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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just wondering how did the conversation start or how did one get the other half of the partner involved |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Too be fair I need advice on this too!! Best thread I've seen for ages  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Simple.
You are an adult, she is an adult. You have an adult conversation about it.
No trying to persuade or cajole shit. Just ask them about fantasies and if they'd consider it. If they say no, drop the subject. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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just dropping it is easier said than done......like opening Pandoras box !
...so to speak |
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Simple answer...you cannot "get" someone involved.
Longer answer....talk about fantasies, if there is any sign that they are curious about any aspect of swinging then you can try duscussing how you might turn that fantasy into reality.
But in the end...if they are not interested then you cannot change that and should respect it.
In my case, my wife came up to me in the kitchen and asked how I would feel if she had a lover. But that was after we discussed non monogamy before we got together so not out of the blue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Simple.
You are an adult, she is an adult. You have an adult conversation about it.
No trying to persuade or cajole shit. Just ask them about fantasies and if they'd consider it. If they say no, drop the subject."
Not a difficult question to answer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"just dropping it is easier said than done......like opening Pandoras box !
...so to speak"
If you love that person and she says no, then you should be able to respect her decision though right? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"just dropping it is easier said than done......like opening Pandoras box !
...so to speak
If you love that person and she says no, then you should be able to respect her decision though right? "
Exactly. |
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Get involved with more sex with her. Maybe take a trip to Amsterdam red light district and the sex museum have a few drinks relax and see how it goes. Do you have any fetishes
That you share or read porn together. The eventually ask |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Get involved with more sex with her. Maybe take a trip to Amsterdam red light district and the sex museum have a few drinks relax and see how it goes. Do you have any fetishes
That you share or read porn together. The eventually ask "
The sex museum is great I enjoyed sitting on the big cock (Kat)xx |
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There's already a thread here
https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/581733 |
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