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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Depends how you define sex, as in intercourse or a sexual experience as a whole?
Its all about a good connection, fun and satisfaction for both of you"
Vaginal, anal, oral etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends how you define sex, as in intercourse or a sexual experience as a whole?
Its all about a good connection, fun and satisfaction for both of you
Vaginal, anal, oral etc"
The way I like to do things a fairly large part like to use their pleasure as a tool whether its teasing, denial, forced orgasm, getting them worked up and ready to submit or even humiliate themselves, bringing out an inner slut, or using them and satisfying the outer slut haha. Im not a 24/7 dom kind of guy so I dont want to control people outside of scenes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For mr k being a dom is very sexual. Everything he does to me cumulates in sex. He ties me up then he fucks me. We do know dons that like to do rope play just for the beauty of it but that's not for us. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For me, D/s is much more than sex ....
But do you think you would enjoy it without the sex?
Are we talking as in no more sex ever or just certain times? "
Lets say, with one person, who doesn't want to have sex, but still wants a bdsm experience. |
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"For me, D/s is much more than sex ....
But do you think you would enjoy it without the sex?
Are we talking as in no more sex ever or just certain times?
Lets say, with one person, who doesn't want to have sex, but still wants a bdsm experience."
Probably not. I don't want to be used in 'an experiment '
Although I have been called an experience before....   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it's a lot about the mental side of things and the power and control. It had always ended with sex, but can imagine a session without sex could have its own kind of satisfaction and be very hot. |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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Difficult to part the two, it's a holistic dynamic in which sex, for me, is the pinicle of that dynamic.
Do I enjoy the play without sex, yes very much so. However would I pkay without an outcome, never. |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"When i am Domme, it's not sexual, for me.
When i am sub, its intrinsically linked to psychological state and sexual activity.
good question x"
It is, made me think, however it's like life, it's not an either/or (although sometimes on this site you would think so) it's "and" |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"When i am Domme, it's not sexual, for me.
When i am sub, its intrinsically linked to psychological state and sexual activity.
good question x
It is, made me think, however it's like life, it's not an either/or (although sometimes on this site you would think so) it's "and""
possibly..it made me review my experiences, as sub i totally blur the edges between the swinging and the fet worlds. As a Domme, i like the psychological aspect, and, just because of my character i suppose, its all about them, so, i don't switch on the sexual, at least, it hasn't happened yet.. |
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Switch here....and it depends.
I had a truly lovely experience subbing for a friend just over a week ago, and it did not involve sex at all. No intimate touching, just some snuggling after.
But usually when I do BDSM it does lead to all parties at least having an orgasm and sometimes to sex. |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"When i am Domme, it's not sexual, for me.
When i am sub, its intrinsically linked to psychological state and sexual activity.
good question x
It is, made me think, however it's like life, it's not an either/or (although sometimes on this site you would think so) it's "and"possibly..it made me review my experiences, as sub i totally blur the edges between the swinging and the fet worlds. As a Domme, i like the psychological aspect, and, just because of my character i suppose, its all about them, so, i don't switch on the sexual, at least, it hasn't happened yet.."
Mmm, juxtaposition doesn't sit well on my shoulder.
However, from this I like that the pschological dynamic dictates almost prey play.
Crap adjective, however could not think of a better one.
Perhaps we should set up a fet kik group...
I can do it or you... Lady
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"When i am Domme, it's not sexual, for me.
When i am sub, its intrinsically linked to psychological state and sexual activity.
good question x
It is, made me think, however it's like life, it's not an either/or (although sometimes on this site you would think so) it's "and"possibly..it made me review my experiences, as sub i totally blur the edges between the swinging and the fet worlds. As a Domme, i like the psychological aspect, and, just because of my character i suppose, its all about them, so, i don't switch on the sexual, at least, it hasn't happened yet..
Mmm, juxtaposition doesn't sit well on my shoulder.
However, from this I like that the pschological dynamic dictates almost prey play.
Crap adjective, however could not think of a better one.
Perhaps we should set up a fet kik group...
I can do it or you... Lady
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i dont use kik, sorry xx
prey play...maybe, wouldnt possibly like to say  |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"When i am Domme, it's not sexual, for me.
When i am sub, its intrinsically linked to psychological state and sexual activity.
good question x
It is, made me think, however it's like life, it's not an either/or (although sometimes on this site you would think so) it's "and"possibly..it made me review my experiences, as sub i totally blur the edges between the swinging and the fet worlds. As a Domme, i like the psychological aspect, and, just because of my character i suppose, its all about them, so, i don't switch on the sexual, at least, it hasn't happened yet..
Mmm, juxtaposition doesn't sit well on my shoulder.
However, from this I like that the pschological dynamic dictates almost prey play.
Crap adjective, however could not think of a better one.
Perhaps we should set up a fet kik group...
I can do it or you... Lady
i dont use kik, sorry xx
prey play...maybe, wouldnt possibly like to say "
It is a good way to set up groups.
No personal details just a user name, like here.
I have respect for a number on here, it would be good if you got it. |
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A good question and a complex response - as a switch it varies to which side and who I'm with.
As a sub I sometimes have bdsm only experiences without anything sexual and I enjoy that (usually physical or impact play). With my ex Dom it always encompassed sex and I couldn't imagine our meets being either just sex or just bdsm (it always included sex/physical domination/mind play).
As a Domme it also depends who I'm with and what the scene is. With a man I may physically or mentally dominate him, even if I peg him this is never sexual for me. With women I can do pure impact play without anything sexual. I love the purely sensuality of a nice rope session. And sometimes when a ladies tied up, laid there with her legs spread helpless and unable to do anything...  |
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"When i am Domme, it's not sexual, for me.
When i am sub, its intrinsically linked to psychological state and sexual activity.
good question x
It is, made me think, however it's like life, it's not an either/or (although sometimes on this site you would think so) it's "and"possibly..it made me review my experiences, as sub i totally blur the edges between the swinging and the fet worlds. As a Domme, i like the psychological aspect, and, just because of my character i suppose, its all about them, so, i don't switch on the sexual, at least, it hasn't happened yet..
Mmm, juxtaposition doesn't sit well on my shoulder.
However, from this I like that the pschological dynamic dictates almost prey play.
Crap adjective, however could not think of a better one.
Perhaps we should set up a fet kik group...
I can do it or you... Lady
i dont use kik, sorry xx
prey play...maybe, wouldnt possibly like to say
It is a good way to set up groups.
No personal details just a user name, like here.
I have respect for a number on here, it would be good if you got it. "
I'd be up for a kik group |
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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago
Where the streets have no name |
I don't know. She never answered to my last messages. Maybe it was an dead end road from the beginning...
But she was an inspiration to understand the beauty of Dominance and Submission... |
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"I don't know. She never answered to my last messages. Maybe it was an dead end road from the beginning...
But she was an inspiration to understand the beauty of Dominance and Submission..."
Maybe she didn't understand or have the same needs?
Lucky girl to be an inspiration though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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BDSM is a way of life for me. It consumes my every day to day life and nearly all of my free time is spent connected to it in some regards.
That said sex is only a part of that, whilst BDSM is an extension of my sex life I can quite happily and regularly do engage in perfectly platonic BDSM activities and scenes with friends that does not include sex itself. |
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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago
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"I don't know. She never answered to my last messages. Maybe it was an dead end road from the beginning...
But she was an inspiration to understand the beauty of Dominance and Submission...
Maybe she didn't understand or have the same needs?
Lucky girl to be an inspiration though "
No, lucky me for having known so precious Muse... |
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