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By *eedsbig9in OP Man over a year ago

leeds

Where are u all !! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im a lover of them

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By *eavenscentitCouple over a year ago

barnstaple

Love them mmmmmmmm

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By *ornybankerMan over a year ago

London

I'm bi but it's not in my profile... puts you many off I find

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Right here. My biggest fantasy is a mmf.

Eve. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I believe guys should be honest .. ive just blocked a guy who had seen my comment on this thread and it shows hes straight on his profile but he told me he is very bi.

Now i know you all dont want guys chasing after you but you can put filters in place to stop them messaging you if thats what you want. But not being open and honest about your sexual prefence on your profile is a big no for me. Sorry

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By *ornybankerMan over a year ago

London

btw OP... lovely cock!

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By *ed wineMan over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

Bi mmf... 3 bodies sharing each other...

That's Heaven...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm happy to meet bi men. I don't care if they don't state it on their profiles either. Not my business what people put on their profiles.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm happy to meet bi men. I don't care if they don't state it on their profiles either. Not my business what people put on their profiles. "

So you dont care if they lie about being married, lie about their age, their photos etc?

Really?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I choose to be open about that side of my life. But I understand why others might feel the need not make it implicit on their profile page. If you're unsure of your sexuality, then ticking that box is a big deal. I don't think it's comparable to lying about being married.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I choose to be open about that side of my life. But I understand why others might feel the need not make it implicit on their profile page. If you're unsure of your sexuality, then ticking that box is a big deal. I don't think it's comparable to lying about being married. "

I disagree. I prefer guys who are upfront and honest to begin with. Sexual orientation, relationship status are two really important things for alot of people on this site. I just think its very important to show that on your profile then at least we know upfront if we want to continue chatting with them or not.

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By *r.ringMan over a year ago

totton

"I'm happy to meet bi men. I don't care if they don't state it on their profiles either. Not my business what people put on their profiles.

So you dont care if they lie about being married, lie about their age, their photos etc?

Really?"

If it's not on there profile as bi then it's lying clear and simple it's the same as saying single and being married. You can't trust a single word they say after that. Just the same if they then said they always use a condom and show pics of bb. How can they be trusted

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By *eedsbig9in OP Man over a year ago

leeds

"btw OP... lovely cock!"

Thanks

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

Here

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By *r.ringMan over a year ago

totton

It's clearly lying. You can't trust them after that. This is a contact for sexy fun site not a dating site so why lie.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hello! love bi guys, just waiting for right one to mail us.

L (fem)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm happy to meet bi men. I don't care if they don't state it on their profiles either. Not my business what people put on their profiles.

So you dont care if they lie about being married, lie about their age, their photos etc?

Really?"

No. I've met men who weren't as young, slim or tall as their profile suggests. I liked their personality facial features enough to not care. Women lie on here all the time too. I don't even know if my profile says bi or straight, and I've been sexual with a woman, and might be tomorrow evening again.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's clearly lying. You can't trust them after that. This is a contact for sexy fun site not a dating site so why lie. "

I don't trust anyone to tell the truth about anything, on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd rather steer clear of people who are hung up about other people's sexuality.

I have sex, that should be enough for anyone on here, not which genders I have sex with.

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By *heBlackPantherCouple over a year ago

Guilford

"Where are u all !! Lol"

I'm gonna share the fantasy I shared on other similar post:

Doing a 69 with a guy, me underneath so I can watch the other guy's cock sliding all the in. And then alternate between sucking one's cock and the other one's balls. This thought gets me instantly wet.

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By *nlyfun3Woman over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

I love bi guys. But above all I like men I connect with who have open minds. Not worried if they say they r bi or straight on their profiles. It's just a label

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What difference does it make to a woman

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By *laytimenowMan over a year ago

Essex

"Where are u all !! Lol

I'm gonna share the fantasy I shared on other similar post:

Filthy Wench

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hello! love bi guys, just waiting for right one to mail us.

L (fem) "

as i keep saying, hang on, there's a bit of a cue

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By *heBlackPantherCouple over a year ago

Guilford

"Where are u all !! Lol

I'm gonna share the fantasy I shared on other similar post:

Filthy Wench

That will be my porno star name . Thank you!

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By *exatooCouple over a year ago

Bournemouth/ Fuerteventura

Mrs here

Me, trying to find one (that we both find a connection with, is proving quite difficult) for a mmf

Super horny seeing 2 men together

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By *a Fee VerteWoman over a year ago

Limbo

"What difference does it make to a woman

I was about to say it makes no difference to me at all if a man's straight or bi so long as they're into me ...

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By *heBlackPantherCouple over a year ago

Guilford

"Where are u all !! Lol

I'm gonna share the fantasy I shared on other similar post:

Filthy Wench

I could've been more specific. Like I would love to grip the guy's butt cheeks wide open so I could see the head opening the other's eager ass and when he's cock is all in and my mouth is busy with both , I would them get a toy, possibly a bunny or a bullet and play with the standing guy's ass too.

Pardon my English! I'm still learning.

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"I'm bi but it's not in my profile... puts you many off I find"

I think Yu will find that a lot of bi couples aren't into men who hide their sexuality

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By *heBlackPantherCouple over a year ago

Guilford

"Mrs here

Me, trying to find one (that we both find a connection with, is proving quite difficult) for a mmf

Super horny seeing 2 men together "

There are a few interested on this thread : "Interested in having a bisexual meet"

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"I'm happy to meet bi men. I don't care if they don't state it on their profiles either. Not my business what people put on their profiles.

So you dont care if they lie about being married, lie about their age, their photos etc?

Really?"

I don't care about the age, their relationship status etc, but I do care about anyone lying about their sexuality

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By *exatooCouple over a year ago

Bournemouth/ Fuerteventura

"Mrs here

Me, trying to find one (that we both find a connection with, is proving quite difficult) for a mmf

Super horny seeing 2 men together

There are a few interested on this thread : "Interested in having a bisexual meet""

Jackpot

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By *loppsyWoman over a year ago

marlow

To do in 2017........ threesome with 2 Bi guys.........

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By *inful pairCouple over a year ago

Montrose

I just adore bi guys xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Mrs here

Me, trying to find one (that we both find a connection with, is proving quite difficult) for a mmf

Super horny seeing 2 men together "

I feel your pain guys.

It's an impossible task

Eve x

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By *erfumedpornovampireWoman over a year ago

Swindon

"To do in 2017........ threesome with 2 Bi guys.........

Xx"

Yeah, that's a fantasy of mine as well. My ex was bi and watching him suck cock through a glory hole made me so damn wet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To do in 2017........ threesome with 2 Bi guys.........

Xx"
it's a must believe me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Shame all the people looking are miles away from me.

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

We love bi guys, but not every bi guys ... always strikes me as a bit weird that some people profess to loving all of them

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By *loppsyWoman over a year ago

marlow

"To do in 2017........ threesome with 2 Bi guys.........

Xxit's a must believe me

I can imagine....... now just need to find the right 2....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To do in 2017........ threesome with 2 Bi guys.........

Xxit's a must believe me

"
????

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To do in 2017........ threesome with 2 Bi guys.........

Xxit's a must believe me

I can imagine....... now just need to find the right 2....

"
keeping my fingers crossed for you x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yummy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mrs here, we have a reg bi guy fb , we luv our bi mmf threesomes. Don't know but I just luv being fucked by bi cock

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By *reokinkMan over a year ago

London

I discovered my bi side as a single guy when I used to meet couples into cuckolding fun. The pleasure I got when I "ordered" couples to give my cock a good suck while kissing just blew my mind.

As a couple I have had just two MMF experiences with my beautiful girlfriend. Of the two the one with the bi guy was far more pleasurable. We still laugh about it. He said he was 99% straight but we spent a fair bit of time sucking each others cock...straight? yeah right lol

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Yes yes and yes please more

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By *ed wineMan over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

I lived amazing bi-MMF,s.

And the best ones are still waiting...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've enjoyed my bi mmf 3somes in the past - here's hoping 2017 provides some more great meets with more fantastic people

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By *eaven and Hell 69Couple over a year ago

HULL

We love having bi 3sums they are great fun, I love watching my hubby in action xx xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd love the opportunity to enjoy a mmf with 2 bi men.

I also understand why some men don't put that they are bi on their profile.

People make such an issue about minor things on here at times. This is a sex site, not a dating site.

I, for one, don't tell random people on an internet site every personal detail

about myself. That would be ridiculous.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd love the opportunity to enjoy a mmf with 2 bi men.

I also understand why some men don't put that they are bi on their profile.

People make such an issue about minor things on here at times. This is a sex site, not a dating site.

I, for one, don't tell random people on an internet site every personal detail

about myself. That would be ridiculous."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh we love bi play but sadly only had one experience so far... been looking for a while for a repeat but struggling to find it. Patience is a virtue though.

I'm amazed at the number of men we've had pretend to be bi just to try and play with me (fem). We aren't bothered by whether the men declare bi on their profile or not but it does make me

when a "straight" profile winks with no message.

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By *uriousCouple999Couple over a year ago

edinburgh

We both love meeting bi guys together

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Loads of us are into bisexual men. But quite a few of us will only meet bisexual men who are open about it on their profiles.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I, for one, don't tell random people on an internet site every personal detail

about myself. That would be ridiculous."

Your argument would be totally fine (and I'd agree with you) if there was an option to not fill that box in.

But as it is, people would rather be thought of as straight than bisexual, and I find that a little... revealing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As a compromise we like the Bi curious Label for men that are a little bit inclined that way. I am what I'd call Soft Bi, I'm not into the Bum stuff, we quite like sharing a cock when the guy first arrives and see it as part of the fore play and it means everyone can share in the fun without feeling left out.

Much better if the guy is up front about sexuality as we prefer to avoid the "Straight guys" that say they are Bi and do it to trick us and get in Mrs N's pants. Infact if a guy says he is straight on profile we do not consider them any more as there are POF out there in fab land

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm bi but no girls seem to be interested lol x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Me! Count me in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Loads of us are into bisexual men. But quite a few of us will only meet bisexual men who are open about it on their profiles."

Totally with you there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I, for one, don't tell random people on an internet site every personal detail

about myself. That would be ridiculous.

Your argument would be totally fine (and I'd agree with you) if there was an option to not fill that box in.

But as it is, people would rather be thought of as straight than bisexual, and I find that a little... revealing."

Each to their own. I find that when I chat to men the truth about things come out anyway, so I tend not to totally rely upon a profile anyway. I prefer to go off the text in a profile rather than a box that has to be "labelled".

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

im not sure how this is going to come across but ill give it ago lol i male am kind of bisexual . As in i get off on knowing that red is getting off on me sucking a nice black cock. she loves to see this and really turns her on . I wouldnt get turned on doing it if she wasnt there. The next thing she wants to see is me taking cock in my arse.. i love it when she fucks me with her blk strapon so now we need a real one

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By *ouple4biMMFCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

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By *ouple4biMMFCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

"Loads of us are into bisexual men. But quite a few of us will only meet bisexual men who are open about it on their profiles."

I generally prefer it if people are open as I like proof they are and not just full of talk like so many are,but am a little flexible.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm bi and checking out the lovely ladies on here (and a couple of guys lol)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Where are u all !! Lol

I'm gonna share the fantasy I shared on other similar post:

Filthy Wench

Pardon my English! I'm still learning. "

Oh my lord

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Where are u all !! Lol"

Two of us here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm bi but it's not in my profile... puts you many off I find"

Too damn right it does

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm happy to meet bi men. I don't care if they don't state it on their profiles either. Not my business what people put on their profiles.

So you dont care if they lie about being married, lie about their age, their photos etc?

Really?

We couldn't agree more . We state on our profile . No straight men . No men under 37. No smokers . Must be able to accommodate .

Fairly simple ?

The you get a message of straight , 33 year old smoker who can't accommodate number 12.436

You say no thanks pointing out the above and suddenly I'm a reply message they claim to be

Bi but don't say it because abcxyz reasons

I'm Actually 38

I gave up smoking a month ago

How about a hotel

How about no ? You really think it's going to make us say : ok

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What difference does it make to a woman

A big difference

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"What difference does it make to a woman

A big difference "

I have to agree with this. Before even knowing if a man was bi or not, overwhelmingly my best experiences with men have been with bi men ... even if there was no bi play involved.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I state I'm bi on my profile because mmf is what I'm looking for. Have had a few meets with couples and met single ladies with a bi mate.

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

Love a bi MMF

Fucking love a full on bi group.

Ohhhhh myyyyyyyy

What's everyone doing new year? Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Love a bi MMF

Fucking love a full on bi group.

Ohhhhh myyyyyyyy

What's everyone doing new year? Lol"

Why so far away could definitely organise some bi group fun

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By *callycatMan over a year ago

Mid Wales

Bi mmF is the perfect kind of meet, all sorts of sweet sensual two onto one combinations. But finding people who enjoy the same thing here in the wilds of Wales is hard work...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What difference does it make to a woman

Well, firstly there's the threesome/moresome angle. Meeting bisexual men for solo meets means that you're more likely to be able to organise group sex in the future with them. Meeting straight men doesn't help you organise bisexual group sex.

Then there's the dirty talk. The other night I was in bed with my new fella and we were fucking, I said to him 'tell me about the first time you fucked a man'. Amid some groans and pauses out came the story about how he had some hot submissive guy riding on his cock, the guy asking where he wanted his load dumped, and my fella just blissfully going 'everywhere...'. I love a bit of dirty talk. Especially if it's about men fucking men.

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By *heBlackPantherCouple over a year ago

Guilford

"What difference does it make to a woman

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"What difference does it make to a woman

Agreed, I love the dirty talk too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love this kind of reaction

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Where are u all !! Lol

I'm gonna share the fantasy I shared on other similar post:

I've done this before and it is so sexy. I love bi mmf meets.

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By *rs DCouple over a year ago

far

"I'm bi but it's not in my profile... puts you many off I find"
so your fab straight then

same as the cake eaters who dnt say there over weight they say there body type is fab average

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By *achelnMarkCouple over a year ago

Mid Wiltshire

When we started, M was straight, but after some meets thought what the heck. F was a little dubious to start, but soon found she loved watching guys play!

Not into rough bi, but soft sensual type bi play gets the F going.

We'd like more bi MM couples on here lol - as we both want to watch bi M play! But MM and MF bi couples who meet are a rare breed

So love these threads - one or two above we hope to meet at somepoint (!) - and eyeing up everyone else!

Just wish genuine bi guys would have bi mates and team up. Find "3" is an odd number

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

love them

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By *hetalkingstoveMan over a year ago

London

I've had a few wonderful bi MMF meets, and would love some more. Just something exceptionally erotic about the whole dynamic.

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By *laytimenowMan over a year ago

Essex

"Where are u all !! Lol

I'm gonna share the fantasy I shared on other similar post:

Filthy Wench

Pardon my English! I'm still learning. "

Promoted from Filthy Wench to

Sleazy nasty Bitch

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So after reading the forum I wanted to put my thoughts across as a female.

I've been into bi mmfs for a while and Adam has always identified as straight before considering my fantasies. It's taken a lot of thinking but he's ready to meet a guy for a bi mmf. He's intrigued but you think he should be made to change his straight status before he's had chance to experiment and decide for himself?

What for? To please you?

Sure..I know you're very confused about this life changing decision Adam but these folk need you to make a decision now or they will label you a liar..possibly a fake.

I myself have no issues with Adam doing as Adam pleases because who the hell am I to tell him what the label himself as.

The same way in that I don't care what anyone else labels them self as. If they want to play with me/us then that's all I care about.

I want fun, excitement and pleasure. Not labels, drama and judgement.

I'm open minded and non judgemental.

So, if anyone wants to play with us despite our labels and your labels, get in touch!

Eve. Xx

*Don't eat me alive unless it's with your tongues and they are on my clit*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The only MMF I'm interested in...I love playing with bi-guys!

OP I'm often in Leeds overnight too

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"So after reading the forum I wanted to put my thoughts across as a female.

What for? To please you?

Sure..I know you're very confused about this life changing decision Adam but these folk need you to make a decision now or they will label you a liar..possibly a fake.

I myself have no issues with Adam doing as Adam pleases because who the hell am I to tell him what the label himself as.

The same way in that I don't care what anyone else labels them self as. If they want to play with me/us then that's all I care about.

I want fun, excitement and pleasure. Not labels, drama and judgement.

I'm open minded and non judgemental.

So, if anyone wants to play with us despite our labels and your labels, get in touch!

Eve. Xx

*Don't eat me alive unless it's with your tongues and they are on my clit*

For us its those who say they are straight on their profile and message us with the one liner, want to meet, then when we say no because you are straight, they say they are bi. They are obviously lying or beyond just bi curious, and a little explanation would have helped .... for us bi curious doesn't work either as Mr is bi and wants man on man sex ... so its important for us to know .... that's just us

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So after reading the forum I wanted to put my thoughts across as a female.

What for? To please you?

Sure..I know you're very confused about this life changing decision Adam but these folk need you to make a decision now or they will label you a liar..possibly a fake.

I myself have no issues with Adam doing as Adam pleases because who the hell am I to tell him what the label himself as.

The same way in that I don't care what anyone else labels them self as. If they want to play with me/us then that's all I care about.

I want fun, excitement and pleasure. Not labels, drama and judgement.

I'm open minded and non judgemental.

So, if anyone wants to play with us despite our labels and your labels, get in touch!

Eve. Xx

*Don't eat me alive unless it's with your tongues and they are on my clit*

I'm in the same school of thought as you.

I don't have everything I am/want or do on my profile. I couldn't be bothered to write it all for a start. I don't feel the need to explain I like eating a vagina (mons pubis, labia majora, labia minora and clitoris, for the pedants amongst us). Men know that women won't meet them if they know they are bisexual. What you don't know don't hurt you. I like finding out the man I'm attracted to also likes men. It doesn't have to be written in neon signs on their profiles.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So after reading the forum I wanted to put my thoughts across as a female.

What for? To please you?

Sure..I know you're very confused about this life changing decision Adam but these folk need you to make a decision now or they will label you a liar..possibly a fake.

I myself have no issues with Adam doing as Adam pleases because who the hell am I to tell him what the label himself as.

The same way in that I don't care what anyone else labels them self as. If they want to play with me/us then that's all I care about.

I want fun, excitement and pleasure. Not labels, drama and judgement.

I'm open minded and non judgemental.

So, if anyone wants to play with us despite our labels and your labels, get in touch!

Eve. Xx

*Don't eat me alive unless it's with your tongues and they are on my clit*

We think you maybe miss our point eve as you're not in our position . We only want to meet bisexual men. We state exactly what we seek plainly for all to read, yet we have had literally multi thousands of message from men with straight on thier profile who claim to be bi.

We've even met men who have straight but claim to be bi for a social who still claim to be bi . But when we go to thier house , and sit back to watch the guys get it on together, he's suddenly not so bi after all but still want to shag both girls up our bottoms funnily enough .

So whilst we respect your view , our point is when we only wish to meet bi men, if you don't acknowledge yourself as bi from the outset , then we simply won't waste our rare free time on you . If it's not bi , it's bye-bye

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"So after reading the forum I wanted to put my thoughts across as a female.

What for? To please you?

Sure..I know you're very confused about this life changing decision Adam but these folk need you to make a decision now or they will label you a liar..possibly a fake.

I myself have no issues with Adam doing as Adam pleases because who the hell am I to tell him what the label himself as.

The same way in that I don't care what anyone else labels them self as. If they want to play with me/us then that's all I care about.

I want fun, excitement and pleasure. Not labels, drama and judgement.

I'm open minded and non judgemental.

So, if anyone wants to play with us despite our labels and your labels, get in touch!

Eve. Xx

*Don't eat me alive unless it's with your tongues and they are on my clit*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OK cool so if a man turned out not be bi then we would simple leave. Same as if a couple changed their boundaries, a single man lied about his age etc etc.

Curious doesn't always mean soft, Adam has been pegged and is curious about what it feels like to be fucked for real and is haply to fuck a guy too because we both think that genitals and holes are simply tools or pleasure. No matter what gender they are attached to.

We don't judge, we don't care. We want to give and receive pleasure and we don't feel the need to label it. Just primal fun.

Feel free to pass us up or see us as folk who would never judge anyone who who they are or what they do and don't want us to know.

Simples. Guess I'm just a nice girl.

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"OK cool so if a man turned out not be bi then we would simple leave. Same as if a couple changed their boundaries, a single man lied about his age etc etc.

We don't judge, we don't care. We want to give and receive pleasure and we don't feel the need to label it. Just primal fun.

Feel free to pass us up or see us as folk who would never judge anyone who who they are or what they do and don't want us to know.

Simples. Guess I'm just a nice girl.

You are judging people though. A couple of couples (and a trio) have said why they specify they want to meet bi men .... they aren't judging as the reasons, based on experience, have been given .... I prefer people to be up front and when I meet as a single female, on my single female account, I love to meet bi men

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

Don't understand why people struggle to find a bi mmf, we've had plenty (but will only meet folks with at least bi curious on their profile) whereas a bi couples meet is a different story altogether.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OK cool so if a man turned out not be bi then we would simple leave. Same as if a couple changed their boundaries, a single man lied about his age etc etc.

We don't judge, we don't care. We want to give and receive pleasure and we don't feel the need to label it. Just primal fun.

Feel free to pass us up or see us as folk who would never judge anyone who who they are or what they do and don't want us to know.

Simples. Guess I'm just a nice girl.

I'll give you that, I guess I do pass judgement on people that I feel are judging others or being unfair.

Maybe that's because I have seen the transformation in my husband, he reasons for not wanting to change his status, his struggle with wanting to be himself but not knowing what that is as he hasn't had enough experience to know himself.

Then to read how many people would demand that he decides here and now or they would simply call him a liar and move on. Harsh, no?

All I am saying is I don't buy into labels and I let people be whomever they are comfortable being in that moment. That's all that matters to me. I won't push anyone to put themselves in a category just for my peace of mind.

I had a tortured upbringing though so I understand the implications of labels and curiosity and the distress that can be attacked to those things when pushed.

All I am asking is for you to take a second to think about what it may mean to that person too? X

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"OK cool so if a man turned out not be bi then we would simple leave. Same as if a couple changed their boundaries, a single man lied about his age etc etc.

We don't judge, we don't care. We want to give and receive pleasure and we don't feel the need to label it. Just primal fun.

Feel free to pass us up or see us as folk who would never judge anyone who who they are or what they do and don't want us to know.

Simples. Guess I'm just a nice girl.

I'll give you that, I guess I do pass judgement on people that I feel are judging others or being unfair.

Then to read how many people would demand that he decides here and now or they would simply call him a liar and move on. Harsh, no?

I had a tortured upbringing though so I understand the implications of labels and curiosity and the distress that can be attacked to those things when pushed.

All I am asking is for you to take a second to think about what it may mean to that person too? X"

Trust me, I am talking about something completely different here. I am talking about single males wanting to play with pepper and thinking they can get away with black cop maybe sucking their cock. We aren't into someone still at the exploration stage. maybe its different because we were both bi before we met, we had both had bi experiences too. I understand you are going to feel some compassion for your partner and his journey as we do for our partners and friends, but we are not into getting into an emotional journey with anyone else. This may come across as harsh, and I often do come across that way on threads, but I speak as I see from my own experience. Its not about labels just knowing that someone isn't saying one thing to get another. Good luck on your journeh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So after reading the forum I wanted to put my thoughts across as a female.

What for? To please you?

I don't really buy this.

When I was a kid I didn't wait until I'd kissed a boy to call myself straight. I wasn't 'undecided' until that point. As soon as I realised I was interested in boys, society told me I was straight. When I figured out I was interested in girls too, I called myself bisexual. I don't understand the reluctance.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OK cool so if a man turned out not be bi then we would simple leave. Same as if a couple changed their boundaries, a single man lied about his age etc etc.

We don't judge, we don't care. We want to give and receive pleasure and we don't feel the need to label it. Just primal fun.

Feel free to pass us up or see us as folk who would never judge anyone who who they are or what they do and don't want us to know.

Simples. Guess I'm just a nice girl.

I'll give you that, I guess I do pass judgement on people that I feel are judging others or being unfair.

Then to read how many people would demand that he decides here and now or they would simply call him a liar and move on. Harsh, no?

I had a tortured upbringing though so I understand the implications of labels and curiosity and the distress that can be attacked to those things when pushed.

All I am asking is for you to take a second to think about what it may mean to that person too? X

That's fair enough doll.

I can understand you not wanting to get involved in other people's self exploration stages.

I could also sympathise with trying to sort through men who just want to be sucked to get to the Mrs. We have had many of the same which is making our exploration stage a little prolonged ha ha.

Good luck to you too!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So after reading the forum I wanted to put my thoughts across as a female.

What for? To please you?

I don't really buy this.

Ah wouldn't it be perfect if every upbringing was as simple as yours and nobody struggled with their sexuality identity.

It would be a fine world if nobody had ever experienced abuse in their life and had skewered conceptions of societies views and their own feelings.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So after reading the forum I wanted to put my thoughts across as a female.

What for? To please you?

I don't really buy this.

Ah wouldn't it be perfect if every upbringing was as simple as yours and nobody struggled with their sexuality identity.

It would be a fine world if nobody had ever experienced abuse in their life and had skewered conceptions of societies views and their own feelings.

Are you saying that every man on here who puts straight but is actually bisexual has experienced abuse to do with their sexuality? Because that's quite a bold claim. I get contacted by at least a dozen guys a week who fall into this category and it would suggest serious wrongdoings.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I meet bi men

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By *heBlackPantherCouple over a year ago

Guilford

"Where are u all !! Lol

I'm gonna share the fantasy I shared on other similar post:

Filthy Wench

Pardon my English! I'm still learning.

Promoted from Filthy Wench to

Sleazy nasty Bitch

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well I'm bi and very open on my profile.

If any of the above would like a bi male to join them, just say the word

Happy to travel as I do with work for business meetings!

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"Well I'm bi and very open on my profile.

If any of the above would like a bi male to join them, just say the word

Happy to travel as I do with work for business meetings!

Don't take this personally, but .... this is the type of message we get so often, but we aren't into this type of thing (I know it wasn't aimed at us). There seems to be somewhat of an assumption that bi couples are looking for random bi men, and anyone will do, no effort or chemistry needed. We re very picky, not meaning we are better than, just that we are looking for specific things .... we've actually never arranged a meet with a single bi male .... but had a fair few encounters in clubs etc.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well I'm bi and very open on my profile.

If any of the above would like a bi male to join them, just say the word

Happy to travel as I do with work for business meetings!

I've not, but my comment was more of an open comment to the thread and not directed to you or anyone person individually.

Everyone has there preferences and I'm happy to respect that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So after reading the forum I wanted to put my thoughts across as a female.

What for? To please you?

I don't really buy this.

Ah wouldn't it be perfect if every upbringing was as simple as yours and nobody struggled with their sexuality identity.

It would be a fine world if nobody had ever experienced abuse in their life and had skewered conceptions of societies views and their own feelings.

God no! What I am saying is you have no idea why they put it.

Just because it was easy for you, it doesn't make it the same for all these guys.

If you don't want to meet guys who put straight then don't but don't make assumptions and make them feel bad or guilty for not labeling themselves for you. Bang out of order.

Sure, some men will claim to be bi to get to the Mrs which is a crappy thing to do but that's certainly not the case for all men but sure, you'll state that they are all liars anyway...bold statement to make?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

God no! What I am saying is you have no idea why they put it.

Just because it was easy for you, it doesn't make it the same for all these guys.

If you don't want to meet guys who put straight then don't but don't make assumptions and make them feel bad or guilty for not labeling themselves for you. Bang out of order.

I never said they were all liars.

What I actually say to guys who claim that they are bisexual but write straight on their profile is that I only play with men who are open about their sexuality.

If they are not open about their sexuality (either because they are unsure, because they think writing straight will get them laid more, or because they are a fraction homophobic) then they just aren't people I want to meet.

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By *laytimenowMan over a year ago

Essex

"Where are u all !! Lol

I'm gonna share the fantasy I shared on other similar post:

Filthy Wench

Pardon my English! I'm still learning.

Promoted from Filthy Wench to

Sleazy nasty Bitch

May have to let you get your hands on my butt cheeks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

God no! What I am saying is you have no idea why they put it.

Just because it was easy for you, it doesn't make it the same for all these guys.

If you don't want to meet guys who put straight then don't but don't make assumptions and make them feel bad or guilty for not labeling themselves for you. Bang out of order.

I never said they were all liars.

What I actually say to guys who claim that they are bisexual but write straight on their profile is that I only play with men who are open about their sexuality.

Fair play doll, not everyone is as open minded and accepting as I am ha ha.

I'm joking, I'm sure you're a lovely person really. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

God no! What I am saying is you have no idea why they put it.

Just because it was easy for you, it doesn't make it the same for all these guys.

If you don't want to meet guys who put straight then don't but don't make assumptions and make them feel bad or guilty for not labeling themselves for you. Bang out of order.

I never said they were all liars.

What I actually say to guys who claim that they are bisexual but write straight on their profile is that I only play with men who are open about their sexuality.

Fair play doll, not everyone is as open minded and accepting as I am ha ha.

I'm joking, I'm sure you're a lovely person really. X

I only play with very liberal and open minded people. That's why I only meet people who don't care what other people think of their sexual preferences. And that starts with writing 'bisexual' on their profile if they like men as well as women.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

God no! What I am saying is you have no idea why they put it.

Just because it was easy for you, it doesn't make it the same for all these guys.

If you don't want to meet guys who put straight then don't but don't make assumptions and make them feel bad or guilty for not labeling themselves for you. Bang out of order.

I never said they were all liars.

What I actually say to guys who claim that they are bisexual but write straight on their profile is that I only play with men who are open about their sexuality.

Fair play doll, not everyone is as open minded and accepting as I am ha ha.

I'm joking, I'm sure you're a lovely person really. X

Yeah that's true. I am just happy to play with those who don't want to label themselves for whatever reason.

Like I say, I'm open minded and accepting of people's preferences so doesn't matter much to me.

Luckily there are people like myself out there or the people who don't see the world as black and white as you wouldn't get any sort of fun. I like the spread the love ha ha. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

At the end of the day , the three of us have experienced much via fab and in person through fab where , whilst we state EXACTLY what we want , every day around 50 times a day we get the same old same old , I'm bi but say I'm straight because it spoils my chances with women and couples , I say straight because my granny is on here .

I'll let him suck my cock if I can fuck the two girls but that's all .

I think I may be bi can you teach me

Etc., etc., etc., ad Naseum .

We've met at least ten guys face to face over coffee which is a difficult thing to do for us time wise only for them to make it obvious they were only fractionally bi or chancing thier arm for a crack at the girls. One even had the sauce to say he'd booked a hotel nearby but our chap wasn't welcome . Good job we'd already d*unk our coffee .

We've had a few blokes even blanch in horror when we've got to thier house and asked him to get our chaos cock our and start to suck to get us fired up .

So we are quite frankly not interested in the ten go zillion reasons , real or otherwise . We say what we want , if they don't respect what we wish for , why should we reciprocate ? We didn't used to be so dogmatic , but experience has taught us how vital it is when seeking the very elusive bi single male on Fab

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"At the end of the day , the three of us have experienced much via fab and in person through fab where , whilst we state EXACTLY what we want , every day around 50 times a day we get the same old same old , I'm bi but say I'm straight because it spoils my chances with women and couples , I say straight because my granny is on here .

I'll let him suck my cock if I can fuck the two girls but that's all .

I think I may be bi can you teach me

Etc., etc., etc., ad Naseum .

We've had a few blokes even blanch in horror when we've got to thier house and asked him to get our chaos cock our and start to suck to get us fired up .

Totally understandable doll. I would be pretty annoyed with all that too in all honesty.

That's why I state what play we would like to do over message and explain that we will back out of playing if we think the guy is only there for me.

Maybe once we have been on fab a little longer then we will become hardened towards to the single bi males too but I hope not. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'll let him suck my cock if I can fuck the two girls but that's all .

I think I may be bi can you teach me

Etc., etc., etc., ad Naseum .

We've had a few blokes even blanch in horror when we've got to thier house and asked him to get our chaos cock our and start to suck to get us fired up .

Totally understandable doll. I would be pretty annoyed with all that too in all honesty.

That's why I state what play we would like to do over message and explain that we will back out of playing if we think the guy is only there for me.

Maybe once we have been on fab a little longer then we will become hardened towards to the single bi males too but I hope not. X"
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Honestly now , a year of looking for single bi men on Fab will do your proverbial swede in and make you realise what a mile wearing our strap ons is like !

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By *ittleAcornMan over a year ago

visiting the beach

What an interesting thread.

I really struggled to put "bi-curious" on my profile, because until recently I had always avoided thinking myself other than "straight".

I joined the Army at 16, played rugby etc. Left the Army then have worked in an IT Sales role ever since (more or less).

All of the above are rather macho, quite homophobic environments. So with myself being not macho and quite "in touch with my feminine side" was often a "light hearted" target for "joking" abuse.

In basic training for example the SGT in charge nicknamed me "Sweetness", I have to admit it was quite tough.

So ultimately I simply (chameleon-like) took on the form of those around me.

When I joined this site and saw the option to tick a box, I thought long and hard about what box to tick.

As I have had no experience with a guy, I guess straight would have been just as correct as bi-curious. But the latter is where I feel a more realistic label should be placed.

I would be interested to test how curious I am, but so far have not had the opportunity, or to be honest enough courage!

;-)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Honestly now , a year of looking for single bi men on Fab will do your proverbial swede in and make you realise what a mile wearing our strap ons is like ! "

While looking at this thread I just had another one along the lines of "I write straight on my profile to stop dickhead men from contacting me".

As always my response is: "perhaps I should change my profile to say I'm a lesbian to stop dickhead men from contacting me".

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would be interested to test how curious I am, but so far have not had the opportunity, or to be honest enough courage!

As I say to all men who are 'unsure' that contact me - have you considered going to your local gay bar and seeing what happens?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Although I have few female friends/MF couples, who seem to enjoy my company, lots of other do not like to "out" themselves as to liking being with active Bisexual men -

So if you find one , you do your downright bet to keep hold of them and treat them well

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By *inful pairCouple over a year ago

Montrose

Nothing beats a good mmf, and who am I to complain lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What an interesting thread.