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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey, yes quite a stand out headline but I'm looking for some genuine advice.
I'm obviously a tv and love giving oral and giving sex. However I want to start receiving anal sex again but it hurts tremendously. Any serious advice would be appreciated in how to train myself and make it enjoyable x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mines a flat screen, I dont think it would work, infact, I don't even think it has an anus. It is 4k though."
You could get one heck of a shock from it too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey, yes quite a stand out headline but I'm looking for some genuine advice.
I'm obviously a tv and love giving oral and giving sex. However I want to start receiving anal sex again but it hurts tremendously. Any serious advice would be appreciated in how to train myself and make it enjoyable x"
I think you need to just start small and practice practice practice. I have found often when I find it uncomfortable it is down to me being too tense. Often a session may get going and it's all loose and enjoyable but then if I stop and continue it is uncomfortable again for a shirt moment until I get my muscles back into relaxed mode. Counterintuitively if you not only relax your anal muscles but give effort to push (as if using the loo) then insertion becomes much more easier. Like I said, practice loads with your fingers and small dildos and build up to knowing how to position your body and control your muscles to minimise any tightening or fight against anything you are inserting. And lube! Lube lube lube. Good luck. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey, yes quite a stand out headline but I'm looking for some genuine advice.
I'm obviously a tv and love giving oral and giving sex. However I want to start receiving anal sex again but it hurts tremendously. Any serious advice would be appreciated in how to train myself and make it enjoyable x"
Try a butt plug. start small and work up |
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I would say Sophie find someone who understands and makes you feel comfortable and take your time ..... be honest and let them know if your not comfortable....
You can also buy different sizes of toy and use these yourself or let the trusted man use these on you and work your way in size again......
But you've got to be comfortable with the person and nice and relaxed at the same time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Not wanting to be too 'icky but if you've seen the size of what exits your body without hurting you'll realise you can accommodate something going in of a similar diameter with no 'training'.
The secret is allowing your body to relax. To open up. Sufficient lubrication and for it to realise you're not having a dump!
I may have allowed the odd penis into my behind now and then  but if they tried to enter me without any preparation it would bloody hurt!
Try some toys designed for anal at home alone first and get used to opening up and taking them.
If it hurts, push it out like you do on the loo but leave the tip just starting to enter you. Wait for the pain to subside and push it in a bit with your hand. Push it back out with your bum. Keep doing that and your bum will eventually realise it's ok to be receiving. Don't hurt yourself though.
Once you and your bum have got used to the receiving idea you can move onto a guy who's gentle and patient. You may have to push him out a few times until you open properly.
Relaxing while he rims you and fingers you helps. If I'm struggling to take someone I usually get on top and control things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try using a plug on your own. As said earlier.
Take it slow. Keep the plug inserted as long as you can. Have some fun with the plug pull it out until it is uncomfortable then put back in. Keep repeating this.
Also buy a real feel cyber skin 6" dildo. We have the doc Johnson one that fits a strap on harness. Try that slowly. Eventually it will go in and feel nice. But try on your own first.
Also douche before you play as you can relax more knowing your are clean.
This helps for him. He is still very tight but can take strap on nicely now.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honestly, you can look for all the tips but its just a muscle that you need to be gentle with. Get a guy you trust to help out. Some one that has patients, you will be fine, just get a nice guy for a week or two |
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As mentioned already relaxation plays a huge part in making bum fucking more enjoyable...start with a massage and plenty lube ..poppers can also help enormously..
You take control as the fuckee rather than allowing the fucker to take charge..Be honest with him as to how it feels,if it hurts stop.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"practice at home with a selection of vegetables... start small.. with a carrot.. then move up to the cucumber... when you can take the marrow... your more than ready.. "
But more importantly
Never ever ever go to Robyn's house for dinner.
Especially if soup or cucumber sandwiches are on the menu.
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It's definitely something you have to relax and get use to x
I find being clean back there is a great way to feel more relaxed about the whole thing.
Then you need to apply generous lube and make sure you get it right into you with your fibgers.
Apply plenty to a toy or plug and just get use to the feeling of it going in and out.
You have to get to know you're own bidy before others can be involved imo. |
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Plenty of lube,
you can't have enough.
Plenty of foreplay to ensure you are open enough, to have him enter you without too much pain.
Make sure he will go at your pace, not ram it up you as so many single mean seem to prefer. |
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"practice at home with a selection of vegetables... start small.. with a carrot.. then move up to the cucumber... when you can take the marrow... your more than ready..
But more importantly
Never ever ever go to Robyn's house for dinner.
Especially if soup or cucumber sandwiches are on the menu.
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ha ha.. that really did make me laugh out loud..  |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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"practice at home with a selection of vegetables... start small.. with a carrot.. then move up to the cucumber... when you can take the marrow... your more than ready.. "
I'm upto pumkin, what's next? |
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As others have said, lots of lube, relax, a partner that will understand and take it slow and try using toys at home alone.
Have a look at the 'vibrating/inflatable butt plug'
Once you are comfortable with the initial size you can inflate to a bigger size using a hand pump.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im no expert in this field either so interesting to read replies too OP
From what i do know the opening to anus is a muscle which,with training like any muscle,can be stretched to make it bigger/stronger(re arms/legs) or to stretch for flexibility as required in this case.
Im looking to get a sold rubber butt plug and plenty of lub asap to help my training  |
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"Hey, yes quite a stand out headline but I'm looking for some genuine advice.
I'm obviously a tv and love giving oral and giving sex. However I want to start receiving anal sex again but it hurts tremendously. Any serious advice would be appreciated in how to train myself and make it enjoyable x"
I've been using a butt plug before I have sex with anyone. Keep it in until you are about to go for it then remove it and slip them in before you tighten up again... Works so far xxxx
Hope it helps... Enjoy yourself x  |
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"Its an exit .
.. not an entrance ....
Never ceases to amaze me the closed mindedness of some on here.
closed minded or homophobic?
Are most holes not versatile?
Exits and entrances..
Not at all ...... my nurse training taught me that ..."
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"Its an exit .
.. not an entrance ....
Never ceases to amaze me the closed mindedness of some on here.
closed minded or homophobic?
Are most holes not versatile?
Exits and entrances..
Not at all ...... my nurse training taught me that ..."
Amazing because the medical profession has used it to insert medicine for year.... Not to mention other diagnostic devices. So back to school for you x |
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You can buy some anal lube thats designed to relax the muscles I. Your arse. We use it when hes feeling my a bit cock hungry.
And take it slow.. Find the position the works for you. Try being on top for the start then you can take it at your own pace as it were.
Poppers help.. If thats your thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's often the same profiles that post on these sort of threads.
Some post helpful things. Some have a laugh.
Some post just to scoff, be nasty or to stir up an argument. Sad little keyboard warriors. Bullying tactics usually come from people who are unhappy with their own lives. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its an exit .
.. not an entrance ....
Never ceases to amaze me the closed mindedness of some on here.
closed minded or homophobic?
Are most holes not versatile?
Exits and entrances..
Not at all ...... my nurse training taught me that ...
Amazing because the medical profession has used it to insert medicine for year.... Not to mention other diagnostic devices. So back to school for you x "
Fabulous riposte |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its an exit .
.. not an entrance ....
Never ceases to amaze me the closed mindedness of some on here.
closed minded or homophobic?
Not at all ...... my nurse training taught me that ..."
I know nurses and male doctors who like things in their bums. When do they cover shoving things in your bum, at nursing school and where do rectal examinations come into it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP, I would suggest that after him relaxing you with gentle fingering, using plenty of lube, you take control and give him instructions. You can do the pushing while he stays still or tell him to rest the tip on the hole. Light pressure to let your hole open and when he gets to the first sphincter make sure you take a deep breathe and breathe out. It can help if you push your anal muscle (like having a poo, but not), which opens them a little. Resist the urge to pull up. It sometimes helps if he goes in and out a tiny bit, until the sphincter has fully dilated (it's a bit like having a baby). Once you're over that hurdle you should be ok. It's the stretching out that hurts. Once you're used to it you could very well love it. I do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mines a flat screen, I dont think it would work, infact, I don't even think it has an anus. It is 4k though."
That proper proper made me laugh out load haha..its the fact its 4k that done it, dunno why |
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By *ecky400TV/TS
over a year ago
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hi I find that a little lube then use a small vibrator, I do this before a meet and it relaxes me , its easier for man to enter me without to much pain, but the pain is all part of being a girl xxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not wanting to be too 'icky but if you've seen the size of what exits your body without hurting you'll realise you can accommodate something going in of a similar diameter with no 'training'.
The secret is allowing your body to relax. To open up. Sufficient lubrication and for it to realise you're not having a dump!
I may have allowed the odd penis into my behind now and then but if they tried to enter me without any preparation it would bloody hurt!
Try some toys designed for anal at home alone first and get used to opening up and taking them.
If it hurts, push it out like you do on the loo but leave the tip just starting to enter you. Wait for the pain to subside and push it in a bit with your hand. Push it back out with your bum. Keep doing that and your bum will eventually realise it's ok to be receiving. Don't hurt yourself though.
Once you and your bum have got used to the receiving idea you can move onto a guy who's gentle and patient. You may have to push him out a few times until you open properly.
Relaxing while he rims you and fingers you helps. If I'm struggling to take someone I usually get on top and control things. "
Totally agree with the above quote.
I start with just massaging and lots of lube. I then start with a finger and build up with fingers and then toys. Communication is key, always asking how it feels which is two fold for me as if he responds positively that's a big turn on
If I'm pushing my cock or a toy in and it's uncomfortable I'll ask if if he wants me to pull out or juat wait a minute to let him adjust.
Relaxing as much as possible as well. |
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Well, ignoring the transphobic dickheads that feel they have to post on a subject that they know nothing about just for a cheap shot....
Buy some toys, dildos around 5-6 inch and not too thick and practice....
Dont try and cram too much in too quick, take your time, take deep breaths...
If your new to it your arse will probably rebel and clench up, pushing anything back out, compose your self and start again....
If being penetrated by a strapon/cock just ease it in a bit at a time and stop, you'll actually feel your bumhole stretching around whatever your using if you just hold position and breathe slowly and deeply, someone rubbing your lower back/top of buttocks can help too...
Finally lube, lube, more lube and when you think you might have enough.... Chuck on some more x |
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"Not wanting to be too 'icky but if you've seen the size of what exits your body without hurting you'll realise you can accommodate something going in of a similar diameter with no 'training'.
The secret is allowing your body to relax. To open up. Sufficient lubrication and for it to realise you're not having a dump!
I may have allowed the odd penis into my behind now and then but if they tried to enter me without any preparation it would bloody hurt!
Try some toys designed for anal at home alone first and get used to opening up and taking them.
If it hurts, push it out like you do on the loo but leave the tip just starting to enter you. Wait for the pain to subside and push it in a bit with your hand. Push it back out with your bum. Keep doing that and your bum will eventually realise it's ok to be receiving. Don't hurt yourself though.
Once you and your bum have got used to the receiving idea you can move onto a guy who's gentle and patient. You may have to push him out a few times until you open properly.
Relaxing while he rims you and fingers you helps. If I'm struggling to take someone I usually get on top and control things.
Totally agree with the above quote.
I start with just massaging and lots of lube. I then start with a finger and build up with fingers and then toys. Communication is key, always asking how it feels which is two fold for me as if he responds positively that's a big turn on
If I'm pushing my cock or a toy in and it's uncomfortable I'll ask if if he wants me to pull out or juat wait a minute to let him adjust.
Relaxing as much as possible as well. "
You sound like fun xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not wanting to be too 'icky but if you've seen the size of what exits your body without hurting you'll realise you can accommodate something going in of a similar diameter with no 'training'.
The secret is allowing your body to relax. To open up. Sufficient lubrication and for it to realise you're not having a dump!
I may have allowed the odd penis into my behind now and then but if they tried to enter me without any preparation it would bloody hurt!
Try some toys designed for anal at home alone first and get used to opening up and taking them.
If it hurts, push it out like you do on the loo but leave the tip just starting to enter you. Wait for the pain to subside and push it in a bit with your hand. Push it back out with your bum. Keep doing that and your bum will eventually realise it's ok to be receiving. Don't hurt yourself though.
Once you and your bum have got used to the receiving idea you can move onto a guy who's gentle and patient. You may have to push him out a few times until you open properly.
Relaxing while he rims you and fingers you helps. If I'm struggling to take someone I usually get on top and control things.
Totally agree with the above quote.
I start with just massaging and lots of lube. I then start with a finger and build up with fingers and then toys. Communication is key, always asking how it feels which is two fold for me as if he responds positively that's a big turn on
If I'm pushing my cock or a toy in and it's uncomfortable I'll ask if if he wants me to pull out or juat wait a minute to let him adjust.
Relaxing as much as possible as well.
You sound like fun xx"
Ohh you have no idea |
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"Not wanting to be too 'icky but if you've seen the size of what exits your body without hurting you'll realise you can accommodate something going in of a similar diameter with no 'training'.
The secret is allowing your body to relax. To open up. Sufficient lubrication and for it to realise you're not having a dump!
I may have allowed the odd penis into my behind now and then but if they tried to enter me without any preparation it would bloody hurt!
Try some toys designed for anal at home alone first and get used to opening up and taking them.
If it hurts, push it out like you do on the loo but leave the tip just starting to enter you. Wait for the pain to subside and push it in a bit with your hand. Push it back out with your bum. Keep doing that and your bum will eventually realise it's ok to be receiving. Don't hurt yourself though.
Once you and your bum have got used to the receiving idea you can move onto a guy who's gentle and patient. You may have to push him out a few times until you open properly.
Relaxing while he rims you and fingers you helps. If I'm struggling to take someone I usually get on top and control things.
Totally agree with the above quote.
I start with just massaging and lots of lube. I then start with a finger and build up with fingers and then toys. Communication is key, always asking how it feels which is two fold for me as if he responds positively that's a big turn on
If I'm pushing my cock or a toy in and it's uncomfortable I'll ask if if he wants me to pull out or juat wait a minute to let him adjust.
Relaxing as much as possible as well.
You sound like fun xx
Ohh you have no idea "
Wouldn't mind finding out  xx |
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"Hey, yes quite a stand out headline but I'm looking for some genuine advice.
I'm obviously a tv and love giving oral and giving sex. However I want to start receiving anal sex again but it hurts tremendously. Any serious advice would be appreciated in how to train myself and make it enjoyable x"
find some one with a small cock and girth say about 5" |
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Haven't read the whole thread but I'm assuming it's already been suggested that you practice at home with toys, douche before meets and also start off any anal fun by being on top where you can control things.
Hopefully this works out for you as there really is no better feeling
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