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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What !!!!!!!! oh you clicked this thread for different reasons lol, but I got your attention ...that's good
NB: For you trollers out there - yes this is a semi rant.....fill ya boots
I am a bisexual male and to lots of people I am tart by all accounts, because on the sister site I do meet men (mainly frustrated husbands/BF etc) for SEX ......but the number of meets is only relative to the desire to have sex when others are available - all the same effort goes into a meet and all of the personality/hygiene requirements have to be met......
Why do I say all this........well simples really....
In the 2/3 years I have been on Fabguys site - I have met 66 men for sex (many repeat meets with same people)and yet still I get some odd messages about my "promiscuity"
My dear fellow Fabbers, if we all put a verification up every time we had sex with our respective wives / partners / lovers, there probably wouldn't be pages big enough
I have a long term Bi female friend on here who as some 150 + meets to her name, yet she is inundated with requests from men and women to meet her and her Bi fella ....how strange Eh !!!!
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So my fellow (genuine Fabbers) its nothing to do with quantity why I meet men and for that matter, women for sex off this and Fabguys site, its because these are sex dating sites and guess what .........
I LOVE SEX 
Jon ....rolls to one side and looks on to see opinions
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By (user no longer on site)
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its actually not a sex dating site tho its a site for swingers wanting to meet other swingers. theres actually a huge difference between a sex site (a site that is for people wanting to meet up for sex) and swingers.
Its a shame alot of people dont understand that swinging isnt just a easy hook up for a blowy and a fuck. and thats half the problem. the respect u receive from somebody who is a genuine tried and trusted swinger and somebody who has no intereest in anything but fucking anyone, anything and everything with a hole and a pulse |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"its actually not a sex dating site tho its a site for swingers wanting to meet other swingers. theres actually a huge difference between a sex site (a site that is for people wanting to meet up for sex) and swingers.
Its a shame alot of people dont understand that swinging isnt just a easy hook up for a blowy and a fuck. and thats half the problem. the respect u receive from somebody who is a genuine tried and trusted swinger and somebody who has no intereest in anything but fucking anyone, anything and everything with a hole and a pulse"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Dear Filthy and Easthull
We are all intitled to our own views, in this case I shared mine after being a "swinger" for near on 15 years - many with my first wife, lots then with a female FB as a couple and some years solo - in all that time the people who contacted us in the main where only after one thing and that was sex - many of my dear sweet female friends who also use this and other swinging labelled sites, are massively inundated with "can I meet to fuck you now" or "can I fuck you " messages from not just men but loads of couples
Its from mine the my current friends experience that I passed my views over for discussion
Now, if what your saying is that your never contacted just for sex, then well done that's a rare thing on this site and some others as well
My views are my own
J |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"its actually not a sex dating site tho its a site for swingers wanting to meet other swingers. theres actually a huge difference between a sex site (a site that is for people wanting to meet up for sex) and swingers.
Its a shame alot of people dont understand that swinging isnt just a easy hook up for a blowy and a fuck. and thats half the problem. the respect u receive from somebody who is a genuine tried and trusted swinger and somebody who has no intereest in anything but fucking anyone, anything and everything with a hole and a pulse"
Swinging is a hook up for NSA sex for us , and our six years have led to many encounters which have mutually satisfied all parties .
We have the same exacting standards as anyone else , preferring to enjoy the sex and sacrificing the chat and friendship .
We rarely verify or ask for veris now , it doesn't matter to us . If people don't want to meet us because we seem too promiscuous that's fine with us . Plenty do  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Jon Pete and gloswingers very well said, in my view its a sex site swinging is all about the sex, However sometimes friendships develope as a result. Simple |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"its actually not a sex dating site tho its a site for swingers wanting to meet other swingers. theres actually a huge difference between a sex site (a site that is for people wanting to meet up for sex) and swingers.
Its a shame alot of people dont understand that swinging isnt just a easy hook up for a blowy and a fuck. and thats half the problem. the respect u receive from somebody who is a genuine tried and trusted swinger and somebody who has no intereest in anything but fucking anyone, anything and everything with a hole and a pulse"
Tried and trusted swinger? What the hell is that? This isn't some sort of secret society.
Swinging can easily mean multiple no strings sex sessions with lots of different people. And?
It's not necessarily for us, but we have no problem with people going down their own journey.
Our problem is with those looking down upon others choices/orientation/lifestyle. |
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By *eliWoman
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"It's not necessarily for us, but we have no problem with people going down their own journey.
Our problem is with those looking down upon others choices/orientation/lifestyle. "
I'm noticing it more and more on the forums. The lamenting of those who don't swing one way or the lambasting of those who swing a different way. If it's not harming you, leave people to use the site as they see fit. And the bleating on about being open minded? Bit of a joke really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's not necessarily for us, but we have no problem with people going down their own journey.
Our problem is with those looking down upon others choices/orientation/lifestyle.
I'm noticing it more and more on the forums. The lamenting of those who don't swing one way or the lambasting of those who swing a different way. If it's not harming you, leave people to use the site as they see fit. And the bleating on about being open minded? Bit of a joke really."
Indeed, and it's one thing to say it in the forums, even worse when it's said to your face. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"its actually not a sex dating site tho its a site for swingers wanting to meet other swingers. theres actually a huge difference between a sex site (a site that is for people wanting to meet up for sex) and swingers.
Its a shame alot of people dont understand that swinging isnt just a easy hook up for a blowy and a fuck. and thats half the problem. the respect u receive from somebody who is a genuine tried and trusted swinger and somebody who has no intereest in anything but fucking anyone, anything and everything with a hole and a pulse
Tried and trusted swinger? What the hell is that? This isn't some sort of secret society.
Swinging can easily mean multiple no strings sex sessions with lots of different people. And?
It's not necessarily for us, but we have no problem with people going down their own journey.
Our problem is with those looking down upon others choices/orientation/lifestyle. "
a tried and trusted swinger was a form of speech it was meant in terms of people who swing as opposed to people who come on browse whos near and think that people shud drop to knees and worship them just because they fink their cock deserves it.
id also like to point out that i never said swinging wasnt sex or didnt iinvollve it ffs
id suggest u go back and read what i said which was pointing out the difference between a sex hook up and swingers.
ive been to clubs and played with couples i am single and for me i enjoy the swinging scene for the sex and socially and i cant imagine swinging in any form to not be a part of my life.
theres a massive difference between swingers and those who have no intention of swinging and instead see the site as somewhere to get an easy lay.
lets face it ur either a swinger or u aint. i never looked down at anyone for their lifestyle/orientation or choices. i do look down on people who make presumptuous judgements on people tho and i definately do and will continue to look down on any men who think that its ok to be dis respectful and have no common regard wen they message me as a fuck not a person.
another fing that i also pointed out in my original post.
u say swinging isnt for u so why join a swingers site. go on shagaholics or benaughty, fuck book or the like if thats the case and then u might not be offended when a swinger on a swinging site wanting to swing not just fuck but fuck and meet other swingers and instead u can find ya nsa liasions to hook up for a fuck like the sites were initially intended for and cater for for anybody wanting to.
at end of day the way i look at it is quite straightforward
if i wanted a relationship i wouldnt join a hook up for sex siteid go to a match/harmony type site.
if i want a fuck id go to a benaughty type site
if i want to swing... lo and behold id choose a swinging site.
people think that its an easy lay and the respect from them is nigh on non existant if thats what u want then do ur fing but just coz im on here doesnt make mme an easy lay and it doesnt mean i should accept bein spoken to like some cheap piece of meat that will fullfill a purpose for them and thats all they care bout.
i like sex, i like it alot but just because i dont want relationship doesnt mean im unworthy of a little respect. and its those that fink they can talk to u like crap i was aiming my post at.
nsa attached sex doesnt mean cheap, dirty or sleazy and waste of any recognition or time for the other person, thats what u generally get tho from a fuck hook up tho |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"its actually not a sex dating site tho its a site for swingers wanting to meet other swingers. theres actually a huge difference between a sex site (a site that is for people wanting to meet up for sex) and swingers.
Its a shame alot of people dont understand that swinging isnt just a easy hook up for a blowy and a fuck. and thats half the problem. the respect u receive from somebody who is a genuine tried and trusted swinger and somebody who has no intereest in anything but fucking anyone, anything and everything with a hole and a pulse
Tried and trusted swinger? What the hell is that? This isn't some sort of secret society.
Swinging can easily mean multiple no strings sex sessions with lots of different people. And?
It's not necessarily for us, but we have no problem with people going down their own journey.
Our problem is with those looking down upon others choices/orientation/lifestyle.
a tried and trusted swinger was a form of speech it was meant in terms of people who swing as opposed to people who come on browse whos near and think that people shud drop to knees and worship them just because they fink their cock deserves it.
id also like to point out that i never said swinging wasnt sex or didnt iinvollve it ffs
id suggest u go back and read what i said which was pointing out the difference between a sex hook up and swingers.
ive been to clubs and played with couples i am single and for me i enjoy the swinging scene for the sex and socially and i cant imagine swinging in any form to not be a part of my life.
theres a massive difference between swingers and those who have no intention of swinging and instead see the site as somewhere to get an easy lay.
lets face it ur either a swinger or u aint. i never looked down at anyone for their lifestyle/orientation or choices. i do look down on people who make presumptuous judgements on people tho and i definately do and will continue to look down on any men who think that its ok to be dis respectful and have no common regard wen they message me as a fuck not a person.
another fing that i also pointed out in my original post.
u say swinging isnt for u so why join a swingers site. go on shagaholics or benaughty, fuck book or the like if thats the case and then u might not be offended when a swinger on a swinging site wanting to swing not just fuck but fuck and meet other swingers and instead u can find ya nsa liasions to hook up for a fuck like the sites were initially intended for and cater for for anybody wanting to.
at end of day the way i look at it is quite straightforward
if i wanted a relationship i wouldnt join a hook up for sex siteid go to a match/harmony type site.
if i want a fuck id go to a benaughty type site
if i want to swing... lo and behold id choose a swinging site.
people think that its an easy lay and the respect from them is nigh on non existant if thats what u want then do ur fing but just coz im on here doesnt make mme an easy lay and it doesnt mean i should accept bein spoken to like some cheap piece of meat that will fullfill a purpose for them and thats all they care bout.
i like sex, i like it alot but just because i dont want relationship doesnt mean im unworthy of a little respect. and its those that fink they can talk to u like crap i was aiming my post at.
nsa attached sex doesnt mean cheap, dirty or sleazy and waste of any recognition or time for the other person, thats what u generally get tho from a fuck hook up tho"
oh and by the way if u dont want a different opinion to be given to ur own dont post ur thoughts in the forum coz just as u are expressing ur opinion im just giving mine. im entitled to think how i want just as u obviously felt u could voice ur thoughts as u felt strongly by writing post in first placeto air them
just coz i dont agree with u and have expressed as such doesnt mean i have a vendetta against you. and i aint sad enough ir childish enough that i cant have a healthy debate.
i dont take it personal eiither like some clearly do. if we all thought same way world wud be a very borin place |
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