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By *tumar OP Couple
over a year ago
portsmouth |
i became disabled 4 yrs ago with a rare neurological illness which,initially, left my limbs paralysed. prior to this we had led a full and sexually satisfying sex life which included swinging which we both enjoyed.as you can imagine my confidence took a hammering my point is would you be prejudiced about meeting people like me. i would add that i am now quite able to perform well and that my gorgeous wife is happy to meet with non judgemental people inc single men |
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over a year ago
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A disability certainly wouldn't put me off. None of us are perfect after all.
A personality is my first factor when deciding whether to meet someone.
If anyone doesn't want to meet you because of your disability then that is a bad reflection on them, not yourselves.
Hope you have lots of fun on here  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A disability certainly wouldn't put me off. None of us are perfect after all.
A personality is my first factor when deciding whether to meet someone.
If anyone doesn't want to meet you because of your disability then that is a bad reflection on them, not yourselves.
Hope you have lots of fun on here x"
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"i became disabled 4 yrs ago with a rare neurological illness which,initially, left my limbs paralysed. prior to this we had led a full and sexually satisfying sex life which included swinging which we both enjoyed.as you can imagine my confidence took a hammering my point is would you be prejudiced about meeting people like me. i would add that i am now quite able to perform well and that my gorgeous wife is happy to meet with non judgemental people inc single men "
No, we wouldn't be prejudiced by it, as long as there was a mutual attraction there, have fun! |
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So op. Your preference is to meet "attractive" people of a certain age. However, should anyone have a preference that excludes you as you fall outside their view of attractive they're judgemental and prejudiced?!!
Or have I got hold of the wrong end of the stick?!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So op. Your preference is to meet "attractive" people of a certain age. However, should anyone have a preference that excludes you as you fall outside their view of attractive they're judgemental and prejudiced?!!
Or have I got hold of the wrong end of the stick?!!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would put us off , but not because we are prejudiced . I love to see my wife enjoy herself , and if the disability were to make it hard work for her , neither she nor I would enjoy the meet as much as if it was with a non disabled person .
Having said that we have met some disabled people in our time on fab , and enjoyed meeting them . So it would depend on the disability I guess ...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it would depend on how the condition affects your movement. Having a disability wouldn't necessarily make me consider you more or less than anyone else, but your ability to move about as part of the fun would be a contributing factor. I don't know enough about your condition to know the answer to this, so if we were located closer and got chatting, it's something i'd want to know. If, for example, you can move your limbs/hands but just not as quickly as you used to, then that wouldn't bother me at all. Whereas if you'd lost the use of your arms/hands, that would put me off because it'd impact the playing possibilities.
Seeing as we're all looking for different things on here, I would imagine that regardless of your range of mobility there'll be someone here to suit. |
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