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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Fellas, if you ended up meeting someone and for whatever reason, you realise they weren't what you expected, would you be able to (1) go ahead or (2) get an erection if you did? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fellas, if you ended up meeting someone and for whatever reason, you realise they weren't what you expected, would you be able to (1) go ahead or (2) get an erection if you did? "
We can get erections just by touching. Attraction isn't needed.
Depends by what you mean 'different' too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Fellas, if you ended up meeting someone and for whatever reason, you realise they weren't what you expected, would you be able to (1) go ahead or (2) get an erection if you did?
We can get erections just by touching. Attraction isn't needed.
Depends by what you mean 'different' too."
Maybe the person isn't like the images you'd seen, older, thinner, chubbier perhaps? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fellas, if you ended up meeting someone and for whatever reason, you realise they weren't what you expected, would you be able to (1) go ahead or (2) get an erection if you did? "
Me personally i would just explain there is no spark or connection why be intimate with some one you don't really want to be intimate with...
That's where the sleeping with anyone for just a shag comes from surely |
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"Fellas, if you ended up meeting someone and for whatever reason, you realise they weren't what you expected, would you be able to (1) go ahead or (2) get an erection if you did? "
Wasn't what I expected could be that they were even hotter in the flesh |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fellas, if you ended up meeting someone and for whatever reason, you realise they weren't what you expected, would you be able to (1) go ahead or (2) get an erection if you did?
We can get erections just by touching. Attraction isn't needed.
Depends by what you mean 'different' too.
Maybe the person isn't like the images you'd seen, older, thinner, chubbier perhaps? "
Yes, ln that case l would still go ahead with it. |
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"Fellas, if you ended up meeting someone and for whatever reason, you realise they weren't what you expected, would you be able to (1) go ahead or (2) get an erection if you did? "
Isn't that what doggy style was invented for |
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"Fellas, if you ended up meeting someone and for whatever reason, you realise they weren't what you expected, would you be able to (1) go ahead or (2) get an erection if you did? "
Yes and yes, I'm sure I'd be able to find something attractive about the person unless they were totally different |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Fellas, if you ended up meeting someone and for whatever reason, you realise they weren't what you expected, would you be able to (1) go ahead or (2) get an erection if you did?
Wasn't what I expected could be that they were even hotter in the flesh"
Good point well put. You're a half full kinda person |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's the connection you have made with that person , by getting to know them via chatting .
If you can have that spark when chatting then that's what counts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't go ahead, but as I am a sneaky bastard I would convince them, through strangely mystical powers, that they were not into me......... that way I wouldn't have the guilt. |
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"Fellas, if you ended up meeting someone and for whatever reason, you realise they weren't what you expected, would you be able to (1) go ahead or (2) get an erection if you did?
Wasn't what I expected could be that they were even hotter in the flesh
Good point well put. You're a half full kinda person"
Very much, life's to short to be negative |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't go ahead, but as I am a sneaky bastard I would convince them, through strangely mystical powers, that they were not into me......... that way I wouldn't have the guilt."
Haha! I like this answer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldn't go ahead, but as I am a sneaky bastard I would convince them, through strangely mystical powers, that they were not into me......... that way I wouldn't have the guilt.
Haha! I like this answer. "
It truly works, sometimes I even act a little offended or upset (I think this helps their ego a smidgen)......
.....I know, I know, I am a terrible human being |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's a really difficult question. Could I? Yes, easily. And I have, because I genuinely liked the person. She hadn't been deceitful, and I didn't want to be hurtful.
If I felt I'd been purposely mislead, I might have acted differently though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Normally always say to have a social first, think it could be quite awkward to get naughty with someone where there isnt a connection x"
I 100% agree with that. I've had to do that twice myself, but not unkindly. |
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Yea l had a meet picked her up from her house when she came out my right foot pressed the pedal but l thought hang on give her a chance so we went for a drink then back to mine and it was all good cum on her face wot a good lady |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yea l had a meet picked her up from her house when she came out my right foot pressed the pedal but l thought hang on give her a chance so we went for a drink then back to mine and it was all good cum on her face wot a good lady"
Your such a charmer  |
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By *arehamMan
over a year ago
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Yes I met a couple before the Internet,she sounded so sexy on the phone but was nothing what my mind had thought she would look like but I still fucked her she had a great wet fanny and was a good fuck to.  |
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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago
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"Yes I met a couple before the Internet,she sounded so sexy on the phone but was nothing what my mind had thought she would look like but I still fucked her she had a great wet fanny and was a good fuck to. "
You charmer...... |
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"Fellas, if you ended up meeting someone and for whatever reason, you realise they weren't what you expected, would you be able to (1) go ahead or (2) get an erection if you did? "
1. Depends
2. An erection cums easily but i'm in full control of my brain lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest...i love women of all shaes and sizes so looks really are not that important to me, what puts me off and gives me a hard time getting wood is if i dont really like the person. If i dont really like them as a person i have trouble fucking them lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I met a couple before the Internet,she sounded so sexy on the phone but was nothing what my mind had thought she would look like but I still fucked her she had a great wet fanny and was a good fuck to. "
Ruthless. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on who turned up and how we got on.
If we got on well and there was chemistry, absolutly. But if it's not there, it's not there and I'd politely make my excuses and leave.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I did meet in a previous life on here.
She wasn't as attractive as I had thought but my God her aura and attitude had me bigger than usual lol.
Goes to show that looks are only a small part.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can you sue someone for false advertising? 
I wish you could, I would be richer than Bill Gates with all the false advertising on here  "
Some people read to much into profiles or just read it differently to the way there meant, so I blame the for having the wrong expectations |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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Yes I could still do it, would I is another matter, depends on prior chat & whether I thought she had been deliberately deceiptful. Probably give them the benefit of the doubt unless it was blatantly obvious though.
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By *100Man
over a year ago
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The best sex I ever had vas with an older lady i wasn't attracted to and it was wonderful she made me cum a lot over about 6 hours the next day my chest hurt so much but I still had the biggest smile lol |
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Neither. I won't have sex with someone I don't find 100% attractive and I should hope they would think the same. Why would you have sex with anyone you are not attracted too? If you do then surely that says something about you too? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Couldn't do it even if alcohol was involved. They could have the greatest personality and all the money in the world but if the attraction is not there, then it is just not happening. That being said, attraction is not just facial features, it goes way beyond that! |
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
a quandary, could you change my mind? |
"Fellas, if you ended up meeting someone and for whatever reason, you realise they weren't what you expected, would you be able to (1) go ahead or (2) get an erection if you did? "
(1) probably wouldn't
(2) doesn't apply because of answers (1) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fellas, if you ended up meeting someone and for whatever reason, you realise they weren't what you expected, would you be able to (1) go ahead or (2) get an erection if you did? "
Really depends how different. An old photo or one took at a good angle / touched up before they got older or put on weight is fine, glad on them for trying hard
But if it was litterally a different person e.g. pics from the internet and they were lying / being deceptive i would advise them as such and walk out, even if i still thought they were hot. That is stalker territory. |
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