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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm finding some men very aggressive when I say no to them. Normally young guys of a certain background. If they aren't mature enough to accept a no thank you, are they mature enough to play this lifestyle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm finding some men very aggressive when I say no to them. Normally young guys of a certain background. If they aren't mature enough to accept a no thank you, are they mature enough to play this lifestyle. "
Basically, no they're not. Just block and report if they are abusive. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've had a few guys want to meet me and when I say no. I get you are an ugly man in a dress, you have a pathetic cock, or you are a dirty faggot. Forgetting that they just wanted me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are so many single men on here rejection is a certainty. I never take it personally. If I did I think I'd just leave the site. Gettinv angry isn't likely to change someones mind either. |
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"I've had a few guys want to meet me and when I say no. I get you are an ugly man in a dress, you have a pathetic cock, or you are a dirty faggot. Forgetting that they just wanted me. "
Yeh theres no need for that people like that obviously are only on here because they cant get anything anywhere else so they are used to being nasty to people lol |
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"I've had a few guys want to meet me and when I say no. I get you are an ugly man in a dress, you have a pathetic cock, or you are a dirty faggot. Forgetting that they just wanted me. "
I think we all get that hunni, just proves that you were right in the first place. Thankfully there are some nice people here to x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've had a few guys want to meet me and when I say no. I get you are an ugly man in a dress, you have a pathetic cock, or you are a dirty faggot. Forgetting that they just wanted me. "
I get it too. You're beautiful until you say no and then you're a 'fat, ugly whore'...
Try not to take it personally but it does concern me who the hell have raised these rugrats to speak to people like that. Self-entitled little pricks! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can honestly say we've never come across this problem maybe it's the way you say no ? Nearly all the guys we respond to are very resoectfull even the young ones |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm finding some men very aggressive when I say no to them. Normally young guys of a certain background. If they aren't mature enough to accept a no thank you, are they mature enough to play this lifestyle. "
Oh yes. We empathise with you ! Had it many times, except they are often aggressive from the first message before the rejection message . Now we just delete and block |
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"Can honestly say we've never come across this problem maybe it's the way you say no ? Nearly all the guys we respond to are very resoectfull even the young ones "
It's got nothing to do with the way you say no, just the fact you've said it at all. It's only happened a few times to us as most of our rejection messages are received with good grace and a thanks for replying message or just read and deleted, but it's down to the 'hate replies' that we now decline by message less and less and tend to read and delete these days as per the FAQs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've had it too. Said no and they claimed it was Mr replying and saying no as he was jealous and when I confirmed it was me saying no, I was told men on here were all using me and I should get to a gym
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"We've had it too. Said no and they claimed it was Mr replying and saying no as he was jealous and when I confirmed it was me saying no, I was told men on here were all using me and I should get to a gym
Mrs "
Their comments just show them in their true colours. I always say one needs a high level of emotional intelligence to enjoy swinging, together (especially for men) the ability not to let set backs set you back. |
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By *andy57TV/TS
over a year ago
york |
I have had it loads of times
Funny I am sexy and just what they are looking for
Till I state sorry but not for me as you are not my type
Then I'm a fat ugly guy in a dress who is desperate to meet them !!
I think not
I'm just glad that there are some really nice people who do meet and I have met
So I block and move on but it can be hurtful and disrespectful |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm finding some men very aggressive when I say no to them. Normally young guys of a certain background. If they aren't mature enough to accept a no thank you, are they mature enough to play this lifestyle. "
I have found its usually older guys who get shitty when i say no thanks, in my experience the younger guys tend to be more polite about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We've had it too. Said no and they claimed it was Mr replying and saying no as he was jealous and when I confirmed it was me saying no, I was told men on here were all using me and I should get to a gym
Mrs
Their comments just show them in their true colours. I always say one needs a high level of emotional intelligence to enjoy swinging, together (especially for men) the ability not to let set backs set you back. "
To be fair I probably should get to a gym but then that would be less cake eating time  |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"I've had a few guys want to meet me and when I say no. I get you are an ugly man in a dress, you have a pathetic cock, or you are a dirty faggot. Forgetting that they just wanted me. "
You are not alone
From the "most attractive woman on here with a body to die for" to a "stupid fat old ugly cow" in the time taken to say "no thanks"
Now I just delete or block and delete |
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Personally I think ignoring rudeness doesn't help the person realise they are in the wrong.
So will probably continue in that behaviour, unless everyone they encounter try to correct them.
However, I then realise the reality that trying to correct people's bad behaviour generally get's you to a worse place...
I blame the parents!
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