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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hello all. Curious question here.

I don't send lets of messageds but the few that I do seem to stay read but are not replied or deleted?

Any views?

Cheers for your timr

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

They're waiting til you log off so they can delete them without risking another message asking why they deleted. Or at least that's what I do.

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Someone hasn't read the FAQ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your in a 'relationship ' without your parnter knowing your here from what I can assume? Why would you get a reply?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"They're waiting til you log off so they can delete them without risking another message asking why they deleted. Or at least that's what I do."

Love the reply I can tell your whit is on point

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"They're waiting til you log off so they can delete them without risking another message asking why they deleted. Or at least that's what I do.

Love the reply I can tell your whit is on point"

Whoo.

Couldn't resist.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Someone hasn't read the FAQ..."

Lol. Is there any reason to be so sarcastic? Don't be angry at me because you have been on here a year and have had only one meet. Middle age can be hard.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Your in a 'relationship ' without your parnter knowing your here from what I can assume? Why would you get a reply?"

That wasn't the question.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"They're waiting til you log off so they can delete them without risking another message asking why they deleted. Or at least that's what I do.

Love the reply I can tell your whit is on point

Whoo.

Couldn't resist.

Top marks

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Someone hasn't read the FAQ...

Lol. Is there any reason to be so sarcastic? Don't be angry at me because you have been on here a year and have had only one meet. Middle age can be hard. "

Well, there's one reason someone might not want to reply.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As above, from your profile you're cheating.

Which is disgusting.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Your in a 'relationship ' without your parnter knowing your here from what I can assume? Why would you get a reply?

That wasn't the question."
well that's the reason you probably wouldn't get a reply.. nobody likes a scumbag

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Someone hasn't read the FAQ...

Lol. Is there any reason to be so sarcastic? Don't be angry at me because you have been on here a year and have had only one meet. Middle age can be hard. "

Was there really any need for this?

If you had bothered to read the faq's you wouldn't have needed to start a thread. Personal attacks are not attractive!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You seem a really nice guy based on your posts on this thread. Maybe that comes across in the messages you send?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Someone hasn't read the FAQ...

Lol. Is there any reason to be so sarcastic? Don't be angry at me because you have been on here a year and have had only one meet. Middle age can be hard.

Well, there's one reason someone might not want to reply."

I'm nothing but honest and respectful. That gentleman was just rude. Back to your other post I don't send many messages and I certainly don't ask why they have been deleted.

My question stated messages being read and staying read. Not deleted

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Someone hasn't read the FAQ...

Lol. Is there any reason to be so sarcastic? Don't be angry at me because you have been on here a year and have had only one meet. Middle age can be hard.

Well, there's one reason someone might not want to reply."

Some people really lack self awareness don't they?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To be blunt you are cheating and your attitude screams entitlement. There aren't many who will find that combination attractive

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Someone hasn't read the FAQ...

Lol. Is there any reason to be so sarcastic? Don't be angry at me because you have been on here a year and have had only one meet. Middle age can be hard.

Well, there's one reason someone might not want to reply.

I'm nothing but honest and respectful. That gentleman was just rude. Back to your other post I don't send many messages and I certainly don't ask why they have been deleted.

My question stated messages being read and staying read. Not deleted "

Might be because they're thinking it over. I would say you're better off asking the person you've messaged, but I hate men messaging me repeatedly.

I recommend you regularly delete your sent box so you're not fretting about things you can't control.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ok people. I'm cheating scum who dosen't deserve to ask questions or be rude back to people who have been rude to me.

Noted.

What a great site.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok people. I'm cheating scum who dosen't deserve to ask questions or be rude back to people who have been rude to me.

Noted.

What a great site. "

No one was rude to you

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By *ungBlackTopMan over a year ago

salford

"Your in a 'relationship ' without your parnter knowing your here from what I can assume? Why would you get a reply?

That wasn't the question. well that's the reason you probably wouldn't get a reply.. nobody likes a scumbag "

lol you're a feisty one....love it but I can guarantee most on here are in relationships and cheating. nature of the site I'm afraid, the OP is far from an exception.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Someone hasn't read the FAQ...

Lol. Is there any reason to be so sarcastic? Don't be angry at me because you have been on here a year and have had only one meet. Middle age can be hard.

Well, there's one reason someone might not want to reply.

I'm nothing but honest and respectful. That gentleman was just rude. Back to your other post I don't send many messages and I certainly don't ask why they have been deleted.

My question stated messages being read and staying read. Not deleted

Might be because they're thinking it over. I would say you're better off asking the person you've messaged, but I hate men messaging me repeatedly.

I recommend you regularly delete your sent box so you're not fretting about things you can't control."

Thank you for your honest, decent reply. Much appriciated.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Your in a 'relationship ' without your parnter knowing your here from what I can assume? Why would you get a reply?

That wasn't the question. well that's the reason you probably wouldn't get a reply.. nobody likes a scumbag

lol you're a feisty one....love it but I can guarantee most on here are in relationships and cheating. nature of the site I'm afraid, the OP is far from an exception."

Many thanks for your view. Spot on.

Let him without sin cast the first stone. At least I'm honest in my profile text

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok people. I'm cheating scum who dosen't deserve to ask questions or be rude back to people who have been rude to me.

Noted.

What a great site. "

If u don't like it u know where the door is ......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's a swingers site. A huge part of swinging is trust and communication. Nobody is going to be impressed with you openly cheating on your parnter. If she's not your everything then let her move on and be honest with her

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"Someone hasn't read the FAQ...

Lol. Is there any reason to be so sarcastic? Don't be angry at me because you have been on here a year and have had only one meet. Middle age can be hard. "

I see that "whit" can only be "on point" where the ladies are concerned...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ok people. I'm cheating scum who dosen't deserve to ask questions or be rude back to people who have been rude to me.

Noted.

What a great site.

No one was rude to you "

I think calling me a scumbag or saying that a scream entitlement can be constituted as rude.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone hasn't read the FAQ...

Lol. Is there any reason to be so sarcastic? Don't be angry at me because you have been on here a year and have had only one meet. Middle age can be hard. "

Well if he's middle aged and 4 yrs younger than me would you be as rude to me?? No wonder you aren't getting replies.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Someone hasn't read the FAQ...

Lol. Is there any reason to be so sarcastic? Don't be angry at me because you have been on here a year and have had only one meet. Middle age can be hard.

I see that "whit" can only be "on point" where the ladies are concerned...

Yours was not whit. It was rude.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Ok people. I'm cheating scum who dosen't deserve to ask questions or be rude back to people who have been rude to me.

Noted.

What a great site. "

Petulance isn't attractive either.

Personal attacks regarding your relationship is out of order, no ifs or buts about that, but brattish behaviour is not on either.

In answer to your initial question, sometimes people come on to join in the forums, chat room, arrange meets etc and will come back to messages. They may simply just block delete at a later date: who knows, forget your sent and concentrate on your inbox.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ok people. I'm cheating scum who dosen't deserve to ask questions or be rude back to people who have been rude to me.

Noted.

What a great site.

If u don't like it u know where the door is ......"

True

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ok people. I'm cheating scum who dosen't deserve to ask questions or be rude back to people who have been rude to me.

Noted.

What a great site.

Petulance isn't attractive either.

Personal attacks regarding your relationship is out of order, no ifs or buts about that, but brattish behaviour is not on either.

Thank you for your answer. Much appriciated.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hello all. Curious question here.

I don't send lets of messageds but the few that I do seem to stay read but are not replied or deleted?

Any views?

Cheers for your timr"

I would not respond to a message from you.

Not because you are cheating but because your profile holds no interest. It is threadbare. Far more enticing people to engage with.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok people. I'm cheating scum who dosen't deserve to ask questions or be rude back to people who have been rude to me.

Noted.

What a great site.

No one was rude to you

I think calling me a scumbag or saying that a scream entitlement can be constituted as rude. "

Your attitude does scream entitlement. You staring insulting people as soon as people gave you the answers you don't want to hear.

And while i never used the word scumbag, a profile that solely refers to your partner in a negative light doesn't exactly cast you in a goodlight

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Someone hasn't read the FAQ...

Lol. Is there any reason to be so sarcastic? Don't be angry at me because you have been on here a year and have had only one meet. Middle age can be hard.

Well if he's middle aged and 4 yrs younger than me would you be as rude to me?? No wonder you aren't getting replies."

If you was rude to me first then yeah

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ok people. I'm cheating scum who dosen't deserve to ask questions or be rude back to people who have been rude to me.

Noted.

What a great site.

No one was rude to you

I think calling me a scumbag or saying that a scream entitlement can be constituted as rude.

Your attitude does scream entitlement. You staring insulting people as soon as people gave you the answers you don't want to hear.

And while i never used the word scumbag, a profile that solely refers to your partner in a negative light doesn't exactly cast you in a goodlight

Nope. My partrner is my world. Just not sexually. Am I the first that has happened to?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To answer your question is impossible. But one possibility is that because you have only been here 7 days, people have read your message and are now waiting to see how you develop. Your responses on your own post probably haven't helped that.

Secondly, I (as a single male) had 11 pages of messages to sort through today, it took a while (I am still doing it). Many fab users only look at their first page and get lots of messages, they read your message, they didn't respond, and a number of other messages came in and pushed you off their first page of messages, now you are forgotten until they bulk delete.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hello all. Curious question here.

I don't send lets of messageds but the few that I do seem to stay read but are not replied or deleted?

Any views?

Cheers for your timr

I would not respond to a message from you.

Not because you are cheating but because your profile holds no interest. It is threadbare. Far more enticing people to engage with."

Thank you for ypur reply. Much appriciated

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"To answer your question is impossible. But one possibility is that because you have only been here 7 days, people have read your message and are now waiting to see how you develop. Your responses on your own post probably haven't helped that.

Thank you for your answer. Much appriciated

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

11 pages!

I'm surprised you saw mine.

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By *ittlemisssassypantsCouple over a year ago

South East Wales

"Someone hasn't read the FAQ...

Lol. Is there any reason to be so sarcastic? Don't be angry at me because you have been on here a year and have had only one meet. Middle age can be hard.

Well, there's one reason someone might not want to reply.

I'm nothing but honest and respectful. That gentleman was just rude. Back to your other post I don't send many messages and I certainly don't ask why they have been deleted.

My question stated messages being read and staying read. Not deleted "

No, it was you that was rude.

With your attitude no wonder no one wants to reply to you message, let alone meet you, I wouldn't.

Sassy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

11 pages!

I'm surprised you saw mine. "

But I did, didn't I

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone hasn't read the FAQ...

Lol. Is there any reason to be so sarcastic? Don't be angry at me because you have been on here a year and have had only one meet. Middle age can be hard. "

He,s had 32 meets actually

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

11 pages!

I'm surprised you saw mine.

But I did, didn't I

For which I intend to be suitably grateful

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

11 pages!

I'm surprised you saw mine.

But I did, didn't I

For which I intend to be suitably grateful

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

11 pages!

I'm surprised you saw mine.

But I did, didn't I

At least some good came from the post!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

11 pages!

I'm surprised you saw mine.

But I did, didn't I

At least some good came from the post!

It was before your post chap... sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Someone hasn't read the FAQ...

Lol. Is there any reason to be so sarcastic? Don't be angry at me because you have been on here a year and have had only one meet. Middle age can be hard.

Well, there's one reason someone might not want to reply.

I'm nothing but honest and respectful. That gentleman was just rude. Back to your other post I don't send many messages and I certainly don't ask why they have been deleted.

My question stated messages being read and staying read. Not deleted

No, it was you that was rude.

With your attitude no wonder no one wants to reply to you message, let alone meet you, I wouldn't.

Sassy"

That wasn't the question I asked

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

11 pages!

I'm surprised you saw mine.

But I did, didn't I

At least some good came from the post!

It was before your post chap... sorry"

Yeah I get that I meant that you got the chance to speak "directly"

Don't take the good away lol!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok people. I'm cheating scum who dosen't deserve to ask questions or be rude back to people who have been rude to me.

Noted.

What a great site.

No one was rude to you

I think calling me a scumbag or saying that a scream entitlement can be constituted as rude.

Your attitude does scream entitlement. You staring insulting people as soon as people gave you the answers you don't want to hear.

And while i never used the word scumbag, a profile that solely refers to your partner in a negative light doesn't exactly cast you in a goodlight

Nope. My partrner is my world. Just not sexually. Am I the first that has happened to? "

Of course you're not. But all your profile says is that you are here to find what your partner can't or more likely won't give you. There is nothing at all about you.

You want to get laid because you aren't getting any at home. How do you think that comes across?

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Ok people. I'm cheating scum who dosen't deserve to ask questions or be rude back to people who have been rude to me.

Noted.

What a great site.

No one was rude to you

I think calling me a scumbag or saying that a scream entitlement can be constituted as rude.

Your attitude does scream entitlement. You staring insulting people as soon as people gave you the answers you don't want to hear.

And while i never used the word scumbag, a profile that solely refers to your partner in a negative light doesn't exactly cast you in a goodlight

Nope. My partrner is my world. Just not sexually. Am I the first that has happened to? "

No, but here's the thing. I abhor, loathe people who come on site trawling for sex whilst showing total lack of respect to their partners.

You can state you're in a relationship without casting aspersions on your partner. If you can be so disrespectful to someone you claim to be your world, do you think anyone will expect you'll be "honest" to strangers on here?!!

Of course not!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone hasn't read the FAQ...

Lol. Is there any reason to be so sarcastic? Don't be angry at me because you have been on here a year and have had only one meet. Middle age can be hard. "

Middle/mature age is great we know who to avoid.

Members may have had enough meets to suit them but choose not to inform the world and his brother.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

11 pages!

I'm surprised you saw mine.

But I did, didn't I

At least some good came from the post!

It was before your post chap... sorry

Yeah I get that I meant that you got the chance to speak "directly"

Don't take the good away lol!! "

Your weirding me out now I am afraid, I have known this particular (and delicious) lady for about 6 years

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ok people. I'm cheating scum who dosen't deserve to ask questions or be rude back to people who have been rude to me.

Noted.

What a great site.

No one was rude to you

I think calling me a scumbag or saying that a scream entitlement can be constituted as rude.

Your attitude does scream entitlement. You staring insulting people as soon as people gave you the answers you don't want to hear.

And while i never used the word scumbag, a profile that solely refers to your partner in a negative light doesn't exactly cast you in a goodlight

Nope. My partrner is my world. Just not sexually. Am I the first that has happened to?

Of course you're not. But all your profile says is that you are here to find what your partner can't or more likely won't give you. There is nothing at all about you.

You want to get laid because you aren't getting any at home. How do you think that comes across?"

That's a good point. I never thought of it that way. Thanks for your reply - much appriciated

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

11 pages!

I'm surprised you saw mine.

But I did, didn't I

At least some good came from the post!

It was before your post chap... sorry

Yeah I get that I meant that you got the chance to speak "directly"

Don't take the good away lol!!

Your weirding me out now I am afraid, I have known this particular (and delicious) lady for about 6 years

Ha, sorry.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Someone hasn't read the FAQ...

Lol. Is there any reason to be so sarcastic? Don't be angry at me because you have been on here a year and have had only one meet. Middle age can be hard.

Middle/mature age is great we know who to avoid.

Members may have had enough meets to suit them but choose not to inform the world and his brother.

That wasn't my question

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"Someone hasn't read the FAQ...

Lol. Is there any reason to be so sarcastic? Don't be angry at me because you have been on here a year and have had only one meet. Middle age can be hard.

I see that "whit" can only be "on point" where the ladies are concerned...

Yours was not whit. It was rude."

It was mildly sarcastic. If you think it was rude, report it and I'll get banned for a couple of days.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ok people. I'm cheating scum who dosen't deserve to ask questions or be rude back to people who have been rude to me.

Noted.

What a great site.

No one was rude to you

I think calling me a scumbag or saying that a scream entitlement can be constituted as rude.

Your attitude does scream entitlement. You staring insulting people as soon as people gave you the answers you don't want to hear.

And while i never used the word scumbag, a profile that solely refers to your partner in a negative light doesn't exactly cast you in a goodlight

Nope. My partrner is my world. Just not sexually. Am I the first that has happened to?

No, but here's the thing. I abhor, loathe people who come on site trawling for sex whilst showing total lack of respect to their partners.

Of course not!"

Its a sex site. Pure and simple.

It's not find your soulmate.

Why does it matter if I lie or hide things.

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By *amissCouple over a year ago

chelmsford

"Someone hasn't read the FAQ...

Lol. Is there any reason to be so sarcastic? Don't be angry at me because you have been on here a year and have had only one meet. Middle age can be hard. "

This gentleman has had 32 meets, the most recent was 2 weeks ago

middle age....gosh I must be positively ancient! (Mrs)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Haha OP is such a whiny/moany douche. Maybe work on your deluded and agressive personality and you will get a reply.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Someone hasn't read the FAQ...

Lol. Is there any reason to be so sarcastic? Don't be angry at me because you have been on here a year and have had only one meet. Middle age can be hard.

I see that "whit" can only be "on point" where the ladies are concerned...

Yours was not whit. It was rude.

It was mildly sarcastic. If you think it was rude, report it and I'll get banned for a couple of days."

Don't be silly. I'm sorry for my over reaction. Have a great weekend

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What do you want out of fab? You say you want to maintain your perfect relationship so does that mean you use this as dial-a-fuck? Or are you looking for a fwb?

Maybe lack of responses is because people can't work out what it is you want (apart from the obvious!)

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Haha OP is such a whiny/moany douche. Maybe work on your deluded and agressive personality and you will get a reply.

Abs are made in the kitchen mate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"What do you want out of fab? You say you want to maintain your perfect relationship so does that mean you use this as dial-a-fuck? Or are you looking for a fwb?

Maybe lack of responses is because people can't work out what it is you want (apart from the obvious!)

Thank you for reply. It's become clear that I need to rewrite my profile

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"He,s had 32 meets actually "

Don't tell him! Let him keep his superiority

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

11 pages!

I'm surprised you saw mine.

But I did, didn't I

At least some good came from the post!

It was before your post chap... sorry

Yeah I get that I meant that you got the chance to speak "directly"

Don't take the good away lol!!

Your weirding me out now I am afraid, I have known this particular (and delicious) lady for about 6 years

Ha, sorry. "

Assumptions are a kicker eh... look I am not going to bash you, it's your choice (whilst denying your partner choice), but you are showing a lack of respect (in your profile text) to a woman you claim to love. How devastated would you be if you found your partner had a profile on here that was 6 months old, had 30 verifications and her profile said "I love my long term partner, he just doesn't do it for me sexually"

How do you think that perceived lack of respect for a woman you love then transfers to the women on here, do you think that they would be respected by you.

Look it's your life, your choices. But, well, be prepared to be disappointed.

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By *ittlemisssassypantsCouple over a year ago

South East Wales

"Someone hasn't read the FAQ...

Lol. Is there any reason to be so sarcastic? Don't be angry at me because you have been on here a year and have had only one meet. Middle age can be hard.

Well, there's one reason someone might not want to reply.

I'm nothing but honest and respectful. That gentleman was just rude. Back to your other post I don't send many messages and I certainly don't ask why they have been deleted.

My question stated messages being read and staying read. Not deleted

No, it was you that was rude.

With your attitude no wonder no one wants to reply to you message, let alone meet you, I wouldn't.

Sassy

That wasn't the question I asked"

Sigh....okay, you have no pictures to show (apart from your profile pic), you're not verified, you've only been here seven days and it's not so much the cheating itself that is a huge turn off (although, rest assured, it is) it's the fact that you're so bold as to suggest that your other half ticks all the boxes for a 'perfect relationship' apart from sexually that this is what makes you sound like a not very nice guy- have you ever considered that maybe it's you that isnt doing it for her sexually? Maybe you're not quite the Adonis you assume yourself to be

You would rather string this girl along, lie to her and pretend to truly love her all to achieve the goal of perfect on the outside, for other people benefit to see you both as the perfect couple when you could just let her find someone worth being with, because she's clearly wasting her time with you.

Ergo, all of that paints you as a prize cockwomble and, therefore, someone I wouldn't want to reply to.

There, is that a better answer?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh and women use the forums as a form of filtering.

Need a shovel?

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"Someone hasn't read the FAQ...

Lol. Is there any reason to be so sarcastic? Don't be angry at me because you have been on here a year and have had only one meet. Middle age can be hard.

I see that "whit" can only be "on point" where the ladies are concerned...

Yours was not whit. It was rude.

It was mildly sarcastic. If you think it was rude, report it and I'll get banned for a couple of days.

Don't be silly. I'm sorry for my over reaction. Have a great weekend "

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

11 pages!

I'm surprised you saw mine.

But I did, didn't I

At least some good came from the post!

It was before your post chap... sorry

Yeah I get that I meant that you got the chance to speak "directly"

Don't take the good away lol!!

Your weirding me out now I am afraid, I have known this particular (and delicious) lady for about 6 years

Ha, sorry.

How do you think that perceived lack of respect for a woman you love then transfers to the women on here, do you think that they would be respected by you.

Look it's your life, your choices. But, well, be prepared to be disappointed."

Yeah. You're right. Guess this isn't the way to go. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone hasn't read the FAQ...

Lol. Is there any reason to be so sarcastic? Don't be angry at me because you have been on here a year and have had only one meet. Middle age can be hard.

Well, there's one reason someone might not want to reply.

I'm nothing but honest and respectful. That gentleman was just rude. Back to your other post I don't send many messages and I certainly don't ask why they have been deleted.

My question stated messages being read and staying read. Not deleted

No, it was you that was rude.

With your attitude no wonder no one wants to reply to you message, let alone meet you, I wouldn't.

Sassy

That wasn't the question I asked

Ergo, all of that paints you as a prize cockwomble and, therefore, someone I wouldn't want to reply to.

There, is that a better answer?"

I'm stealing your term 'cockwomble' - hilarious

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Oh and women use the forums as a form of filtering.

Need a shovel?

Lol. A digger maybe

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok people. I'm cheating scum who dosen't deserve to ask questions or be rude back to people who have been rude to me.

Noted.

What a great site.

No one was rude to you "

They were

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By *ittlemisssassypantsCouple over a year ago

South East Wales

"Someone hasn't read the FAQ...

Lol. Is there any reason to be so sarcastic? Don't be angry at me because you have been on here a year and have had only one meet. Middle age can be hard.

Well, there's one reason someone might not want to reply.

I'm nothing but honest and respectful. That gentleman was just rude. Back to your other post I don't send many messages and I certainly don't ask why they have been deleted.

My question stated messages being read and staying read. Not deleted

No, it was you that was rude.

With your attitude no wonder no one wants to reply to you message, let alone meet you, I wouldn't.

Sassy

That wasn't the question I asked

Ergo, all of that paints you as a prize cockwomble and, therefore, someone I wouldn't want to reply to.

There, is that a better answer?

I'm stealing your term 'cockwomble' - hilarious

It is a personal fave

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone hasn't read the FAQ...

Lol. Is there any reason to be so sarcastic? Don't be angry at me because you have been on here a year and have had only one meet. Middle age can be hard.

Well, there's one reason someone might not want to reply.

I'm nothing but honest and respectful. That gentleman was just rude. Back to your other post I don't send many messages and I certainly don't ask why they have been deleted.

My question stated messages being read and staying read. Not deleted

No, it was you that was rude.

With your attitude no wonder no one wants to reply to you message, let alone meet you, I wouldn't.

Sassy

That wasn't the question I asked

Ergo, all of that paints you as a prize cockwomble and, therefore, someone I wouldn't want to reply to.

There, is that a better answer?

I'm stealing your term 'cockwomble' - hilarious

It is a personal fave

It is my mission to use it in conversation today, which should make the work party interesting

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Someone hasn't read the FAQ...

Lol. Is there any reason to be so sarcastic? Don't be angry at me because you have been on here a year and have had only one meet. Middle age can be hard.

Well, there's one reason someone might not want to reply.

I'm nothing but honest and respectful. That gentleman was just rude. Back to your other post I don't send many messages and I certainly don't ask why they have been deleted.

My question stated messages being read and staying read. Not deleted

No, it was you that was rude.

With your attitude no wonder no one wants to reply to you message, let alone meet you, I wouldn't.

Sassy

That wasn't the question I asked

Ergo, all of that paints you as a prize cockwomble and, therefore, someone I wouldn't want to reply to.

There, is that a better answer?

I'm stealing your term 'cockwomble' - hilarious

I appriciate your reply.

Though I'm not Greek I am shit hot

I'm not the first person in the world to find the balance between love and lust.

Why can't I have two sides to my life?

One being amazing love with a lady and the other amazing passion?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Put it this way chap... if your profile was a woman's profile, and said the same thing, I would delete the message too... I KNOW I am a throwaway fuck, but I have some pride. Well okay that's not necessarily true, but having had the situation in reverse (finding a previous partner on here when we had been together 3 years and lived together) well..... it wasn't very pleasant... (baggage alert!!)

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ok people. I'm cheating scum who dosen't deserve to ask questions or be rude back to people who have been rude to me.

Noted.

What a great site.

No one was rude to you

They were "

Thank you!

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Why can't I have two sides to my life?

One being amazing love with a lady and the other amazing passion?

Why don't you concentrate on igniting the amazing passion with the lady you love, or find someone who gives you both? Why struggle to meet women on here when you have the 'perfect' woman at home?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Why can't I have two sides to my life?

One being amazing love with a lady and the other amazing passion?

Why don't you concentrate on igniting the amazing passion with the lady you love, or find someone who gives you both? Why struggle to meet women on here when you have the 'perfect' woman at home?"

If life was simple

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Put it this way chap... if your profile was a woman's profile, and said the same thing, I would delete the message too... I KNOW I am a throwaway fuck, but I have some pride. Well okay that's not necessarily true, but having had the situation in reverse (finding a previous partner on here when we had been together 3 years and lived together) well..... it wasn't very pleasant... (baggage alert!!)"

I'll carry your baggage

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Why can't I have two sides to my life?

One being amazing love with a lady and the other amazing passion?

Why don't you concentrate on igniting the amazing passion with the lady you love, or find someone who gives you both? Why struggle to meet women on here when you have the 'perfect' woman at home?

If life was simple "

Might be worth considering what is more important to you. Because when she finds out what you're doing (and she will) you'll have nothing.

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By *workoutMan over a year ago

Cradley Heath

"Haha OP is such a whiny/moany douche. Maybe work on your deluded and agressive personality and you will get a reply.

Abs are made in the kitchen mate. "

Disagree, abs are made in the gym and revealed by what you do in the kitchen. So many people neglect their training, diet down and just end up showing underdeveloped abs.

Slightly off the original topic but I just thought I'd contribute on a point that I can speak with some authority on haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lol. I like this guy, he just gives back what people give to him. The forums are full of sarcastic know it alls these days

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By *amissCouple over a year ago

chelmsford

OP, I think you have come on here, thinking it would be easy to get an instant shag. Unfortunately, it doesn't work like that. There are loads of gorgeous single guys on here, with great profiles and they will tell you, they still struggle. Maybe your lady would be interested in coming on here with you, it could spice things up a bit for both of you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok people. I'm cheating scum who dosen't deserve to ask questions or be rude back to people who have been rude to me.

Noted.

What a great site.

No one was rude to you

I think calling me a scumbag or saying that a scream entitlement can be constituted as rude.

Your attitude does scream entitlement. You staring insulting people as soon as people gave you the answers you don't want to hear.

And while i never used the word scumbag, a profile that solely refers to your partner in a negative light doesn't exactly cast you in a goodlight

Nope. My partrner is my world. Just not sexually. Am I the first that has happened to?

No, but here's the thing. I abhor, loathe people who come on site trawling for sex whilst showing total lack of respect to their partners.

Of course not!

Its a sex site. Pure and simple.

It's not find your soulmate.

Why does it matter if I lie or hide things.

Oh dear

FabSWINGERS, the clue is in the name. It's not a sex site although some use it successfully as one.

You seem to think it's instashag (a term I hate but seems totally appropriate here). Why does it matter if you lie or hide about things? How about because the people deserve a bit of respect?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'll carry your baggage

This thread delivers!

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By *ittlemisssassypantsCouple over a year ago

South East Wales

"Someone hasn't read the FAQ...

Lol. Is there any reason to be so sarcastic? Don't be angry at me because you have been on here a year and have had only one meet. Middle age can be hard.

Well, there's one reason someone might not want to reply.

I'm nothing but honest and respectful. That gentleman was just rude. Back to your other post I don't send many messages and I certainly don't ask why they have been deleted.

My question stated messages being read and staying read. Not deleted

No, it was you that was rude.

With your attitude no wonder no one wants to reply to you message, let alone meet you, I wouldn't.

Sassy

That wasn't the question I asked

Ergo, all of that paints you as a prize cockwomble and, therefore, someone I wouldn't want to reply to.

There, is that a better answer?

I'm stealing your term 'cockwomble' - hilarious

I appriciate your reply.

Though I'm not Greek I am shit hot

I'm not the first person in the world to find the balance between love and lust.

Why can't I have two sides to my life?

One being amazing love with a lady and the other amazing passion?

In relationships love and passion go hand in hand don't they? She's not the one for you.

I hope that when she finds out what kind of person you really are (because she will, eventually, we always find out in the end) she will walk away and find a guy who loves her unconditionally and fucks her like she deserves to be fucked, because I just don't think your up to the job.

Also, plenty of people have found their soulmate via fab, it does happen.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You reply to a message saying "no thank you" you get abuse for it, you don't reply to a message you get abuse for it.

But it's their choice to reply or not, just like it's your choice to message them or not they never asked you to you made that decision yourself so let them decide for themselves if the wish to reply

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By *nequeenslutWoman over a year ago

rugeley

I don't reply to save time effort and some don't deserve a reply

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"You reply to a message saying "no thank you" you get abuse for it, you don't reply to a message you get abuse for it.

But it's their choice to reply or not, just like it's your choice to message them or not they never asked you to you made that decision yourself so let them decide for themselves if the wish to reply "

Part of the reason I deleted single profile tried replying politely got abuse/pestered also after saying no thanks on couples profile guys trying to get me on my own behind my partner's back,so if they aren't what we are looking for we don't reply, learnt the hard way with it!

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By *lyreelMan over a year ago

King's lynn

The biggest thing your doing that is annoying the shit out of me is spelling appreciated wrong.

Not just once but all the time!!!

Use spell check!!

I don't care about your circumstances at home or wherever, each to their own and what right has anyone to surmise your personal status without knowing more details but if your using the site then have patience, be polite, be calm or else you will just piss yourself off, then piss the ladies off, then you will leave the site.

You need to grow a thick skin, especially if your coming on forums, there are trolls everywhere that think they are better than they are.

Some have good advice, some not.

Don't get involved in arguments, not worth the hassle.

Chill oot!!!!

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"it wasn't very pleasant... (baggage alert!!)

I'll carry your baggage

This thread delivers!

Agreed - lots of traffic to the profile, and this must be the reason.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The biggest thing your doing that is annoying the shit out of me is spelling appreciated wrong.

Not just once but all the time!!!

Use spell check!!

You need to grow a thick skin, especially if your coming on forums, there are trolls everywhere that think they are better than they are.

Some have good advice, some not.

Don't get involved in arguments, not worth the hassle.

Chill oot!!!!

You have spelt out incorrectly , sorry but that is really annoying

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By *lyreelMan over a year ago

King's lynn

You have spelt out incorrectly , sorry but that is really annoying

Haha, you can take the Scot out of Scotland!!! Ya ken!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To be blunt you are cheating and your attitude screams entitlement. There aren't many who will find that combination attractive "

Here here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Cheers people. Have a great Christmas

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By *rx1Couple over a year ago

North Devon-ish

Trouble is OP you have put your head on a chopping block with the Holier than thou Brigade. Lots on here wont want to think they have encouraged a "cheating" person...lol...

Too many judges on here.

Good job we dont recite our marriage vows everyday "to forsake all others" otherwise we would be social outcasts too (perhaps we are)

looks like none of us are going to Heaven anyway

"Ok people. I'm cheating scum who dosen't deserve to ask questions or be rude back to people who have been rude to me.

Noted.

What a great site. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Trouble is OP you have put your head on a chopping block with the Holier than thou Brigade. Lots on here wont want to think they have encouraged a "cheating" person...lol...

Too many judges on here.

Good job we dont recite our marriage vows everyday "to forsake all others" otherwise we would be social outcasts too (perhaps we are)

looks like none of us are going to Heaven anyway

Ok people. I'm cheating scum who dosen't deserve to ask questions or be rude back to people who have been rude to me.

Noted.

What a great site.

Thanks for your reply it was nice to read.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone hasn't read the FAQ...

Lol. Is there any reason to be so sarcastic? Don't be angry at me because you have been on here a year and have had only one meet. Middle age can be hard. "

How very rude of you, the member makes a valid point,.I,m 53 and I,m not finding it hard. You sound a right plonker x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone hasn't read the FAQ...

Lol. Is there any reason to be so sarcastic? Don't be angry at me because you have been on here a year and have had only one meet. Middle age can be hard.

Was there really any need for this?

If you had bothered to read the faq's you wouldn't have needed to start a thread. Personal attacks are not attractive!"

Not only are personal attacks not attractive, but they are also against forum rules and can land yiu in the naughty step.

And to be fair, the poster you were attacking had made a very valud point about the site FAQ's. It states very clearly that a non-reply should be taken as a 'no thanks'.

Perhaps you might fair better on fab if you familiarise yourself with site rules and get used to how things work instead of hurling out insults at people.

I would suggest that anyone reading this thread will likely have been put off of you by that single nasty response.

It's one thing for a person to claim that they are nice, respectful, considerate etc, but more often than not, the proof is in their actions and behaviour

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hello all. Curious question here.

I don't send lets of messageds but the few that I do seem to stay read but are not replied or deleted?

Any views?

Cheers for your timr"

at a guess. they don't like you....it's not rocket science really

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" Nope. My partrner is my world. Just not sexually. Am I the first that has happened to? "

Have you tried everything possible to spice up your sex life?

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By *onnie and JohnCouple over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

Hi OP, The answer to your question taken from the FAQ its on the blue line at the bottom of the page,...enjoy your time on fab .

There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hello all. Curious question here.

I don't send lets of messageds but the few that I do seem to stay read but are not replied or deleted?

Any views?

Cheers for your timr"

I often might read a post and not reply for a day or two. If they can't wait then that's their problem. Had one today who got all shirty because I hadn't answered his message for 20 minutes!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh btw Op. Your profile I'd pretty poor!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone hasn't read the FAQ...

Lol. Is there any reason to be so sarcastic? Don't be angry at me because you have been on here a year and have had only one meet. Middle age can be hard.

Well if he's middle aged and 4 yrs younger than me would you be as rude to me?? No wonder you aren't getting replies.

If you was rude to me first then yeah"

He wasn't rude to you. You just have a massive chip on your shoulder cos he's more nature abd getting alot more sex than you ever will on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hello all. Curious question here.

I don't send lets of messageds but the few that I do seem to stay read but are not replied or deleted?

Any views?

Cheers for your timr"

I don't reply if message is rude or the person has no picture

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some guys just aren't cut out for this site, as a single guy on fab you need a thick skin and the patience of a Saint. If you can't deal with it then best stick to Tinder.

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"Someone hasn't read the FAQ...

Lol. Is there any reason to be so sarcastic? Don't be angry at me because you have been on here a year and have had only one meet. Middle age can be hard.

Well if he's middle aged and 4 yrs younger than me would you be as rude to me?? No wonder you aren't getting replies.

If you was rude to me first then yeah

He wasn't rude to you. You just have a massive chip on your shoulder cos he's more nature abd getting alot more sex than you ever will on here."

I'm getting more sex than someone??? Wha-hay!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think women get so many messages in their inbox they dont have time to reply to all. As for you being attached, some women will not reply as they do not want to meet attached/married guys.

I have taken a couple of days sometimes p to a week to reply. At least you were honest in your profile about your cirumstances and noone really should be calling you cheating scum. Sometimes people ought to keep their opinions to themselves.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone hasn't read the FAQ...

Lol. Is there any reason to be so sarcastic? Don't be angry at me because you have been on here a year and have had only one meet. Middle age can be hard.

Well if he's middle aged and 4 yrs younger than me would you be as rude to me?? No wonder you aren't getting replies.

If you was rude to me first then yeah"

Your funny you are lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh, so this is one of those threads where someone comes and asks a question and suddenly he's ganged up on. Nice.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok people. I'm cheating scum who dosen't deserve to ask questions or be rude back to people who have been rude to me.

Noted.

What a great site. "

Actually it is a great site.

Thing is most people have no respect for cheating and dishonesty.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh, so this is one of those threads where someone comes and asks a question and suddenly he's ganged up on. Nice.

It seems to happen alot, unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh, so this is one of those threads where someone comes and asks a question and suddenly he's ganged up on. Nice.

,afraid so, the same boring people making the same boring replies

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You say in your profile you dnt want to resent your partner? Explain if you will or you going to post her to someone

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS over a year ago

Epsom

"Some guys just aren't cut out for this site, as a single guy on fab you need a thick skin and the patience of a Saint. If you can't deal with it then best stick to Tinder. "

This.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some guys just aren't cut out for this site, as a single guy on fab you need a thick skin and the patience of a Saint. If you can't deal with it then best stick to Tinder.

This.

To be fair the OP has only been on here for 7 days, it takes time to get used to things on here he will either adapt or leave .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hi, I use my sent box as a send and forget, then spend my time on the inbox works ok for me . billy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think women get so many messages in their inbox they dont have time to reply to all. As for you being attached, some women will not reply as they do not want to meet attached/married guys.

Agree with this, at least hes upfront about being in a relationship, some people here need to be realistic i mean come on theres plenty here that are in a relationship that arnt upfront about it. Its based on a sex site, its not a dating site, he is here for sex.

There are im sure tons of people that are in a non sex relationship for whatever reason and maybe kids involved / not being able to afford to change their circumstances, so be it, its life. We wouldnt want to be involved in some kind of domestic when it all goes wrong (usually only a matter of time) so can totally understand why some people look very badly on it. No one has the right to judge though.

Rudeness and being argumentative isn't really going to get you anywhere, good to stand your ground

but some of the sarcasm from members is just not necessary, sarcasm is very unattractive!! we certainly wouldnt meet this type of person.

We bet loads of messages from single (or not so single) men, some reasons we read but dont delete or reply straight away are,

We dont have time at the time of reading to reply.

We are unsure of our interest but leave the message to maybe chat at a later date.

If a couple then maybe they're the type of people who only reply when both together.

Merry xmas everyone xxx

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"Rudeness and being argumentative isn't really going to get you anywhere, good to stand your ground

but some of the sarcasm from members is just not necessary, sarcasm is very unattractive!! we certainly wouldnt meet this type of person.,

As one of the unattractive sarcasm providers, I am aware that it is a "marmite" characteristic, and accept it as one of my limitations. I post on here like I'd chat in the pub with friends and acquaintances - and in those circumstances, a bit of piss-taking, one-liners etc goes with the territory.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Does this thread remind anyone else of The Monty Python "argument" sketch?!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does this thread remind anyone else of The Monty Python "argument" sketch?!"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does this thread remind anyone else of The Monty Python "argument" sketch?!

Yes it does.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I stick by my scumbag comment... fk him

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"Does this thread remind anyone else of The Monty Python "argument" sketch?!"

BURMA!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hi OP, The answer to your question taken from the FAQ its on the blue line at the bottom of the page,...enjoy your time on fab .

There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

Thanks for your message. Points noted

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Oh, so this is one of those threads where someone comes and asks a question and suddenly he's ganged up on. Nice.

Thanks for your post.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I mass delete when i can be bothered

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You say in your profile you dnt want to resent your partner? Explain if you will or you going to post her to someone "

LOL!!

best one yet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You will get used to it with time OP

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi OP, The answer to your question taken from the FAQ its on the blue line at the bottom of the page,...enjoy your time on fab .

There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

Thanks for your message. Points noted "

Hey good luck

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I stick by my scumbag comment... fk him"

Pathetic

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does this thread remind anyone else of The Monty Python "argument" sketch?!

Yes it does.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I stick by my scumbag comment... fk him

Pathetic "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Reading this thread takes me back in time to when pickpockets were hung at the gallows....while being lead to the gallows

People in the crowd would throw garbage , spit on , and scream KILL THE SCUMBAG to the condemned pickpockets. Winding the mob up into a blood lust frenzy..

But at the same time these very same people hurling abuse would pick the pockets of the blood lust mob.

I'm very sorry Op for all the abuse you have taken for asking a simple question on the forums... the forums are run by a police force last seen during Stalins riegn of terror.

If you're a single man cheating on your partner, that is a warrant for your arrest by the cheating police.

You will be blocked , abused on the forums , and branded with a C on your forehead.

To avoid being arrested please just lie and be deceitful to everyone you meet. I know you are decent person that likes to be honest with people you sleep with, because you want to give them a choice of not getting attached and hurting their feelings down the road.......but the price of sexual freedom on fab isn't free... Merry Christmas

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hello all. Curious question here.

I don't send lets of messageds but the few that I do seem to stay read but are not replied or deleted?

Any views?

Cheers for your timr"

Ignoring all the other stuff on the thread; I'll answer why I personally do this.

I'm a lazy cow.

Simple as that. If I read a message and it doesn't inspire an answer I just move on. Can't even be bothered to delete it usually.

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By *lyreelMan over a year ago

King's lynn

I think any wanton woman who previously was going to reply to the OPs mail is definitely going to reply now, I mean what woman can't fail to admire and fall for his good grace, his manners, his grammar, his spelling and all round good humour!

Such a catch!!!

Fk sake.

Anyone who is giving you good advice you ignore...... anyone who is giving you a tiny bit of a hard time your jumping on their back quicker than you are in real life!!!

I would suggest another site, any other site, just not this one if your going to be so upset when you post a thread.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thought this thread would have closed by now?.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I find it bit of a muck take. Just a simple yes or no is good in return

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Reading this thread takes me back in time to when pickpockets were hung at the gallows....while being lead to the gallows

People in the crowd would throw garbage , spit on , and scream KILL THE SCUMBAG to the condemned pickpockets. Winding the mob up into a blood lust frenzy..

But at the same time these very same people hurling abuse would pick the pockets of the blood lust mob.

I'm very sorry Op for all the abuse you have taken for asking a simple question on the forums... the forums are run by a police force last seen during Stalins riegn of terror.

If you're a single man cheating on your partner, that is a warrant for your arrest by the cheating police.

You will be blocked , abused on the forums , and branded with a C on your forehead.

Many thanks for message - your analogy was insightful and on point. I also wish you a Merry Christmas and an even better new year.

Thanks again for your open-minded, inspiring message.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thank but still would like to know. Maybe a typo am i thinking. Quite a few there OP lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think any wanton woman who previously was going to reply to the OPs mail is definitely going to reply now, I mean what woman can't fail to admire and fall for his good grace, his manners, his grammar, his spelling and all round good humour!

Such a catch!!!

Fk sake.

Anyone who is giving you good advice you ignore...... anyone who is giving you a tiny bit of a hard time your jumping on their back quicker than you are in real life!!!

I would suggest another site, any other site, just not this one if your going to be so upset when you post a thread.

LOL! Brilliant. Sir best post of today.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Thank but still would like to know. Maybe a typo am i thinking. Quite a few there OP lol"

Indeed. My grammar and spelling was comprised by my eagerness to post quickly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I stick by my scumbag comment... fk him"

How very open-minded and non-judgmental of you...

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By *lyreelMan over a year ago

King's lynn

Such a catch!!!

Fk sake.

Anyone who is giving you good advice you ignore...... anyone who is giving you a tiny bit of a hard time your jumping on their back quicker than you are in real life!!!

I would suggest another site, any other site, just not this one if your going to be so upset when you post a thread.

LOL! Brilliant. Sir best post of today."

Should have been as follows....

Sir( comma) best post of today.

See, helping you again!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You say in your profile you dnt want to resent your partner? Explain if you will or you going to post her to someone "

That would be re-sent, not resent. If you're going to snipe, make sure you don't make yourself look foolish in doing so.

To the OP, women and everyone else on the site treat their messages however they want. It's allowed. Some answer all, some only answer if they are interested in the sender. Single men, with a good profile get ignored and deleted all the time. Some women allow their inboxes to fill up, never reading most of them, then mass delete. Don't take it to heart.

To the people picking over his profile, that isn't allowed. If you goad someone into an argument, you will get one.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I stick by my scumbag comment... fk him

How very open-minded and non-judgmental of you... "
as a woman on the receiving end of being cheated on in the past iam allowed to relate no matter how 'honest ' he's being.... yet to 'his world' the one that SHOULD matter.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I stick by my scumbag comment... fk him

How very open-minded and non-judgmental of you... as a woman on the receiving end of being cheated on in the past iam allowed to relate no matter how 'honest ' he's being.... yet to 'his world' the one that SHOULD matter. "

As have I. Yet I have the maturity to understand that life is not always black and white.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Reading this thread takes me back in time to when pickpockets were hung at the gallows....while being lead to the gallows

People in the crowd would throw garbage , spit on , and scream KILL THE SCUMBAG to the condemned pickpockets. Winding the mob up into a blood lust frenzy..

But at the same time these very same people hurling abuse would pick the pockets of the blood lust mob.

I'm very sorry Op for all the abuse you have taken for asking a simple question on the forums... the forums are run by a police force last seen during Stalins riegn of terror.

If you're a single man cheating on your partner, that is a warrant for your arrest by the cheating police.

You will be blocked , abused on the forums , and branded with a C on your forehead.

We agree . We think the way the OP has been castigated on this post it awful

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I stick by my scumbag comment... fk him

As have I. Yet I have the maturity to understand that life is not always black and white. "
well yes it is. He's not getting what he wants let her go..simple... get relationship help. Don't join a swingers site to fulfil your sexual urges...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Such a catch!!!

Fk sake.

Anyone who is giving you good advice you ignore...... anyone who is giving you a tiny bit of a hard time your jumping on their back quicker than you are in real life!!!

I would suggest another site, any other site, just not this one if your going to be so upset when you post a thread.

LOL! Brilliant. Sir best post of today.

Should have been as follows....

Sir( comma) best post of today.

See, helping you again!"

When you corrected his spelling and grammar did it make you feel better about yourself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Goes to show there are some not very nice people about, OP i no its a distance but if you are ever around Bristol area, let us no we would meet up with you for a drink

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I stick by my scumbag comment... fk him

As have I. Yet I have the maturity to understand that life is not always black and white. well yes it is. He's not getting what he wants let her go..simple... get relationship help. Don't join a swingers site to fulfil your sexual urges... "

Who are you to preach?? People in glass house shouldn't throw stones

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Da fuck

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I stick by my scumbag comment... fk him

It isn't always simple, as you put it. And you aren't allowed to talk about someone's profile unless they ask for advice on it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I stick by my scumbag comment... fk him

This has to be one of the most funniest comments so far! dont join a swingers site to fulfill your sexual urges pmsl

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I stick by my scumbag comment... fk him

This has to be one of the most funniest comments so far! dont join a swingers site to fulfill your sexual urges pmsl "
well obviously we have lol but AS A COUPLE with mutual understanding and communication

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Please,let's not judge the Op too harshly,who knows the exact details of the relationship he's in? That's not really anyone elses business.

To the original question,only the people receiving the message but not replying can say why they choose not to.All the rest is just conjecture.If you really need to know,the only way to find out is to ask them.They may tell you,they may not.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I stick by my scumbag comment... fk him

As have I. Yet I have the maturity to understand that life is not always black and white. "

Me also, and I have the empathy and intelligence to understand why some people do it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Major spelling error had to delete .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes another scumbag here . But everyone has their own reasons for doing what they do.

THIS IS A FORUM FOR VIEWS NOT TO CONDEMN AND VERBALLY FLOG SOMEONE.

To be fair to him he has said hes in a relationship on his profile.

Do feel a little sorry for the OP

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes another scumbag here . But everyone has their own reasons for doing what they do.

THIS IS A FORUM FOR VIEWS NOT TO CONDEMN AND VERBALLY FLOG SOMEONE.

To be fair to him he has said hes in a relationship on his profile.

Do feel a little sorry for the OP"

Well said this lady

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I stick by my scumbag comment... fk him

We all have opinions and judgments. I don't necessarily agree with the concept of cheating, but we will never know fully why people do what they do or what people's personal lives are like.

If you don't agree with someone's actions, it doesn't then give you a right to be openly aggressive about it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think I'm the only one who's actually answered what the op asked.

Kinda wasted my time it seems

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I stick by my scumbag comment... fk him

We all have opinions and judgments. I don't necessarily agree with the concept of cheating, but we will never know fully why people do what they do or what people's personal lives are like.

If you don't agree with someone's actions, it doesn't then give you a right to be openly aggressive about it.

"
it's a social networking forum that's my opinion. There's a third party involved who's sexual health, emotions, and who's to know if kids are involved also. Sorry he get no sympathy from me he's plainly stated he's here cos his sexual desires are not met.. I mean buy some books or something. If you nurture the grass at home there's no reason to see if the grass is greener on the other side

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By *imetoexplore69Couple over a year ago

Aberdeen

"I stick by my scumbag comment... fk him

How very open-minded and non-judgmental of you... "
but you also dont meet attached guys....says so on your profile so u are obviously being judgemental olso like we all do.

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By *loppsyWoman over a year ago

marlow

"Yes another scumbag here . But everyone has their own reasons for doing what they do.

THIS IS A FORUM FOR VIEWS NOT TO CONDEMN AND VERBALLY FLOG SOMEONE.

To be fair to him he has said hes in a relationship on his profile.

Do feel a little sorry for the OP"

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By *odareyouMan over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

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By *odareyouMan over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

There are a thousand reasons why...probably more. Only the folk who have received your message and not replied could answer, we can / could only summise..

The reason I use and feel free to use this .. "I was out of their league.". In my case it's true .its true I tell you ...it is it's true..

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By *andi_shopWoman over a year ago

rotherham

Sometimes I delete once I've read, sometimes I mass delete. Read but no reply and not deleted in my case would just be because I'll be doing a mass delete

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why am i judgemental? I am merely stating that i dnt want to meet married guys. Its not because its wrong its because they cant have the time as a single guy thats it.

I have been seeing a married guy for 11 months on here. Again he also has his reasons

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I stick by my scumbag comment... fk him

How very open-minded and non-judgmental of you... but you also dont meet attached guys....says so on your profile so u are obviously being judgemental olso like we all do."

No, that's called a preference. If I said I don't meet attached guys because they're all scumbags, that would be judgemental.

Would also stating that I don't meet transsexuals also make me judgements? No.

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