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Dogging... Have you? would you?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, I would try (for scientific research of course! ), god knows where...I've no idea of locations!  "
Yes! I'm a trucker. Lots. And all over the place lol!
I play safe and I enjoy semi anonymous sex sometimes. There's a thrill to it. I try to negate any pitfalls by being vigilant and careful.
Its changed a lot though. Most laybys seem to be over run by men looking for other men.. To the point I can't park up for the night. Or I have to go ask someone to turn their taillights off as I'm trying to sleep! They get a shock when I come out fuming!
I've been to nature spots too, I can see why it's off putting to some. I'd never recommend anyone go alone who isn't confident in their ability to control a situation - especially a single female. Then you have public and police to consider, not a problem for me in my sleeper cab. But those can be part if the excitement for a thrill seeker.. I guess I'm getting comfortable in my old age. |
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One of our first big adventure was dogging. We had only been dating a month and decided to give it a try.
My new girlfriend (now wife)just let rip. Went totally wild with a heap of guys. Nothing was off the menu. Nothing.
It was one of the most exciting and most extreme things we have ever done.
The next time we tried it a guy went totally rogue and had to be held back by the others.
Very scary and we never tried it again. So mixed results I suppose. |
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Dogging used to be quite niche and based around a combination of the exhibitionist stuff and a micro-social scene.
Things have changed though due to two things IMO - 1. The general public became aware of it, meaning that some car-parks (such as Blidworth) are overrun with boy racers and non-swingers now. 2. The rise of swingers clubs, increasing the options for couples on a night, esp weekends.
Now, it's not really anything we consider seriously to be honest. |
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When ever we went to a local spot it seemed swamped with young guys in cars racing up and down, which put us off as it wasn't quite the quiet secluded area we thought it was. I am sure we will try it again at some point though, but probably a different spot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We do , we have and we will continue to do dogging .
We love the spontaneity , the rush , the adrenaline and the fact that one doesn't need to go through the socialising .
Sheer raw passion , we love it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely not. For me, most of the thrill is getting to know someone and building the sexual chemistry.
I'm guessing with dogging you just turn up and crack on?? I wouldn't know! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Absolutely not. For me, most of the thrill is getting to know someone and building the sexual chemistry.
I'm guessing with dogging you just turn up and crack on?? I wouldn't know! "
Yep , exactly why we love it .
Turn up and crack on  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"no not yet, yes would like to see what its about, haven't got a clue where to go or how to start "
Google dogging spots local. Maybe find a quiet area and put a meet up and pick a few (3-4) guys u like look of for your first. It's what i did  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"no not yet, yes would like to see what its about, haven't got a clue where to go or how to start
Google dogging spots local. Maybe find a quiet area and put a meet up and pick a few (3-4) guys u like look of for your first. It's what i did "
Do hope im one of the lucky ones |
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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago
Dorset |
Yes, yes, lots of places, we enjoy the voyeur/exhibitionism of it, never been interested in any full on unprotected sex with others, we value our health too much, also don't even unlock the car unless we are completely comfortable with the other doggers, it's funny how so many people on here that say they have never tried it, then go on to express how dirty and nasty it all is, we have had loads of fun over the years and look forwards to lots more. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes, yes, lots of places, we enjoy the voyeur/exhibitionism of it, never been interested in any full on unprotected sex with others, we value our health too much, also don't even unlock the car unless we are completely comfortable with the other doggers, it's funny how so many people on here that say they have never tried it, then go on to express how dirty and nasty it all is, we have had loads of fun over the years and look forwards to lots more. "
Sounds like you love it too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I (m) have been to a couple of sites never seen a thing. Would love to just watch. Couldn't take part as the OH chosen career would be over in an instant if caught. |
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"Yes...did it a few times about ten years ago..went with hubby to Blidworth. Not been for ages  "
You aren't missing much......
It's become more of a sausage appreciation society with couples and ladies visiting less frequently than Halley's Comet. |
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"Dogging used to be quite niche and based around a combination of the exhibitionist stuff and a micro-social scene.
Things have changed though due to two things IMO - 1. The general public became aware of it, meaning that some car-parks (such as Blidworth) are overrun with boy racers and non-swingers now. 2. The rise of swingers clubs, increasing the options for couples on a night, esp weekends.
Now, it's not really anything we consider seriously to be honest."
About sums it up perfectly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I remember around 15 years ago ex girlfriend and myself were getting it on in her car in a park in South london.there was a bush in front of us(excuse the pun) with a police car behind it with two offices sitting in front.girlfriend wasn't bothered and carried on.arfter around 15 minutes the car drove off to my relief.would I do it again? never in a million years. to risky.but yes made a mess in her car  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would love to but seems very clicky in northern ireland and no one willing to say where is good or invite to watch or join in.all invites to watch or where is good welcome.lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes...did it a few times about ten years ago..went with hubby to Blidworth. Not been for ages
You aren't missing much......
It's become more of a sausage appreciation society with couples and ladies visiting less frequently than Halley's Comet. "
My hubby still goes very occasionally and says the same. It used to be quite a social thing too, you got to know people and they looked out for you. I think I'd like to try it again sometimes but I think I've lost my nerve for it...and get used to comfort in my old age ha ha  xx |
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"Yes...did it a few times about ten years ago..went with hubby to Blidworth. Not been for ages
You aren't missing much......
It's become more of a sausage appreciation society with couples and ladies visiting less frequently than Halley's Comet.
My hubby still goes very occasionally and says the same. It used to be quite a social thing too, you got to know people and they looked out for you. I think I'd like to try it again sometimes but I think I've lost my nerve for it...and get used to comfort in my old age ha ha xx"
I've got to admit the social scene is good......
Always a good atmosphere. All I'm saying is that I go there to go dogging and that in my mind means some form of interaction with a M/F or the even rarer single F...........
You should dust off your dogging boots and come back up, even if it's just for a social |
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Dogging is how I got into Swinging. Over 10 years ago it came up on the Big Breakfast one morning and the rest is history!
It used to be really good back in the day, now it's mostly a waste of time. The single men have ruined it like they're ruining everything else!
I like to now do arranged outdoor meets when the weather permits...  |
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"Yes. ??
Yes. ??
Car parks, everywhere. ??
Just a shame the internet has killed a lot of it off.
A local car park - v - A club 100 miles away and a £50 single bloke entrance fee !
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Aka a cold dark isolated spot full of god knows who -v- a warm, safe place with amenities and people who are allowed in.
But each to their own x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My mate along with three of his friends used to go dogging and regularly fuck the same woman in the woods while her husband watched. I was invited to join in the fun but never did. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Chance would be a fine thing....
There's nothing happening around here - nothing at all - and I've looked!
If anyone wants to tell me that I'm wrong, then please do!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been a few times, had to watch from the car first time I went as was too scared to leave the car, got spitroasted by a number of guys the second time :P x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are going to give it a try in the new year. As our first time will be exhibitionist only at first see but not touch... see how it goes...well thats the plan anyway |
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By *irceWoman
over a year ago
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"Seems to me that dogging and gay cruising seem to share some of the same places these days - bit confusing "
Have seen this as well, its mad busy on a dinner time at the one spot i used to go to, the guys seem to be well busy admiring the views  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. Mainly because i'd worry i'd be that unlucky person who met Clive, The Chainsaw Killer, and come off worse for wear.
That all the dodgy men within a 5 mile radius would come and beat their sore covered cocks over me.
That i feel the cold and a stiff breeze would make my nipples take somebody's eye out.
That i'd kneel on a bench and my knees would go and everybody would laugh and sod off to findfa more nimble lady.
That the Police would arrest me and i'd end up front page news.
So no. Not for me. |
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By *ackardMan
over a year ago
North West & beyond |
1:Yes
2:Maybe, it's definatly not the same as it was when I first went dogging 25 years ago. Boy racers & idiots have killed it off. I stopped going for years after a the police started turning up frequently and taking everyone's details. My current job takes me around the UK and I have occasionally called at known dogging spots after dark but not seen anything going on for years.
3: I mainly went to "known" dogging sites in the Bolton/Manchester/Merseyside area. |
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