hell is anyone to improve if you're to worried to talk about it. "

Agree! How can you improve if you have no idea you're bad?x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Unlucky OP, I've had no complaints yet!

Interesting comment a general thing I've heard

Thing is do people complain about these things or just not go back for more

i always wondered this. I mean I have had no complaints and people keep coming back for more so I take it as a positive sign. But if it was really bad will someone actually tell me? Who knows

i think they would tell you.

I've discussed this with a few in my time I have the weirdest convo's and most say they don't complain. Some say any bj is better than none.

How the hell is anyone to improve if you're to worried to talk about it. "

so they still enjoy it anyway?

if i wasn't enjoying oral i wouldn't let the guy carry on dong what he's doing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi all,

Quick background - me and my ex split a while back and she gave amazing blowjobs. I'm talking lots of spit, enthusiasm and deep-throat action.

What's going on? Do good blowjobs only come from people from our lifestyle? Anyone else encountered this or have I just been unlucky?"

After this thread I reckon you won't get many more. How rude think yourself lucky a woman is prepared to give you a blowjob good or bad. Ungrateful man

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi all,

Quick background - me and my ex split a while back and she gave amazing blowjobs. I'm talking lots of spit, enthusiasm and deep-throat action.

What's going on? Do good blowjobs only come from people from our lifestyle? Anyone else encountered this or have I just been unlucky?"

You just haven't met me yet.lol

I've been asked,Who taught you how to do that?. Nobody taught me?.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had a gf that had been told her previous bf that she gave terrible blowjobs.

Made her really nervous about doing it - but she didn't - she was terrific (with a little encouragement).

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By *helonewolf OP Man over a year ago

Teesside

So I guess the next question would be how many on here would be offended if they were told they were bad at oral?

Personally I love giving oral. Not had any complaints, but I have been told on occasion to do things differently to make it better. I didn't take offence, in fact it was a turn on knowing that the new way was giving her more pleasure.

Like many have said - everyone is different. You can't please everyone the same way, so the ability to adapt and listen to your partner's body language/reactions is key.

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By *ouple4biMMFCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

"So I guess the next question would be how many on here would be offended if they were told they were bad at oral?

Like many have said - everyone is different. You can't please everyone the same way, so the ability to adapt and listen to your partner's body language/reactions is key."

Of course I would be offended if I was told I was bad,there's a nice way of saying thing's isn't there. Someone saying to me that was crap rather than guiding me in what they do like who have me running to the door.

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By *lanemikeMan over a year ago

Bolton

Business opportunity..... Set up a training school !!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Think u have just shot yrself in the foot mate.. ladies don't like being told their crap at something..

Good luck with this one

Not sure about that. This one lady, I told her that she nearly bruised my cock, and she really tried harder from then on.

Just depends on the person and chemistry I guess

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Over time your partner finds out your likes and dislikes and therefore becomes very good for you ! And what you think is the best someone else will think is not so good ! Mr R

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Think u have just shot yrself in the foot mate.. ladies don't like being told their crap at something..

Good luck with this one

Depends how it's done really saying crap is not the right way.

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By *ngel n tedCouple over a year ago

maidstone

No bad blow jobs on fab, according to verifications, all women give the best blow job ever.

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

Dyson gives the best

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No bad blow jobs on fab, according to verifications, all women give the best blow job ever."

like a dyson.

which doesn't make sense coz i've used dysons and they tend to be pretty crap.

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"No bad blow jobs on fab, according to verifications, all women give the best blow job ever."

Mine are all true

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By *carlettxWoman over a year ago

Essex

"No bad blow jobs on fab, according to verifications, all women give the best blow job ever."

Haha brilliant !!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Defo been unlucky I've had some

The best deepthroat that would make your toes curl!! Whole cock in her mouth and she's licking your balls!! It's a defo fetish of mine I love face fucking and salavia

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By *ouple4biMMFCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

"Defo been unlucky I've had some

The best deepthroat that would make your toes curl!! Whole cock in her mouth and she's licking your balls!! It's a defo fetish of mine I love face fucking and salavia "

That sound's hot actually.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Defo been unlucky I've had some

The best deepthroat that would make your toes curl!! Whole cock in her mouth and she's licking your balls!! It's a defo fetish of mine I love face fucking and salavia "

Well, as I said much earlier in this thread, sounds boring to me!

I mean, after "wow! Clever girl!", where's the fun in it? Personally, the head of my cock is way more sensitive than my scrotum (I'd be very worried if she could lick my balls!) so there doesn't seem to be a while lot of pleasure in this.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi all,

Quick background - me and my ex split a while back and she gave amazing blowjobs. I'm talking lots of spit, enthusiasm and deep-throat action.

What's going on? Do good blowjobs only come from people from our lifestyle? Anyone else encountered this or have I just been unlucky?"

I think you are quite rude 2bh. Not all of us can be experts. Maybe you need some improvements yourself x

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By *rtemisiaWoman over a year ago

Norwich

"You've experienced the rest now try the best!

That's my flirting done for the day

This!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi all,

Quick background - me and my ex split a while back and she gave amazing blowjobs. I'm talking lots of spit, enthusiasm and deep-throat action.

What's going on? Do good blowjobs only come from people from our lifestyle? Anyone else encountered this or have I just been unlucky?"

Nope we've had a few meets where dorian said the bj was awful.

Some of them didn't seem to be aware of their teeth

Just depends on the person. If you're never told what you're doing wrong then you can never improve.

~Mia

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You've experienced the rest now try the best!

That's my flirting done for the day

Subtle

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

One of the biggest misconceptions is that men like them as though its the untimate sexual pleasure.

I think this has been created just to give women an ego boost, or feel they can offer something extra as a gift.

The problem is that men have also grown the misconceived idea that they are supposed to love a BJ like it's the best thing on earth.

And whats with spitting on cock while bj? Not great! It's not like you need to "lube it up"- it's going to be in a wet mouth!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No bad blow jobs on fab, according to verifications, all women give the best blow job ever."

I must be shit then as no one has said that about me yet lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

its because they learn from experiance ask a girl nicely and she will oblige .

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By *armel and FrancisCouple over a year ago

North wex

"Business opportunity..... Set up a training school !!! "

You know, this isn't a bad idea at all.I absolutely adore giving them. I've even been asked to show others how to give a really good blowjob. I think the secret is though that the lady is enjoying giving as much as the guy receiving.

Carmel

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think you have been watching to much porn...

Is that a bad thing?

Definitely is in my book, men who watch too much porn tend to be much worse lovers in my experience - too influenced by what they've seen, rather than what the woman they are with actually likes, and often have totally unrealistic expectations

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By *asybbwCouple over a year ago

bangor

"Hi all,

Quick background - me and my ex split a while back and she gave amazing blowjobs. I'm talking lots of spit, enthusiasm and deep-throat action.

What's going on? Do good blowjobs only come from people from our lifestyle? Anyone else encountered this or have I just been unlucky?

I think you have been unlucky...pornstar like blowjobs are a rarity for me but generally most women tend to have average to ok bj skills.

I do admit I have had some shocking displays in my life i.e some use their teeth and accidentally bite me. Maybe you ought to say something or guide them a little on how to please you best."

Are you sure the biting was an accident?

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

"Think u have just shot yrself in the foot mate.. ladies don't like being told their crap at something..

Good luck with this one

Lmao! So true!

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

"No bad blow jobs on fab, according to verifications, all women give the best blow job ever."

Really?

Ahh yes, the verifications which are published......

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"One of the biggest misconceptions is that men like them as though its the untimate sexual pleasure.

I think this has been created just to give women an ego boost, or feel they can offer something extra as a gift.

The problem is that men have also grown the misconceived idea that they are supposed to love a BJ like it's the best thing on earth.

And whats with spitting on cock while bj? Not great! It's not like you need to "lube it up"- it's going to be in a wet mouth!!

Erm....the mouth can get dry, so yes, you do need to 'lube it up' at times. Pre-cum is the best lube though.

Have a go at giving one, you'll see what I mean.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The beautiful thing about blowjobs is....

When a blowjob is good it's really really good. And when a blowjob is bad.... it's still pretty good.

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By *oxesMan over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"Hi all,

Quick background - me and my ex split a while back and she gave amazing blowjobs. I'm talking lots of spit, enthusiasm and deep-throat action.

What's going on? Do good blowjobs only come from people from our lifestyle? Anyone else encountered this or have I just been unlucky?"

every women has a different style and men are into different things.

sloppy look fantastic on screen but not in real life for me although I do like deep throat it depends who is doing it.

for me I like a lot of toung and teasing and twisting of head. and esp wgen they look up at you that just sets me off.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love giving head, I think because I've gained confidence through experience. I love making a guy cum using my mouth, and i'm yet to meet a guy who can't cum by it. I think a lot of women don't like doing it, probably not so many of them are on here, and that impacts the man's enjoyment... surely it's better to see a woman loving it than appearing to be going through the motions?

As far as technique goes, all men have different ideas of what's a "great" blow job. I know exactly how the Mr likes it, and I'd do it every day if I could. He likes it wet, my fingertips gently tickling his balls, no teeth, and lots of licking/sucking eventually building momentum till I feel him pulsating in my mouth and I feel the warmth going down my throat... he needs to hurry up and get home!!

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

"The beautiful thing about blowjobs is....

When a blowjob is good it's really really good. And when a blowjob is bad.... it's still pretty good.

When a blowjob is bad, Mr Softee usually appears, and that certainly isn't good lol....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I hadn't noticed myself! Anyway positive feedback also works wonders

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The beautiful thing about blowjobs is....

When a blowjob is good it's really really good. And when a blowjob is bad.... it's still pretty good.

When a blowjob is bad, Mr Softee usually appears, and that certainly isn't good lol....

I've never gone soft in someone's mouth. The blowjob would have to be more than just bad.. more than terrible... oh hell I'm going to have nightmares now....!!!

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By *agmanandBagladyCouple over a year ago

Cockermouth

"Great sex rarely comes from one off random fucks anyway

But that's fine, everyone's different and we find out our likes and dislikes by talking and exploring and talking some more.

Don't expect your mind to be blown by a one off fuck with someone you've never spoken to at all, and most likely don't communicate to whilst you are fucking.

If your mind is blown in this situation it's by luck and chance that's all.

Ruby"

Everything that Ruby just said lol - sorry to reoeat it all folks - but the lady says everything that needs to be saId on this subject.

Apart from...."i have never come from a blow job on it's own".......that's a head pronlem matey - and i don't mean the lady giving you it - i mean inside yours!

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By *heBlackPantherCouple over a year ago

Guilford

So OP, are you happy with the responses you got?

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