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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you find it off putting when someone/ or a couple has 100's of verifications or is it more of a turn on?
Just wondered
No verifications vs too many verifications I suppose |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Do you find it off putting when someone/ or a couple has 100's of verifications or is it more of a turn on?
Just wondered
No verifications vs too many verifications I suppose "
No, we don't mind, just shows they are popular  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you find it off putting when someone/ or a couple has 100's of verifications or is it more of a turn on?
Just wondered
No verifications vs too many verifications I suppose
No, we don't mind, just shows they are popular "
On that basis I'm fucked and not in a good way ?????????? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Major turn off.
However.. some people prob look at me and think the same in only 9 weeks. Trouble is if you go to a social then it happens.
Never judge a book by its cover I suppose. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally wouldent have an issue, it's natural for us to want to have sex, if it wassent for churches and the oppression of are true nature we,d all of been fucking each other ages ago anyways,
Do what you enjoy and have fun that's what i say, if people don't like it they can wallow on there own bitterness.
But...
I do wonder if for some psychological reason if the tables where to be turned and it was to be a single male. Would they then jump up on the high horse saddle up and shout vulgarnisim (think I just made that word up)
Cause men have the stigma of fucking anything on legs. But then if all your varies where sexy would that Chang anything...
He ponders |
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The thing about profiles is that firstly you can hide veris so even if they only show a handful, the person may have met and fucked hundreds of people.
Also, some have said about the time frame and number of meets. Firstly the veris may be from social meets, they may not all be play. Secondly, our profile says we've been here over a year. That's the most it tells you. We've actually been here 3.5 years on this profile but you wouldn't know that unless we told you. If we didn't show all our veris you may think we'd fucked a lot in that year yet it may have been spread over many years.
At the end of the day we're on a site where people meet and sometimes fuck. If you can't deal with potential meets doing that with others then you really should rethink your attitude to swinging |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Do you find it off putting when someone/ or a couple has 100's of verifications or is it more of a turn on?
Just wondered
No verifications vs too many verifications I suppose "
Do you find it off putting OP? |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"The thing about profiles is that firstly you can hide veris so even if they only show a handful, the person may have met and fucked hundreds of people.
Also, some have said about the time frame and number of meets. Firstly the veris may be from social meets, they may not all be play. Secondly, our profile says we've been here over a year. That's the most it tells you. We've actually been here 3.5 years on this profile but you wouldn't know that unless we told you. If we didn't show all our veris you may think we'd fucked a lot in that year yet it may have been spread over many years.
At the end of the day we're on a site where people meet and sometimes fuck. If you can't deal with potential meets doing that with others then you really should rethink your attitude to swinging"
Yes, this. We have been on here 7years and a lot of ours are socials and repeats. At the end of the day, it is a swinging site and majority of people, not all, are here to have sex with others. But it's everyone's choice who they choose to meet, at the end of the day.  |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Certainly better than having no verifications, dont even get a message back! Can someone tel me where I'm going wrong please??"
Maybe start your own post so as not to deviate from the original post  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It doesn't really bother us to be honest,
However it does add that bit extra comfort knowing someone is verified, but it's not a deal breaker if there not 
We look at them as more of insight into the person we are going to meet,
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Friendly, good laugh, respecting, ect.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All depends on what it is written on them
That's so true, but people only display the verifications, that show them in a good light, I would think. "
Oh yes but some think that : 'she took it well deep in the ass like a good slut' showing them in a good light.
I certainly don't. Whatever I do during a meet, I love to keep some privacy and if someone allows her verification to protray her like that, she is not someone I would meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't want people writing sexual veris about me and vice versa. I get shit off people all the time on here as I'm not clicking up veris (so therefore I must be fake) but couldn't give a fuck. I've met people, I just don't want to write about it. |
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Doesn't bother me.
I've been on the scene long enough to know the number has various factors impacting on it.
All they say to me is all I need to know and that is that, this person meets
Beyond that I take them in their own personal merit |
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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago
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"Do you find it off putting when someone/ or a couple has 100's of verifications or is it more of a turn on?
Just wondered
No verifications vs too many verifications I suppose "
Put me off if they had 100's
Puts me off if they had 10 |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All depends on what it is written on them
That's so true, but people only display the verifications, that show them in a good light, I would think.
Oh yes but some think that : 'she took it well deep in the ass like a good slut' showing them in a good light.
I certainly don't. Whatever I do during a meet, I love to keep some privacy and if someone allows her verification to protray her like that, she is not someone I would meet. "
Lol, you have a point, but those sort of verifications are the norm these days, so if we took that approach, we'd never meet anyone  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Veri content can sometimes put me off... Overly sexually graphic ones for example. I prefer a little tact. As for the amount though, then that doesn't play a part for me. I'm not bothered. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you find it off putting when someone/ or a couple has 100's of verifications or is it more of a turn on?
Just wondered
No verifications vs too many verifications I suppose
Put me off if they had 100's
Puts me off if they had 10"
So what's the magic number that doesn't put you off? |
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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago
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"Do you find it off putting when someone/ or a couple has 100's of verifications or is it more of a turn on?
Just wondered
No verifications vs too many verifications I suppose
Put me off if they had 100's
Puts me off if they had 10
So what's the magic number that doesn't put you off? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you find it off putting when someone/ or a couple has 100's of verifications or is it more of a turn on?
Just wondered
No verifications vs too many verifications I suppose
Put me off if they had 100's
Puts me off if they had 10
So what's the magic number that doesn't put you off?
1 "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you find it off putting when someone/ or a couple has 100's of verifications or is it more of a turn on?
Just wondered
No verifications vs too many verifications I suppose
Put me off if they had 100's
Puts me off if they had 10
So what's the magic number that doesn't put you off?
1 "
Same. Anything more than a couple and I probably wouldn't meet them. Terribly judgemental I know!
Probably why I meet few and far between. |
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some hide them
so can you ever really judge by them correctly
Obviously there are some off putting ones
